Black Men Are Insecure
T-B0S

Atlanta, GA

#334 Dec 27, 2013
Black males today are seen getting more insecure and the "epidemic" seems to be increasing. This can often be verified on TV courtroom dramas as well as other factors. It matters little what race their current of former S.O. is. They know they're not wanted as much as they'd like to believe and they know their population is stagnant - more than enough to send the average black into a tailspin.

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#335 Dec 27, 2013
NattyTurner wrote:
I will date any race. I prefer white men and see myself with a white man in the future but anything can happen. I've dated about as many black guys as white guys. I may get mad at self hating BM on here but I do give BM a chance.
But two different BM were so insecure they ruined any chance they had because they were so insecure about me dating white men. Both asked me if I had sex with white men and I was honest and both times it caused a huge argument and we broke up. One of them got f*cked up by someone for talking sh*t on facebook about me. You have to be really insecure to be bothered this much by this. Black men try to pretend to be so confident but many are extremely insecure. This coming from a girl who dates BM too.
It wouldn't bother me if a black woman f*cked a white man! Unless she's criminal I don't hold a woman's past against her.

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#337 Dec 28, 2013
T-B0S wrote:
Black males today are seen getting more insecure and the "epidemic" seems to be increasing. This can often be verified on TV courtroom dramas as well as other factors. It matters little what race their current of former S.O. is. They know they're not wanted as much as they'd like to believe and they know their population is stagnant - more than enough to send the average black into a tailspin.
Black men are more insecure than ever now that black women also dating nonblack men and because society have caught up their negative behavior. On court tv, the judges and the audiences look at these black men like they are crazy when they get up proudly stating that they own these women the money back because they had sex with them for it that a certain woman want her money back be he won't be with her. These men are usually broke, unattractive and make themselves look like complete idiots.

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#338 Dec 28, 2013
Correction: Don't Owe
Whiter Trash

Mississauga, Canada

#339 Dec 28, 2013
White men are insecure about their buttocks holes in prison.
T-B0S

Atlanta, GA

#340 Jan 7, 2014
Last summer, a jury consisting of all non-black women exonerated a defendant who killed a black male teen in one of the most heavily-publicized racially charged cases known in America.......where was all that fabled "solidarity with non-black women" then?

If that verdict was the opposite (a conviction), the forum would've been flooded by angry black males with every other thread pertaining to such a hypothetical outcome in desperate attempts to "prove their point" to America, just like the Cheerios commercial....and this is your definition of "security"?
HugsAndKissesXOX O

United States

#342 Jan 8, 2014
Any race of men can be insecure, but this world tries to make black men insecure by feeding false resolutions and painting them as money hungry womanizer, there are many men with insecurities, that why they date women that are submissive, less of a pain on their ego. The OP hasn't probably even met most black men if she had, she would be able to understand that there's good and bad in all races.

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#343 Jan 8, 2014
An educated black will not fall for a black mans BS! The only ones that do are the lonely, desperate with a lot of kids by different men, and the ones that plain ole love the thugs. Otherwise known as a thugette!
T-BOS

Atlanta, GA

#346 Jan 25, 2014
The case in the following link below illustrates the general representation of black male insecurity in America. The more that the BM's S.O. is attractive, the more the possibility increases that she may suffer a great deal of abuse which sometimes culminates in death. The textbook BM, more than any other race, often worries if his wife or g/f is being faithful and they physically abuse their women for looking or thinking of other men, some of who may even be non-blacks.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-24881...

``A 3-year-old girl walked a mile down a road to her grandmother's house to get help after her father killed her mother. The Lake Bay County Sheriff described the actions of the tragic toddler as 'kind of heroic' and praised the little girl for managing to cover such a distance to raise help. The sheriff's department named Johnny Lashawn Shipman, 36, as the suspect and issued a warrant for his arrest in the death of Kristi Lynne Delaney, 26, of Mascotte.``
Big Knob

United States

#347 Jan 25, 2014
If the BM was insecure, then they'd be protesting scandal the tv show like those wm and bw prosted that ir cherrios commercial awhile back. And you dont see bm going on white sites daily pretending to be ww who like bm, or on wht-sites constantly talking about & caring about what wm do, I have'nt seen it have you? Their game is simple, keep focusing on whats negative about the bm, then tell you everything good is white, now thats the real insecurity..........
Big Knob

