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#1001 Apr 7, 2013
RLtalk wrote:
<quoted text>Bossin up, now if you want to talk about feminine emotion, you can take a look at his post.^^^ And yes some of the more damaged black women are a "refection" of damaged black males. Luckily for myself however I choose not to take the standards of damaged American black males seriously. If I did I would be
1.) Trying to unhealthily maintain "thickness" to have a "donk" to attract some silly little boy, instead of being okay with being naturally petite and in shape
2.) Frying my hair off and replacin it with a weave so my hateful, damaged black male counterparts can live out his fantasy of running his fingers through a completely different head of hair from what grows out of his own head.
3.) And preggy with several kids and abandoned with the possibility of high STDs.
Whew! Thank God I've missed several bullets and don't have to deal with most American black men. I feel sorry for the sad ones who do!
Yes, you are in fact a direct image of the men you are complaining about, and like all other idiots, you are completely clueless that you are.

Thick black women for the most part are "naturally" thick, and exercising and eating right only enhances it.

You don't even sound like a black woman with that dumb post.

And the rest of your post is too idiotic for me head or tails of it to respond to it.

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#1002 Apr 7, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> If that truly were the case, then Michael Jordan, Bill Russel, Kareem Abdul Jabaar would all still be in the NBA. But every major NBA player that is 30 is still playing. Your body undergo enormous amount of changes in 10 years, physically and sexually. The things I can physically do today won't be as sharp in 10yrs because the body has aged. And a woman 42 has lost considerable stock in her appeal because men calculate how much longer she has to still look good and possibly be exciting in the bedroom. Not to mention her fertility is diminishing, and she's getting closer to menopause.
Exactly! Perfectly put. A single woman in her forties has a lot more to worried about than ir.

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#1003 Apr 7, 2013
BossinUp wrote:
<quoted text> If that truly were the case, then Michael Jordan, Bill Russel, Kareem Abdul Jabaar would all still be in the NBA. But every major NBA player that is 30 is still playing. Your body undergo enormous amount of changes in 10 years, physically and sexually. The things I can physically do today won't be as sharp in 10yrs because the body has aged. And a woman 42 has lost considerable stock in her appeal because men calculate how much longer she has to still look good and possibly be exciting in the bedroom. Not to mention her fertility is diminishing, and she's getting closer to menopause.
Her line of reasoning is the delusional by product of viewing men and women through egalitarian lenses as being judged by the same standards. Youth and beauty are women most negotiable assets with men whether they like it or not and has been that way since the beginning of time. Men are judged by a distinct set of metrics, of which age is less relevant which in turn gives our desirability a much longer shelf life than theirs. Rationalization such as hers is evidence of the fact that woman should never engage in war of any sort because THEY ARE HORRIBLE STRATEGIST!

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#1004 Apr 7, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Exactly. These women are single because MEN have rejected them. Not just black men, but white and other non black men as well.
Obviously these women aren't "loyal" to bm, so that's not an excuse. I think at some point these women have to look in the mirror at their real problem.
They are rejects and they are sore losers. Not every Black woman is entitled to an attractive, successful, good Black man. I understand that it is a tough thing for these women to digest.

Young, attractive Black women who are winners, and successful with Black men:



https://www.youtube.com/watch...
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#1005 Apr 7, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Lol :)
At 42 you should be at a better point in your life. I almost feel bad about having arguments with you. At 42 your life should be more put together than it is.
You're here talking about teaching other bw about dating etc, when you're old as dirt and on your very last leg.
You shouldn't be trying to put other women's life together when you've failed so miserably in terms of your own.
You don't know what point I am at in my life so STFU !!!

Personal attacks are basically an admission of defeat. When you can't attack a person's argument because it is too sound logically, the defeated party takes the easy route..........

And attacks the person instead of the argument:

Ad Hominem fallacy:

"An Ad Hominem is a general category of fallacies in which a claim or argument is rejected on the basis of some irrelevant fact about the author of or the person presenting the claim or argument.

Typically, this fallacy involves two steps. First, an attack against the character of person making the claim, her circumstances, or her actions is made (or the character, circumstances, or actions of the person reporting the claim).

