Why do black men hate dark-skinned wo...
tyrese

Middlesex, NC

#900 Mar 20, 2013
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
well first off u said be honest so about to give u the facts,i hate to do so, but here r the real facts.first off MOST black women have the worst,additudes,they wear phony ass hair all the time to try to swing it around like white women and the shit dont even look real,it looks fake as shit.u white women have natural long textured hair and men love to run their fingers in some real soft hair.plus light skin women just look cleaner and prettier,and u can see a light skin person from far away.white women put lip stick on i looks good.black women put lipstick on and she look like a clown
Enlightened

Zebulon, NC

#901 Mar 20, 2013
tyrese wrote:
<quoted text> well first off u said be honest so about to give u the facts,i hate to do so, but here r the real facts.first off MOST black women have the worst,additudes,they wear phony ass hair all the time to try to swing it around like white women and the shit dont even look real,it looks fake as shit.u white women have natural long textured hair and men love to run their fingers in some real soft hair.plus light skin women just look cleaner and prettier,and u can see a light skin person from far away.white women put lip stick on i looks good.black women put lipstick on and she look like a clown
Shut the front door, you right up the road from me and there are some butt ugly WW from this part of NC. They have to pack tons of make-up on to look average. The media is a liar! You sound like an immature elementary ignoramus anyhow.
Jay

Manchester, UK

#902 Mar 21, 2013
Jay wrote:
That's crazy because I love black women and I am black and the darker the better. that statement is completely false. as a matter fact I am head over heels for Dark skin women but when I approach them they seem to have that type of attitude like we don't like them. we black men who love black women know this is true! Nothing like a dark skinned beautiful woman! As a matter fact most real black men will tell you they love Darker women! You add a figure 8 body with intelligence and what a Queen! Black women are the mother of all nation! How can u see them any less than that!
It isn't crazy and it isn't false and just because you love them it does not mean that the other 65% of blackmen do. I cannot speak for America thou I see a lot of blogs referring to this issue, but I can speak for the UK and it has got from bad to worse, so bad that the only women that are getting black men regardsless of shade are the mixraced women and mainly white women. I am a black woman and I have never had a bad attitude towards my man. Infact I submitted myself to him as my church tought me and I still ended up the looser so when black men are denying these facts they are trying to hide their guilt of the fact that they are not good partners period. Darkskin women only become attractive indoors at midnight when noone is looking. They are not allowed to have opinions instead they are told that they have attitude especially if they are trying to get their man to listen and understand how they feel but if a whitewoman or mixrace say I was treated badly by their previous partner then the darkskinned man is ready to bow down to her. I am speaking of experience and what my other sisters have told me so if you don't want to accept that, then that is your problem. Despite all of that I will never hate my darkskinned black man and will always love him as a brother but I will not allow him to ill-treat me any longer. Wake up man and see what is going on around you. Darkskinned women are seen as the underdogs of this white world. Although we are beautiful creatures we are seen as low life ghetto women with bad attitudes just because we like everyone else has an oppinion. Don't tell me that this is all false when it is a FACT. If you love your darkskinned women then all power to you brother at least black babies seeds will still be planted by you.
Jay

Manchester, UK

#903 Mar 21, 2013
Star82 wrote:
Bringing up the hair issues will not answer the question to the color issue. What the hell does hair have to do with it, it's just hair! I'm sure that any black woman knows that when/if she perms or weaves that the result will not change her skin color. Stay on the issue of skin, leave the hair issues to hair subjects. People stop bringing up hair-it's just hair! White women never get called out for dying their hair blond when some of them were naturallly a brunette, and there is nothing wrong with wearing hairstyles of the times. Using shaming tactics to get black women to go natural is like telling white women to go back to wearing bee-hive hairdos again. If you don't know what advice to give a dark skinned woman, don't make her feel more miserable by attacking her for wanting to wear her hair in a way that makes her feel feminine. Not all black women look good with an afro. A lot of black women look fine with it, but it doesn't work for every black woman. So stop attacking the hair when this subject is clearly about skin only.
I like what you said with regards the weave. Who ever had an issue with black women wearing weaves should also be reminded that mixrace and whitewomen wear weaves too and also false nails. Why should it bother them when some black women are too darkskinned to get their weaves dragged out in moments of passion at midnight when no one is around to see the black man with the darkskinned black woman.
Jay

Manchester, UK

#904 Mar 21, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
We should ask these darker women crying over their fellow darker brothas on here how they feel about a brotha who is light or bright skinned and see what they say.
All shades of black men are extremely becoming and comely but if the darkskinned woman is shund by all races of men apart from some white men she will react to that rejection but what she must learn is that not every light skinned or every other race will shun her away as everyone is an individual, but she will have to be confident and not allow those who are not attracted to her to give her a further complex.
Jay

