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Marcus Hook, PA

#440 May 1, 2014
Clueless wrote:
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Rarest Rose. No wonder you blurred your pictures and he isnt confused.
What are you talking about lol...my photo isn't blurred. I'm far from ugly to most people and to the ones that think I am its mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter. I joined this site 2days ago and the poster who confused me inboxed me and I already explained that. You need to get a life.
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#441 May 1, 2014
Lovely Lee32 wrote:
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What are you talking about lol...my photo isn't blurred. I'm far from ugly to most people and to the ones that think I am its mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter. I joined this site 2days ago and the poster who confused me inboxed me and I already explained that. You need to get a life.
You're Rarest Rose and you Whoopie Goldberg fugly.

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#442 May 1, 2014
Clueless wrote:
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You're Rarest Rose and you Whoopie Goldberg fugly.
I'm me but I don't see the sense in proving that to a nobody that I'll never meet. If I was another poster why the heckler would I even bother posting my picture lol...I guess you don't have common sense working for you.

Also I get called beautiful everyday so if you think you finding me unattractive is offensive to me than you are even less intelligent than I originally assumed. I don't come here to seek your approval. I have a man that finds me beautiful lol....

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#446 May 1, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>Im quite suprised to hear you say that, but my message is clear and only requires an attitude adjustment for successful application:
Knowledge of self & do for self & end psychological dependency and come out of the mindset of relying on the benevolence of and being under the tetuledge of wp, free your mind and the results will follow.
Ps. I know that she's an AABW pretending to be a foreign bw to turn AABM of about foreign bw, im a man dont you know that bw around the world would love to be an American citizen and AABM wouldnt have no problem going to any blk country and hooking up with a bw over there i have my amer-bm card,.........but i meant what i said..........LOL
Though I do come down and I do mean hard on black men, it is only because it is what many can do but won't. If was different with black men of yesteryear because back then the majority, not the minority were men! Oh I know there were black male fk ups back then also but many more good black men than now. I watch old footage of MLK, of other black men marching getting attacked, yelled at, hit with hoses, white cops abusing them with clubs and even dogs but these black men just kept on going against the odds and the ones that died knew they died trying. Seeing that, I feel sad but so proud of them at the same time because they were so strong. If the majority of today's black men today woudl take just one ounce of the previous black men bravery and determination they used just to be treated civilly and to put into their education, pursuing opportunities and bettering the AA community then there would be no stopping such black men. I don't care how much some foreign blacks hate or envious us as African American, we AAs are still and have always been the trail-blazers for other blacks around the world. AAs should knowledge(even if black South Africans won't) and pat ourselves on the backs because our earlier struggle and victory during the Civil Rights Era was the direct inspiration for ending the apartheid in South African.

So you see, I do know self.

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#448 May 2, 2014
WM_Dominate_BM wrote:
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I feel sad but I leave them alone! LMAO
I know if I got with a Black man he would ruin what I worked so hard for and I'm not going to let that happen!
No black men for me! lmao
I am just not attracted to black men in a romantic way and if I was, I would still steer clear of today's black men. They don't care to even promote themselves in a positive way, all they can do is drag women of all races down.

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#449 May 2, 2014
Lovely Lee32 wrote:
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You must be a African. Clearly you have that smug false sense of arrogance that I was talking about on another thread earlier. Why are you on this forum if you think many of us are trashy? Go converse with your fellow African brethren whom you should relate more to. I guess that just makes too much sense. Anyway your words come across as hostile. Even though I haven't reciprocated any hostility towards you. I don't care about your opinion because I have my own and your opinion is no more or less valid to me than my opinion is to you.
Anyway I came on this forum to talk to black American people. Not hostile low self esteem having African females. Have a good day.
Or maybe being an outsider, she isn't arrogant, but just not Black-washed either. I see her attitude as normal and natural for all women. As a WW, I see a lot of trashiness all across the board near me, and that is Black, White, and in-between. The problem is not the race, but the behaviors and the culture of justifying those behaviors and passing them on and never learning to stop them.

