BM!! Start Approaching BW. NOW

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#85 Jul 16, 2010
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
You want believe what anyone says because you are a retard. Most of the blk women that are complaining about blk men are coming out of the east coast an Midwest!! Blks in cali compromise 6.7 percent of Cali that is not enough to boost up the interracial dating stats. You stating your opinion is just that an opinion its not based on any facts!! As for as being a sell out you can stick that shit down the tubes because no one owes you are anyone any thing got that?
The biggest black male/whit female interracial is Minnesota from what I know I believe that is in the Midwest.
Another point most blks live on the east coast/south
Where ever you have a smaller number of one group the most likely they are to date out because of there limited pool that is also a fact. An I believe you were complaining not to long ago about blk men liking light skin women are latin women. Once again this attitude is most likely to come from the east coast.
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OK, whatever you say, Miss-Know-It-All!!! Why the hell do you have to call me a retard? Why the hell do you have to come down on me? What's with the stank ass attitude? Are you from the West Coast or something? Why are you so offended when I talk about the West Coast? And speaking of light skinned black women, they are still BLACK WOMEN, so I don't know where you are getting at. And all of tha complaing bullshit, that's in the past, and it doesn't have SHIT to do with the East Coast, so you can blow it out your ass! Like I said black men in the East Coast date black women AND non-black women. YOU are the one that make it see like black men in the EAST COAST are leaving black women in HUGE numbers, and I disagree with you, so no matter what you said to me, I'm going to stand on my word. California is the most MIXED state in the United States. California has more mixed couples than New York City, and these two cities are the more diverse cities.

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#86 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
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OK, whatever you say, Miss-Know-It-All!!! Why the hell do you have to call me a retard? Why the hell do you have to come down on me? What's with the stank ass attitude? Are you from the West Coast or something? Why are you so offended when I talk about the West Coast? And speaking of light skinned black women, they are still BLACK WOMEN, so I don't know where you are getting at. And all of tha complaing bullshit, that's in the past, and it doesn't have SHIT to do with the East Coast, so you can blow it out your ass! Like I said black men in the East Coast date black women AND non-black women. YOU are the one that make it see like black men in the EAST COAST are leaving black women in HUGE numbers, and I disagree with you, so no matter what you said to me, I'm going to stand on my word. California is the most MIXED state in the United States. California has more mixed couples than New York City, and these two cities are the more diverse cities.
I meant to say two STATES, not CITIES!

“esa hembra es mala”

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Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#87 Jul 16, 2010
I didn't make it seem like shit!! I said in sheer numbers I don't know if you get that!! That on the East Coast in the NYC NEW Jersy well as the other places have more interracial dating then cali! Blacks are 6.7 percent of the pop in Cali New York is 29 percent black!! What don't you get? Because of the demographics more blks over there date out. Most blk women are over there on the East Coast a good number of those black women are complaing about not finding mates!! The interracial stats for blk males dating out is 14 percent. Now blks are 6.7 in California that is not enough to boost up marriage stats. What don't you get? lol
I'm not offended when you talk about the West coast but please get your facts correct. Blks in cali are in small numbers, There are more asians I believe in Cali then blks.
You were complaining about blk males passing up dark skin chics for light skin chics then you complained that even now blk males pass up light skin chics for non blks!!! It seems like blk males on the east coast are also so called color struck.
Nicole Little wrote:
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OK, whatever you say, Miss-Know-It-All!!! Why the hell do you have to call me a retard? Why the hell do you have to come down on me?
What's with the stank ass attitude? Are you from the West Coast or something? Why are you so offended when I talk about the West Coast? And speaking of light skinned black women, they are still BLACK WOMEN, so I don't know where you are getting at. And all of tha complaing bullshit, that's in the past, and it doesn't have SHIT to do with the East Coast, so you can blow it out your ass! Like I said black men in the East Coast date black women AND non-black women. YOU are the one that make it see like black men in the EAST COAST are leaving black women in HUGE numbers, and I disagree with you, so no matter what you said to me, I'm going to stand on my word. California is the most MIXED state in the United States. California has more mixed couples than New York City, and these two cities are the more diverse cities.

