IR Conference for AAW to IR Date in A...
bluest

Columbus, OH

#170 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>interesting..you think the majority of black men with means are actually with biracial BW....what do the stats claim?
<quoted text>I don't think it's so much about a man or any man..it's more so the type..and certain types of men are more than likely to be found in social settings..same with women..men hanging out at bars on the weekend to meet women and then complain about women..not saying a good woman cannot be found in a bar..but a lot of times we assume everyone hangs out at the same places..Smart women don't really leave everything up to chances..like you're just going to bump into a millionaire at Walmart..it can happen, but the odds are stacked against you..A woman got to socialize on the weekend right...so picking your setting is the key..
keep in mind until recently lots of biracial women were told to pass as black. So the current stats aren't an accurate reflection of what's going on...I believe. And don't get me wrong...I don't think it matters. I just want it to know for fairness sake that this isn't about race in that way. I say search for happiness if anything.

..In regard to your second part...ummmm....I don't know. I think smart women live their life and find out what interests them and thus they create a natural environment where they are more likely to find someone whose sharing a least one or two things interests with them. Males are constantly looking anyway so I will never get why women have a fear of not being found. Usually as a woman you know what to work on personally by the type of males who approach anyway (well at least I do)..when I'm fat I stay off the scene because the type of males who approach are not my forte. However ive never been one to create a fake environment for the sole purpose of meeting someone. I just don't know why women do that.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#171 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
There isn't one or the other..I always make sure my millionaires have a heart of gold too..how else will I be sure I have free access to his wealth?:P
LOL! Just understand that if a man gives you "free access to his wealth", he'll likely expect to receive "free access" to YOU!

; ^ D
bluest

Columbus, OH

#172 Sep 24, 2012
MumRa wrote:
<quoted text>
I think you are projecting. Obviously White men told BW to bash Black women and you guys proudly do it.
Some BM on Youtube look like fools pretty much making up stories to bash Black women. Some are just rebutting the bashing they received from some wm azz kissing Black woman. It is what it is. Nobody really wins.
Basically every man complains about the behavior of "his" woman. It's just that the media loves to shine the light on Black people. I could give you links of Websites of Asian men calling IRAW every name under the sun for dating White men.
Well on that you have a point. I hate to give away points.:) lol.

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#173 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>The amount of WM/BW doesn't matter to the argument you're making though..you claimed most IRBW don't care what type of WM they get..but most WM/BW have met on the job or during some type of schooling..if I'm not mistaken..it's not like they are picking white homeless men off the street..and I'm not familiar with any stat that shows WM with BW make considerably lower amount of money
And I don't see any stat that says that these rare pairings are some how wealthier than the average americans. And I already said that BW are probably looking WM with money and most men who buy foreign wives have money so why would a BW exclude them.
bluest

Columbus, OH

#174 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>??????????
:/
I don't argue with that anymore. People always like to assume things and then expect you to argue there assumptions. Nothing in my post warranted that type of reply. Some people focus too much on the messenger anyway and completely miss the message.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#175 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>The amount of WM/BW doesn't matter to the argument you're making though..you claimed most IRBW don't care what type of WM they get..but most WM/BW have met on the job or during some type of schooling..if I'm not mistaken..it's not like they are picking white homeless men off the street..and I'm not familiar with any stat that shows WM with BW make considerably lower amount of money
I read a study that Black women usually marry down when marrying out. I know that IR promoters keep telling Black women to date their co-workers and classmates. Basically shytting where they eat. Which 99% of women say is a horrible idea.

But in reality. The majority of IR couples aren't these super educated men and women. They are usually just two regular or poor men and women mixing together.
Desperate Sista

Newmarket, Canada

#176 Sep 24, 2012
OMG

OMG

OMG!!!!!!

I need to come down there. We as Sistas have to get our value up and get WM to actually want us. I do everything I can to attract WM. I have made my hair straight, went to the gym to become Slim, I flirt with WM, but damn I can't seem to get them to want me. Sure a few usually want sex, but why can't I get one to take me home or marry me?

I even tried hooking up with the Geek type of WM thinking even maybe they will want a woman, but nope.

With is a sista to do??? This is a great way to exchange tips on how to get WM to marry us. I'm so happy and I'm flying in!!

By the way, does anyone know if this conference will have WM sitting and watching? We should trick some WM to come so then we can get their numbers.

OMG I'm soooooo happy!!!

Yay!!!

YAY!!!!

“Creole Coated!”

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#177 Sep 24, 2012
bluest wrote:
<quoted text> keep in mind until recently lots of biracial women were told to pass as black. So the current stats aren't an accurate reflection of what's going on...I believe. And don't get me wrong...I don't think it matters. I just want it to know for fairness sake that this isn't about race in that way. I say search for happiness if anything.
..In regard to your second part...ummmm....I don't know. I think smart women live their life and find out what interests them and thus they create a natural environment where they are more likely to find someone whose sharing a least one or two things interests with them. Males are constantly looking anyway so I will never get why women have a fear of not being found. Usually as a woman you know what to work on personally by the type of males who approach anyway (well at least I do)..when I'm fat I stay off the scene because the type of males who approach are not my forte. However ive never been one to create a fake environment for the sole purpose of meeting someone. I just don't know why women do that.
ha..I can agree with this..though I think where you socialize does open you up to certain options..for example an IRWW into BM isn't going to hang around "White clubs" on the weekend and expect to meet a wide range of black men..hence why "IRWW" who have a strong lust/attraction for BM will find themselves where many BM hang out...it's no different for a BW who want a certain type of BM..though men stay on the prowl..women have to make themselves available..to me..that includes choices in social settings..how can you place yourself among Whites most of the time and then claim you cannot find a good black partner or another BP on your level..when you don't make it somewhat of a priority to be among the type of Black people you want..they have too many "uppity" Black clubs/networks/cruises/etc..yo u can meet "your equal" if you wanted..those are just excuses..imho..for the "more desired" Blacks who want to go IR because many of the times..their non black person isn't on "their level"...and they "settle"..