Second, this attack is taken to be evidence against the claim or argument the person in question is making (or presenting)."

What makes you think that 42 is "old as dirt", monkey ??

If you know anything about women, it is that women don't even reach their sexual peak until they are 36 !!! So, STFU !!!

And that is why most BM don't have shyt..........Because y'all don't know something valuable when you see it !!!

Oh, my bad..........you only see value in trashy WW. I forgot.

Don' hate. I have more options now than I had when I was 20 !!!

I didn't work out when I was younger (didn't have to, I'm naturally petite and curvy). But with the strength training, the curves are more defined..........especially in the booty area !!)

The confidence, wisdom and swag is off the chain !!!!

So, BM like you can only HOPE that WM are getting the undesirable BW, the way that most IRBM are getting the undesirable WW.

But we all know that when WM marry BW, they get the "creme de la creme" !!!
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#1006 Apr 7, 2013
BM Moving On wrote:
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No one is reading no stupid blog, bring some real facts next time.
BW always lower their standards when it comes to White men. As long as he is White, it is alright, in the eyes of BW.
High status WM and those great careers don't even consider BW as an option.
The reason why BW WM (the small minority of pairing) might last longer is because the BW will stay in a relationship with a WM through physical abuse, racial abuse (hence the BW that called into DR Laura complaining how her WM husband wouldn't stick up for her against his friends who were calling her the N-word).
I know.......... The truth hurts !!

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#1007 Apr 7, 2013
Stretchmaster wrote:
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They are rejects and they are sore losers. Not every Black woman is entitled to an attractive, successful, good Black man. I understand that it is a tough thing for these women to digest.
Young, attractive Black women who are winners, and successful with Black men:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =748KzRQ1P_sXX
https://www.youtube.com/watch...
Most definitely. A lot of these women don't understand that once you get out of highschool, a woman has to be in some serious competition with other women for men, so if she's not putting her A game on in every aspect of her life, she's going to come out on the bottom, and manless in her old age.

Some of the women never realize that once you get out of highschool etc and men start working, it's pretty much a mans game. Puxxy is everywhere. It's easier to get puxxy than a glass of water. Just having a puxxy doesn't cut it after men start working etc.

Women have to be offering more.

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#1009 Apr 7, 2013
I've said it before and I'll say it again, bw desperately need to feel, see or think bm suffer some kind of emotional or psychological deficit at the possibility of their denying us their love or imaginie us having nervous breakdowons upon our seeing them with non bm, which is why they, despite our claims of indifference, continue to try and define our mental state of mind, when most of them can't manage their own, and see an angry, jealous bm behind every rock..........or TV show.

All the brothers have repeatedly said is stop it with the blamming us for the choices you have made and don't ask us to sit still why you explore your interracial options and then expect us to WIFE YOU UP when it doesn't manifest in accordance with your dreams! From where I stand that's just a pre-advisory, not obstruction or jealousy. It's not that complicated!

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#1010 Apr 7, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
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You don't know what point I am at in my life so STFU !!!
Personal attacks are basically an admission of defeat. When you can't attack a person's argument because it is too sound logically, the defeated party takes the easy route..........
And attacks the person instead of the argument:
Ad Hominem fallacy:
"An Ad Hominem is a general category of fallacies in which a claim or argument is rejected on the basis of some irrelevant fact about the author of or the person presenting the claim or argument.
Typically, this fallacy involves two steps. First, an attack against the character of person making the claim, her circumstances, or her actions is made (or the character, circumstances, or actions of the person reporting the claim).
Second, this attack is taken to be evidence against the claim or argument the person in question is making (or presenting)."
What makes you think that 42 is "old as dirt", monkey ??
If you know anything about women, it is that women don't even reach their sexual peak until they are 36 !!! So, STFU !!!
And that is why most BM don't have shyt..........Because y'all don't know something valuable when you see it !!!
Oh, my bad..........you only see value in trashy WW. I forgot.
Don' hate. I have more options now than I had when I was 20 !!!
I didn't work out when I was younger (didn't have to, I'm naturally petite and curvy). But with the strength training, the curves are more defined..........especially in the booty area !!)
The confidence, wisdom and swag is off the chain !!!!
So, BM like you can only HOPE that WM are getting the undesirable BW, the way that most IRBM are getting the undesirable WW.
But we all know that when WM marry BW, they get the "creme de la creme" !!!
No, they get women like you. Dumb, self hating, average in looks... behind in personality and character development, and full of self hate.