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#88 Jul 16, 2010
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
I didn't make it seem like shit!! I said in sheer numbers I don't know if you get that!! That on the East Coast in the NYC NEW Jersy well as the other places have more interracial dating then cali! Blacks are 6.7 percent of the pop in Cali New York is 29 percent black!! What don't you get? Because of the demographics more blks over there date out. Most blk women are over there on the East Coast a good number of those black women are complaing about not finding mates!! The interracial stats for blk males dating out is 14 percent. Now blks are 6.7 in California that is not enough to boost up marriage stats. What don't you get? lol
I'm not offended when you talk about the West coast but please get your facts correct. Blks in cali are in small numbers, There are more asians I believe in Cali then blks.
You were complaining about blk males passing up dark skin chics for light skin chics then you complained that even now blk males pass up light skin chics for non blks!!! It seems like blk males on the east coast are also so called color struck.
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I don't give a FUCK what you say. I KNOW that NYC has IR, but for you to say that black men are leaving black women in droves in the East Coast is BULLSHIT! That's what I've been trying to tell you. What part don't YOU get? Since there are more black men in the East Coast, there are going to be more black men dating black women in the East Coast. Again, what part don't YOU get? I also said that even though black men date out in NYC and PHILLY, there are still BLACK MEN DATING AND MARRYING BLACK WOMEN!!!! Why can't you see that shit! And the reason why I said that about the light skin thing is because I heard people talking about it online, so I joined in, but for you to say that black men are rejection black women in the East Coast is plain BULLSHIT!
Jungle Mon

Spartanburg, SC

#89 Jul 16, 2010
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
<quoted text>Thats true, and I was a teen when I went to California. Down south, people may make reference to light skin or the so called good hair, but its usually a compliment, which I dont agree with, but we dont make a big deal about it like they do in the media in our personal lives, because light skin and dark skin mix here a lot in the black community. I dont know why its like that here, but we dont make a big distinction between mix folks, light skin blacks, or color to a large degree, back in the day it was different though. Every time you see a light black down here, they are dating a darker black, because I think their is a admiration for each other, but I prefer brown skin like myself. Also, the only interracial dating I usually see here is the ghetto white girl who is detached from her family and hangs with black folks, and if its a white guy, he is usually not middle class but a want to be black guy that date black women, but their are not a lot of those stereotypes. Now one of my black friends is married to a respectable white girl, but she is from Europe.
you ran that down bruh. but man yall got to stop raggin continously on Cali man. thats my second home. i spent half my young life there. but my older brother out there would say, if it wasnt for ghetto blacks, there would be no more black people out here. maybe thats why they tell them girls dont have no babies, and planned parent hood all over the place. i am from bama and i know what you mean. hit hit that white girl, white boy shit on the nail. i knew a few of them who went to school with us. now thinking about it i can understand how bm am females do the same when they come up around white folks.

“YESHUA IS LORD”

Level 3

Since: Apr 07

GAWGIA (GEORGIA)

#90 Jul 16, 2010
About the topic of this thread. I'm gay so I'd much rather approach a black man instead,LOL.

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#93 Jul 16, 2010
I will NEVER EVER EVER live in the West Coast. Blacks sold out too much over there. They are teh biggest IR daters in the West Coast, now, take that, bitch!

“esa hembra es mala”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#94 Jul 16, 2010
If your fat ass is talking to me!! You address me instead of talking shit on the sly!! The proof is in the pudding blks 6.7 percent
blks 29 percent. Another fact blk women on the east coast whining about blk men passing they ass up for latin women another fact!!
Blk men complaining about blk women calling them negative names east coast Midwest another fact!!!
Nicole Little wrote:
I will NEVER EVER EVER live in the West Coast. Blacks sold out too much over there. They are teh biggest IR daters in the West Coast, now, take that, bitch!
Jungle Mon

Spartanburg, SC

#95 Jul 16, 2010
Unicorn Hunter wrote:
Just make sure your dressed properly. Cause BW are very superficial.
Superficial? what woman you know like a dirty germy looking man? if she do, would you want her after seeing the guys she dated? men have always "peacocked" for women, even in the jungle. dress properly, that is the least you can do....man, yall be squeeze these sistahs out. they should all get gun permits...lol

