“viva la raza”

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Since: Mar 08

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#45 Dec 7, 2012
StupidlyAwesome wrote:
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No, it is because of there deadbeat father who denied them. BM love there mothers but they are stuck in the same cycle that their father was also stuck in. Being a baby boy, loving their mama but treating every other bw like trash. Some of them really need to Grow up! You have to know that a Man is very important when it comes down to raising a child especially in the world that we live today.
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Of course mothers are traditionally the ones who raise households full of children yet at the same time there should be a Male role model aka Father in that household to protect, guide, and provide. Fathers are incredibly important in their daughters' development their self-esteem, and how they view themselves. Daughters tend to see themselves as their fathers viewed them. They expect to be treated as their fathers treated them. They also need their fathers love so they won't go and try to find it from another man that will only try to take advantage of them in the end. Males(sons) need fathers so they can see at a young age how a household should be, how a man loves and provide for his wife and children. Studies have shown that Adolescent boys who have a father figure in their lives are significantly less likely to engage in subsequent delinquent behavior than are their peers with no father in their lives.
Children who live absent from their biological fathers, on average, are more likely to be poor, experience educational, health, emotional and psychological problems, be victims of child abuse, and engage in criminal behavior than their peers who live with their married, biological mother and father.
So as I said before BM are the ones destroying the AA community.
well Awesome u sound very educated an there is a lot of truth in what u say. but things have changed i think. i am puerto rican but there r a lot of blacks in my hood and i have seen how the diffrent generations of black women are. i am 40 and it seems like the black females my age or younger have a lot more confidence than the older generation. black women today r more likely to not depend on any man or want any man to rule over them. and the black woman will not let their man rule the relationship like their mothers did. i meen the black woman has always been very strong but the black women today have a lot more confidence and pride too an will not back down from anything. thats how i see it
INDEPENDENT

El Monte, CA

#46 Dec 7, 2012
latinqueen wrote:
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well Awesome u sound very educated an there is a lot of truth in what u say. but things have changed i think. i am puerto rican but there r a lot of blacks in my hood and i have seen how the diffrent generations of black women are. i am 40 and it seems like the black females my age or younger have a lot more confidence than the older generation. black women today r more likely to not depend on any man or want any man to rule over them. and the black woman will not let their man rule the relationship like their mothers did. i meen the black woman has always been very strong but the black women today have a lot more confidence and pride too an will not back down from anything. thats how i see it
You can use all the euphemism in the book and a frog is still a frog even if you call it a toad.

Anyone familiar with horses knows a horse will jump off a cliff, run into a wall or a fence without thinking but, not a mule. A mule will stop. That mule will look to the left, look to the right, look up and down. That's a sign of intelligence or what we call mule sense or mule brains.

We all know that a mule can be independentalso. Once a mule makes up it's mind, ain't nothing no one can do to change that mules mind. That's where the term stubborn as a mule comes from.

Yes, mules are strong too. Mules can carry more and pull more than a horse and that's why farmers perfer to have a mule instead of a horse.

Yes, a mule is strong, intelligent and independent too and I don't want anyone with the constitution of a mule

Level 1

Since: Dec 12

Bhopal, India

#47 Dec 7, 2012
Hi,
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“viva la raza”

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Since: Mar 08

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#48 Dec 7, 2012
INDEPENDENT wrote:
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You can use all the euphemism in the book and a frog is still a frog even if you call it a toad.
Anyone familiar with horses knows a horse will jump off a cliff, run into a wall or a fence without thinking but, not a mule. A mule will stop. That mule will look to the left, look to the right, look up and down. That's a sign of intelligence or what we call mule sense or mule brains.
We all know that a mule can be independentalso. Once a mule makes up it's mind, ain't nothing no one can do to change that mules mind. That's where the term stubborn as a mule comes from.
Yes, mules are strong too. Mules can carry more and pull more than a horse and that's why farmers perfer to have a mule instead of a horse.
Yes, a mule is strong, intelligent and independent too and I don't want anyone with the constitution of a mule
do u have a point or are u just brushin up on ur stupidity?
Aplop

New York, NY

#50 Dec 7, 2012
I think latin"gueen" is a gay transexual in drag.

