Swinging/Swingers, IS THIS IMMORAL?

Swinging/Swingers, IS THIS IMMORAL?

Created by 216 Elite on Feb 9, 2008

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216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#1 Feb 9, 2008
You know i have always heard of this activity by couples, and mostly married couples, and i just find it Horrendous in my opinion! I could never DO or ALLOW my woman and I to participate in such vile and UNGODLY ACTS!! I look at it as SELF-JUSTIFIED ADULTERY!!Where people believe just because their MARRIED, can get away with this and not have any repercussions. I think from stories i've heard and a little research, that these people don't believe their breaking their MARRIAGE VOWS right there in front of THEMSELVES AS THEY COMMIT THESE WIFE AND HUSBAND SWAPS! Here are some of the activities that involves Swingers/Swinging, LOL!! Now you tell me if this ain't SELF-JUSTIFIABLE ADULTERY, TOTALLY UNGODLY IN MY OPINION!! I'M not sharing my woman with my best friend, and i don't want to have sex with another woman in front of my woman, Nor do I want to watch her do this, HOW CAN PEOPLE STILL KEEP THEIR MARRIAGES/DATING AFTER THIS CRAP!! LOL! ACTIVITIES BELOW!
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Swinging activities may include (but are not limited to):

Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.

Voyeurism: watching others have sex (perhaps with the above mentioned partner).

Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners.

Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type.

Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. On these occasions, swingers will often refer to sex as play.
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#2 Feb 9, 2008
Here's a typical marriage vow! LOL!! Now after reading this, you tell me SWINGING(swapping of marriage partners) is not going against what you vowed to husband/wife!

Do you (name) take (name) to be your lawful wedded wife/husband?(each responds, "I do.") Will you (((((love, respect and honor her/him throughout your years together?))))(each responds, "I will.")

LOL! Notice "love,respect and honor her/him throughout your years"! TOTAL MOCKERY OF GOD'S LAW ON MARRIAGE!! pfft.....

Black And Proud Forever!
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#3 Feb 9, 2008
Well here's some history of this mess which i attach to why there are so many divorces in this country!!LOL!!
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While contemporary swingers look to earlier practices, such as ancient Roman acceptance of orgies and alternative sexual practices[citation needed], the actual practice of swinging in the 20th century began differently.
According to Terry Gould's The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers [2], swinging began among United States Air Force pilots and their wives during World War II. In this small community, the mortality rate among pilots was significantly high. Gould reports that a close bond between pilots arose, with the implication that the husbands would protect and care for all the wives as their own, both emotionally and sexually, if the husbands were away or lost (thus bearing some similarity to levirate marriage).
This historical narrative is debatable, however, since it would have been highly unusual for military wives to accompany their husbands on foreign tours of duty. Other sources point to U.S. Air Force pilots stationed in the California desert as the original participants in modern swinging. Though the exact beginnings are not agreed upon, it is widely assumed that swinging began amongst American military communities in the 1950s.
By the time the Korean War ended, the practice of swinging had spread from the military bases to the nearby suburbs. The media promptly dubbed the phenomenon wife-swapping.
The first swingers' organization, the Sexual Freedom League, began in the 1960s in Berkeley, California, in the sexually liberal San Francisco Bay Area((((NO SURPRISE WITH HOW BTG ACTS ON HERE!! LOL!!!))). Ultimately, an umbrella organization called the North American Swing Club Association (NASCA)[3](now NASCA International) was formed to encourage the dissemination of accurate information about swinging lifestyles across North America.
In the United Kingdom there was a proliferation of neighbourhood swingers groups in the early 1970s (at that time these were generally known as "wife swapping" groups). In various press articles written in later years it appears that the peak of this activity was 1973-75.
[edit] Research
Some subjective scientific research into swinging has been conducted in the United States since the late 1960s. One study, based on an Internet questionnaire addressed to visitors of lifestyle-related sites, found swingers are happier in their relationships as compared to the norm.[1]
60% of swingers said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become even happier.
90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them.
Almost 70% of swingers claimed to have no problem with controlling jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true.
Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins.
There was no significant difference between the responses of men and women, although more males (70%) than females completed the survey.