Level 8

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#96 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
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I know. Some of these people are delusional. The only East Coast city that I see are interracially dating a lot is NYC, but unlike California, black people in NY still choose each other, even though there are SOME IR marriages in New York. It's a little bit of everybody. That's why I never wanted to live in the West Coast because there's too too many black people selling out over there. I don't like being around sellouts. There's more mixed children being born in the West Coast than in the East Coast, Midwest, and down south. Don't get me wrong, IR dating is all over the United States, even in the East Coast, mainly NYC, but there are certain parts in the country that there's more IR dating and other parts of the country.
IRR is massive in the Boston/metro area. Especially among highschool and college age people. It's not just black/white, though. There are a lot of black/latino couples and even some latino/asian and black/asia pairings. One of my tennis buddies who's Vietnamese recently married his long time AA GF. In highly mixed cities in the boston area, like Lynn and Worcester and Providence, nearly half the white highschool girls will have black or dominican BFs.

“YESHUA IS LORD”

Level 3

Since: Apr 07

GAWGIA (GEORGIA)

#97 Jul 16, 2010
Well I declare.

Level 8

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#98 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
I will NEVER EVER EVER live in the West Coast. Blacks sold out too much over there. They are teh biggest IR daters in the West Coast, now, take that, bitch!
Black culture is dead on the west coast, this is for real. But that trend is spreading fast. Black culture dies when we go IR with whites.
Mother Earth

AOL

#99 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
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Yeah, keep thinking that. My father TRAVEL all over the world and we goes to the West Coast ALL of the time. That's how I know what I'm talking about. According to what my father told me when he went to the West Coast, BLACK MEN ARE THE BIGGEST INTERRACIAL DATERS OVER THERE. Yes in NY Black men DO interracially date, byt they STILL talk to black women in NY. Don't be telling me that I don't know what I'm talking about when I go to NY PLENTY of times, and there are also black women that interracially date in NY as well. NY is the most diverse city in the East Coast, so this makes a lot of sense. Generally, BM date out more than BW all over the United States because black men are still men, so they are going to do the chasing, not black women. The WEST COAST are the biggest IR daters in the United, so don't be making yourself feel better by dissing my side. EVERYBODY SEES IT! My father told me about how the West Coast black folks are. I have family that live in he West Coast. And you say tha tI'm being emotional. WHATEVER! I'm just telling you the facts that you don't want to hear.
I have been living in LA for two years now. I've had black men approach me. Even if they don't "holler" they give me some type of attention which lets me know they find me attractive. And guess what? My hair is nappy like yours. LOL. I see black couples all the time, Nicole. When I do see an interracial couple, the woman is usually black and the man non black. But that could just be where I live, so I am not disputing what you wrote.

I could be wrong but you seem to be hurt about black men who date interracially. If you are, that's just wasted pain because they will continue to date interracially.
Jungle Mon

Spartanburg, SC

#101 Jul 16, 2010
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
If your fat ass is talking to me!! You address me instead of talking shit on the sly!! The proof is in the pudding blks 6.7 percent
blks 29 percent. Another fact blk women on the east coast whining about blk men passing they ass up for latin women another fact!!
Blk men complaining about blk women calling them negative names east coast Midwest another fact!!!
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I aint trying to heat up shit, but brothers do that everywhere, and are more prone than women, thats the bottom line, east coast west coast midwest and down south. but as far as cali, you right, blacks are sparse and in the cutt. they still manage to stay together for the most part, how ever unusual circumctance there might be. and them sistah are very forgiving and will give a brother a chance 99% percent of the time, they can be choosey, but they some real ass women out there fo sho. if i was a bachelor, that is where i would be. and i cant tell you all the friends i had from by i use to bring out there to see um. i was younger, but them sistahs didnt ask me for shit, they just wanted to ride wit me, and chill at the crib, just wanted a brother who was into them. i had a girl, when me and one of my friends was with me had got into some trouble, that girl slept in the car with us, went and got some money from her mom and paid for a hotel for a week. i never met no woman from bama like that. they ass will be ghost and act like they never even knew yo ass. lol they got some down sistahs out there, and some real brothas too. sweet women, even the ones they called ghetto. just minorities trying to keep it together. yall got to leave cali alone. they got some love out there. they manage.
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#103 Jul 16, 2010
Mother Earth wrote:
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I have been living in LA for two years now. I've had black men approach me. Even if they don't "holler" they give me some type of attention which lets me know they find me attractive. And guess what? My hair is nappy like yours. LOL. I see black couples all the time, Nicole. When I do see an interracial couple, the woman is usually black and the man non black. But that could just be where I live, so I am not disputing what you wrote.
I could be wrong but you seem to be hurt about black men who date interracially. If you are, that's just wasted pain because they will continue to date interracially.
What gives you the idea that I'm hurt about black men dating interracially?
Mother Earth

