Fellas! Do you know how to Court A Woman

Fellas! Do you know how to Court A Woman

Created by Swade on Dec 11, 2008

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I dont know how

of course I do

been there,done that

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Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#1 Dec 11, 2008
I keep hearing on topix and outside of topix that men dont know how to court a lady correctly. Is that entirely true...?

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#2 Dec 11, 2008
Yeah, but for me, being a nice guy and planning all my moves carefully, and only seeking out women that have the same hobbies/interests as I do.

As for outside world of topix, you're right for the most part that men don't know how to properly court a woman since they lack confidence, swagger, and the right manners to effectively snag one.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

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#4 Dec 11, 2008
For some of the brothas, they've been single for so long. When they are ready for something serious........they don't have a clue in what to do.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#5 Dec 11, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
Yeah, but for me, being a nice guy and planning all my moves carefully, and only seeking out women that have the same hobbies/interests as I do.
As for outside world of topix, you're right for the most part that men don't know how to properly court a woman since they lack confidence, swagger, and the right manners to effectively snag one.
So do you feel that not having a swagger is a crutch and hindering you from excelling and progressing with a woman of your choice Mack?

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#6 Dec 11, 2008
MDJ wrote:
For some of the brothas, they've been single for so long. When they are ready for something serious........they don't have a clue in what to do.
WHAT!...what you talkin bout willis?

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#7 Dec 11, 2008
Larry wrote:
Mack probably met most of his women in Court.
Well thats better then meeting women outside of a Drag Club.

DobyTheDoggy

“The face you love to hate!”

Since: Jan 08

Gatorade...is it in you? HAHA!

#8 Dec 11, 2008
Hey baby! Get yo ass over here an holla at this playa! You know what it do!

(too forward??)

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#9 Dec 11, 2008
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>So do you feel that not having a swagger is a crutch and hindering you from excelling and progressing with a woman of your choice Mack?
LOL Not for me of course, but for other men. It's mainly the fact that I have trouble finding a woman that have the same interests and hobbies as I do. Once I do find a woman that does, the swagger and game come natural to me as I don't feel the need to conform to certain way of behavior around a woman with different tastes in order to attract them. Ya feel me?

“Dreams are the touchstones of ”

Since: Feb 07

Our characters

#10 Dec 11, 2008
LOL...you always start these kinds of threads Swade, this is my personal dedication to you.....

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#11 Dec 11, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
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LOL Not for me of course, but for other men. It's mainly the fact that I have trouble finding a woman that have the same interests and hobbies as I do. Once I do find a woman that does, the swagger and game come natural to me as I don't feel the need to conform to certain way of behavior around a woman with different tastes in order to attract them. Ya feel me?
do you have a myspace....

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#12 Dec 11, 2008
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>do you have a myspace....
Nope. Facebook.....
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#13 Dec 11, 2008
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>WHAT!...what you talkin bout willis?
Hahahaha!!! What? What do you mean what am i talking about......Please tell me how do you court a woman. Without being arrogant, and having player intentions. Break it down for me! Mr. Man!

“The Lion of Judah”

Since: May 07

Wait and see

#14 Dec 11, 2008
Swade wrote:
I keep hearing on topix and outside of topix that men dont know how to court a lady correctly. Is that entirely true...?
I think that depends on how the guy perceives the woman in question. A man will only marry a woman he considers to be a lady. For instance, I am not going to treat a prostitute like a lady, nor would I much respect a woman that is promiscuous, to me that is not a lady, the same as women perceive the difference between a dude and a gentleman. So to answer your question, I think men will only role out the red carpet for a woman that they perceive to be worth the royal treatment.

“Well”

Since: Feb 08

Santa Ana, CA

#15 Dec 11, 2008
I think those of us who are trying pull our lives together, spend most of our energy on our goals and future plans. Rather than sharpening up our game. Me I'm kind of a Jack of all Trades, I'm always busy sometimes I feel like I avoid social life, and that could be crippling me. Sometimes love and relationships well, that stuff can wait cause I'm tryna get rich lol:)

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#16 Dec 11, 2008
<peeps head in>
<leaves>

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#17 Dec 11, 2008
MDJ wrote:
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Hahahaha!!! What? What do you mean what am i talking about......Please tell me how do you court a woman. Without being arrogant, and having player intentions. Break it down for me! Mr. Man!
Player intentions..who me! I'm keep it G..for gentleman. I wine and dine them. take them to a jazz club,improv show,bookstore,feeding ducks,salsa class, or maybe the museum..depending how I feel. I usually end the date around 9-9:30..because then she'd be more receptive to coming in and talking a little longer since the night is young. What happens after that is out of my hands..lol

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#18 Dec 11, 2008
kaley wrote:
LOL...you always start these kinds of threads Swade, this is my personal dedication to you.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =gZSLIq6YiRYXX
awww...why do I have to be a womanizer. You played me on that..lol

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#19 Dec 11, 2008
Melchizedek wrote:
<quoted text>
I think that depends on how the guy perceives the woman in question. A man will only marry a woman he considers to be a lady. For instance, I am not going to treat a prostitute like a lady, nor would I much respect a woman that is promiscuous, to me that is not a lady, the same as women perceive the difference between a dude and a gentleman. So to answer your question, I think men will only role out the red carpet for a woman that they perceive to be worth the royal treatment.
hmmm..so how do you personally determine a lady for a hoe or a no go

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#20 Dec 11, 2008
C-Bisquit wrote:
I think those of us who are trying pull our lives together, spend most of our energy on our goals and future plans. Rather than sharpening up our game. Me I'm kind of a Jack of all Trades, I'm always busy sometimes I feel like I avoid social life, and that could be crippling me. Sometimes love and relationships well, that stuff can wait cause I'm tryna get rich lol:)
you can be rich and alone. Frankly..i rather be poor with women around. Money isn't everything but relationship's is.

“Keep it Pushing”

Since: Jan 08

North Wales PA

#21 Dec 11, 2008
DobyTheDoggy wrote:
Hey baby! Get yo ass over here an holla at this playa! You know what it do!
(too forward??)
just a tad lol

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