And I don't have a dog in this, so maybe I should but out.

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#450 May 2, 2014
Lovely Lee32 wrote:
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That's what gets me. Its not just this website that has black women all pumped up about Lupita being on a magazine cover because she's attractive. Several websites have black women saying the same repetitive nonsense about how much of an honor this is to black women collectively. As if we needed a predominately white media source to assure us that we are attractive. It makes us look bad. I don't see other races of women creaming all over themselves because a woman of their race was considered beautiful. Its just stupid to me. I don't mean any disrespect but I don't see black women get this excited if a black male actor makes the cover of a magazine. I'd get more excited about that than a female Lol.
Personally, as an outsider, I don't see that as the point. The point is not that WM are lifting up BW, but the fact of equality. It is not a self-esteem thing, but a matter of social justice. I don't see how being appreciative makes any people look bad. But that's just me.

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#451 May 2, 2014
Capree wrote:
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I am just not attracted to black men in a romantic way and if I was, I would still steer clear of today's black men. They don't care to even promote themselves in a positive way, all they can do is drag women of all races down.
I know what you mean. Recent Black immigrants might be a better bet, if you were interested. I've seen their families in places like laundry rooms, and they tend to be quiet, orderly, and keep to themselves. They are not going around trying to game everyone, get something for nothing, act entitled, mess with people for the hell of it, or force themselves onto everyone.

Hispanic immigrants are a mixed lot. Some of are very good family people and want only to build and support their communities. And some are as bad or worse than a lot of the BM that folks are complaining about in here. I've been unfortunate to be around that kind who thinks every WW was made for them and can't understand the concept of there being some women who want and need full autonomy.

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#454 May 5, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I know what you mean. Recent Black immigrants might be a better bet, if you were interested. I've seen their families in places like laundry rooms, and they tend to be quiet, orderly, and keep to themselves. They are not going around trying to game everyone, get something for nothing, act entitled, mess with people for the hell of it, or force themselves onto everyone.
Hispanic immigrants are a mixed lot. Some of are very good family people and want only to build and support their communities. And some are as bad or worse than a lot of the BM that folks are complaining about in here. I've been unfortunate to be around that kind who thinks every WW was made for them and can't understand the concept of there being some women who want and need full autonomy.
Wow..and just think...you could have actually typed something that was actually intelligent...and based on reality....Instead of your own little racist white girl rants....your own personal biases and the ignorance that you clearly grew up believing!

First of all...all AA aren't the same...just as all white folks aren't....do we really need to go into the ignorant,obnoxious and just plain white trash behavior of some white folks...huh?

Because this idea that all white folks are good,clean,decent,upstanding and law abiding citizens is the biggest damn lie and the funniest joke ever told!

Then...I love how you then quickly went to the Hispanic generalization...giving all Hispanics the benefit of the doubt...never mind the realities of Hispanics...which you clearly have no real world understanding of...but then you seem to live and define your world based on stereotypes!

*And do we really need to go into the ignorant,slutty,loud and trashy behavior of white girls...when they're high on drugs or drunk off of their asses....huh?

*And why would foreigners come here and act as if they were born and raised here...they weren't...so why would they act like any other American citizen!

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#455 May 5, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Wow..and just think...you could have actually typed something that was actually intelligent...and based on reality....Instead of your own little racist white girl rants....your own personal biases and the ignorance that you clearly grew up believing!
First of all...all AA aren't the same...just as all white folks aren't....do we really need to go into the ignorant,obnoxious and just plain white trash behavior of some white folks...huh?
Because this idea that all white folks are good,clean,decent,upstanding and law abiding citizens is the biggest damn lie and the funniest joke ever told!
Then...I love how you then quickly went to the Hispanic generalization...giving all Hispanics the benefit of the doubt...never mind the realities of Hispanics...which you clearly have no real world understanding of...but then you seem to live and define your world based on stereotypes!
*And do we really need to go into the ignorant,slutty,loud and trashy behavior of white girls...when they're high on drugs or drunk off of their asses....huh?
*And why would foreigners come here and act as if they were born and raised here...they weren't...so why would they act like any other American citizen!
I grew up believing what ALL decent people grow up believing. If you were correctly raised, you would not be pretending what I said was racist so you can be something as disgusting as a victim to control others.

