Since: Sep 08

Trenton, NJ

#332 Mar 2, 2009
Ingrained culture shock that was evidently forced since mulatto or house n-----rs were birthed 400+ years ago.Darker blacks have believed in 'massa' instilled colorism since then and still support 'massa's' viewpoints now.

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black sister

Brooklyn, NY

#333 Mar 2, 2009
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
It's because we reflect their own blackness. They hate everything of being dark skinned. They hate their hair, their nose, their lips, their colored skinned.
melissa

Nassau, Bahamas

#334 Mar 7, 2009
well nicole im going to be real... its self hate. they trying to wash the blackness away to fit in.

Since: Dec 08

United States

#335 Mar 7, 2009
black sister wrote:
<quoted text>
It's because we reflect their own blackness. They hate everything of being dark skinned. They hate their hair, their nose, their lips, their colored skinned.
Real Brother here.

Wrong. Black men who do HATE Black women do so for one reason and one reason only; 90% of Black women HATE Black men.

Its only natural for one to HATE those who HATE them.

Secondly, women CHOOSE men. If dark skinned Black women HATE Black men and refuse to CHOOSE Black men then its STUPID to blame Black men.

Black women also HATE being Black and wish they were White and only want a Black man who they believe like White and only light skinned Black women.

Its simply another form of Black Self-hatred and Black women need to stop it.

TKCAL
GAZman

Belfast, UK

#336 Mar 10, 2009
I'm white, my babe is black she is very dark I love that, although I would still love her to bits if she was green with pink spots on!!
Remember it's whats inside the skin not what the colour of it is. The hair thing again if she feels good having natural, straight, dreds, or plaits what does it matter? Women love to do stuff to themselves, stop this oppression and single mindedness and let people of all race be and do what they want, who is it hurting only the blinkered views of the jealous ones. We might just find the world a better place, if we are not so petty all the time with these really facile minor issues. I think we all need to realise that times are changing and mixed race relationships are on the up and well if the black guys out ther are so fickle that they are apparently not going into a relationship with a darker skinned girl well it just means that there are a whole lot of other men who are ready to fill that gap!!

Since: Dec 08

United States

#337 Mar 10, 2009
GAZman wrote:
I'm white, my babe is black she is very dark I love that, although I would still love her to bits if she was green with pink spots on!!
Remember it's whats inside the skin not what the colour of it is. The hair thing again if she feels good having natural, straight, dreds, or plaits what does it matter? Women love to do stuff to themselves, stop this oppression and single mindedness and let people of all race be and do what they want, who is it hurting only the blinkered views of the jealous ones. We might just find the world a better place, if we are not so petty all the time with these really facile minor issues. I think we all need to realise that times are changing and mixed race relationships are on the up and well if the black guys out ther are so fickle that they are apparently not going into a relationship with a darker skinned girl well it just means that there are a whole lot of other men who are ready to fill that gap!!
Real Brother here.

No Gazman stop that. The fact that your girlfriend HATES herself, her Race and Culture and Black men and wants to be White and thinks of Whites as Superior and suffers from Dark Girl Complex may not be a big deal to you(a White Supremacist) it is to her and to the Black community as a whole.

White Slave Masters traditionally saw Slavery as "no big deal" and feel Blacks should simply "get over" their indentured servitude.

What a shameful attitude for you as a White Supremacist to have that Black Self-hatred and buying into the MYTH of White Superiority is "a minor issue" stop that and speak for yourself.

TKCAL
chris

Chesapeake, VA

#338 Mar 10, 2009
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
who are you talking about exactly? because that has never been the case here. i think some have those hang ups, but not all.
chris

Chesapeake, VA

#339 Mar 10, 2009
Realbrother0003 wrote:
<quoted text>
Real Brother here.
I love and prefer dark skinned Black women.
The problem is NOT that dark skinned Black men don't like dark skinned Black women the problem is dark skinned Black women who hate themselves, their Race and suffer from "Dark Girl Complex" and think White and "light" is Superior don't like anything dark or anything that likes dark.
The fact is Dark Girl Complex sufferers are turned off by dark skinned Black men and turned on by Black men that are light or are obsessed with White or light skinned girls.
This is a classic example of a Self-fulfilling Prophecy where the Dark Girl Complex Suffer "thinks" that dark skinned Black men aren't attracted to dark skinned Black women so any Black men who are get dissed or avoided or dismissed as weird or undesirable etc.
Dark skinned Black men on the other hand get "trained" by both dark and light women. The Dark Girl Complex sufferers avoid dark skinned men(due to their HATRED of all things dark) and the light and White girls who DON'T hate Black men or dark skin(because their light or White) love these men.
So over time dark skinned Black men convince themselves that they prefer light and White women when in reality those are simply the women who don't suffer from Dark Girl Complex and as such are attracted to them.
TKCAL
very interesting take on this. i have to admit i agree wholeheartedly on this one ...
chris

Chesapeake, VA

#340 Mar 10, 2009
there is no self hatred. men just go after women who go after them. if dark skinned women is where you had the most luck with that's who you're after, likewise, as real brother stated, if it is light skinned women you have luck with, that's who you go after. no man is going to continue to go after dark skinned women when they continue to get turned down. it's like this; light skinned women didn't start to pay me any real attention until high school/college, not sure why, not sure if i started doing something different myself that's just how things turned out. but by then ... you know what i mean so for a lot of these guys it may be the same situation just flip-flopped
chris

Chesapeake, VA

#341 Mar 10, 2009
at the same time you're painting it like dark skinned women are just receptive to everyone. that may have been your own personal experience but it isn't everyones. have to differentiate between dark skinned women who are down on themselves and don't know what they have and everyone else. a woman who is put together and knows what she is worth wants a man who is too. if dude is flaky, or unsure of himself ... you know how that goes. that in itself has nothing to do with light or dark.

