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Sadbuttrue

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Alaina wrote:
There's not a lot of black men or women in Japan, I'm from Japan I've seen with my own eyes how many African men and women are there. I'm Japanese and I don't really have a taste in men. Not every woman in Japan has been around African Americans because there's not many. It dosnt mean their racist or anything they just haven't been around enough to judge.
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Maceo..........I can't help but laugh! lmao
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Dec 9, 2012
 
Black men are the least likely race to have a monogamous relationship, 2 out of 5 Black men had simultaneous relationships with more than one partner. More than 69% of Black males have two or more partners which have become the new norm. The increase of STDS and HIV/AIDS is common.

When Black men don't live with their partner they are 4 times more likely to seek out other partners verses White men/other races as well as 6 times greater that the relationship will be long term.

Even with a live in partner, Black men are 6 times more likely to keep a other sexual partners than other races of men. the same goes for married Black men they are 6 times more likely to engage in long term sexual relationships with other partners while bringing less to the table then all other races of men.

Black males who engage in concurrent relationships don't want to marry; they only seek "Friends with benefits" relationships which destroy the family structure. The surfeit of Black women makes lots of Black men want to remain single to use women
emotionally as well as financially. It also unrealistically cause some men's standards to "rise" They say Black women are picky but that's not true. Extremely successful, sought
after Black males high earners can pick and chose so many remain single preying on and using as many Black women as they can.

Many Black men have become "hypervigilant to take advantage of women! They rarely appreciate who the women are but want their loyalty while they're not loyal.

Consider the horrific stats, many Black women need to date outside the race. There chances incarease greatly as well as overall lifestyles should they marry out on their level.
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Sadbuttrue wrote:
Black men are the least likely race to have a monogamous relationship, 2 out of 5 Black men had simultaneous relationships with more than one partner. More than 69% of Black males have two or more partners which have become the new norm. The increase of STDS and HIV/AIDS is common.
When Black men don't live with their partner they are 4 times more likely to seek out other partners verses White men/other races as well as 6 times greater that the relationship will be long term.
Even with a live in partner, Black men are 6 times more likely to keep a other sexual partners than other races of men. the same goes for married Black men they are 6 times more likely to engage in long term sexual relationships with other partners while bringing less to the table then all other races of men.
Black males who engage in concurrent relationships don't want to marry; they only seek "Friends with benefits" relationships which destroy the family structure. The surfeit of Black women makes lots of Black men want to remain single to use women
emotionally as well as financially. It also unrealistically cause some men's standards to "rise" They say Black women are picky but that's not true. Extremely successful, sought
after Black males high earners can pick and chose so many remain single preying on and using as many Black women as they can.
Many Black men have become "hypervigilant to take advantage of women! They rarely appreciate who the women are but want their loyalty while they're not loyal.
Consider the horrific stats, many Black women need to date outside the race. There chances incarease greatly as well as overall lifestyles should they marry out on their level.
Must be the start of a new shift LOL!
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TFQ41A0RSOMVL...
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Dec 9, 2012
 
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<quoted text>MACEO
Maceo..........I can't help but laugh! lmao
What does maceo mean?

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Why should Black men care whether or not if Japanese women like them?

If more Black men would learn to appreciate, respect, and cherish Black women the way other races of men do their women, then it would not matter what Japanese women thought of Black men.

Black men and Black women need to learn to love and respect themselves more than they do. Instead of looking for love and admiration from other races of women, more Black men should be looking for love and admiration from Black women.

There are some beautiful, loving, intelligent Black women out there who would love to be in a committed loving relationship with a good Black man. Black men, stop worrying so much about what Asian women think of you, and start building a loving relationship with a good Black woman.
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Dec 9, 2012
 
Style wrote:
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Must be the start of a new shift LOL!
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TFQ41A0RSOMVL...
MACEO

Here's whats happen; now Deal with IT! Black women are dating White men and their asking us out! lmao

Most of my White dates have each told me that "The stigma dating/marrying BW have dropped dramatically"!

