Educated BW are choosing Light Skin B...
rien a foutre

Montpellier, France

#47 Jun 20, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
I don't like Effeminate Energy from Males!
Bye Bye Go Die!
YOUR CHOICES; YOUR LIFESTYLE NOW GROW UP AND OWN IT !
Sadbuttrue you are like your father XD a sons of whor!
rien a foutre

Montpellier, France

#48 Jun 20, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
I don't like Effeminate Energy from Males!
Bye Bye Go Die!
YOUR CHOICES; YOUR LIFESTYLE NOW GROW UP AND OWN IT !
in the street you shut your mouth like a faggo! XD so don't speak effeminate energy sons of whor!

“Perfection is impossible”

Level 5

Since: May 13

But excellence is close enough

#49 Jun 20, 2013
Sadbutstupid wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
You wanted to be a White man so bad but after 40 years of chasing WW Ass and marrying a homely Fat WW; your still angry!
If WW are so much as you stated for Black men why are you alone? Why haven't you achieved anything for all of your hatred and toiling of White women?
Looks like you failed MACEO! lmao Its not good to be Old, Broke, Impotent, Poor heath and single'; most women look at that situation and say its "No good". If you don't have a history with a man prior to all of your misgivings then youll have hard hard time.
As Audrey Chapman said..........Nobody wants a old Broke Black man especially one that only chased WW or IR relationships ; BW are not that forgiving these days!
Oh, hush. You talk WAY to much, lol.

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#50 Jun 20, 2013
EVIDENCE???

I'm still waiting for the maker of this thread to present some evidence, cogent evidence, that educated Black women are choosing light skinned brothers or white guys over darker skinned brothers.
I see no evidence of this as a major or majority tendency among educated sisters.
And as I aaid before, I've had no problem with educated Black women even though I'm a dark skinned brother.
Are there any studies, any evidence whatsoever, that educated sisters are choosing against darker skin Black men?

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#51 Jun 20, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
Educated BW are choosing Light Skin BM or White men! LMAO
Now that's funny, I heard that at the cookout!
Black women are not choosing Dark Skin Black men their BUST! lmao
Don't get the skin color thing but any woman can choose anyone they want.Heard that from my mom back in the 60s.
It's really nothing new.
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#53 Jun 20, 2013
rien a foutre wrote:
<quoted text>
Sadbuttrue you are like your father XD a sons of whor! and like your mother you suck
MACEO

You ruined your life and your 60 years old now!

You wasted your youth chasing ASS and have nothing to show for your time! You didn't even help your family!

Capree tells the truth about black men like you which is why she married a White man and moved on!

YOU MADE YOUR CHOICES NOW OWN THEM!

Sorry, I'm not perfect but I DIDN'T LIVE LIKE YOU!

I try to be honest and I take care of my family !

Something is wrong with you! Maybe you in your childhood maybe your Mother or women in your family did something to you!

YOUR WEIRD RECLUSIVE AND NEED TO SEE A MENTAL HEALTH SPECIALIST YOU HAVE TOO MANY ISSUES WHICH STEMS FROM YOUR CHILDHOOD!

I don't even think its Black women Becuase most black women IGNORE YOU! They know you only love White women and hate on black women it comes out of your ESSENCE!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#54 Jun 20, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh, hush. You talk WAY to much, lol.
MACEO

You ACT like BYTCH YOU HAVE OVER 500 PROFILES AND YOU TALK TO YOUR PROFILES AND YOUR A 60 YEAR OLD MAN!

FOOL!

ANGRY BECAUSE NOBODY WANTS OR RESPECTS YOU! YOU GOT DEMOTED AND NOBODY RESPECTS YOU OR SEES YOU AS A LEADER; YOU LOST EVERYBODY!

WHY?

WHY DON'T FOLKS RESPECT YOU? WHY DID YOU LOSE EVERYBODY? WHY ARE YOU A HYPOCRITE WITH DOUBLE STANDARDS?