I never said I associated White with good. It is only about culture, never skin. You must have misread that post which was ONLY to Capree, and if you had half a brain, you would have let me say it to HER in front of you without you weighing in. I have the RIGHT to interact ONLY with people who share my intelligence, values, and beliefs about life, and I don't care if they are Green with Grey spots and eyeballs on tentacles. Black foreign immigrants all know instinctively to behave like WP do, even though they've met very few. So if they can do it, so can Af.-Ams. And if some Hispanics can be family people and abstain from sex outside of marriage, so can the rest if they apply themselves. Af. Ams. were ruined by slavery and have adopted the SAME dysfunctional culture as taught by the White slavers, and defend it as if it were their own.

I was raised to NEVER yield to peer pressure, make only straight A's, never have sex outside of marriage, and never do drugs. I ALWAYS obeyed my parents and made good grades, never had a bad peer group, never used drugs, etc., and as such, I deserve a REWARD and ENTITLEMENTS for having done ALL the right things that ANYONE else could have done if they were good inside. And none of this is "religious" either as I was never taken to church growing up. My parents were strict and I obeyed them, and if I could, so could anyone.

I didn't generalize with the Mexicans. I only spoke on what *I* saw and experienced. EVERYTHING I say is from ME alone in a vacuum, not the stupid media, not any "friends," not the TV, etc. I live alone and prefer to get ALL my information through my own eyes and get all conclusions from my own brain. I have SEEN decent Mexicans in MY TOWN who keep to their OWN GROUP and never try to interact with outsiders, but who have FAMILY and traditional values and who live in ways compatible with me. Then I've had to put up with Mexicans who act like EVERY WW is a WH*RE and put on the Earth just for them (not our own more passive men without the sick machismo that subgroup has.

Likewise, EVERY thing I say about BP is from what I have seen and how so many try to abuse me or force their sick culture onto me. We WW don't care about what BP do at all. They are not our people, so we have no right to interact with them. We only want them to view us the SAME (see us as outsiders, be insular to their culture and IGNORE us without trying to force help on me).

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#456 May 5, 2014
I'm a writer and I do ORIGINAL research. I don't go to White, snob-trash written sources, nor to biased pro-black extremist sources. I use only my own data.

Actually, Moor misread that, since I never mentioned WP there at all. I said that recent African immigrants and SOME Hispanic immigrants are clean and decent, and keep to themselves like ALL are supposed to do, and be concerned ONLY with their own culture and people, and not interfering in ours. I never mentioned WP there. It is ironic that the more "White-acting" some minority members is, the less time they will actually spend around WP. It is a catch-22 almost. And the people who act the least like us and who see us as money bags and penis holes, they are the most likely to force themselves onto us.

Oh something else, WP ignore me at intersections as I prefer while BM try to force me to cross in front of them rather than waiting until they are gone. They think they are being nice, but I see that as a controlling gesture, since they have no right to notice me there at all. Just see an object in the way and hurry on before it approaches them. They can't seem to be self-absorbed like all are supposed to and to ignore strangers. If I am not their friend, not a cop, not their family, not their boss, then what I do is not their business - regardless of color. If you cannot act White every time you interact with me, then you aren't worth being my friend.