“I love being a Black Man”

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#178 Sep 24, 2012
bluest wrote:
<quoted text> when I'm fat I stay off the scene because the type of males who approach are not my forte. However ive never been one to create a fake environment for the sole purpose of meeting someone. I just don't know why women do that.
My sister's Asian friend said she knows when she has gained some weight because more Black and Spanish men hit on her. She ended up marrying some white guy she was having an affair with but that is another story.

I agree that it should be natural when choosing a mate. If you listen to a lot of these women. They basically tell you that everything that makes you who you are is wrong. Basically you need to put on this mask of this euro-centric thinking black woman, lose weight, chase after men and then you will be happy.

It sounds like a prison sentence to me. Let's say you are "lucky" enough to snag this white guy. So the rest of your life. You have to be two faced. Else you might scare him away and be alone? Which I do believe some women do. Which is the main reason why I think the divorce rate for IRBW is so low. They spend so much time and energy chasing their Unicorn. That they don't want to let him go.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#179 Sep 24, 2012
bluest wrote:
<quoted text>
Well on that you have a point. I hate to give away points.:) lol.
Welcome to the darkside. Don't worry. I keep my doormats clean and free from debris.

“Creole Coated!”

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#180 Sep 24, 2012
MumRa wrote:
<quoted text>
I read a study that Black women usually marry down when marrying out.
you have a link..not that you need it because I believe you..when you say marry down..u mean income?
MumRa wrote:
I know that IR promoters keep telling Black women to date their co-workers and classmates. Basically shytting where they eat. Which 99% of women say is a horrible idea.
But in reality. The majority of IR couples aren't these super educated men and women. They are usually just two regular or poor men and women mixing together.
Most couples..same race and IR are average..in looks and income..

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#182 Sep 24, 2012
MumRa wrote:
<quoted text>
I read a study that Black women usually marry down when marrying out. I know that IR promoters keep telling Black women to date their co-workers and classmates. Basically shytting where they eat. Which 99% of women say is a horrible idea.
But in reality. The majority of IR couples aren't these super educated men and women. They are usually just two regular or poor men and women mixing together.
I agree they are similar to the BM/WW pairing and are all mostly working middle class people.

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#183 Sep 24, 2012
bluest wrote:
<quoted text>I don't argue with that anymore. People always like to assume things and then expect you to argue there assumptions. Nothing in my post warranted that type of reply. Some people focus too much on the messenger anyway and completely miss the message.
You know you fine azz hell..show them..I know Mumra wants to see ;)

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#184 Sep 24, 2012
Here goes another article where WM promote everything as beautiful except for BW!

http://www.manolith.com/2010/01/06/top-15-cou...

If this doesn't shut you all up I don't know what will.

“Creole Coated!”

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#185 Sep 24, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>And I don't see any stat that says that these rare pairings are some how wealthier than the average americans. And I already said that BW are probably looking WM with money and most men who buy foreign wives have money so why would a BW exclude them.
Nobody said wm/bw are wealthier..they are like every other combination out there..no more or less..
bluest

Columbus, OH

#186 Sep 24, 2012
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>
anything that doesn't facilitate the building up of the aa family and community, and creates more division and alienation is an attack.
no other community would ever allow this kinda manipulation. why should we?
well aren't you going to attack yourself then? You've said some pretty damming things about aaw/bw...how were those things helping matters?
I simply don't understand the problem. There is simply a percent of bm and bw who don't want each other or they don't want to deal with the social problems anymore and wish to break from that. They have a right to there own happiness.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#187 Sep 24, 2012
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text> you have a link..not that you need it because I believe you..when you say marry down..u mean income?
<quoted text>Most couples..same race and IR are average..in looks and income..
Education level. Which honestly I think in this day and age are low barometers for success. You could own your own Plumbing or Auto Repair business and live very comfortably. But if you are solely looking at education level. Most Black women statistically marry down when marrying a White person.

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#188 Sep 24, 2012
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>LOL! Just understand that if a man gives you "free access to his wealth", he'll likely expect to receive "free access" to YOU!
; ^ D
mmm hmmm :)

“Creole Coated!”

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#189 Sep 24, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
Here goes another article where WM promote everything as beautiful except for BW!
http://www.manolith.com/2010/01/06/top-15-cou...
If this doesn't shut you all up I don't know what will.
Shut who up..I don't think anyone in this thread care..and for the BW who want to be with a WM..they don't care about the majority of WM..just the ones into BW..BW are only 8% of the population..and most of them want BM..
bluest

Columbus, OH

#190 Sep 24, 2012
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>And I don't see any stat that says that these rare pairings are some how wealthier than the average americans. And I already said that BW are probably looking WM with money and most men who buy foreign wives have money so why would a BW exclude them.
I read a Stat a few years ago which said buying of wives used to be a wealthy mans game but now its all classes doing it. Regardless what woman with options that are viable wants to be bought through the mail? Lol. What woman would want a male whose buying people like hes shopping through a Sears catalog.

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