Why aren't there black men praising L...

“No Substitute For The Truth”

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Since: Jan 10

United States

#465 Mar 5, 2014
Lisa wrote:
<quoted text> Agree..that is why I don't believe most (dark skinned) BW place value on the opinions of outsiders as much as some attempt to market it as true...
as long as (dark skinned) BW were esteemed by Black masculinity...(dark skinned) femininity flourish (Hence why male approval & praise is very important to hetersexuality for women.. and .hence why many IR women lurk around BM to constantly acknowledge their existences as women..even at the expense of BW)...
Things may have taken a change for the worse for SOME (dark skinned) BW is when their womanhood is ignored and they are treated with as little regard as a male would treat another male..(with the verbal, emotional, spiritual, and even physical attacks)...not to mention any male who engages in such abuse towards women is at the expense of his own masculinity..and usually unbeknown to him..he is behaving in a very feminize way (as those attacks on females equals to "cat fighting")... There is just no escaping yin yang of how femininity and masculinity feeds off each other..
Agree but we still have too address The AA Community. We cannot dwell on skin complexion forever. Eventually we will have to get past the negative stigma of dark-skin and start uplifting the AA community!

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Since: Jan 10

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#466 Mar 5, 2014
FlowFighter wrote:
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^^^^^^He's PLAINLY F'n the sh**t out of her ebony black african oh sooooooo beautiful dark skin midnight complexion az**zz.
No! That was not what I meant, I think Lupita is classy in every way and is not having sex with him (she may not even be into IR dating) but he is pursuing her hard.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

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#467 Mar 5, 2014
Tony touch wrote:
Now you know African women don't b*tch about their men...they only do that sh*t to us, and they ain't even ours
But did you see how fast that chick climbed all over AAs affection to get with that whiteboy? Must be pride of that great African culture they always go on about.
Let African men deal with all that
If the women can shut tha f*ck up about us :)
Why do you assume that it is Lupita who is climbing to get to that white guy and not the other way around? Why do black men try to deny that white men also pursue black women?

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

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#468 Mar 5, 2014
Lisa wrote:
<quoted text> Agree..that is why I don't believe most (dark skinned) BW place value on the opinions of outsiders as much as some attempt to market it as true...
as long as (dark skinned) BW were esteemed by Black masculinity...(dark skinned) femininity flourish (Hence why male approval & praise is very important to hetersexuality for women.. and .hence why many IR women lurk around BM to constantly acknowledge their existences as women..even at the expense of BW)...
Things may have taken a change for the worse for SOME (dark skinned) BW is when their womanhood is ignored and they are treated with as little regard as a male would treat another male..(with the verbal, emotional, spiritual, and even physical attacks)...not to mention any male who engages in such abuse towards women is at the expense of his own masculinity..and usually unbeknown to him..he is behaving in a very feminize way (as those attacks on females equals to "cat fighting")... There is just no escaping yin yang of how femininity and masculinity feeds off each other..
Dark skin black men with color complexes seem to be the only men who dislike dark skin black women. You can find some men from every other race who find dark skin black women beautiful and exotic and who want to get with them. Do you see the way the white guy looks at Lupita on those pictures?
BMTxBMTx

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#469 Mar 5, 2014
Redefined wrote:
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No Africans on this forum have asked the same question in other threads and they always bring up the fact some WP online have stated she was beautiful. So I'm assuming because WP said she was beautiful some feel everyone else should feel the same way. Excuse me if ur NOT concern about what AAM think. I wasn't being hostile, I was stating the feelings are mutual!:)
In which other threads have africans brought up WP praising Lupita therefore validate her beauty? It is AA making a big deal about Lupita's skin tone. Skin tone is AA tribalism. Most africans are amused when they see threads generating thousands of reponse, all focussed on her skin tone and hair.
Brown Girl in the Ring

