Help me. Was I raped?
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VanessaB

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#1 Feb 21, 2009
Last week my boyfriend gave me a spa gift card for my birthday. He's so sweet and considerate. Well to get to the point, I made an appointment at the spa for a massage. When I got there, I was pleased to see that the masseuse was a very attractive and athletic looking man. He had such a cute smile. When he started massaging me around my shoulders, it felt like heaven. He really knew how to touch me. Slowly he worked his way down my back. When he he got around by butt, I started to get a little nervous but I have to confess it felt good. Anyway I was surprised when he started massaging butt cheeks, but then I thought, well a masseuse is just like a medical doctor, so its all right for him to touch my private parts, and to be honest it felt so good. So he kept rubbing and massaging lower and lower. The next thing I knew he was massaging my vagina. I started to say something, but he just smiled and said it was a speacial massage, so I went with it. The next thing I knew, I had the best orgasm I ever had in my life. I was so embarrased. This nice masseuse was trying to be professional and I was having having sexual feelings. Am I wrong for that? Should I tell my boyfriend? My friend girl says I was raped. I'm so confused. Help me!

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#2 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
Last week my boyfriend gave me a spa gift card for my birthday. He's so sweet and considerate. Well to get to the point, I made an appointment at the spa for a massage. When I got there, I was pleased to see that the masseuse was a very attractive and athletic looking man. He had such a cute smile. When he started massaging me around my shoulders, it felt like heaven. He really knew how to touch me. Slowly he worked his way down my back. When he he got around by butt, I started to get a little nervous but I have to confess it felt good. Anyway I was surprised when he started massaging butt cheeks, but then I thought, well a masseuse is just like a medical doctor, so its all right for him to touch my private parts, and to be honest it felt so good. So he kept rubbing and massaging lower and lower. The next thing I knew he was massaging my vagina. I started to say something, but he just smiled and said it was a speacial massage, so I went with it. The next thing I knew, I had the best orgasm I ever had in my life. I was so embarrased. This nice masseuse was trying to be professional and I was having having sexual feelings. Am I wrong for that? Should I tell my boyfriend? My friend girl says I was raped. I'm so confused. Help me!
Hell no. You didnt say stop. He was playing with your cooch and you liked it

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Since: Apr 07

Norfolk, VA

#3 Feb 21, 2009
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
mutt

Road Town, Virgin Islands, British

#4 Feb 21, 2009
o wow....technically yes u were rapped...but if u tell ur boyfriend he will ask u y didnt u protest or scream or run 4 help...u didnt tell da guy to stop... but what he did is not how a massage is suppose to be..
VanessaB

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#5 Feb 21, 2009
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>Hell no. You didnt say stop. He was playing with your cooch and you liked it
Should I tell my boyfriend? I feel so guilty.

Since: Jan 09

West Jefferson, OH

#6 Feb 21, 2009
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>Hell no. You didnt say stop. He was playing with your cooch and you liked it
lol I know thats right .the question is are you gonna go back???

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#7 Feb 21, 2009
Miss Sha wrote:
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
rotflmao!! I know right

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#8 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
<quoted text>Should I tell my boyfriend? I feel so guilty.
No

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#9 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
<quoted text>Should I tell my boyfriend? I feel so guilty.
Depends on if he can make feel like that?

Since: Mar 08

Minneapolis, MN

#10 Feb 21, 2009
Miss Sha wrote:
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
Hell yeah she needs to hook us up..LOL
VanessaB

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#11 Feb 21, 2009
JadefromBk wrote:
<quoted text>lol I know thats right .the question is are you gonna go back???
Well I have to confess, I been thinking about the masseuse a lot. Maybe I should say, fantasizing about him. Am I wrong for that?

“lol”

Level 2

Since: Sep 07

Miami

#12 Feb 21, 2009
Maybe it was your boyfriend's birthday gift to you, think of that one.

“Selah”

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Since: Aug 07

Suwanee, GA

#13 Feb 21, 2009
Miss Sha wrote:
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
LMBO!!! You are so crazy!

Since: Sep 07

Location hidden

#14 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
<quoted text>Well I have to confess, I been thinking about the masseuse a lot. Maybe I should say, fantasizing about him. Am I wrong for that?
Well I'll tell you this: It is obviously not the first time he has done it, and the women he has done it too in the past liked it and didn't complain which is why he still has a job.

Since: Sep 07

Location hidden

#15 Feb 21, 2009
Miss Sha wrote:
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
lol

Level 2

Since: Jan 09

Location hidden

#16 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
Last week my boyfriend gave me a spa gift card for my birthday. He's so sweet and considerate. Well to get to the point, I made an appointment at the spa for a massage. When I got there, I was pleased to see that the masseuse was a very attractive and athletic looking man. He had such a cute smile. When he started massaging me around my shoulders, it felt like heaven. He really knew how to touch me. Slowly he worked his way down my back. When he he got around by butt, I started to get a little nervous but I have to confess it felt good. Anyway I was surprised when he started massaging butt cheeks, but then I thought, well a masseuse is just like a medical doctor, so its all right for him to touch my private parts, and to be honest it felt so good. So he kept rubbing and massaging lower and lower. The next thing I knew he was massaging my vagina. I started to say something, but he just smiled and said it was a speacial massage, so I went with it. The next thing I knew, I had the best orgasm I ever had in my life. I was so embarrased. This nice masseuse was trying to be professional and I was having having sexual feelings. Am I wrong for that? Should I tell my boyfriend? My friend girl says I was raped. I'm so confused. Help me!
My bf lives in FL and he is a massage therapist. I am about to text him and tell him IT IS OVER

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#17 Feb 21, 2009
VanessaB wrote:
<quoted text>Well I have to confess, I been thinking about the masseuse a lot. Maybe I should say, fantasizing about him. Am I wrong for that?
(((Rolls Eyes)))

Typical woman, all emotional. Stop analyzing and over-thinking.

I'll bet your boyfriend wouldn't bat an eye if he could get a hand job or BJ outta one of 'em.

;0)

“If you live to love you will..”

Level 1

Since: Dec 07

love to live ((South London))

#18 Feb 21, 2009
Miss Sha wrote:
Does he have any appointments available for next week?
LMAO I think most women were thinking that.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#19 Feb 21, 2009
Can We Talk wrote:
<quoted text>Hell yeah she needs to hook us up..LOL
Dye them gray hairs of yours.........and iron out that wrinkled old cooch of yours first..........lol!!!

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

Norfolk, VA

#21 Feb 21, 2009
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>rotflmao!! I know right
(Books flight)

Yo GP! I have a "Friends Fly Free" Pass.....eh eh?

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