BYE BYE GO DIE MACEO!
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#55 Jun 20, 2013
rien a foutre wrote:
Sadbuttrue you are like your father XD a sons of whor!
MACEO

Regardless, Black women are Moving on!

I’m thankful to see that the BWE movement has achieved lasting victory after only a few short years:

The core BWE message that Black women who are serious about marriage must expand their dating options to include nonblack men has firmly entered the mainstream. One can see this with the conversations and publicity surrounding Ralph Richard Banks’ book Is Marriage For White People?
A critical mass of African-American women have heard the BWE message, and have MOVED ON into enjoying abundant life in the global village. They&#146;ve stopped restricting themselves to the dead Black community and vampiric all-Black social circles. They’ve stopped hindering their marriage options by refusing to speak or engage in the “nothing but a Black man” self-sabotage.
As time goes by, the ongoing success of the BWE message is why you’ll continue to see a number of BWE bloggers do various things. Some will continue to have their blogs serve as lighthouses helping other Black women find the path to abundant life. Some will retire from blogging altogether (as I have). Some will start using other types of venues for their discussions. Some others will use their blogs to focus on a wider range of topics (that go beyond issues that primarily affect Black women).

Unlike traditional African-American civil rights organizations that go on forever because their goals are never accomplished, the BWE social justice movement has accomplished its primary goals. BWE was designed to provide solid analysis and concrete solutions to help Black women MOVE ON into joyous living. This has happened. The tools for escape have been provided. As they hear the BWE message, those Black women who sincerely want abundant life have been quietly MOVING ON.

This quiet and growing exodus of sensible African-American women has not gone totally unnoticed. There’s a YouTube video in which a frightened Black man asks the question,“Are Black Women Becoming Like Asian Women?”(in terms of dating and marrying White men). In terms of sensible Black women, the short answer is YES. As this worried Black male has noticed, increasing numbers of quality, desirable Black women are leaving the toxic all-Black dating market and have MOVED ON.

The victory of the BWE social justice movement will prove to be a lasting one because it’s sustained and enhanced by the ripple effects created by every African-American woman who finds joyous life in the outside world.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#56 Jun 21, 2013
MumRa wrote:
Sad. Are you colorstruck?
MACEO

What is color struck? LMAO

Do you mean like you chose only Poor Trashy White women and their your only preference?

While you GLOAT in your younger Black women's faces that look like your Mother and said they don't measure up because their darkskin or overweight? LMAO

Of course I have preference! You don't see me lowering my standards for any Black males! lmao
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#57 Jun 21, 2013
Scott, This is what I see
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Black men Hating Black women

I recently came across a book written by a self-described “touring stand-up comedian, day trader, filmmaker and lecturer” named Rajen Persaud. The book is entitled “Why Black Men Love White Women.” I found the book’s title startling, primarily because it explicitly acknowledged a fact of which many in the black community are acutely aware, but that is rarely openly discussed: that black men love white women

While many black men actively express love, admiration, and desire for white women, that loving white women is an inherent part of black manhood in the West is not something that black men like to openly admit. Their adoration of white women is an uncomfortable fact for many black men to face, since this love seems to play neatly into stereotypes about uncontrollable “animal” lust for white flesh that black people, especially black women, have actively campaigned against Additionally, and perhaps more significantly, black men are deeply uncomfortable with the conundrum presented by loving the daughter, the sister, the very womb that produces their declared enemy. Even Persaud seems incapable of facing the centrality of this latter issue, since, despite his refreshing candor in his book, its gravamen has as much to do with hatred for black women as it does love for white women.; “Black Women are Gold Diggers”; “Sisters Have an Attitude”), facing the significance and practical implications of their love of whiteness is difficult for many black men. Instead, these emotions are channeled into loathing of black women, which is justified by cataloging black women’s myriad “shortcomings.” This allows black men to claim to be proud and self-loving, while simultaneously adoring and esteeming all things white.