That happened to me this evening. I was on my bike. Remember, in White culture, it is drilled into our heads from an early age to treat cyclists 100% like they are in a car. It means to IGNORE the difference and pretend it is not there. That takes IQ to ignore differences. WP are expected to pretend BP are White every day, but BP in America REFUSE to pretend our differences don't exist and to NEVER comment on them even once. Anyway, I saw a van approaching a T intersection. I deliberately slowed down in advance to give him more than enough time to turn, and all without trying to interact with me. I used my brains to try to PREVENT interaction. I prefer being alone, struggling alone, and me being against a cold, cruel, hard world, and taking my OWN consequences WITHOUT ANY outside interference. People of my own race ignore me as I prefer. They correctly read my body language most of the time and don't read into it what is not there. Anyway, he deliberately wasted my time because he didn't see the hint I dropped by slowing down and hurrying up and taking the turn without feeling he had to force help on who he saw as inferior and thus needing help. That is something else. BP are likely to sue over places not helping them, calling it racist, when most WP *DON'T* help strangers UNLESS the other person swallows their pride and ASKs. If you don't ask, you don't need help nor want it. I didn't do anything to make the BM notice me nor try to force help onto me. I just want the freedom to do my tasks in public alone without being noticed nor helped. But anyway, I pretended to turn, he moved on, and I got what I wanted of getting to go when *I* wanted to without being forced to go before *I* decided.

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#457 May 5, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I know what you mean. Recent Black immigrants might be a better bet, if you were interested. I've seen their families in places like laundry rooms, and they tend to be quiet, orderly, and keep to themselves. They are not going around trying to game everyone, get something for nothing, act entitled, mess with people for the hell of it, or force themselves onto everyone.
Hispanic immigrants are a mixed lot. Some of are very good family people and want only to build and support their communities. And some are as bad or worse than a lot of the BM that folks are complaining about in here. I've been unfortunate to be around that kind who thinks every WW was made for them and can't understand the concept of there being some women who want and need full autonomy.
True.

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#459 May 5, 2014
One point that is ALWAYS missed is that it is about culture (White-acting), and NEVER skin. I don't care who interacts with me as long as they operate under the SAME rules as I do and never try to use peer pressure or force other rules and assumptions onto me.

I can quote many examples where American BP refuse to treat WP as WP do.

1. A WW got a tattoo on her forehead for whatever private WP reason that is not the business of any other group but her own. To this day, not a single WP has ever asked her about it or commented, but everyone who has asked her about it or pretended she has something wrong with her forehead has been a BP.

2. WP nearly always treat me the same on a bike as they treat others on a car, but BP see it as a chance to force help onto me or back up their car and try to force me to pass, rather than ignoring me as WP do and trusting me to take care of me. A WP is more likely to be self-absorbed, on the phone, or distracted at an intersection and doesn't have the time to try to boss a cyclist around or condescend to them like a child. If a WP can ignore me and treat me as a self-contained stranger, and expect me to take care of myself, then why not BP, and particularly BM who either do it to treat me as a child because they seem WP inferior, or as a flirt? I've never had a WP try to flirt with me using their car while I've been here in this town with 30% BP and 60% WP. That is easy to extrapolate from.

3. White TS women in various states (AR, MD, NC, TN, etc.), and one Black TS woman in Oregon have all reported the same that WP are much more likely to take them at face value and treat them according to how they present. It's like they look only at the clothes and ignore the body and other differences. But BP, and BM in particular are more likely to disrespect them by calling them the wrong pronouns. If a person didn't have a "she" living inside, she would not have been born with the part that makes her wear a dress, and it would feel degrading and wrong to do so. It seems WP lack the need to socialize all the time, just loosely interact with strangers at a superficial-only level and save socializing for their own family and friends. The Black TS reported an even more disturbing aspect, and that is the fact that BM treat homosexual men and sex workers in drag better than actual TS women who need to destroy everything masculine about them and live as if they never had the condition, and live in an asexual or heterosexual manner, with a family and all. She said BM got the showgirls and male prostitutes since they were only "poor brothas hard on their luck just trying to survive." But they cannot seem to get transition for identity-only reasons and removing what brings them the most joy. That can't understand that the body and looks is not who a person is. As a disturbing aside, Black TS women in DC have been left to die by rescue workers and doctors, but I don't know the suspects demographics, so I assume both Black and White, and probably mostly White, and I won't deny that.