UK

#470 Mar 5, 2014
TFH your reply in 348 was spot on. To say that slavery should not be shown in films is stupid. For a start slavery has never been depicted in all its rawness like 12 Years. He's an idiot who probably worships the word in the bible but blindly ignores that it advocates the exploitation of others which in part is why it is allowed to continue today. The Jewish people will never in a million years let anyone forget what the Nazis did so neither should we. If anything I think there was room in the film to show that even after a savage beating if the slaves did not die immediately they were often sick because of their wounds being infected and resulting in their eventual death. His main issue is whether Lupita goes out with someone from another race.
BMTxBMTx

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#471 Mar 6, 2014
Tony touch wrote:
Lisa's getting her azz whipped :)
She is whipping your asses. A bunch of you at that.
BMTxBMTx

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#472 Mar 6, 2014
FlowFighter wrote:
<quoted text>
^^^^^^He's PLAINLY F'n the sh**t out of her ebony black african oh sooooooo beautiful dark skin midnight complexion az**zz.
to make people who look like ya, no?
BMTxBMTx

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#473 Mar 6, 2014
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
Agree but we still have too address The AA Community. We cannot dwell on skin complexion forever. Eventually we will have to get past the negative stigma of dark-skin and start uplifting the AA community!
Imo, what fcks up the AA community is the not so black AA playing leaders in the AA community. They play white man's role, reinforcing the old role of white being on top. Most of the AA leaders are what you call light skin- closer to white and only one acceptable to whites when negotiating with them. I remember AA attacking Judge Clarence Thomas, calling him uncle Tom too dark to represent them as supreme court judge....something like that anyway. LOL! Yet showed that white with minute black admixture as the first black supreme court judge.
Anon

New York, NY

#474 Mar 6, 2014
I'll be damned! First of all, you people are encouraging the jackal masquerading with two beaks to pick away at you. This is sad but true, cap iche? Anyway, I want to comment on something a Proud Sis wrote. This proud African lady is mandating that AAM should only show appreciation for AAW, and African men for African women? She obviously got an F in biology, and is lacking in the understanding of male instincts. Take away all of the trappings (language, color, traditions, etc) with which we are encumbered and we are left with flesh and blood controlled by the brain guided by sight and other senses. As a younger man, I was partial to backsides and boobs, and couldn't careless if the carrier was African, Caribbean or African American - female, of course. Wrt accomplishments, I was just as admiring of Winnie Mandela as I was of the widows of MLK and Malcolm X. I begrudge no one of their success, even though I share the belief that BP are allowed to succeed only if they play subservient roles. I wish Lupita all the best, and hope one day she will use her capital for the benefit of her people in Kenya. Make the money and hone your talents in the West girl, and take them home.
Anon

New York, NY

#475 Mar 6, 2014
Anon wrote:
I'll be damned! First of all, you people are encouraging the jackal masquerading with two beaks to pick away at you. This is sad but true, cap iche? Anyway, I want to comment on something a Proud Sis wrote. This proud African lady is mandating that AAM should only show appreciation for AAW, and African men for African women? She obviously got an F in biology, and is lacking in the understanding of male instincts. Take away all of the trappings (language, color, traditions, etc) with which we are encumbered and we are left with flesh and blood controlled by the brain guided by sight and other senses. As a younger man, I was partial to backsides and boobs, and couldn't careless if the carrier was African, Caribbean or African American - female, of course. Wrt accomplishments, I was just as admiring of Winnie Mandela as I was of the widows of MLK and Malcolm X. I begrudge no one of their success, even though I share the belief that BP are allowed to succeed only if they play subservient roles. I wish Lupita all the best, and hope one day she will use her capital for the benefit of her people in Kenya. Make the money and hone your talents in the West girl, and take them home.
Oops, jackal and beaks - naw! Make that a bird of prey.
SadButTrue

Falls Church, VA

#476 Mar 6, 2014
Michele wrote:
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Who wants to drool over another human being?
Black people don't praise human beings. We praise God.
You inbreds are always looking for a hero & some celebrity to pass out over.
I saw a video with inbreds passing out over beyonce in rio de janiero.
Why do you inbreds act like this?
Thats why you only see beyonce dancing with RANDOM blacks cause she knows those goofy inbreds would be hanging on her legs crying if she tried to randomly dance with them.
Maceo

Why are you so obsessed with WM? You submit to them and chose to do nothing with your life other than to chase Poor WW in your spare time as well as hate on BW.