You'll be surprised what my White male dates say. At least 1-2 per White males per social circle have dated a Black woman and the social stigmas have come down considerably!

Almost 70% of the men that ask me on dates and consider me attractive are all White males! Not only are they highly educated but they live in some of the best areas of town.

Many White males have told me considering today's relationship market which is a challenge for everybody, Black women are an option for them especially an attractive, intelligent, educated Black women who have things in common with them.

Most of the white males said they could care less what people have to say these days. As well as many White males have told me they actually have got "Insulted" when people make "Racial Slurs" in private and public! Race is so minor these days! It comes down to if your a "Good or Bad"! If you have the same values/education or simple put compatible with them.

I get quite a few White males asking me on dates; I don't consider myself a light skin woman. My GF who is 4 shades darker than myself also has 75% of dates are White Professional Males.

While I still see some things haven't changed, I went to the Mall and had dinner with yet another White male friend. I saw lots of BW with WM walking hand in hand at one of the major upscale Shopping areas in NoVA.

There was so many IR BW/WM couples that the BM/BW couple who sat near me, caused the BM to get angry. He voiced his angry and said "Look at all of these Black bytches with White men"! lmao His GF said, I see a lot of BM with WW too, I guess BW are doing the same!

Funny..........LMAO!
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Dec 9, 2012
 
Style wrote:
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Must be the start of a new shift LOL!
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TFQ41A0RSOMVL...
MACEO

The new Shift in Black relationships!

Most of my White dates have each told me that "The stigma dating/marrying BW have dropped dramatically"!

You'll be surprised what my White male dates say. At least 1-2 per White males per social circle have dated a Black woman and the social stigmas have come down considerably!

Almost 70% of the men that ask me on dates and consider me attractive are all White males! Not only are they highly educated but they live in some of the best areas of town.

Many White males have told me considering today's relationship market which is a challenge for everybody, Black women are an option for them especially an attractive, intelligent, educated Black women who have things in common with them.

Most of the white males said they could care less what people have to say these days. As well as many White males have told me they actually have got "Insulted" when people make "Racial Slurs" in private and public! Race is so minor these days! It comes down to if your a "Good or Bad"! If you have the same values/education or simple put compatible with them.

I get quite a few White males asking me on dates; I don't consider myself a light skin woman. My GF who is 4 shades darker than myself also has 75% of dates are White Professional Males.

While I still see some things haven't changed, I went to the Mall and had dinner with yet another White male friend. I saw lots of BW with WM walking hand in hand at one of the major upscale Shopping areas in NoVA.

There was so many IR BW/WM couples that the BM/BW couple who sat near me, caused the BM to get angry. He voiced his angry and said "Look at all of these Black bytches with White men"! lmao His GF said, I see a lot of BM with WW too, I guess BW are doing the same!

Funny..........LMAO!

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Dec 9, 2012
 
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Here's whats happen; now Deal with IT! Black women are dating White men and their asking us out! lmao
Most of my White dates have each told me that "The stigma dating/marrying BW have dropped dramatically"!
You'll be surprised what my White male dates say. At least 1-2 per White males per social circle have dated a Black woman and the social stigmas have come down considerably!
Almost 70% of the men that ask me on dates and consider me attractive are all White males! Not only are they highly educated but they live in some of the best areas of town.
Many White males have told me considering today's relationship market which is a challenge for everybody, Black women are an option for them especially an attractive, intelligent, educated Black women who have things in common with them.
Most of the white males said they could care less what people have to say these days. As well as many White males have told me they actually have got "Insulted" when people make "Racial Slurs" in private and public! Race is so minor these days! It comes down to if your a "Good or Bad"! If you have the same values/education or simple put compatible with them.
I get quite a few White males asking me on dates; I don't consider myself a light skin woman. My GF who is 4 shades darker than myself also has 75% of dates are White Professional Males.
While I still see some things haven't changed, I went to the Mall and had dinner with yet another White male friend. I saw lots of BW with WM walking hand in hand at one of the major upscale Shopping areas in NoVA.
There was so many IR BW/WM couples that the BM/BW couple who sat near me, caused the BM to get angry. He voiced his angry and said "Look at all of these Black bytches with White men"! lmao His GF said, I see a lot of BM with WW too, I guess BW are doing the same!
Funny..........LMAO!
Ok...you get asked out a lot. Why is it that you don't just settle down with one of these wondrous men and shut the heck up?
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Dec 9, 2012
 