4. In my town, sexual harassment from members of minority groups is much greater than sexual harassment from WM (though that happens too, but is rare in comparison). Staring incidents cut across all racial lines, but higher overall incidents for BM and HM (despite the lower population). Actual harassment is even worse. Except for the occasional indecent exposure or name-calling, WP leave me alone for the most part these days, though in the past, they were the creepiest ones (though not the most frequent). But now, nearly ALL unwanted contact is by BM or HM. I've experimented with different garb, and my findings are interesting. Dressed as hospital staff (I'm not), the trial was too short (need more scrubs), so that's inconclusive, but that seemed to have increased with some and decreased with others. It made me more attractive to HM since that's work they would do.

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#460 May 5, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
I'm a writer and I do ORIGINAL research. I don't go to White, snob-trash written sources, nor to biased pro-black extremist sources. I use only my own data.
Actually, Moor misread that, since I never mentioned WP there at all. I said that recent African immigrants and SOME Hispanic immigrants are clean and decent, and keep to themselves like ALL are supposed to do, and be concerned ONLY with their own culture and people, and not interfering in ours. I never mentioned WP there. It is ironic that the more "White-acting" some minority members is, the less time they will actually spend around WP. It is a catch-22 almost. And the people who act the least like us and who see us as money bags and penis holes, they are the most likely to force themselves onto us.
Oh something else, WP ignore me at intersections as I prefer while BM try to force me to cross in front of them rather than waiting until they are gone. They think they are being nice, but I see that as a controlling gesture, since they have no right to notice me there at all. Just see an object in the way and hurry on before it approaches them. They can't seem to be self-absorbed like all are supposed to and to ignore strangers. If I am not their friend, not a cop, not their family, not their boss, then what I do is not their business - regardless of color. If you cannot act White every time you interact with me, then you aren't worth being my friend.
That happened to me this evening. I was on my bike. Remember, in White culture, it is drilled into our heads from an early age to treat cyclists 100% like they are in a car. It means to IGNORE the difference and pretend it is not there. That takes IQ to ignore differences. WP are expected to pretend BP are White every day, but BP in America REFUSE to pretend our differences don't exist and to NEVER comment on them even once. Anyway, I saw a van approaching a T intersection. I deliberately slowed down in advance to give him more than enough time to turn, and all without trying to interact with me. I used my brains to try to PREVENT interaction. I prefer being alone, struggling alone, and me being against a cold, cruel, hard world, and taking my OWN consequences WITHOUT ANY outside interference. People of my own race ignore me as I prefer. They correctly read my body language most of the time and don't read into it what is not there. Anyway, he deliberately wasted my time because he didn't see the hint I dropped by slowing down and hurrying up and taking the turn without feeling he had to force help on who he saw as inferior and thus needing help. That is something else. BP are likely to sue over places not helping them, calling it racist, when most WP *DON'T* help strangers UNLESS the other person swallows their pride and ASKs. If you don't ask, you don't need help nor want it. I didn't do anything to make the BM notice me nor try to force help onto me. I just want the freedom to do my tasks in public alone without being noticed nor helped. But anyway, I pretended to turn, he moved on, and I got what I wanted of getting to go when *I* wanted to without being forced to go before *I* decided.
Lmbao...what...huh?

Sweetie...you're like a child....raised in a homogeneous, uninformed and ignorant background!

Who has suddenly found herself on the playground with various other children....of different backgrounds and experiences and you don't have a clue as to how to interact or even hold your own...you sound like a scared little Lamb!

You sound as if you're from another planet...and can't deal with the life forms around you!

*And let me get this straight...you're offended because someone went out of their way to help you...lol....yeah that makes sooo much sense!

I love how you are offended by others...even when they aren't behaving in any negative manner...because you really just want to hold onto negative stereotypes of others...it's so transparent and hilarious!

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#461 May 5, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>True.
Thank you. You took me as I intended and didn't read more into it.

