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“the king of his environment”

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Jul 16, 2010
 

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Kennyinbmore wrote:
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True that bro
Congrats on your son's graduation.

I got asked out (properly) for the first time in about 4 years a few weeks ago. I was floored because he was such a gentleman. If I was single, I would go out with him in a heartbeat. I honestly know more nice single black men than black women. Too many black women don't know how to act so I see where you guys are coming from.
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Jul 16, 2010
 
Kennyinbmore wrote:
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True that bro
Kenny, on the "down low" in b- mo....lol
You finish yo 'milk n cookie'?

“The Ah-Nizzle”

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#201
Jul 16, 2010
 
Swade wrote:
Like I told ole dude, bw don't need to accept just any brotha...I agree. But atleast let a brotha take you on two dates before you write him off. I think some bw love the victim role and love blaming someone else for why their single. So when they meet a quality dude and her friends/family find out and the potential relationship doesn't work out....then the spotlight is on her, her insecurities will be put on blast.
It will go from "bm ain't no good" to "what a minute, Kevin was a good guy, shy did he lose interest, is there something your not telling us"<quoted text>
True, but if a dude looks like Craig Mack, then i can`t blame her. LOL. Sometimes BW drive themselfs nuts. They can blame BM ALL day long, but at the end of the day we all have brains to rationalize stuff. It`s also funny when the girls momma says her own daughter is crazy and don`t know what she`s doing. When they hear that they go nuts.

That`s why i keep telling sista`s to sometimes take the emotion out it on certain topics and use logic.

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#202
Jul 16, 2010
 
Jamal wrote:
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A sure way for the bros to meet bw is gotothe club with a bucket of chicken.Works every time.
A sure way to meet white women and SMASH em for a Blackman at a club is to SHOW UP AND DANCE and she can feel the package for herself.

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SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
Wrong you don't know me an you don't know where I been rather I have a man are not is irrelevant an no I couldn't learn any thing from Nicole because she is a person that has low self esteem.
As for as blk men getting any woman over seas an how many of those blk males bring them back the states???? An also how many of those blk males will end up being divorce from sed women???? A good number lol most of those women are poor an they are trying to hitch the first ride to America. The same for white men with there whole mail order bride. As for as abortion I need the sheer numbers to really compare not percents!! Percents is how they trick people. An blk women having abortion isn't a bad thing.
Abortion=less unwanted children=less financial/poverty.
As for as pride I have alot of pride I made up my list to say this blk women are doing well an I want hold blk women for all issues in the community. Blk men are men an they are being judged as such don't blame blk women blame white men for there sexist perceptions.
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Excuse me, but I know you ain't talking about me about having low self esteem. You don't even know me, and me complaining about black men is LONG GONE, so that shit is old news. Just because I tell the truth doesn't mean that I have low self esteem. I'm doing just fine being single so you don't know what I'm talking about. The truth is most white men in America do not want black women, and that's a fact. Take it or leave it. Don't wait until I'm gone to talk about me behind my back. You don't know shit about me. Thanks.

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#204
Jul 16, 2010
 
caramel delight wrote:
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they're not saying that black men don't date or talk to black women on the east coast. they're just saying that since there are way more black men in the east then west, that there are more black men in an interaccial relationship at any given time than there is at any given time on the west coast. they're not trying to say that black men on the east coast like nonblack women more.
All I was telling her that giving to the numbers on the West Coast, and since there's less black people on the West Coast, there will be MORE LIKELY TO INTERRACIALLY DATE BECAUSE THERE ARE LESS OF THEM whereas in the East Coast, it's more balanced. Black people have a better time finding a black mate than in the West Coast because there's more black people in the East Coast than the West Coast, and blacks will IR in the East Coast as well. I've lived in the East Coast for 33 years, and she can't tell me SHIT about my side. And then this hussie have the nerve to say that there more black women complaining about finding a man in the East Coast, and I think that's bullshit because a black woman can EASILY find a black man or a non-black man since it's more people in the East Coast. She lives in the West Coast, so of course she's going to defend her side, but I'm just telling the facts, since there's less black people in the West, they're going to more likely date out than the East, so she can't tell me SHIT about my side.