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Ok...you get asked out a lot. Why is it that you don't just settle down with one of these wondrous men and shut the heck up?
MACEO

YOu don't have anything to settle with anyone including yourself! Why you did what you did makes you a LOST FOOL!

Very sad and also sorry!
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Profile of the Sociopath

This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

Glibness and Superficial Charm

Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.

Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."

Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.

Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

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When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

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Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.

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Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.

Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.

Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

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Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
YOu don't have anything to settle with anyone including yourself! Why you did what you did makes you a LOST FOOL!
Very sad and also sorry!
One day you will be able to distinguish one person from another. However, for the time being, all people appear to you like this:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v238/wemic/...

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Looks like someone did not like seeing the truth I posted, which is why they judged my post negatively.

I understand that the truth hurts sometime, but that is just how it is. Live with it.
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LOL at this thread...

Outside of a select few what BM are interested in Japanese women to the point they put them above BW?

I'd venture to say Japanese women are next to the least attractive women on earth to "me".

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Alaina wrote:
<quoted text>What does maceo mean?
Some dude who broke her heart. Now she's permanently scarred.
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Some dude who broke her heart. Now she's permanently scarred.
Oh
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Never had any problems dating Japanese or Chinese women myself. My ex-gf whom I met in Hong Kong had a great relationship. Her parents weren't wealthy but they were considered slightly upper middle class and her parents loved me (her grandpa liked me too, but her grandmother was one of those, "don't marry that black man!". I also got along with the parents of my Japanese ex.

I'd say that most Asians are more along the lines of all "foreigners" must be blue-eyed, blond haired Caucasian males and dream of having blue eyed blond haired babies. Some Asian women don't care and will check out any man that looks good no matter what the color of his skin. For them though they think any non-Asian male is more attractive and want to experience something different.

I was never military myself so the times I went to Japan and Hong Kong was on my own for R&R. I seem to have at least an appealing enough face for the women to initiate flirting with me and blatantly checking me out. So I would say if you got the looks, and the personality, you'll definitely have no problem attracting Japanese women. But as with all relationships, be wary of who you get to know.
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Pure Observation wrote:
LOL at this thread...
Outside of a select few what BM are interested in Japanese women to the point they put them above BW?
I'd venture to say Japanese women are next to the least attractive women on earth to "me".
Apple in the eye of the beholder. Problem is you're putting it in a perspective of "this ethnictiy of woman is better than the ethnicity of this woman" That's called prejudice. Simply put a fine looking woman is a fine looking woman, and if her personality matches her looks and demeanor then a woman is always the best regardless of race.

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darknile wrote:
<quoted text>Apple in the eye of the beholder. Problem is you're putting it in a perspective of "this ethnictiy of woman is better than the ethnicity of this woman" That's called prejudice. Simply put a fine looking woman is a fine looking woman, and if her personality matches her looks and demeanor then a woman is always the best regardless of race.
There ya go. Nice post.
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#522
Jan 15, 2013
 
Most yellow people are white-washed. Then again, I'm not into most.
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#523
Jan 15, 2013
 
Fool, I had a Japanese GF and married a Fillipino.
vince wrote:
I've spent a lot of time in many different Asian countries, and Asian women, on the whole, just aren't interested in black men. With the exception of prostitutes (or occasionally poorer women with a wealthy African American boyfriend) it is rare to see Asian women with black men. Even many prostitutes choose not to go with them. This is also true with Indian men. Just because one Japanese starlet wrote a book doesn't mean large numbers of Japanese women desire black guys. Living in Japan for two years, I could count the number of Japanese women with black guys on one hand."

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