United States

#348 Jan 25, 2014
NattyTurner wrote:
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I've never had unprotected sex with a BM only some WM. Less worried about disease and more just being afraid to get pregnant. If I got pregnant by a white man I could still find another white guy to marry me. That isn't the point of this thread though. I want BM to address this. I'm not bashing.
You sound like a casting call for ghetto gaggers, see the MPR interview on HIV which was done on 10/29/09 on MPR by host Michal Martin a bw, Who interviewed Dr. Kevin Fenton of the CDC on HIV amoung Bw and you'll be suprized at what he said, then lets tell Oparah to apiligize to bm, I of course am not bashing either im a seeker of truth.
Now Dr. Kellina Henderson-Craig and bw have a video out warning ww to stop taking all the "good" bm, Dr. Henderson-Craig is a Professor at Howard University.
Now if I a bm would post a thread on, why are non bw more desireable as wives or girlfriends , you bw would have a fit, you'd scream bloody murder, so next think first before you post bullshit, no one cares about who you date......words of wisdom, from a bm.
Big Knob

United States

#349 Jan 25, 2014
Capree wrote:
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Black men are more insecure than ever now that black women also dating nonblack men and because society have caught up their negative behavior. On court tv, the judges and the audiences look at these black men like they are crazy when they get up proudly stating that they own these women the money back because they had sex with them for it that a certain woman want her money back be he won't be with her. These men are usually broke, unattractive and make themselves look like complete idiots.
Is that why your desperation, has caused you to create a mythical realationship with a w/husband, while still complaining about these "insecure" bm, with a tragic white dude on here? You and he constantly talk about bm, but bm are not constantly talking about wm on white fourms, why do you think that is..........try to be honest.
Big Knob

United States

#350 Jan 25, 2014
Bw, I you want to converse with bm, then come correct, because if you come with lies like these, then i'll come with truth, and I dont think you'd like that, you cant fool me, cause I know you very well,. Of course I dont give a damn about what wm say or think, all of my comments will be addressed to real brothers & sisters. Others be damned..........
Truthfully Happy

Mexico

#351 Jan 25, 2014
Afrikant bucks are insecure for a good reason. If you spent the first 9 months of your life dodging a coat hanger and your infancy watching guys bang a crack ho you called mammy then the rest of your life in and out of jail you would understand insecure. It must be rough watching some hot Smart black chic riding off into the sunset with a honest hard working White man that she knows will support her and her children after she too grew up in a household without a father. There are exceptions but thats the vast majority of the cases in a nutshell. Classy black gals are hot. Its those stinking criminal apes I cant stand hahaha!

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#352 Jan 30, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
An educated black will not fall for a black mans BS! The only ones that do are the lonely, desperate with a lot of kids by different men, and the ones that plain ole love the thugs. Otherwise known as a thugette!
Exactly the only ones that settle for black thugs are the white or black women who feel they are so lowly that they can't do better.

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#353 Jan 30, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> Is that why your desperation, has caused you to create a mythical realationship with a w/husband, while still complaining about these "insecure" bm, with a tragic white dude on here? You and he constantly talk about bm, but bm are not constantly talking about wm on white fourms, why do you think that is..........try to be honest.
Oh Big Knob, it is your insecurity in knowing that black women like myself are with white men who you consider above black men, that are making you and many other black men insecure. The only time we to about black men is to mention all of the crimes they commit and their unemployment plight.

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#354 Jan 31, 2014
Capree wrote:
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Exactly the only ones that settle for black thugs are the white or black women who feel they are so lowly that they can't do better.
consign!

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#355 Jan 31, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text> consign!
Thanks!
T-B0S

Atlanta, GA

#357 Feb 9, 2014
Even clean-cut black men with good jobs find it more difficult to attract the opposite sex these days. Like other certain-few white women who "prefer" blacks, military wives are also entwined in a plight of questionable self-esteem or body issues.

Even some black servicemen overseas worry more often than other races of men if his significant-other back home in the states is being faithful and devoted. It was strictly BM only who coined the "h0 into a housewife" catchphrase.
T-B0S

Atlanta, GA

#358 Feb 10, 2014
Angry Black Theory is not a substitute for reality.

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