AOL

#105 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
I will NEVER EVER EVER live in the West Coast. Blacks sold out too much over there. They are teh biggest IR daters in the West Coast, now, take that, bitch!
Nicole,

What did blacks sell? Who bought it? And how much did it cost? LOL. Do you know how silly that statement sounds? I respect your decision to date only black men, but how can you sit here and be judgmental of those who happen to find love with some one of a different skin color. Why does the sight of an interracial couple offend you so? Is it because you wish it was you? I'm not accusing, just asking.
Mother Earth

AOL

#106 Jul 16, 2010
Nicole Little wrote:
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What gives you the idea that I'm hurt about black men dating interracially?
Because of your statement about blacks being sellouts and how you will never live on the west coast because of them dating out. That's why.
Jungle Mon

Spartanburg, SC

#107 Jul 16, 2010
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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Black culture is dead on the west coast, this is for real. But that trend is spreading fast. Black culture dies when we go IR with whites.
that bullshit....i had never even heard of Juneteenth until i went to Cali, and I am from Alabama, Mobile, Port City, home of the last slave ship to america. Them folks cant even hardly get jobs cause of Mexicans. Yall need to lay off them and dont ever ever ever go there with that shit, for your the sake of your foreheads, please!
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#108 Jul 16, 2010
Mother Earth wrote:
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Nicole,
What did blacks sell? Who bought it? And how much did it cost? LOL. Do you know how silly that statement sounds? I respect your decision to date only black men, but how can you sit here and be judgmental of those who happen to find love with some one of a different skin color. Why does the sight of an interracial couple offend you so? Is it because you wish it was you? I'm not accusing, just asking.
I am a VERY pro black woman, and I don't believe in interracial dating. I don't believe in race mixing because I don't think that it's natural. I believe that black people should stick together. There's too much self-hating going on in the black community, and I think that we need to stick together. A strong black community takes a BLACK MAN and a BLACK WOMAN! In order for a black nation to rise, WE NEED EACH OTHER!!!! That's why I say that there's a whole lot of interracial dating in the West Coast compare to the East Coast. I don't like to see ANY black person, a black man or a black woman, date outside the race because it causes a friction in the black community, and we're dumb enough to believe that race mixing is going to cure racism, well, it's not.

“esa hembra es mala”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#109 Jul 16, 2010
Thank you sir that is all I was saying blks in the west coast are really small in numbers they really couldn't boost up any interracial stats. Interesting story by the way.
Jungle Mon wrote:
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I aint trying to heat up shit, but brothers do that everywhere, and are more prone than women, thats the bottom line, east coast west coast midwest and down south. but as far as cali, you right, blacks are sparse and in the cutt. they still manage to stay together for the most part, how ever unusual circumctance there might be. and them sistah are very forgiving and will give a brother a chance 99% percent of the time, they can be choosey, but they some real ass women out there fo sho. if i was a bachelor, that is where i would be. and i cant tell you all the friends i had from by i use to bring out there to see um. i was younger, but them sistahs didnt ask me for shit, they just wanted to ride wit me, and chill at the crib, just wanted a brother who was into them. i had a girl, when me and one of my friends was with me had got into some trouble, that girl slept in the car with us, went and got some money from her mom and paid for a hotel for a week. i never met no woman from bama like that. they ass will be ghost and act like they never even knew yo ass. lol they got some down sistahs out there, and some real brothas too. sweet women, even the ones they called ghetto. just minorities trying to keep it together. yall got to leave cali alone. they got some love out there. they manage.

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