He cant accept the fact that he will never be a real woman, the surgery was only superficial modification. You still dont have ovaries dude

“viva la raza”

Level 3

Since: Mar 08

Location hidden

#51 Dec 7, 2012
Aplop wrote:
I think latin"gueen" is a gay transexual in drag.
He cant accept the fact that he will never be a real woman, the surgery was only superficial modification. You still dont have ovaries dude
wow. callin me a man. thats sharp. u must be one of them intelectuals i hear so much about.
Zeta4troll

South Bend, IN

#52 Dec 7, 2012
Too many god d.a.m.ned she-males on this forum.
ChellBell

London, UK

#53 Dec 7, 2012
This phenomenon of black women not looking after their kids doesnt really occur in england but in all honesty, from an outsiders point of view, it seems like the African American Men and Women seem to be bitching about each other and neither are willing to move on the subject.

Black men want black women to raise the kids and only date black men and "stop being ho's" and blaming them for their loneliness.

Black women want black men to help raise the kids and stop dating other races of women (for some reason they always blame white women) and blame them for their loneliness but then claim that "They are a strong independent black sistah who don't need NO MAN!"

In all honesty I could be generalizing since I am not African American. But you guys need to either shack up with each other or stop bitching and date other races.
Chwcl

United States

#54 Dec 7, 2012
ChellBell wrote:
This phenomenon of black women not looking after their kids doesnt really occur in england but in all honesty, from an outsiders point of view, it seems like the African American Men and Women seem to be bitching about each other and neither are willing to move on the subject.
Black men want black women to raise the kids and only date black men and "stop being ho's" and blaming them for their loneliness.
Black women want black men to help raise the kids and stop dating other races of women (for some reason they always blame white women) and blame them for their loneliness but then claim that "They are a strong independent black sistah who don't need NO MAN!"
In all honesty I could be generalizing since I am not African American. But you guys need to either shack up with each other or stop bitching and date other races.
Take a look at your post

BW DON'T NEED A MAN

It is impossible to maintain a relationship when a bw is indifferent. Regardless what a man bring to a relationship it is unwelcomed, it is not appreciated.

This attitude is usually expressed by bw that are young. They have all of their friends to occupy their time.

THEY ARE LONELY

When they were young, bw developed all the negative traits to drive bm away. When their friends have a life, the bw sits in her home and the only sound they hear is the echo, I don't need a man.

Now look at your post. Explain how ia it possible for a bm to maintain a relationship with bw that don't care, not appreciative, indifferent and hostile?
Chwcl

United States

#55 Dec 7, 2012
latinqueen wrote:
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do u have a point or are u just brushin up on ur stupidity?
for a mule, you wouldn't know about allegory and the only point you'd understand is a cattle prod stuck up your tail.

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#56 Dec 7, 2012
Chwcl wrote:
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Take a look at your post
BW DON'T NEED A MAN
It is impossible to maintain a relationship when a bw is indifferent. Regardless what a man bring to a relationship it is unwelcomed, it is not appreciated.
This attitude is usually expressed by bw that are young. They have all of their friends to occupy their time.
THEY ARE LONELY
When they were young, bw developed all the negative traits to drive bm away. When their friends have a life, the bw sits in her home and the only sound they hear is the echo, I don't need a man.
Now look at your post. Explain how ia it possible for a bm to maintain a relationship with bw that don't care, not appreciative, indifferent and hostile?
But that just makes me think, "why are you so hung up on dating within the same race?" I am a black girl (not yet a women) and I feel no animosity towards black men. As I said, this doesn't really happen in England. I also don't feel obliged to date only black men, nor do I feel like black men should only date black women.

I couldn't careless who dates who. What I do care about is the fact that both sides are bitching on each other even though there's a whole planet out there they can explore instead of their backyard.

In all honesty, you should just find someone who wants you. That is surely what everyone wants. To be wanted.

