I'm single because I'm a black woman.
So To Know

Marrero, LA

#22 Feb 6, 2011
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>
I guess you wrote the post! I don't know why your alwyas posing as a Black female or Mixed race when your 54 years old an look like clarence Thomas!
SMH.........Black men are losers!
too many BM like you out there!
Now go chase those lowly Fat Poor Country WW that you like!


Black men are not losers, that is such a general and jaded comment to make.
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#23 Feb 6, 2011
drugsaredumb-MACEO wrote:
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awwww my friend, don't think about men think about school first.
btw i give you credit on not having sex with those losers,because that is all they wanted from you that is why they lefted.
lol also you are young you will not be single for the rest of your life
MACEO A BLOG

. Due to my natural inclinations, I have broadened myself by traveling, reading, continuously developing interests in a wide variety of areas, pursued hobbies, etc. I can talk and engage in conversation or light-hearted chitchat for hours about a wide variety of topics. Therefore, I knew that a man of his intellect and caliber would consider me a stimulating, appealing partner. In other words, I EXERTED myself directly and indirectly to be the type of woman that the type of man I want would want. When I caught his interest, I carefully vetted him, and most importantly in his case--since he's white, I disregarded what ALL the naysayers said, and the rest is history.

It's not by accident that AA women are not married to a QLL man or not married to a reasonably functional MAN, that is if they want to get married and they're past a certain age. Various factors have conspired to neuter them as a woman in the romantic sense and as a marriage prospect for a variety of QLL men in the global village. The chances are great that these women themselves are the KEY factor in their neutering. They cooperated with their poisoners. They've been programmed to self-sabotage and self-destruct as romance-receiving women, and they voluntarily execute the program.

BW, you MUST exert yourself to get out of that romantically-neutered position because many in the so-called black "community" have a vested interest in you remaining right where you are. Don't be conned again! They know they can't use any of your resources easily if you leave or if you're at a distance from them, so they're going to try all kinds of maneuvers to keep you in place.

As an AA woman, I was placed there once too, in that romantically neutered category, but I knew I was there, and at a young age. That awareness, and at a young age, gave me critical advantages. I looked around me and saw AA women who were just like me settling for men who would not uplift those women, would not bring romance to the lives of these women, who would treat these women like reliable mules until those women were disfigured as women, and I knew that if I didn't exert myself to get away from that, I would suffer the same fate.

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON BLACK MALES YOU WON'T GET MARRIED BLACK WOMEN. BLACK MEN WILL MARRY ANY RACE AND UPLIFT THEM BUT THEY DISRESPECT AND DISENGAGE BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE A SIMPLY A "MULE TO BE USED" !
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#24 Feb 6, 2011
So To Know wrote:
<quoted text>
Black men are not losers, that is such a general and jaded comment to make.
maceo

I guess you wrote the post!

I don't know why your alwyas posing as a Black female or Mixed race when your 54 years old an look like clarence Thomas!

SMH.........Black men are losers!

too many BM like you out there!

Now go chase those lowly Fat Poor Country WW that you like!
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#25 Feb 6, 2011
MACEO wrote:

I'm looking for a real solution... I'm an old black man, think, poor health, not in great shape! I'm average or below (maybe a 4-5 out of 10), Bald, Dents in my head, beady eyes, Quiet but Sneaky, I loe to instigage trouble. I have no kids because my sperm count is low, I'm insecure, defensive and spent 30 of my years chasing White females. I was also married to a WW for 19 years. My white wife left me because I was unhappy because I married for the wrong reasons and we outgrew each other. I also ran after WW while I was married but very unsuccessful. I have little education HS degree and I love bashing bW on forums in my spare time. I also intersted in a WW who will worship me and allow me to control her. I'm the man and she doesnt have a voice in the relationship because women are "less than" especially Black women who make more than I do and are more successful! LMAO
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Why am I still single? LMAO

I've tried meeting lowly WW at Work, in bookstores, college campuses, coffee shops, churches, malls, dating sites, whereever. I've lived in several states in locations that aren't bad at all, so that has nothing to do with it but I still.

