Email: White Women's Opinion of Black Women and Brother's Response

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“VLMI9HTY 5OULJA”

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#235
Apr 10, 2007
 
FALL back aint nobody playin

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#236
Apr 10, 2007
 
libra22 wrote:
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Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White
Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds,
Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your
food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your
children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your
babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
Noth Respect. To how I love black women. I could write a thousand songs about black women. How quickly will the uneducated, perhaps innocently ignorant, slander my mother, my sister my daughter and wife.

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#237
Apr 10, 2007
 
Noth Respect. To how I love black women. I could write a thousand songs about black women. How quickly will the uneducated, perhaps innocently ignorant, slander my mother, my sister my daughter and wife.

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#238
Apr 10, 2007
 
Supernaturalfist wrote:
Noth Respect. To how I love black women. I could write a thousand songs about black women. How quickly will the uneducated, perhaps innocently ignorant, slander my mother, my sister my daughter and wife.
ooh i like you already ;0)

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

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#239
Apr 10, 2007
 
justmeagain wrote:
<quoted text>i'm right here hun, full of flu this weekend and it was my birthday too, so i didn't really go and party like i wanted to ;( hopefully next year will be better
heyy why didnt you tell me it was your birthday i would have done you your very own thread,jma,lol,,
well happy belated birthday,its a shame you wasnt well,are you better now,,how have you been,,hugss,

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Apr 10, 2007
 
sthldn girl wrote:
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heyy why didnt you tell me it was your birthday i would have done you your very own thread,jma,lol,,
well happy belated birthday,its a shame you wasnt well,are you better now,,how have you been,,hugss,
;) thank you, thats me all over i dont like too much fuss lol, i'm off work today, my glands are very swollen, yesterday i thought i was going to pass out, i was soo dizzy, but i'm starting a little better today overall. I'm hoping to be back at work tomorrow, how you settling into your new place, now your Essex girl lol ;)won't be long before they get you into black tights, white stilettos lmaoff that is soo gross

“mr snoop”

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Apr 10, 2007
 
justmeagain wrote:
<quoted text>;) thank you, thats me all over i dont like too much fuss lol, i'm off work today, my glands are very swollen, yesterday i thought i was going to pass out, i was soo dizzy, but i'm starting a little better today overall. I'm hoping to be back at work tomorrow, how you settling into your new place, now your Essex girl lol ;)won't be long before they get you into black tights, white stilettos lmaoff that is soo gross
hahahahaha,well havent actually moved yet were still in south,waiting for a few things to be finalised,but as for all that tights and rubbish white stillitos,ewwwwwww no thanks,lol,its actually more on the border of east london where we are moving to,nearer my mum,shes in east,i mean i say essex,but two minutes down the road your in the beginning of east london,so its not deep essex like romford or places like that,,i still feel at home,i wouldnt somewhere like southend,lol,
its a really nice area,alot of footballers and stars live around,so maybe i will pretend to be a wag for a while,hahahaha,,im sure someone like kyle would love it,lmao..i hope you get better soon hun,,get back at me when you can,,hugsss

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Apr 10, 2007
 
sthldn girl wrote:
<quoted text>hahahahaha,well havent actually moved yet were still in south,waiting for a few things to be finalised,but as for all that tights and rubbish white stillitos,ewwwwwww no thanks,lol,its actually more on the border of east london where we are moving to,nearer my mum,shes in east,i mean i say essex,but two minutes down the road your in the beginning of east london,so its not deep essex like romford or places like that,,i still feel at home,i wouldnt somewhere like southend,lol,
its a really nice area,alot of footballers and stars live around,so maybe i will pretend to be a wag for a while,hahahaha,,im sure someone like kyle would love it,lmao..i hope you get better soon hun,,get back at me when you can,,hugsss
;) sounds like a cool place to me, i like to see people progress Big Ups to ya ! hugs to you and yours
criminal barbie

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#243
Apr 16, 2007
 
i been looking all over for this article! i was telling some co workers about it at work a couple of weeks ago, after we were all discussing black man dating white women. i remember reading it when it was in the magazine, but it was vague. so i'm actually really happy it was posted recently, because i was able 2 google it. thanks libra!
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#244
Apr 16, 2007
 
libra22 wrote:
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I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women.
I'd say, date whomever you want. We love whoever and whatever we love, and nobody really knows why. But think about what this guy is saying (admitting?): black men want women who are easy, docile, and don't protest when you push them around. That sounds like the attitude of a rapist. Are you sure this is something you want to say about yourself or your brothers? This is one of the most damning things you can say about any group, let alone your own ethnicity.
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#245
Oct 6, 2007
 
Why won't white women date asian men? Don't tell me it's the "size thing"!
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#246
Oct 6, 2007
 
By asian, I don't mean Indian, Pakistanis, Bengalis or Arabs. I'm talking about Japs, Koreans and chinks. We're gonna take over the world soon, man!

I know Bruce Lee married his white student. You never see an Asian man kiss or even date a white woman in Hollywood flicks or on TV. Why is that? Actually Asian man is not kissing or dating anybody. You don't even see them on dating shows.

That's not the case with asian women... and that is ONE MASSIVE UNDERSTATEMENT!
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#247
Oct 6, 2007
 
Sorry! this is not the right forum.

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#248
Oct 7, 2007
 
Deep_Respect wrote:
I can't count how many times I've read this on the Internet. It's tired and played out.
I know! I have read this shit so many times it is ridiculous!
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#249
Oct 7, 2007
 
To the 28 year old black man, your boasting makes mesick. Do you want me to appauld you. I have a college education, house blah, blah, blah. What you wrote about why black men go to white girls sounds like an "easy lay" face it, your probably some thug who got a degree from an online school. What university did you graduate from: GTech?

I would be more impressed without your boasting. As for the white girl, the ones who have to make comments--they are the insecure ones. I have success with women by watching what they DO instead of their words. I hear all the time black women want "Good" black men. their actions speak otherwise.
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#250
Oct 7, 2007
 
proud man wrote:
To the 28 year old black man, your boasting makes mesick. Do you want me to appauld you. I have a college education, house blah, blah, blah. What you wrote about why black men go to white girls sounds like an "easy lay" face it, your probably some thug who got a degree from an online school. What university did you graduate from: GTech?
I would be more impressed without your boasting. As for the white girl, the ones who have to make comments--they are the insecure ones. I have success with women by watching what they DO instead of their words. I hear all the time black women want "Good" black men. their actions speak otherwise.
His boasting was an appropriate response to hers.
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#251
Mar 7, 2013
 
SassyJ wrote:
someone new might read it libra. its fine

Yup like me!

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#252
Mar 17, 2013
 
I am a black male and yes with a PhD, i have dated black women and soon will marry a white one!

Just sooo stupid! In Tanzania, USA actually mostly black women are filling in their buds and breasts now with silicon!
Just soo sick! Most of them here in Europe just out for MONEY!
Many of my friends (oh yes educated) are now going for white women!
this is the same reason why Africa does not develope

and please do your research! the response to that Article was written by a black woman, and the original email itself was from a black woman!

How can someone educated fall for those stupid arguments! this just shows how backwards we Black people are!
STop sharing this around and embarrasing yourself
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#253
Mar 22, 2013
 
when did caring for someone become color coded? I know that caring for someone is colorless. Unless of course it is your weakness (Color that is). It is senseless for someone to make caring for someone an issue of color.

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