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#462 May 6, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Lmbao...what...huh?
Sweetie...you're like a child....raised in a homogeneous, uninformed and ignorant background!
Who has suddenly found herself on the playground with various other children....of different backgrounds and experiences and you don't have a clue as to how to interact or even hold your own...you sound like a scared little Lamb!
You sound as if you're from another planet...and can't deal with the life forms around you!
*And let me get this straight...you're offended because someone went out of their way to help you...lol....yeah that makes sooo much sense!
I love how you are offended by others...even when they aren't behaving in any negative manner...because you really just want to hold onto negative stereotypes of others...it's so transparent and hilarious!
I've been forced to live around BP my whole adult life, and I'm 41. Do the math. I know what I've seen and felt. Why are they too stupid to act like WP? Even Black immigrants with little exposure to us do that.

NOBODY has the RIGHT to go "out of their way" to treat me like I am stupid, their child, inferior, or need them. I ONLY help retards, kids, inferiors, or those who ASK. If you help someone who doesn't ask, you're calling them INFERIOR and STUPID. Maybe you could tell me a UNIVERSAL HINT to signal in advance to NEVER do anything for me unless I ask. I lack the sick need to socialize all the time or be a slave to a community. I'm accountable to NOBODY but God, and nobody has the right to notice me but my existing social group.

Helping ANY intelligent person who doesn't ASK for it is a form of rape. I'm a STRANGER and it's WRONG to notice STRANGERS nor care what they do. Why was he TOO STUPID to ignore me like most of MY race do? BP are far more likely from MY personal experiences to rape my soul with unwanted help. If I don't ask, I don't want it. It's that easy. About 80% of forced help incidents are by BP. If you're NOT my family, not my chosen friends, and not an authority over me, you have NO RIGHT to try to help me, let alone notice me. You're supposed to tell yourself - "That's *JUST* a stranger, I don't know them, they're not my concern, and they likely know what they're doing."

I became a genius to get respect, rights, and be trusted to be left alone. BP only to help me to either get something from me, control me, show mastery over me, treat me like a child, or flirt. I'd respect them more if realized I don't need them and respected me enough to let me struggle with ALL minor things alone. So many assume we WP are stupid, powerless, and need them. I value freedom more than friends. ALL my self-worth comes from getting to struggle alone.

I've NEVER forced help on others my whole life, and have EARNED that back. I always either ask if they need it or wait until they ask, since it's wrong to help ANYONE unless they both want and NEED it. I only value what I teach myself and discover alone. If I drop something, I expect to be ignored and get to pick it up alone. You don't own me like a child or a slave, so DON"T take care of me like I'm your PROPERTY. If WP can only help their family or friends or anyone who asks, why not BP? Why force unappreciated help onto us or try to kiss our butts?

It's wrong to help those who don't ask, and if you do, you're obligated to do it the other person's way, not yours. When I do ANYTHING, the most important thing is WHO does it and HOW it's done. The seeming goal is not the most important point, but me doing it ALONE.

I can give MANY examples where BP have disrespected me first. I want drivers to ignore me and me ONLY go when I'm ready. They can never know that and have no right to assume I even want to go. I just want IGNORED and others NEVER make ANY adjustments for me nor assume that is welcomed. I'm a PROUD loner and want to rely on ONLY MY BRAINS and for ALL non-friends and non-family to butt out.