Reading your post it's obvious that you have very low self esteem, and that you are hurting.

Being the mature intellectual man that I am, I am obligated by my intelligence to take a different approach with you after coming to this realization.

Think about what you're doing. Does it really make you feel better? I mean really? You have deeper issues that you need to deal with. I can help you.

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#1011 Apr 7, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>I'm great..How about yourself this weekend?..You held it down in this thread...enjoyed being a spectator....just laughing my azz off at the ass whooping you unleashed LOL
The problem that I've always had with you is that you're a bit more intelligent than these women and you know that, but yet you abuse it by playing to your selfish emotional side.

These women are hurting, and you give them dumb advice, and encourage their stupidity.

A single woman in her forties that has no direction and full of self hate is a disaster, and you know that.

Be a good woman and try and help these women instead of trying to win a gender debate.
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#1012 Apr 7, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>I am already married and have been for 2 years and yes he is white. Most black women have been knowing that other races of men find them attractive. Accept it, black women dating other races of men is something that black men can't control. All you black men can do is keep telling each other how much nonblack men don't want black women as more and more nonblack men are dating and marrying us black women.
http://evolvingslices.typepad.com/photos/bwir...
Sure you are married to a White guy, lol.... And aren't you the one that said he makes 300 K? LMBAO.

If you were really married to a White guy that makes 300K, you wouldn't be here spending all this energy posting to the men you claim to have left! Nice try, no one believes that fairytale.

And WM generally don't want BW for marriage. The numbers show it!

They would later go to Asia and Russia to find wives, lol.
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#1013 Apr 7, 2013
BM Moving On wrote:
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Lol, so you do know that most desirable women, when they reach your age of 42, they would have had at a few kids and a good marriage for decades!
Yet, you are still single, angry, frustrated, and want to take it out on BM simply because you can't get the WM to look at you.
Lets face it, if a White man is as you decribed (successful), HE AIN'T LOOKING FOR A BW AS HIS MAIN PRIORITY IN A WOMAN! He has the pick of WW. If that isn't his thing, he can go for Asian or Hispanic.
Why do you think these WM go all the way to frigging ASIA to find a wife? Or Russia? Don't you think if all these WM were knocking down the desperate BW's door, they would have had you already? Of course they would have!
The simple truth of the matter is, WM see you BW as nothing but sex toys to try and talk about amongst friends. They are not marrying you and bringing you home to their mothers.
The numbers back that up.
Since when is 42 old, dumbazz ??? Keep showing your ignorance.

Women do not even reach their sexual peak until they are 36..........so STFU !!!

Projection duly noted:

"angry.......bitter...... lonely ???" Stop talking about yourself like that !!!

Don't worry about my family affairs, I don' owe you an explanation. Just know that everything is fine on the home-front.

Thank you for finally conceding. Will you be giving a concession speech ??

See, you admitted defeat when you started in with the personal attacks. You couldn't hold a candle to me logically, so then you started calling me "old, bitter, angry, WM's ho", and "undesirable"

Ad Hominem:

"ad hominem
You attacked your opponent's character or personal traits in an attempt to undermine their argument.

Ad hominem attacks can take the form of overtly attacking somebody, or more subtly casting doubt on their character or personal attributes as a way to discredit their argument. The result of an ad hom attack can be to undermine someone's case without actually having to engage with it."

If you are going to engage in a debate, attack the opponents argument, not the arguer.

Stop trying to speak for WM.......If they see me as a sex toy, they will let me know..........not you.

You are showing your jealousy, anger and insecurity by your continued obsession with the affairs of WM and BW.

How would you know if I couldn't get a WM to look at me ???

Honey, I was married to one. Now, being the desperate monkey that you are to prove that WM don't really want BW, I'm sure you will see the ending of my marriage as evidence..........however; I wanted to go back to school and we just couldn't see eye to eye.