I don't care about a women's educational level or career, so long as she's White and fat, I can supporting myself. Whether she has a three story house or a one bedroom apartment doesn't matter to me as long as she's big Fat White and country and doesnt talk about me being broke, habitual liar, deceitful and runs to adultery
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Race is an issue.
Height is not an issue.

Looks... minimal. As long as she is clean and well groomed and doesnt ask for anything then she is fine.

I do NOT date or talk to "Attractive educated BW" there too snobdy an have more than I do! I listen to 70's musics and rarely go out due to my budget and debt from getting a recent divorce!

I'm not very smart or well versed... Why can't I find a Average WW or BW who will take me as is? I'm very seriously can someone help me?

My suggestion to you MACEO is go find another Lowly White woman! LMAO

GorillaBlack

“I collect Dimes! ”

Level 1

Since: May 09

Location hidden

#27 Apr 14, 2011
Pink_Star wrote:
There's always online dating like OKCupid. The only men I've dated were the ones I meet in school.
do you have to go online just to find a man?
Jenna sensing bs

Toronto, Canada

#28 Apr 14, 2011
um... are u dating outside ur race or are u waiting for an ideal black man?! most of them are in jail, dating out, etc. We already outnumbered them even if they werent. If ur cute like u say and got everything else, then u wont be single just b/c ur black. there are so many men out there, look harder!

Level 2

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#29 Apr 16, 2011
Jenna sensing bs wrote:
um... are u dating outside ur race or are u waiting for an ideal black man?! most of them are in jail, dating out, etc. We already outnumbered them even if they werent. If ur cute like u say and got everything else, then u wont be single just b/c ur black. there are so many men out there, look harder!
yeah and those men have their own race of women that they date so just because you want them don't mean ish...

“There's a hollow sound”

Level 3

Since: Jul 10

where your heart use to be

#30 Apr 16, 2011
Attention wrote:
I'm looking for a real solution... I'm a young black woman, I'm in good shape, I'm cute (maybe a 7 out of 10), natural hair, I have a nice attitude, no kids, I have my life together, etc. etc....
Why am I still single?
I've tried meeting guys in bookstores, college campuses, coffee shops, churches, malls, dating sites, whereever. I've lived in several states in locations that aren't bad at all, so that has nothing to do with it.
I don't care about a man's educational level or career, so long as he can and is supporting himself. Whether he has a three story house or a one bedroom apartment doesn't matter to me.
Race is not an issue.
Height is not an issue.
Looks... minimal. As long as he is clean and well groomed then he is fine.
I do NOT date or talk to "thugs" or guys who curse and listen to a lot of hip hop.
I'm smart and well versed... Why can't I find a guy who takes me seriously?
The guys I go out with all stop seeing me usually after the 3rd or 4th date because I don't have sex with them.
I've tried to pick better men, but it seems as if all of them are taken or not interested.
I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life...
I know that a lot of good black women are in my position as well.
What is the solution?
By the way, I'm not a religious person (I attend church with a coworker sometimes, though) so please don't suggest prayer... Thanks.
The one thing I'm try to keep consistent on this forum is honesty and being real with myself and everyone else, and I hope that some of my honesty and confessions will not earn me harsh comments...

But, I find myself thinking/feeling that way a lot too. I have finally decided to find happiness within myself first and let God take care of the rest. God works on his time, and he will bring people/things (good and bad) into our lives when HE is ready.

I'm sure he will do the same for you, when you least expect it.

