Why are some women and men single for...

Why are some women and men single for long periods of time?

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“"Class, the #1 Motivator"”

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#1 Apr 12, 2013
Back when our grandparents were living in the 20's, they would listen and talk to each other. They were actually interested in sharing ideas that gave them a common ground, and a place to start when some of the things discussed had to do with being a good partner
in a relationship.
If a man tries to be open a tell a woman the things he likes, most women become territorial and feel that if they have the p***i, the man should be listening to them. If this same man has a good background in money management and the woman he is involved with does not want to turn over any of her habits to play the paperwork game involving stocks and bonds, savings. She looks at this opportunity as a man trying to tell her what to do. As the man invests and makes a profit from his investments, she is all ears then praising him, telling him he's smart, and at the same time conjuring up in her mind what she can spend some of the profits on. Oh, she'll give him plenty of p***i then and the the question after things cool down would be, "Lets go the mall".
Women, I am just going to be straight up with yall. Anyone of you can comment on this thread. Men have figured yall out to a tee. We know when all you want is sex, we know when you are gaming, and we know when all you want is money. Thats why so many of you come to these threads and slam each other. But what does that do? Alienate each other more?
I am sharing this because what is making a lot of women and men single, is bad choices. You can't demand anything from a bad choice. Asking is better, including child support if that man was the type the woman only wanted to have a child by. The man can then go to court in some states and sue the woman, I cannot remember the legal terminology for it. Come on ladies and gents, when you shove all that non-sense to the side, why are the relationships of today not as progressive and productive like the ones of yesterday? A lot of women just stopped being ladies and watched television that infused the "bad bit*h into their heads". Women good p***i may work with some men who may find you exotic...but if you give it to them long enough in so many ways there are no other ways to sling it, you're no longer exotic.
Relationships are like businesses. You get your life together. You are now in a position to be a good partner and bring something to the table. First thing to want to do is lose the bad azz syndrome. If you are dealing with a man that requires that, you need to move on...man or woman because they are not going to change. Its that simple. Women and men need to stop thinking with their P***i's and d**ks, and start thinking past that and think like a business person. Do either of you have good credit? If not, you need Management101. Somebody in the house has to save money. This is where it gets tricky and a lot of women lose in this plan. I believe a man should pay all the bills in the house. This protects his interest, and the women's interest is protected by not having to pay for anything but small essentials, maybe groceries. Her money can be used to dress herself and her kids and save money for a rainy day. Of course, this is a relationship that is getting ready for marriage and ahead and both parties want it. If you try this type of plan with someone that begins to not keep up their side in the first six months. You know what to do.
Relationships are hard. Most women are territorial and most women think since they have the p***i, they are empowered to call the shots. Women thats not working, you're the one that in some cases will be sexing up your female best friend, because of course thats the first woman on the scene to feel like you're not treating him right, so of course she is going to be there to save the day, right? Get a grip people. Play to win, get a builder for your mate. Build something, or you will stay "torn down"? What do you think?

Black - Elite

Since: Apr 13

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#2 Apr 12, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
What do you think?
Just to add a little flare to the world's longest paragraph..
I think your sxk!

“"Class, the #1 Motivator"”

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#3 Apr 12, 2013
Black - Elite wrote:
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Just to add a little flare to the world's longest paragraph..
I think your sxk!
And sorry azz trollers like you always post to these long paragraphs like someone is suipposed to give a damn what you say. Trouble with people like you is you want to be significant so you run from post to post day in and day out like this form is yours and what you say matters. Don't like something, don't post troll. What I choose to write is my prerogative. Don't like it? Thats why there are other routes you can take. Choose one of those and shut the f*ck up. Its that simple.

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