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U Haul

United States

#1 Apr 22, 2013
The fear of loss is an especially powerful mechanism. It could be the fear of losing the relationship, fear of losing your children, your reputation or your money and other assets. Inducing fear, guilt, shame and a sense of obligation are how abusive women control you. If you’re afraid of loss and your wife/girlfriend/ex knows it, you’re basically at her mercy.

Abusive women will:

Threaten you with abandonment.“If you don’t ‘shape up,’ I’m leaving.”

Threaten to alienate your children from you or deny you access to them.“If you don’t do as I say, I’m going to tell your son what a bastard you are” or “If you leave you’ll never see your kids again.”

Threaten to destroy your career.“I’m going to tell everyone at your office what a sick pervert you are.”

Threaten to take all your money.“You owe me. I’m entitled.”

Many of these women will implicitly or explicitly communicate that you’ll never meet anyone else like them. Let’s hope not. The resulting fear is that no other women will want you or find you attractive, which is nonsense. The reality is that emotionally abusive women are a dime a dozen. There’s nothing special about them—except for their highly dysfunctional and toxic characterological traits. You need to change your mindset. Perhaps by “losing” the relationship, you will, ultimately,“win.”

There are far better woman in the world who will treat you with kindness, respect, generosity and mutual consideration. You’re not lucky this woman “puts up with you;” she’s lucky that you put up with her. Being alone is better than being in an abusive relationship. If being on your own is too difficult at first; get a dog or a goldfish

Exactly what are you afraid of losing? The abuse? The emotional withdrawal and rejection? Being made to feel less than? If this were anyone other than your wife/girlfriend/ex, would you want to even know this person? Have you challenged these fears with your intellect or are you being led by your “gut?”

Don’t just succumb to your fears; CHALLENGE THEM with your intellect, not the emotional reasoning that only reinforces them. More often than not, your fears are just distorted, self-limiting beliefs sown by your wife/gf/ex. By giving into your fear, you’re voluntarily walking into a cage and handing her the key. The truth is you have the power to release yourself. You will love again. You will find happiness. But you will only do so without this woman

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#2 Apr 22, 2013
dont you have to have VALUE for that to even work,let alone NOT demonize,bash,sellout ect the muthafckaz you want and NOT be cmbuckets and ghettogaggers?lol
U Haul

United States

#3 Apr 22, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
dont you have to have VALUE for that to even work,let alone NOT demonize,bash,sellout ect the muthafckaz you want and NOT be cmbuckets and ghettogaggers?lol
That's true. She'd better have more than a bicycle, artitude and a grandiose self image.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#4 Apr 22, 2013
for atleast 400 years of course and then all the crap inbetween leading up to today and whatever the future brings and lets see who has hate and anger ect.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

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#5 Apr 22, 2013
what?again?topix bstrds.lol

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

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Since: Apr 11

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#6 Apr 22, 2013
right post,wrong thread.lol

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Since: Feb 11

Reality

#7 Apr 22, 2013
U Haul wrote:
<quoted text>That's true. She'd better have more than a bicycle, artitude and a grandiose self image.
Go with white ww or turn gay.

Problem solved
igotit

Howell, MI

#8 Apr 22, 2013
pure blacks ruin society..

only have mixed kids for now on.. you guys suck..
igotit

Howell, MI

#9 Apr 22, 2013
sell yoer drug and have a baby with Asian women..
igotit

Howell, MI

#10 Apr 22, 2013
that way you can take over white people or something..
U Haul

United States

#12 Apr 22, 2013
Sometimes a generation or two needs to die before things get right.

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Since: Jan 10

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#13 Apr 22, 2013
igotit wrote:
pure blacks ruin society..
only have mixed kids for now on.. you guys suck..
Yep! Notice how black men try so hard to make it seem that President Obama is one of them, had their same experiences and think like the typical black male when Obama is biracial and have had the benefit of his white grandfather's teachings plus had the wisdom to marry Michelle a black women (who I am sure would have married a cultured white man) whose support pushed him into the oval office.
U Haul

United States

#14 Apr 23, 2013
I have a U Haul for any AAW wanting to move on.

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#15 Apr 23, 2013
U Haul wrote:
I have a U Haul for any AAW wanting to move on.
Put your mammy in it

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