Since: Dec 10

Location hidden

#31 Apr 16, 2011
Louisianaemperor3 wrote:
<quoted text> No. just scratch black men off. And it has nothing to do with her comparing us to other groups of men. Why do women come up with some of the dumbest excuses to explain why men feel the way we feel. I don't want a woman that is open to dating other races of men especially white men because it's NASTY to me. She has no standards and will engage any man as long as he has a swinging dick and not a felon. What kind of shyt is that??? I don't want a woman that is open like that. Most men of all races are territorial. Sorry if you as a woman can't understand that but don't attempt to rationalize why we as men (MAJORITY) are the way we are. It has nothing to do with her comparing and making a better choice. I would encourage her to not date any black man once she dates out so there won't be any comparing to be done. And she doesn't have to scratch other men off her list because she is only violating black men. When white women date out she is disrespecting white men, Asian women who date out disrespect Asian men. Do you understand what I am saying. She can only disrespect the race of men in which she is a part of especially when 90% of those men date women of their own race. Men are enemies with other races of men so when a woman disregard such realities than she is disrespectful to her race of men. That's all races of women.
As a white man I completely agree with this. Any man who thinks differently has no self-respect.

White women who are with non-white men can't return to the white man, especially if she has biracial kids. Do these women think we are fools? The only white man they can get, are men without self-respect. It's that simple.

The only sad thing is that most men are hypocrites nowadays. They condemn women for looking out of their race, but they don't want to talk about their fellow men. White men and woman who betray their own people should both be treated the same.

The same goes for black men and women who betray their people or any other race of people that does this heinous act.

People who find me an ''evil racist'' or something like that, have no understanding of nature.

GENERAL AL-ASAD

“SLUMMIN IT..”

Level 1

Since: Mar 11

Bhopal India

#32 Apr 16, 2011
No, you and louisiana emperor are just racists, you are what you are . Personally, ALL beautiful women are appealing to me . Maybe you can get a law passed making interracial dating and marraige illegal if it is truly what you believe, but we do live in a free country so until then....
Walls of Jericho wrote:
<quoted text>
As a white man I completely agree with this. Any man who thinks differently has no self-respect.
White women who are with non-white men can't return to the white man, especially if she has biracial kids. Do these women think we are fools? The only white man they can get, are men without self-respect. It's that simple.
The only sad thing is that most men are hypocrites nowadays. They condemn women for looking out of their race, but they don't want to talk about their fellow men. White men and woman who betray their own people should both be treated the same.
The same goes for black men and women who betray their people or any other race of people that does this heinous act.
People who find me an ''evil racist'' or something like that, have no understanding of nature.

Since: Dec 10

Location hidden

#33 Apr 16, 2011
GENERAL AL-ASAD wrote:
No, you and louisiana emperor are just racists, you are what you are .
You're so predictable. I already knew someone would call me a racist. Is that the only thing you can say? Don't you find that boring?

Try to understand my message first before you go off like a rocket. People that deny nature are the real racists.
GENERAL AL-ASAD wrote:
Personally, ALL beautiful women are appealing to me . Maybe you can get a law passed making interracial dating and marraige illegal if it is truly what you believe, but we do live in a free country so until then....<quoted text>
Free country? The USA is not a free country. It's all an illusion.

GENERAL AL-ASAD

“SLUMMIN IT..”

Level 1

Since: Mar 11

Bhopal India

#34 Apr 16, 2011
A cat is a cat, and a racist is a racist; no need for new words. What you call nature I call racist. My nature is that I find All colors of women attractive. I find women from the darkest black to the palest white to be attractive. I do have personal preferances. What I look for most is physical attraction, is she smart, good humored, caring, considerate of others, healthy, take care of herself..but I exclude no women on color alone. The nature you speak of is YOUR nature. You don't speak for 6 billion other people. The world is diverse and interconnected, time for you to get a program upgrade.
Walls of Jericho wrote:
<quoted text>
You're so predictable. I already knew someone would call me a racist. Is that the only thing you can say? Don't you find that boring?
Try to understand my message first before you go off like a rocket. People that deny nature are the real racists.
<quoted text>
Free country? The USA is not a free country. It's all an illusion.
brad

Warrensburg, MO

#35 Jul 3, 2011
You sound interesting to me... I would date you. But then again I like well versed black women.
SWM
ron