Lets face it BM have "Earned your poor reputations" !

You had ample opportunities to make a difference but you chose to "Uplift White women only" for decades because your angry at your Mother because she didn't give you any attention! That's what BW say about you! BM simply call you an "Uncle Tom"

As you said all the time, "What about the little Black Boy"?

I can't relate my Mother is a kind good woman and I look after her and treat her well.! Why didn't your Father do anythiing for you other than abandon you? Why arent you angry at BM for what they've done to an entire race?

iIs it because you act IRRESPONSIBLE LIKE YOUR DEAD FATHER?

I don't know too many people who married for "Self Gain only" !

As we said at a BWE Rally lots of BM are very selfish, self centered so much so they don't do anything for the race! Which is why there's such a big push to get BW to move on from "Sorry Arse BM like yourself"!

Its not the IR marriage or chasing WW that's your choice but your've done nothing for the race and expect BW to do the Man job and the woman's job!

Even GOD told man what your job is but Black males "don't Provide, Prorect, Lead, Father, Marry, Mentor, Teach..........all you worry about is Sexing WW, chasing material things, getting over on folks especially women and bragging about Sexually Conquest or getting over!

Not all but MOST Black men and most of you end up old and dying alone!
Tyrone

London, UK

#477 Mar 6, 2014
Lisa wrote:
<quoted text> someone already showed that Lupita's man is a Black African...BM should provide for the emotional well being of his group of women like every other man does....Lupita obviously has that from her Black African man...hence why she doesn't seem to be going anywhere regardless of WM approval or not..Her BM is already meeting that need...
http://cdn.necolebitchie.com/wp-content/uploa...

She is not with a black man, people already know this, and If she a role model for black women then isnt it supposed to be black women that have to "praise her" not black men, I mean you dont see any black women making fourms to "praise" the director of 12 years a slave do you?
In my own oppinion Black women only need black men when its nessasery and thats when its to raise their ego and when they are done, they throw them right under the bus again.

Black women on topix and other famous black women sites talk shit about black men all day and talk about how other races of men are much better (they even made a foum mocking travon martins death,) How do expect black men to praise black women when most black women have no respect for black men at all.
Tyrone

London, UK

#478 Mar 6, 2014
And i think we all know that black women would not post this question up or make up a fuss about black men not praising her if Lupita was a light skinned of very light skinned black woman.
SadButTrue

Falls Church, VA

#479 Mar 6, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
Dark skin black men with color complexes seem to be the only men who dislike dark skin black women. You can find some men from every other race who find dark skin black women beautiful and exotic and who want to get with them. Do you see the way the white guy looks at Lupita on those pictures?
Capree

Some are exotic and beautiful. On my Team at work there's a dark skin Black women and I think she's a Class Act and I tell her so. I don't know why I'm never fearful nor does it bother me to give folks their props.

To be honest, I really don't see most BW, WW or any race that really sticks out as stunning most folks are average!

She's beautiful! Even some White Males Fashion Experts said what a "Breathe of Fresh air" she's natural and not Beyonce made up trying to look White with weaves and plastic surgery!
SadButTrue

Falls Church, VA

#480 Mar 6, 2014
Tyrone--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
http://cdn.necolebitchie.com/wp-content/uploa...
She is not with a black man, people already know this, and If she a role model for black women then isnt it supposed to be black women that have to "praise her" not black men, I mean you dont see any black women making fourms to "praise" the director of 12 years a slave do you?
People are giving him praise! What I like is that nobody really mention that he had a White wife. As many emails went around they were happy an African Producer won and its History!

Nobody even mention the fact that his wife was an Average White woman or his daughter was biracial. They know if its a Black man to expect this it was no surprise!

Black males like you feel that if she's not White she's not beautiful! You say this all the time, I hear it from other Black males and when another races says a Black woman is attractive, Black males get angry as if Black women don't deserve anything like yourself!

You didn't do for your ex White wife and even bragged on it nor your Mother who had cancer. Many other Black males do similar behaviors which is why 80% of Black males abandon their children until their adults.