Manchester, UK

#905 Mar 21, 2013
tyrese wrote:
<quoted text> well first off u said be honest so about to give u the facts,i hate to do so, but here r the real facts.first off MOST black women have the worst,additudes,they wear phony ass hair all the time to try to swing it around like white women and the shit dont even look real,it looks fake as shit.u white women have natural long textured hair and men love to run their fingers in some real soft hair.plus light skin women just look cleaner and prettier,and u can see a light skin person from far away.white women put lip stick on i looks good.black women put lipstick on and she look like a clown
Your opinion has no substance you are just filled with hate. Can you be seen from a distance? Do you look like a clown even without lipstick as I take it you are male and a pretty pathetic male. It's men like you that has caused black women to wear weaves because you never accepted them for who they are. Do you think black women enjoy trying to stroke a black man's hair when it is course? no she doesn't but you know what because she loves him that is the last thought on her mind because she loves him and all that comes with him. Get a life whatever your pathetic name is. Men like you if you are a man are loosers and a pathetic waist of society space.
jay

Manchester, UK

#906 Mar 28, 2013
It was blackmen's attitude towards blackwomen's looks that made women feel that they have to look white to be accepted by blackmen. She has had to adapt to white society in order to be accepted whilst you blackmen most of the time is only accepted by other races of women for your loins, because in some cases you have no money and so it is volumed that you are great in bed as you have presented yourself. I agree that you are great in the bedroom department but I believe that there is more to you. I love you but you don't love me because I am darkskinned. What the girl said is absolutely true but what isn't true is that all black girls have an attitude problem. I see a lot of that in blackmen, which is one of the reasons why he don't get on with his blackwoman and then he accuses her of having the problem that he has always had which is why he never listens to his mother his wife and his daughter and instead leaves them for another race spouting lies about them. Men like you make me sick.
jay

Manchester, UK

#907 Mar 28, 2013
LilsexyDuke55 wrote:
<quoted text>GIRL PLEASE COME DOWN BECAUSE YOU MAKIN A WHOLE DEAL OUT OF A SINGLE FORUM THAT IS PROBABLY GETTIN OLD I M ASIAN SO WHAT R U TRYIN TO SAY ABOUT LIGHT WOMEN
May be asian woman she's telling the truth as a lot of darkskinned women see, it as they are experiencing it. You can't take someone away from there experience and you know it is the truth so if you don't like it, tough, because it is a FACT and your probably one of those type of women that exploits the situation that darkskinned women have a problem dating darkskinned or blackmen on a whole. OKAY!
jay

Manchester, UK

#908 Mar 28, 2013
Fedupbrother wrote:
Because we make prettier babies with White and Latina women.
That's absolute crap. Black babies are usually the most cutest, u can see their hair and they have prominent features, you can tell which parent they look like instantly.
jay

Manchester, UK

#909 Mar 28, 2013
black as helll woman wrote:
to BDNYC:
maaan forget that shit you talking. Hell all these brothers getting millions while the dark women end up broke, without a man because no matter how great her personality or how good she looks she is TOOOOOOOO DARRRRRK TO THE BLACK MAN!
Black man say he wants a good sista. but let her be dark HE DOESN'T LOOK AT HER, SAY HELLO, GET WITH THE OTHER BROTHAS AND TALK ABOUT HER LIKE A DOG. i HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO KEEP A JOB BECAUSE OF A BLACK MAN FEELING THAT IT IS SOCIETY. THERE ARE PLENTY OF DARK SKINNED BLACK WOMEN WHO DO THEM, AND LOVE THEMSELVES AND GO ALL OUT TO EXUBERATE THAT. AND THEN SOME LIGHSKINNED "BLACK" WOMAN OR SOME DARK OR LIGHT SKINNED BLACK MAN HAS TO REMIND HER 24 7 WHAT HER PLACE IS IN SOCIETY. HE WON'T DANCE WITH HER AT CLUBS OR TALK TO HER AT HIGH CLASS FUNCTIONS. DON'T GIVE ME THAT SHIT! GROWN ASS BLACKS WHO LOVE TO SAY THEY ARE A STRONG TRUE BLACK OR AFRICAN AMERICAN BUT YOU DARKIES YOU KNOW WHERE YOUR PLACE IS. BLACK MEN TALK ABOUT THEIR DARK SKINNED SISTAS WAYYYYYYYY MORE THAN WHITE MEN. A WHITE MAN WILL HIRE YOU AND SPEAK TO YOU WHERE A DARK MAN COULD BE RIGHT THERE WITH THEM AND TURN UNTIL YOU WALK AWAY. BEING A LIGHT SKINNED RACIST OR A DARK MAN WHO IS RACIST IS JUST TERRIBLE AND IT AFFECTS SOOOOO MANY DARK SKINNED WOMEN. WE WILL NEVER BE ON THE LEVEL OF SOCIETY AS DARK MEN. GETTING MILLION DOLLAR CONTRACTS AND RIDING NICE WHIPS AND SHIT. SHE STRUGGLES AND RAISE KIDS BY HERSELF BECAUSE SOME BLACK MAN IMPREGNATED HER AFTER TELLING HER SHE WAS ALL THAT AND THEN GO BRAG ABOUT OHHH GOD DON'T GET ME STARTED BECAUSE MY HEART HAS DEFINITELY BEEN BROKEN BY THE BLACK MEN THAT I HEAR SAY POWER TO THE BLACK RACE AND SUCH. SO YEAH AS LONG AS THAT SHIT IS A PROBELM TO BLACK MEN AND THE BLACK RACE IT NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED BECAUSE IT NEEDS TO STOP, BECAUSE IT HURTS US AS A RACE.
You are absolutely right in everything that you have said. They have not even thought about how it is affecting our race. Divide and rule until we no longer exist in the west. They have done it before to the slaves that ran away and was hidden by Irish people in the UK. This evil is obviously controlled by evil powers that be. Wake up black man can't you see that the white society is SCREWING YOU.
jay