Since: Jan 09

Tampa Fl.

#342 Mar 12, 2009
Realbrother0003 wrote:
<quoted text>
Real Brother here.
I love and prefer dark skinned Black women.
The problem is NOT that dark skinned Black men don't like dark skinned Black women the problem is dark skinned Black women who hate themselves, their Race and suffer from "Dark Girl Complex" and think White and "light" is Superior don't like anything dark or anything that likes dark.
The fact is Dark Girl Complex sufferers are turned off by dark skinned Black men and turned on by Black men that are light or are obsessed with White or light skinned girls.
This is a classic example of a Self-fulfilling Prophecy where the Dark Girl Complex Suffer "thinks" that dark skinned Black men aren't attracted to dark skinned Black women so any Black men who are get dissed or avoided or dismissed as weird or undesirable etc.
Dark skinned Black men on the other hand get "trained" by both dark and light women. The Dark Girl Complex sufferers avoid dark skinned men(due to their HATRED of all things dark) and the light and White girls who DON'T hate Black men or dark skin(because their light or White) love these men.
So over time dark skinned Black men convince themselves that they prefer light and White women when in reality those are simply the women who don't suffer from Dark Girl Complex and as such are attracted to them.
TKCAL
Well Well Well,

I see you are on yet another thread, spreading obviously false truths. You really need to go and see a shrink about you personal issues, and how they are causing your warped perception of society.

The funniest part is that you actually believe in the b/s that you spew. Its almost like you are a weird sick dog. You throw something up, then eat it again.

Anyways...

I really wish you all would stop with this silly dark skin/ Light Skin thing.

Black men do not hate dark women, If you feel that way, then YOU are doing something wrong. You may want to take a new direction with things and step your game up.

I am pretty sure that I speak for most black males when I say, BEAUTY doesn't have an ethnicity or complexion. If a girl is hot, I want her. I don't car if shes from fuc*ing Bangladesh, hot IS hot.

There is no light skin privilege, just as there is no dark skin disadvantage.

The only issue is that you believe there's a problem so there is, but what you FAIL to realize is that you are creating the problem in your mind.

Once you stop being a prisoner of your own poor self image, you will be free from the shackles of limitation.

-DigitalSymphony
Africanking

Mountain View, CA

#343 Mar 12, 2009
We love our dark women no matter what.
Africanking

Mountain View, CA

#344 Mar 12, 2009
They give birth 2 us.

“My Shining Star”

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#345 Mar 12, 2009
They don't. In the summer time, I don't experience anything different.

Attitude and glow speak...
Black man

Chicago, IL

#346 Mar 12, 2009
Much love 2 all my dark black women out there..we love U keep giving birth to us.
Ali

Charlotte, NC

#347 Mar 12, 2009
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
We love U little sister...Stay dark and make babies
Africanking

Mountain View, CA

#348 Mar 12, 2009
Stay dark my people and keep making babies.

Since: Dec 08

Dana Point, CA

#349 Mar 13, 2009
DigitalSymphony wrote:
<quoted text>
Well Well Well,
I see you are on yet another thread, spreading obviously false truths. You really need to go and see a shrink about you personal issues, and how they are causing your warped perception of society.
The funniest part is that you actually believe in the b/s that you spew. Its almost like you are a weird sick dog. You throw something up, then eat it again.
Anyways...
I really wish you all would stop with this silly dark skin/ Light Skin thing.
Black men do not hate dark women, If you feel that way, then YOU are doing something wrong. You may want to take a new direction with things and step your game up.
I am pretty sure that I speak for most black males when I say, BEAUTY doesn't have an ethnicity or complexion. If a girl is hot, I want her. I don't car if shes from fuc*ing Bangladesh, hot IS hot.
There is no light skin privilege, just as there is no dark skin disadvantage.
The only issue is that you believe there's a problem so there is, but what you FAIL to realize is that you are creating the problem in your mind.
Once you stop being a prisoner of your own poor self image, you will be free from the shackles of limitation.
-DigitalSymphony
Real Brother here.

Digital, I think you are So STUPID and So Self-hating that you didn't even read what I wrote.

TKCAL
annonymous

West Springfield, MA

#350 Mar 15, 2009
Realbrother0003 couldnt have said it any better!
love u man your a very samrt man and thats what
most women should be attracted to!<3
Just being Forward

New York, NY

#351 Mar 18, 2009
As long as they eat healthy which keeps the dark skin glowing and shiny and not ashey to a point of turning white, I'm cool.

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