Why didn't you say anything to your Co worker who Father a child that popped on the scene when he was almost an adult. Many times their wages are garnished on the job because the Mother pursues them to pay support!

The only time you praise Black men is whey they hate on Black women or get over. YOu don't feel that any Black woman deserves anything! Yes, that's why many Black women are dating/marrying out. My GF's told me how trilling many Black men like yourself and how you discriminate and now their applying the same standards to Black males!

I don't date dark skin Black men, I've adopted the same behaviors Black men do!

I do like the Africans., I said it prior and will continue to say it!
Tyrone--Maceo wrote:
<quoted text>
In my own oppinion Black women only need black men when its nessasery and thats when its to raise their ego and when they are done, they throw them right under the bus again.
Black women on topix and other famous black women sites talk shit about black men all day and talk about how other races of men are much better (they even made a foum mocking travon martins death,) How do expect black men to praise black women when most black women have no respect for black men at all.
Maceo

Black men like yourself and Father have done nothing for the race, other than take Black women down due to your poor up bringing. Nobody has done anything to you but "Ignore you". You want a lot of attention" for doing nothing!

All you did was HATE on Black women even accomplished Black women and elevate and only do for White women. You didn't even do for your own family or your Mother who had cancer, she claimed she should have had a husband, its not your job!

I was shocked! Most men from single parent homes help their Mothers but NOT MACEO! lmao

Black men use Black women live off them, want them to accept men like yourself who refuse to do even invest in yourselves but you want Black women who are elegant and educated while you do nothing. It doesn't work that way MACEO

Black women are angry and rightfully so! Even Obama gave speeches on Black men's apathy and praised Black women for elevating the race alone! Bill Cosby and many others said "Black women are the Leaders of the Race" not Black males!

Rather sad and your still making excuses which is WEAK! That' comes from being in s single parent home and no male role models in your life!
Enki

United States

#481 Mar 6, 2014
Well Black American Woman I knew it was gonna happen......

Those degrees and good jobs ain't enough huh? All of that education and career advancement starts to lose it's luster when you're not being promoted as the beauty standard.When you sit in beauty shops with your other accomplished ,educated girlfriends chatting it up about your latest promotion and your next field of study only to look up at the tele and see the WW being promoted and validated; it somehow cheapens your efforts.

Now the your men that have been utterly crushed by WS you look to blame them for you lack of promotion The men with whom in some ways you sold out for you elevated social position, you now expect them to "promote"you.Despite (due to the Faustian bargain you made with White America) he lacks the means to do so.

Look American Black Woman ,men promote their women when they are AHEAD of them, not when they are BEHIND them.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#482 Mar 6, 2014
Tyrone wrote:
<quoted text> http://cdn.necolebitchie.com/wp-content/uploa...

She is not with a black man, people already know this, and If she a role model for black women then isnt it supposed to be black women that have to "praise her" not black men, I mean you dont see any black women making fourms to "praise" the director of 12 years a slave do you?
In my own oppinion Black women only need black men when its nessasery and thats when its to raise their ego and when they are done, they throw them right under the bus again.

Black women on topix and other famous black women sites talk shit about black men all day and talk about how other races of men are much better (they even made a foum mocking travon martins death,) How do expect black men to praise black women when most black women have no respect for black men at all.
Lupita is with k'naan.

http://www.ghafla.co.ke/news/tv/item/16858-is...

So this verbose post of yours is insignificant since it seems she's with him and not Jared Leto.
Tyrone

London, UK

#483 Mar 6, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Lupita is with k'naan.
http://www.ghafla.co.ke/news/tv/item/16858-is...
So this verbose post of yours is insignificant since it seems she's with him and not Jared Leto.
Look at the comments below the aritcle Not one of the people there agree with the admins post, and to be honest i couldn't care less is she was with a black man, im still not "praising" her.
Tyrone

London, UK

#484 Mar 6, 2014
Oh and my previous post isn't insignificant, her being with a black man does not debunk and of my previous points about black women in grenral so try again.

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