Manchester, UK

#910 Mar 28, 2013
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
I'm glad I'm not dark skinned lol!
I am darkskinned and I am glad that your not dark skinned too as you might not be attractive in that shade if you are as unattractive as you state on your thread. God bless you.
jay

Manchester, UK

#911 Mar 28, 2013
Ashley wrote:
I'm light skinned and I go through life hearing how dark skinned women have it hard. It really annoys me because it is the other way around. Sure men mostly go for light skinned women and that's because we have more confidence than dark skinned women and guys love a confident girl. All in all it's all about how confident women are dark or light:)
Your confidence comes from the fact that you know that your shade is accepted. If it were not I wonder if you would say the same thing. Until you live in a body that is quite dark, I don't think that you could even remotely understand how a darkskinned black woman is made to feel when she constantly has her confidence knocked, not just by white society but by her brothter. Come again sista.

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#912 Apr 7, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
We should ask these darker women crying over their fellow darker brothas on here how they feel about a brotha who is light or bright skinned and see what they say.
I love my lightskin brothas. Im brown and they love me. Stop generalizing
Jay

Worthing, UK

#914 May 14, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
<quoted text>
To this day I can't understand why MOST Black women prefer either a dark skined BM or a white man, but have no interest in a Light skinned BM, or even a mixed race/Biracial man. You figure they will get the best of both worlds and not be to far to the left or right. In my opinion with BW, the hotter and more attractive ones do prefer dark skinned BM or pure white men. The light skin BM or mixed/biracials gotta take what we can get it seems. Now it does help to be very good looking to boost your prospects.
Could it be that most light skinned black men use to reject dark skinned black women for light skinned women and so dark skinned women would stick to the one that did not reject her at the time until the bi-racial and the white woman became the black man's preference and so she the dark skinned black woman will date the white man who she knows won't reject her and even treats her better than any other man has treated the black dark skinned woman. That is my take and personal experience on this light skinned black man - dark skinned black woman issue.
Jay

Worthing, UK

#915 May 14, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
We should ask these darker women crying over their fellow darker brothas on here how they feel about a brotha who is light or bright skinned and see what they say.
I have never had a problem with a light skinned brotha. I have always found them attractive, but it doesn't always work the other way around. I suppose it depends on the person but I've always found that they were never really attracted to me as a dark skinned woman by what they've said to me when they realise that I am attracted to them and so even if I am attracted to a man I would rather not say, just to save any embarrassment.

Since: May 13

Brandon, FL

#916 May 14, 2013
blkgoodfella wrote:
<quoted text>
To this day I can't understand why MOST Black women prefer either a dark skined BM or a white man, but have no interest in a Light skinned BM, or even a mixed race/Biracial man. You figure they will get the best of both worlds and not be to far to the left or right. In my opinion with BW, the hotter and more attractive ones do prefer dark skinned BM or pure white men. The light skin BM or mixed/biracials gotta take what we can get it seems. Now it does help to be very good looking to boost your prospects.
One possible reason could be because SOME light skinned bm have some of the same attitude/way of thinking that SOME light skinned bw do, key word some. They can sometimes be conceited especially if they have light colored eyes and/or curly hair to go with it.(And im still talkig abo7t bm here)
darkskingirl

West Orange, NJ

#917 May 29, 2013
That is true , some of black men do not like dark skin girls.But i disagree with all the bleaching , and trying to change yourself
KingsloveQueens

Sunnyvale, CA

#918 May 29, 2013
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
In my teens I had a darkskin girlfriend..but for most of my life it seems that darkskin women (this is before the movement even)allways chased wm or very darkskin men..I figure they wanted light skin kids or they wanted dark men so that if the kid was dark both parents shared in it and the kids couln't hate either one..I thought that was why dark skin women choose the way they do..it makes brown and caramel colored bm dislike them..
black

United States

#919 Jun 25, 2013
All the women i have pretty dates have been dark skin sistas
Daniel

Bensalem, PA

#920 Aug 24, 2013
To be honest I do notice this situation a lot. For example, often while riding the train to work in the morning I would hear teenage black boys say how white women or light skinned women are prettier or even in music you hear black rappers glorify light skinned women or white women and hardly or never dark skinned. My thing is if they do its there opinion and there right to like who ever they want. That's life you shouldn't worry about black men ms. Go on and be with who ever you want to. I'm not gonna pretend like it doesn't exists because it does but some black men could say well why do some black women date white guys. That's just life move on

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