this is one of the reasons why I don't agree with the relationships, if you don't get by now that african blacks come in differnt shades, then there no use in relationships like this. The funny part this is the problem, many AA men have picked up in america that lighter is better. many african men from differnt shades step to black african women of differnt shades, so it's not a problem.i doubt they're willing to date one that looks like the stereotype african. those features are looked at as unattractive in African American culture
so if the african girl doesn't look all black then i'm sure the black guy is game.
The interesting thing though is when white european men go to african countries and go out with african black women, they go out with the darkest ones, the same ones that AA men would look at with contempt.
So the question to AA men is do you think black african women don't know this that many AA men prefer lighter is better, as a result many black african women of differnt shades will be appauled by this because almost every african family has different shades. So that can be somebodies african aunt, mother, sister.
This attitude is not in black african men or white european men but in some AA men, and I'm not making this up because I have witnessed many examples of this. So besides culture, AA men should think what are the other reasons why black african women avoid them.