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#463 May 6, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I've been forced to live around BP my whole adult life, and I'm 41. Do the math. I know what I've seen and felt. Why are they too stupid to act like WP? Even Black immigrants with little exposure to us do that.
NOBODY has the RIGHT to go "out of their way" to treat me like I am stupid, their child, inferior, or need them. I ONLY help retards, kids, inferiors, or those who ASK. If you help someone who doesn't ask, you're calling them INFERIOR and STUPID. Maybe you could tell me a UNIVERSAL HINT to signal in advance to NEVER do anything for me unless I ask. I lack the sick need to socialize all the time or be a slave to a community. I'm accountable to NOBODY but God, and nobody has the right to notice me but my existing social group.
Helping ANY intelligent person who doesn't ASK for it is a form of rape. I'm a STRANGER and it's WRONG to notice STRANGERS nor care what they do. Why was he TOO STUPID to ignore me like most of MY race do? BP are far more likely from MY personal experiences to rape my soul with unwanted help. If I don't ask, I don't want it. It's that easy. About 80% of forced help incidents are by BP. If you're NOT my family, not my chosen friends, and not an authority over me, you have NO RIGHT to try to help me, let alone notice me. You're supposed to tell yourself - "That's *JUST* a stranger, I don't know them, they're not my concern, and they likely know what they're doing."
I became a genius to get respect, rights, and be trusted to be left alone. BP only to help me to either get something from me, control me, show mastery over me, treat me like a child, or flirt. I'd respect them more if realized I don't need them and respected me enough to let me struggle with ALL minor things alone. So many assume we WP are stupid, powerless, and need them. I value freedom more than friends. ALL my self-worth comes from getting to struggle alone.
I've NEVER forced help on others my whole life, and have EARNED that back. I always either ask if they need it or wait until they ask, since it's wrong to help ANYONE unless they both want and NEED it. I only value what I teach myself and discover alone. If I drop something, I expect to be ignored and get to pick it up alone. You don't own me like a child or a slave, so DON"T take care of me like I'm your PROPERTY. If WP can only help their family or friends or anyone who asks, why not BP? Why force unappreciated help onto us or try to kiss our butts?
It's wrong to help those who don't ask, and if you do, you're obligated to do it the other person's way, not yours. When I do ANYTHING, the most important thing is WHO does it and HOW it's done. The seeming goal is not the most important point, but me doing it ALONE.
I can give MANY examples where BP have disrespected me first. I want drivers to ignore me and me ONLY go when I'm ready. They can never know that and have no right to assume I even want to go. I just want IGNORED and others NEVER make ANY adjustments for me nor assume that is welcomed. I'm a PROUD loner and want to rely on ONLY MY BRAINS and for ALL non-friends and non-family to butt out.
Again...you're full of shyt!

First of all...no one is forced to live anywhere...this is America...if AA can go to school,work hard and move on...to other neighborhoods of their choice...why wouldn't you be able to?

And again...whites aren't the models of perfect social skills in action..nor do all whites even have the best of social skills....this is once again just your own personal ignorance at work!

And stop acting like a slow child....you live in a world filled with other people...all sorts of other people...perhaps your parents should have tipped you off about this fact..the world is not comprised of ignorant,hateful and resentful whites like you...yet somehow you seem to think that only people that you want to speak to you...will speak to you...how socially inept are you?

Spotted Girl

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Spotted World

#464 May 6, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Again...you're full of shyt!
First of all...no one is forced to live anywhere...this is America...if AA can go to school,work hard and move on...to other neighborhoods of their choice...why wouldn't you be able to?
And again...whites aren't the models of perfect social skills in action..nor do all whites even have the best of social skills....this is once again just your own personal ignorance at work!
And stop acting like a slow child....you live in a world filled with other people...all sorts of other people...perhaps your parents should have tipped you off about this fact..the world is not comprised of ignorant,hateful and resentful whites like you...yet somehow you seem to think that only people that you want to speak to you...will speak to you...how socially inept are you?
Try to find me a White town with a place in town to rent under $400, where BM and HM actually will refuse to live in or won't sue to force their way into.

What you call "social skills" are a part of the character defects that many BP inflict on others. Such "skills" like being bossy, nosy, or controlling, and being unable to live in an insular group need to be beaten out of kids. Instead, parents need to teach how to be strong enough to act alone and not need others. Acting INDEPENDENTLY and NEVER bossing others around nor noticing strangers are important social skills. So is ASKING before "helping" (interfering with) others. If most WP have the BRAINS to ignore strangers and ONLY interact with those they know or have an actual practical reason to interact with, then BP should too. BP will continue to receive what they pretend is "racism" as long as they refuse to function as individuals, refuse to refrain from "socializing" outside their culture, and refuse to refrain from INTERFERING with the lives of outsiders. WP tend to have the ability of communicating mostly by hints, and being able to read the hints and heed them the first time. The same goes with dating. If a WM approaches a woman and she says no, he takes it at face value and moves on, not act like he is entitled her, and he doesn't badger her nonstop as a form of psychological rape until she reluctantly agrees to shut him up.