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#4 Feb 9, 2008
awww Elite.. you are such a great man... I really would marry you...

i believe swingers are very ungodly... and sick... why get married if you are going to share your body...

my body is for my future husband only
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#5 Feb 9, 2008
lovelylady2 wrote:
awww Elite.. you are such a great man... I really would marry you...
i believe swingers are very ungodly... and sick... why get married if you are going to share your body...
my body is for my future husband only
GOOD POST!!It Is Very ungodly, they're breaking the BONDS of marriage that GOD set as LAW, and surprisingly enough, swinging is on an increase, as more mofo's try this mess, I MEAN THEY MIGHT AS WELL TAKE THEIR RINGS OFF WHEN THEY'RE DOING THIS, LMAO!!!
P.S Hey lovelylady you're absolutely a wonderful black sista, stay strong, THE DAY WILL COME!!

Black And Proud Forever!!

“changing times”

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#6 Feb 9, 2008
216 Elite,u are a good guy

I think it is a sick thing to do.I will never do that or let my men do it.You cant share your body with everyone like that.I realy dont know why ppl do that
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#7 Feb 9, 2008
i change wrote:
216 Elite,u are a good guy
I think it is a sick thing to do.I will never do that or let my men do it.You cant share your body with everyone like that.I realy dont know why ppl do that
Thanks a lot for the sweet words, sis! And your stance shows that you are truly a woman of god!! Way To Go!!

Black And Proud Forever!!

“can't we talk about it....”

Since: Jan 08

chicago

#8 Feb 9, 2008
right again dude! Swingin is adultry...you're committing adultry rather i say you can ph88k somebody else or not
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#9 Feb 10, 2008
bump

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Since: Aug 07

ESSEX

#10 Feb 10, 2008
i think swingers are cool lol... wouldnt mind being one myself... only with pp; i know though lol
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#12 Feb 10, 2008
"Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of suffering." 1 Peter 5:8-9.

Black And Proud Forever!
216 Elite

Northfield, OH

#13 Feb 24, 2008
bump

Black And Proud Forever

Since: Feb 08

Plymouth, UK

#14 Feb 24, 2008
I don't agree with it...to say I would NEVER do it mmm *never say never*...

Marriage gets boring after a while so I guess the next best thing to cheating is to have consent from your partner to your freak on with someone else...lol...this world is crrrrazy, I do not think there is anything us humans haven't done or at least thought of doing...

Each to their own, as long as they are not trying to spring it on me...GOOD LUCK!

Since: Nov 07

Urban Decay

#15 Feb 24, 2008
I saw this episode of CSI Vegas, about swingers, they had some rules to guide them so that nothing goes wrong.

-The kids must not know
-All couples come and leave together when they come for the orgy
-No sex outside the orgy with other people's partners.

Anyways, unfortunately for people who feel they can live this life without rules, nature always works things so that it all turns round to bite them in the a$$.

AT the end of the day:
-The kids found out
-Daddy and mummy got emotionally caught up and disagreed so they left seperately from the orgy.
-Out of rage and jealously someone committed murder because someone slept with some other person outside the orgy.

Go figure!

“I'm just one vote.”

Since: Sep 07

Washington, D.C.

#16 Feb 24, 2008
Another excuse to spread disease.

Since: Feb 08

Plymouth, UK

#17 Feb 24, 2008
Flycity wrote:
I saw this episode of CSI Vegas, about swingers, they had some rules to guide them so that nothing goes wrong.
-The kids must not know
-All couples come and leave together when they come for the orgy
-No sex outside the orgy with other people's partners.
Anyways, unfortunately for people who feel they can live this life without rules, nature always works things so that it all turns round to bite them in the a$$.
AT the end of the day:
-The kids found out
-Daddy and mummy got emotionally caught up and disagreed so they left seperately from the orgy.
-Out of rage and jealously someone committed murder because someone slept with some other person outside the orgy.
Go figure!
Well when the laws of nature has already been broken, there is no laws you can make up to bring it back to balance...

Since: Jan 08

Norwich, UK

#18 Feb 24, 2008
swinging is dirty in every essence of the word

“Ase Ase Ase”

Since: Jan 08

Port Arthur, TX

#19 Feb 24, 2008
I think it is up to the married couple to decide.
silence of the lambs

Englewood, CO

#20 Feb 24, 2008
Sad people scared to say whether it's wrong,or not. Immoral or not.

Man America has got us where we scared to speak the truth trying to get alone,and let people live,and be "allegedly free".

It's wrong,and immoral.
silence of the lambs

Englewood, CO

#21 Feb 24, 2008
Nubian_x wrote:
swinging is dirty in every essence of the word
what about homosexuality?

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