Mr. Persaud begins his book with the contention that any exploration of black male love for white women must begin “with the white man.” This is a common-place tactic; it is difficult for black men in the West to begin any discussion or critical analysis of any issue without circling back to white men, especially if the resulting discourse will be less than flattering to black men.

Whether denominated as racio-misogyny or not, the root of black male hatred of black women is the conceptualization of women as objects. Objects have relative value, and in the hierarchy

When black men look at black women and children, they see the shame of emasculation, of inadequacy, of the inability to protect and provide. And rather than being enraged and inspired by this experience of being unmanned to fight for their dependents, black men seek to escape them, and the pain of feeling like less than men. rather than confronting white men they hate; black males take their abuses and rage out on their women and children allowing them to go without.

White women, on the other hand, have the highest value as objects. They feel like they accomplish so much marrying a white woman while they put black women down. To men who feel like nothing, a white or white-skinned woman is a tangible accomplishment. It immediately frees them from the burden of blackness. In the words; “By loving me she [his white woman] proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man. I marry the culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.” White women are the prize, and black men are eagerly claiming that prize after the exhausting struggles for manumission and Civil Rights. They may not have gained real access to equal work, equal pay, equal wealth or equal opportunity; but black men have gained access to the bodies of white women. In the face of so many losses, possessing a white or non-black woman feels like a sufficient win for many black men

Well black boys and young black men pay the greatest price for the neglect and escapism of their fathers.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#59 Jun 21, 2013
rien a foutre wrote:
<quoted text>
Sadbuttrue you are like your father XD a sons of whor! and like your mother you suck
Maceo

The truth hurts! LMAO
Sadbuttrue is a maniac

Alexandria, VA

#60 Jun 24, 2013
SBT make sure you take your meds babe
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#61 Jun 24, 2013
blog

BLACK WOMEN LOOK OUT OF THESE THINGS AND KEEP MOVING!

Bw--Beware of what I fear to be the next wave of okey-dokes, which will appear to be innocent, even repenitent on the surface, but will actually simply be a devious attempt to get your attention, make you pause, and if they're lucky, you will stop moving on completely. LOL!

These okey-dokes will not be as obvious because you're being studied. If you read or hear anything that makes you, as an AA-bw, think that just maybe you need to be patient a while longer before you make a move to get away from the diseased black construct or just maybe certain portions of the black contruct are trying to atone, that IS an okey-doke. Don't pause, don't argue, don't discuss, don't debate, and do NOT blab your plans. Just move on!

BLACK MEN ARE NOT CHANGING ANYTHING THEY WANT TO YOU ACCEPT NO RECEPROCITY AND CRUMBS WHILE THEY CHASE OTHER RACES AND DO FOR THEM!

KEEP MOVING BLACK WOMEN AND DON'T LISTEN TO NAYSAYERS! BLACK MEN WOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING BY NOW!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#62 Jun 24, 2013
Sadbuttrue is a maniac wrote:
SBT make sure you take your meds babe
Maceo

Your dying!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#63 Jun 24, 2013
Scott, This is what I see
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Black men Hating Black women

I recently came across a book written by a self-described “touring stand-up comedian, day trader, filmmaker and lecturer” named Rajen Persaud. The book is entitled “Why Black Men Love White Women.” I found the book’s title startling, primarily because it explicitly acknowledged a fact of which many in the black community are acutely aware, but that is rarely openly discussed: that black men love white women

While many black men actively express love, admiration, and desire for white women, that loving white women is an inherent part of black manhood in the West is not something that black men like to openly admit. Their adoration of white women is an uncomfortable fact for many black men to face, since this love seems to play neatly into stereotypes about uncontrollable “animal” lust for white flesh that black people, especially black women, have actively campaigned against Additionally, and perhaps more significantly, black men are deeply uncomfortable with the conundrum presented by loving the daughter, the sister, the very womb that produces their declared enemy. Even Persaud seems incapable of facing the centrality of this latter issue, since, despite his refreshing candor in his book, its gravamen has as much to do with hatred for black women as it does love for white women.; “Black Women are Gold Diggers”; “Sisters Have an Attitude”), facing the significance and practical implications of their love of whiteness is difficult for many black men. Instead, these emotions are channeled into loathing of black women, which is justified by cataloging black women’s myriad “shortcomings.” This allows black men to claim to be proud and self-loving, while simultaneously adoring and esteeming all things white.