Columbia, SC

#36 Jul 3, 2011
GENERAL AL-ASAD wrote:
A cat is a cat, and a racist is a racist; no need for new words. What you call nature I call racist. My nature is that I find All colors of women attractive. I find women from the darkest black to the palest white to be attractive. I do have personal preferances. What I look for most is physical attraction, is she smart, good humored, caring, considerate of others, healthy, take care of herself..but I exclude no women on color alone. The nature you speak of is YOUR nature. You don't speak for 6 billion other people. The world is diverse and interconnected, time for you to get a program upgrade. <quoted text>
go crying in your bowl of stfu. because it not all about "we are the world",boy.

blacksexyman82

“Msyree is my Online wife”

Level 5

Since: Jun 11

Location hidden

#39 Jul 3, 2011
Attention wrote:
I'm looking for a real solution... I'm a young black woman, I'm in good shape, I'm cute (maybe a 7 out of 10), natural hair, I have a nice attitude, no kids, I have my life together, etc. etc....
Why am I still single?
I've tried meeting guys in bookstores, college campuses, coffee shops, churches, malls, dating sites, whereever. I've lived in several states in locations that aren't bad at all, so that has nothing to do with it.
I don't care about a man's educational level or career, so long as he can and is supporting himself. Whether he has a three story house or a one bedroom apartment doesn't matter to me.
Race is not an issue.

Height is not an issue.
Looks... minimal. As long as he is clean and well groomed then he is fine.
I do NOT date or talk to "thugs" or guys who curse and listen to a lot of hip hop.
I'm smart and well versed... Why can't I find a guy who takes me seriously?
The guys I go out with all stop seeing me usually after the 3rd or 4th date because I don't have sex with them.
I've tried to pick better men, but it seems as if all of them are taken or not interested.
I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life...
I know that a lot of good black women are in my position as well.
What is the solution?
By the way, I'm not a religious person (I attend church with a coworker sometimes, though) so please don't suggest prayer... Thanks.
7 out of 10 stop lying, your more like 4 out of 10 right ?
Mike

AOL

#40 Feb 1, 2013
I wish i can post on here but i dont know how to,i hope this will work,well i am 6ft2 with a athletic build , mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening,and mostly God Fearing, and a positive person.I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I have passion for soccer ,I like going to the movies , or watchinnd g movies in my room , I like swimming ,listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling , going bowling and also a good cook.I am a family oriented person,I just need some one real,some one free from playing games, A good woman, A good mother, A good wife,Some one loving caring,understanding easy going and fun loving type who is ready to settle down and start a family with me,I'm 41 years old single with no kids if you are interested write me on [email protected]
Games

Atlanta, GA

#41 Feb 1, 2013
Attention-how old are you? when you stop looking, that when it will happen. cant try too hard cuz then you look hungry. i want to know what you look like and if you a 7 out of 10 u may have to settle a bit. i dont think no one is really perfect. have to take the good with the bad. if you do find that perfct person you are truly blessed....im looking for her.
Games

Atlanta, GA

#42 Feb 1, 2013
n u not single cuz u black. u single because you havnt found the right one.
Games

Atlanta, GA

#43 Feb 1, 2013
p.s. this day in age females be f#uckin. i mean on first dates and no dates at all. so for you to wait more then 3 dates is kinda telling the dude you not interested sexually. im sorry but its true. women especially the young ones are kicking it out if they like you. ive never had to wait more then 2 dates ever.
Layiane

UK

#44 Feb 1, 2013
OP i am sure you've heard it so many times, but when you stop focusing on getting a man, it will come, life is funny like that.
Stay true to your morals and give you the best,
Sure you'll come across a few Dogs, just keep it moving.
PLS. Stay well clear of the trying to act brand new church brothas, as they can be some of the biggest hypocrite's walking.
There certaintly are BM out there who have beliefs just like yours who refuse to settle just because they reached a certain age. Take it from me, i have one.
Wishing you happiness and peace

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