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#205
Jul 16, 2010
 
First off I addressed what he said an I'm not like you dear I don't make sly comments on the side!! I read your comments an you do seem like a person that has low self esteem!! An that is cool that you are happy being single but please don't push your agenda off on other people!! As for as white men not wanting blk women well that shit is moot because a good number of blk women like myself never had an issue of getting a white mans attention.
So if you feel like maybe they don't like you why in the hell would that apply? To pretty face slender blk women??????
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Excuse me, but I know you ain't talking about me about having low self esteem. You don't even know me, and me complaining about black men is LONG GONE, so that shit is old news. Just because I tell the truth doesn't mean that I have low self esteem. I'm doing just fine being single so you don't know what I'm talking about. The truth is most white men in America do not want black women, and that's a fact. Take it or leave it. Don't wait until I'm gone to talk about me behind my back. You don't know shit about me. Thanks.

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#206
Jul 16, 2010
 
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
First off I addressed what he said an I'm not like you dear I don't make sly comments on the side!! I read your comments an you do seem like a person that has low self esteem!! An that is cool that you are happy being single but please don't push your agenda off on other people!! As for as white men not wanting blk women well that shit is moot because a good number of blk women like myself never had an issue of getting a white mans attention.
So if you feel like maybe they don't like you why in the hell would that apply? To pretty face slender blk women??????
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It`s like you just slammed the domino`s on dat a*s

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Some AA women make me laugh complaining about AA men in IR. Lol, try moving to the UK if you think you have it hard there. And even the majority of UK BW can still find black men to date!!!

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#208
Jul 16, 2010
 
Bitch please don't try to change you tune up now you failed to articulate your self correctly an didn't understand shit I was saying!!! An yes most of the blk women that are compliaing are over there because that is where most blk people are!!!! I've yet to here blk women from Washington even Cali Nevada are Arizona complain about blk men!! This is coming from over there an of course you can attest to this since blk men are willing to pass up light skin women for latin women!! Lool which is even more funny because Philly is the worst place to date out!! An also you don't where the fuck I have lived are where I live so I stand corrected!!
Blk women where ever they be have a hard time finding blk males period!!!!
Nicole Little wrote:
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All I was telling her that giving to the numbers on the West Coast, and since there's less black people on the West Coast, there will be MORE LIKELY TO INTERRACIALLY DATE BECAUSE THERE ARE LESS OF THEM whereas in the East Coast, it's more balanced. Black people have a better time finding a black mate than in the West Coast because there's more black people in the East Coast than the West Coast, and blacks will IR in the East Coast as well. I've lived in the East Coast for 33 years, and she can't tell me SHIT about my side. And then this hussie have the nerve to say that there more black women complaining about finding a man in the East Coast, and I think that's bullshit because a black woman can EASILY find a black man or a non-black man since it's more people in the East Coast. She lives in the West Coast, so of course she's going to defend her side, but I'm just telling the facts, since there's less black people in the West, they're going to more likely date out than the East, so she can't tell me SHIT about my side.

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#209
Jul 16, 2010
 
Also for those who may misinterpret what I'm saying blk women on the west coast also complain! But lets see where most of the complaining is coming from...

“Real Black Men Speak English”

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Jul 16, 2010
 
Tsalagi wrote:
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Congrats on your son's graduation.
I got asked out (properly) for the first time in about 4 years a few weeks ago. I was floored because he was such a gentleman. If I was single, I would go out with him in a heartbeat. I honestly know more nice single black men than black women. Too many black women don't know how to act so I see where you guys are coming from.
Thanks I'm quite the proud papa.
I still have no problem approaching any woman. I have a thick skin for rejection though. Some guys have egos that can't handle that

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Jul 16, 2010
 
hawts nod wrote:
<quoted text>My cousins in Charlotte went to LA last summer to pursue a music career. They stayed for about 4 months. While there they said the only men that approached them were non-black men, whether they were in the streets, gym, stores.
It's crazy.
hawt
Did you encourage them to give these men the time of day?