Mr. Persaud begins his book with the contention that any exploration of black male love for white women must begin “with the white man.” This is a common-place tactic; it is difficult for black men in the West to begin any discussion or critical analysis of any issue without circling back to white men, especially if the resulting discourse will be less than flattering to black men.

Whether denominated as racio-misogyny or not, the root of black male hatred of black women is the conceptualization of women as objects. Objects have relative value, and in the hierarchy

When black men look at black women and children, they see the shame of emasculation, of inadequacy, of the inability to protect and provide. And rather than being enraged and inspired by this experience of being unmanned to fight for their dependents, black men seek to escape them, and the pain of feeling like less than men. rather than confronting white men they hate; black males take their abuses and rage out on their women and children allowing them to go without.

White women, on the other hand, have the highest value as objects. They feel like they accomplish so much marrying a white woman while they put black women down. To men who feel like nothing, a white or white-skinned woman is a tangible accomplishment. It immediately frees them from the burden of blackness. In the words; “By loving me she [his white woman] proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man. I marry the culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.” White women are the prize, and black men are eagerly claiming that prize after the exhausting struggles for manumission and Civil Rights. They may not have gained real access to equal work, equal pay, equal wealth or equal opportunity; but black men have gained access to the bodies of white women. In the face of so many losses, possessing a white or non-black woman feels like a sufficient win for many black men

Well black boys and young black men pay the greatest price for the neglect and escapism of their fathers.
Sadbutrue

Woodbridge, VA

#64 Jun 24, 2013
Sadbuttrue is a maniac wrote:
SBT make sure you take your meds babe
MACEO

Bye Bye Go DIE
Sunflower

Baltimore, MD

#65 Jul 11, 2013
Wow, sad, you are sad. Guess what? I am a biracial female (puerto rican and black) and yes, currently my lover is white. But you have some serious growing up to do. I love men, of all races and backgrounds though majority have been white because I find the contrast sexually exciting and I find them more attractive generally, yes. That is sheer choice, a white man can treat you bad, so can a black, a syrian, japanese... color is irrelevant in every aspect of life. Don't you DARE talk down about black men. What makes you so superior? I bet, you have self esteem issues, it takes a REAL woman to see that any type of person can act any type of way and can be attractive in their own light. You are a disgrace to us, you make women look bad. But hey, more good men for us educated and respectful ladies. What a trashy post, I honestly can't even take you seriously lmao. And THAT'S and educated biracial black woman's word.
Sunflower

Baltimore, MD

#66 Jul 11, 2013
Also, that whole long post you are using to elaborate and prove a point (black men feeling inadequate to provide, white woman valued, yada yada) over here sugar I have a white and puerto rican girlfriend with which I spend quality girl time with and we are laughing at your ridiculous points. We are respectful, nuturing, please our men, educate ourselves so we know what is best for them. You are just making up things to justify a racist statement. If you are a good woman, a good man will find you. Color is like the color of shirt you where. This post should have been titled "BW choose to date only men wearing red shirts... In other news, I am delirious and have no grasp on social interaction."
happy

Brooklyn, NY

#67 Jul 11, 2013
Don't believe the hype.

“Take the kinks out ya mind”

Level 4

Since: Jul 13

and not your hair

#68 Jul 12, 2013
The OP is delusional most successful BW are with successful BM, now there are the exceptions, but race doesn't have much to do with it, success, personality, attraction, chemistry, and eventually love usually has something to do with it, most people who are in successful IR said they were never looking to get with the person based on race or never thought they would be with someone outside of their race. Smh it's sad how we are tearing each other apart based on petty accusations

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