P.s that bw independence thing was a bit of a joke but I see your point now.
Chwcl

United States

#57 Dec 7, 2012
Chell-Bell wrote:
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But that just makes me think, "why are you so hung up on dating within the same race?" I am a black girl (not yet a women) and I feel no animosity towards black men. As I said, this doesn't really happen in England. I also don't feel obliged to date only black men, nor do I feel like black men should only date black women.
I couldn't careless who dates who. What I do care about is the fact that both sides are bitching on each other even though there's a whole planet out there they can explore instead of their backyard.
In all honesty, you should just find someone who wants you. That is surely what everyone wants. To be wanted.
P.s that bw independence thing was a bit of a joke but I see your point now.
Procreation....the male passes the blood gene to the fetus and the womb bares the fetus. Get rid of either one and procreation stops.

White Americans released HIV/AIDS into AA's and into Africa. Do you really think white people are concerned about AA's or Africans?

Germans killed millions of Jews. Do you think a Jew would marry a Nazi?

White Americans i.e. England killed the Native American Indian. Do you think an Indian would marry a white devil?

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#58 Dec 7, 2012
Chwcl wrote:
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Procreation....the male passes the blood gene to the fetus and the womb bares the fetus. Get rid of either one and procreation stops.
White Americans released HIV/AIDS into AA's and into Africa. Do you really think white people are concerned about AA's or Africans?
Germans killed millions of Jews. Do you think a Jew would marry a Nazi?
White Americans i.e. England killed the Native American Indian. Do you think an Indian would marry a white devil?
You know I was willing to continue this conversation until you blurted out all of that nonsense. If your not willing to take my point in consideration, then say so rather then state the conspiracies and then go as far as to state situations that would obviously not happen.

What is wrong with an Asian Man and a black woman dating.
How about a black man and a Latina woman.
And hell, a black person and go out with a white person because they are all how you make them out to be just like we arn't all "black niglits that do nothing for no one"

If you prefer to date within your race then fine but don't expect everyone within your race to flock to you and then bitch when they don't.

p.s procreation isn't limited to same people of te same race so my question still stands

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#59 Dec 7, 2012
"Because they are not all how you make them out"
To hell with my spelling...

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#60 Dec 7, 2012
Marcus Washington wrote:
They have adopted the White way of doing things and now they even have some brothaz committing suicide. They do a poor job of raising our children and teach our children to direspect the BM. Instead of helping our children with their homework they are out there looking for dyck. Some of them even have sex in front of their kids. smdh BW need to stop watching The View and "Woman Up"!!!! Where are the Sistaz of the 50's, 60's and even 70's? THOSE WERE REAL BLACK WOMEN!
I dont understand why WERE being judged when bm dont know the meaning of responsibility. You have divided our community into hommos vs. straight. And light vs. dark. We do things the "white" way because whites give us attention
Chwcl

El Monte, CA

#61 Dec 7, 2012
Chell-Bell wrote:
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You know I was willing to continue this conversation until you blurted out all of that nonsense. If your not willing to take my point in consideration, then say so rather then state the conspiracies and then go as far as to state situations that would obviously not happen.
What is wrong with an Asian Man and a black woman dating.
How about a black man and a Latina woman.
And hell, a black person and go out with a white person because they are all how you make them out to be just like we arn't all "black niglits that do nothing for no one"
If you prefer to date within your race then fine but don't expect everyone within your race to flock to you and then bitch when they don't.
p.s procreation isn't limited to same people of te same race so my question still stands
Stay in the UK and don't worry about AA's. You have your own racial riots over there.

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#62 Dec 7, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> I dont understand why WERE being judged when bm dont know the meaning of responsibility. You have divided our community into hommos vs. straight. And light vs. dark. We do things the "white" way because whites give us attention
What do you mean "do things the white way because whites give us attention"?

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#63 Dec 7, 2012
Chwcl wrote:
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Stay in the UK and don't worry about AA's. You have your own racial riots over there.
And thus, I am dismissed.

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#64 Dec 7, 2012
Chell-Bell wrote:
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What do you mean "do things the white way because whites give us attention"?
I mean just what I said...

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

London, UK

#65 Dec 7, 2012
But what is the white way of doing things?
And also if there is a white way, is there a black way?

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