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Jul 16, 2010
 

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Swade wrote:
Because u already have a man. Women who are already taken always get approached more because your guards are down because in the back of your mind you already know you gotta man. Your more carefree which equals to being more open and friendly which equals more men attracted. That's why you see friends of this type of woman hate on her because they are single and can't get men yet a taken woman gets more attention. Doesn't make sense to them but it makes perfect sense to me <quoted text>
Wow! I never thought of it that way.. Hmmmm You swade if I were single and I saw a fine brother such as yourself I would be cheesing for sure. I might even be alittle giggly lol!

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#213
Jul 16, 2010
 
MumRa wrote:
IDK. Most of the Cali women that post on topix are crazy. So I can see why some may be hesitant.
Dude you dont know me.

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Jul 16, 2010
 
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
Also for those who may misinterpret what I'm saying blk women on the west coast also complain! But lets see where most of the complaining is coming from...
It ain't coming from my side and my city so I don't know what you are talking about. Black men and black women in New York and Philly either be with each other or they date out, so pleast take that somewhere else. With that attitude that you got, you can see why brothers don't want to be bothered with us.

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Jul 16, 2010
 
TruthbknownLDN wrote:
Some AA women make me laugh complaining about AA men in IR. Lol, try moving to the UK if you think you have it hard there. And even the majority of UK BW can still find black men to date!!!
I'm not just complaining about black men dating interracially, but I'm alsp complaining about black women starting to. I think that race mixing is an abomination. You don't see other races willing to throw themselves at other races but we have so much animosity towards each other that we're willing to mix with those who don't give a shit about us. That's self hate to a T

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#216
Jul 16, 2010
 
Please not to long ago yo ass was complaining lol you think just because you have stoped complaiing now that the pass will be erassed????

Lol funny if you aren't complaining about blk men liking light skin women you are complaining about blk men liking hispanic women!! An we know a good number of them love them some Puerto Rican women over there. They will tell you in a minute that Puerto Rican women are better. An I can careless if so called brothas don't want us blk women, because I'm not going to o crazy are define myself by the type of man I have!!!
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It ain't coming from my side and my city so I don't know what you are talking about. Black men and black women in New York and Philly either be with each other or they date out, so pleast take that somewhere else. With that attitude that you got, you can see why brothers don't want to be bothered with us.

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Jul 16, 2010
 
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
First off I addressed what he said an I'm not like you dear I don't make sly comments on the side!! I read your comments an you do seem like a person that has low self esteem!! An that is cool that you are happy being single but please don't push your agenda off on other people!! As for as white men not wanting blk women well that shit is moot because a good number of blk women like myself never had an issue of getting a white mans attention.
So if you feel like maybe they don't like you why in the hell would that apply? To pretty face slender blk women??????
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I don't care if they don't like me because I don't want THEIR asses! And why the hell do you have to put pretty face slender black women? You're trying to be smart, and I don't like that shit. You think that you're better than me, well, YOU'RE NOT!

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#218
Jul 16, 2010
 
Nicole Little wrote:
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Excuse me, but I know you ain't talking about me about having low self esteem. You don't even know me, and me complaining about black men is LONG GONE, so that shit is old news. Just because I tell the truth doesn't mean that I have low self esteem. I'm doing just fine being single so you don't know what I'm talking about. The truth is most white men in America do not want black women, and that's a fact. Take it or leave it. Don't wait until I'm gone to talk about me behind my back. You don't know shit about me. Thanks.
I see a lot of black women dating out so take your pitty party else where. I've had no problem with dating out and so do many other of the youger black women. So if you want to continue complaining about black men then go right ahead however there are many of us who recognize men of other races and do not care what black men think. you need to get someone counseling on self esteem.

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