Why do black men hate dark-skinned women so much?

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Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#1 Dec 31, 2007
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#2 Dec 31, 2007
bump

“aswad rajul min amerika”

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#3 Dec 31, 2007
One of the most beautiful black women I dated was very dark skinned. She even did some part time modeling work in fashion shows.
Black men don't hate Black women at least I don't.

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#4 Dec 31, 2007
Here comes another forum thats gonna start some drama

“Get well soon Ali Boulala.”

Since: Dec 07

Chicago

#5 Dec 31, 2007
I guess this wouldn't apply to me :/

But for the record,I have no problem with Dark skinned Black women.

I presume you are talking about like Night colored black women correct?No personal problems with any.A joke may come up every now and again between friends every now and again,but nothing serious.
so sad

United States

#6 Dec 31, 2007
Nicole Little wrote:
I want an honest answer. It's like black men have a deep deep DEEP hatred for dark-skinned black women even though they're dark themselves. Why does black men despises dark-skinned black women? I'm not worrying about the media because it's whitewashed anyway. All the brothers, be honest with me, and please don't give me that bullshit "preference" just to cover up your hatred.
I think you are the one that has a problem with dark skin because you never stop talking about it...You are the only sister I have ever heard of that literally seems to think of skin color night and day. What is your problem? Who hates you this much?
G-MACK

United States

#7 Dec 31, 2007
so sad wrote:
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I think you are the one that has a problem with dark skin because you never stop talking about it...You are the only sister I have ever heard of that literally seems to think of skin color night and day. What is your problem? Who hates you this much?
True were you teased? real talk..

Since: Jul 07

Philadelphia, PA

#8 Dec 31, 2007
so sad wrote:
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I think you are the one that has a problem with dark skin because you never stop talking about it...You are the only sister I have ever heard of that literally seems to think of skin color night and day. What is your problem? Who hates you this much?
It's not just me. It's a WHOOOOLE lot of dark-skinned women that feels the same way. The majority of dar men want light women and leave dark women in the cold. It's the same way when they leave black women out in the cold to be with white women. At least I'm woman enough to address this. I'm not the type of persom that's going to hold it in. NO FUCKING WAY!!!! If I see somethin wrong, I'm going to address it, and the truth is BLACK MEN HATES DARK-SKINNED WOMEN!!!! I refuse to hold my tongue for anybody
G-MACK

United States

#10 Dec 31, 2007
G-MACK

United States

#11 Dec 31, 2007
so sad

United States

#13 Dec 31, 2007
Every comment from Nicole Little is what is wrong with a lot black women.
so sad

United States

#14 Dec 31, 2007
I don't hold anything in. I am a grown woman who looks at life like a mature woman, and not some heart broken little girl..
so sad

United States

#15 Dec 31, 2007
I really think you need to grow up and get a clue..
Clari

AOL

#17 Jan 3, 2008
Speak it girl. You are Damn right.
Clari

AOL

#18 Jan 3, 2008
Speak it Nicole Little, No one is gonna feel what your feeling unless they were in your shoe, so for those who dont understand, if you dont got nothing good to say then dont say nothing at all.
BDNYC

AOL

#19 Jan 4, 2008
I like to be basic real and straight to the point.
Black women aren't hated in America in fact black males are the ones that are the hated ones in America. You see rampent unemployment ,killing, and disdain of blackmales in society all around you; this means that black males are hated. look anywhere and you will not find a black male equivalent of to Oprah in America why because opression and hatred are targeted at blackmales. Black women don't respect black men and white women and other women who choose blackmen only go with them to abuse and opress them this can be mentally or financialy, which means their is a underlying hatred in women twords Blackmen.
BDNYC

AOL

#20 Jan 4, 2008
The problem with todays blcak women is they don't have the self identity that blackwomen had in the past. Black are wearing phony hair, and adopting atitudes of women of other racials therein portraying them selves as inferior. Anology a ford is a ford and a chevy is a chevy if ford adopts chevy's designs in its cars it is telling the public that it is inferior. A black should develope their her style of beauty based upon what they have like other cultures. Black women should befocused on developing lady like femine attitudes and ways of speaking and acting like other cultures.

I think black women are the best but what turns me off with a lot of black women is the masculine course attitude thing, phonyness, and shallow thinking. Black women also have to learn to let the man lead he is bigger and stronger for a reason. Other races are very serious about proper female bearing. I personnaly don't like a masculine women nor a women that lacks self identity. I personally am not going to change myself to look white. I will try to talk proper english and dress conservatively but other than that I let it be known everywhere that I am black.
Gary

Brooklyn, NY

#21 Jan 4, 2008
G-MACK wrote:
http://nymag.com/images/fashio n/fashionshows/04/graphics/mod els/modelwatch/liyakebede.jpg
This is wife material.
SHE COULD USE A TRIPLE WHOPPER COMBO...SUPER SIZED!!! WELL AT LEAST WE KNOW YOU WONT GO BROKE TRYING TO FEED HER......LOL
Gary

Brooklyn, NY

#22 Jan 4, 2008
BDNYC wrote:
The problem with todays blcak women is they don't have the self identity that blackwomen had in the past. Black are wearing phony hair, and adopting atitudes of women of other racials therein portraying them selves as inferior. Anology a ford is a ford and a chevy is a chevy if ford adopts chevy's designs in its cars it is telling the public that it is inferior. A black should develope their her style of beauty based upon what they have like other cultures. Black women should befocused on developing lady like femine attitudes and ways of speaking and acting like other cultures.
I think black women are the best but what turns me off with a lot of black women is the masculine course attitude thing, phonyness, and shallow thinking. Black women also have to learn to let the man lead he is bigger and stronger for a reason. Other races are very serious about proper female bearing. I personnaly don't like a masculine women nor a women that lacks self identity. I personally am not going to change myself to look white. I will try to talk proper english and dress conservatively but other than that I let it be known everywhere that I am black.
You are so right. Some of the hair crap black women feel they have to do is so unatural and hideous. To me its so wierd looking at a jet black woman with beautiful full lips and a classic african nose, flipping her bone straight hair around like a white girl. Horrible.
The Guy

Oakland, CA

#23 Jan 4, 2008
G-MACK wrote:
http://bp3.blogger.com/_T8TbvC SDD-Y/RvJhalO1MMI/AAAAAAAAA8Q/ aa-c97UjS3I/s1600-h/Naomi_Camp bell.jpg
Wow

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