Yes, the world is filled with people. That's why you must respect them by interacting ONLY with authority figures, those you already know, and those who are with you. Mature people don't notice strangers. They are mature enough to care ONLY about themselves and those of their preexisting social group. If you go to a store, it should only be to shop, not interact with others. If you want to do that, go to a bar.

I'm not hateful, resentful nor acting like a child at all. If your mother was a good person, you'd be unable to call people names or make accusations. You're just mad that I consider your race equal to Whites and expect the SAME standard of behavior. If WP are smart enough to never care what others do as long as it isn't done to them or their family, so are BP. Since there are twice as many WP here, then WP should do twice as many of the things that offend me. But BP have done all that to me the most (double those to get per capita numbers).

So why do WP respect me enough to ignore me and let me struggle alone and receive pride directly from my accomplishments, but BP are more likely to disrespect me, pretend I need help when I don't, try to act like they own me, etc? I will treat BP as equal, but that requires that they act equal and act quiet and self-absorbed like many of us. If you want racism to end, then stop provoking it by acting different from mainstream society.

Every person is entitled to only have people of their own social group or authority figures to speak to them, and respect varies per person, and everyone is obligated to respect the wishes of each person they approach. And if you refuse to play by the rules, don't play at all.

Spotted Girl

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Spotted World

#465 May 6, 2014
As for the guy in the van, if he had the brains of a WP or a recent Black immigrant, he would have noticed I slowed down and that he had plenty of time to pull out. But he deliberately pretended to need to inconvenience himself, when I acted in such a way as to prevent ALL adjustments on his part. That is what a WP does, they try to act in ways as to affect others as little as possible, and at a traffic intersection, they would pull out as soon as it is safe, not create situations to try to force help on others. We are secure enough and get enough social contact from our existing friends that we are not that starving and needy of more.

If anyone wants to continue this, we can create a couple of threads on this. The help aversion thing has been with me my whole life. If everyone focused only on their family or friends, it would be easier for loners, hermits, and independent, intellectual people, and there would be less crime. A lot of crime is caused by people addicted to socializing too much. A lot of crimes are a result of direct or indirect peer pressure. People take drugs out of peer pressure or to cope with the pain that excessive socializing inevitably causes. People steal to get money to pay for drugs or to have the latest fashions that peer pressure demands. I had a Black neighbor lady like that. Guess where she is for larceny?

Excessive socializing damages the health. A Black friend of my was codependent and let people take advantage of her. It took its toll on her health. But others drink or drug themselves to death. Why? Peer pressure and the excessive need to socialize, and the inability to stand alone.

As for healthy social skills, home schooled kids are proven to have the best social skills. They don't harass strangers, don't bully, tend not to boss others around, don't look for fights, don't beat people up, and don't have fun at the expense of others. They instead can stand strong, be themselves, and say no to the pressures of others.
Floresca

Paris, France

#467 May 6, 2014
To stick to the topic, I'm glad Lupita Nyong'o got elected the most beautiful woman by People Magazine.

I noticed a lot of haters try to diminish and discredit her victory saying there are more beautiful women than her out there.

But there were also way more beautiful women than Gwyneth Paltrow or Jennifer Lopez walking this Earth and people didn't seem to complain as much when they won the title.
People were also more quiet when the white women dipped in watered-down chocolate Beyoncé Knowles and Halle Berry got elected.

It's sad some people are so conditionned by white standards of beauty that they can't see Lupita Nyong'o is beautiful.
And she deserves it even more because she didn't try to be someone she's not or fit a certain standard.

Lupita Nyong'o is a role model as she's also educated and she sends a healthy message to black girls all around the world.
Great choice, People Magazine!

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