We are still good friends to this day. In fact, he waited five years to remarry, thinking that we could reconcile.

Jealous much ??

Why are you obsessed with WM and Asia ??? WM don't even think about you unless he is pressing charges against you for trying to steal his credit cards !!!

I am starting to believe that you want to be with a WM. Do you ??
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#1014 Apr 7, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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No, they get women like you. Dumb, self hating, average in looks... behind in personality and character development, and full of self hate.
Reading your post it's obvious that you have very low self esteem, and that you are hurting.
Being the mature intellectual man that I am, I am obligated by my intelligence to take a different approach with you after coming to this realization.
Think about what you're doing. Does it really make you feel better? I mean really? You have deeper issues that you need to deal with. I can help you.
You don't know what I look like so, again......STFU !!!

My self-esteem is fine and I have never felt better actually.

Stop trying to tell WM what they are getting !!! Accept it, they get the best of BW..........and BM get the trash of WW !!!

You said:

"..........obligated by my intelligence"

HA HA HA HA !!!!

I feel great about what I am doing. I am providing a defense against hateful, oppressive, jealous and angry BM such as yourself and the others on this forum.

I don't need help from you, but thank you for the offer.

Are you mad ??
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#1016 Apr 7, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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The problem that I've always had with you is that you're a bit more intelligent than these women and you know that, but yet you abuse it by playing to your selfish emotional side.
These women are hurting, and you give them dumb advice, and encourage their stupidity.
A single woman in her forties that has no direction and full of self hate is a disaster, and you know that.
Be a good woman and try and help these women instead of trying to win a gender debate.
You don't know shyt about "those women" so stop trying to sound insightful.

You are a BM that is frustrated and mad because you cannot control the way BW feel about you !!!!!

HA HA HA HA !!!
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#1017 Apr 7, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
I've said it before and I'll say it again, bw desperately need to feel, see or think bm suffer some kind of emotional or psychological deficit at the possibility of their denying us their love or imaginie us having nervous breakdowons upon our seeing them with non bm, which is why they, despite our claims of indifference, continue to try and define our mental state of mind, when most of them can't manage their own, and see an angry, jealous bm behind every rock..........or TV show.
All the brothers have repeatedly said is stop it with the blamming us for the choices you have made and don't ask us to sit still why you explore your interracial options and then expect us to WIFE YOU UP when it doesn't manifest in accordance with your dreams! From where I stand that's just a pre-advisory, not obstruction or jealousy. It's not that complicated!
Blah, blah,blah..........Just bow out gracefully, please.

Thank you.

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#1018 Apr 7, 2013
RLtalk wrote:
<quoted text>I find it very funny and ironic for you to use the "Hollywood controls it" cop out for black men who degrade or ignore black women in the hip hop industry,
in a thread...
...about a black actress in HOLLYWOOD doing the same.
This is why people can rarely take the more damaged black men seriously. Your double standards are silly and yet you have the audacity to accuse me of being irrational? Lol!
Also, emotion has very little to do with it. But I recognize that as a card weak men play when they are losing a debate with a woman. When all else fails call her emotional. Lame.
If anything, I'm sharing some anecdotal evidence of damaged black men I've noticed who engage in this behavior and I've noticed patterns in these types of men in different locations and settings. I don't think its just black men who are guilty of this, but since we're on the topic, I'm not going to lie and candycoat things just because you're embarrassed by the behaviors of your bruhs.
But let me school you on how you should have responded. You should have acknowledged my experiences as valid because you can't prove otherwise, denied such behavior in yourself thus affirming that is isn't ALL black men, and kept it moving. What brothas don't understand is that the constant denial gets old.
Who is having a double standard??? I haven't spoke foul about Kerry, nor have I attempted to use this as an example of bw' behavior. You however want to use HIPHOP artists as an example of bm' behavior. There is no double standard in my posts.

Losing a debate??? I'm winning hands down. My posts are factual, yours are based on opinions. You and the other bw are trying to say bm are jealous as a whole, and that is false. My statements could easily be proven wrong if you could provide facts to discredit what I said. Instead, you rely on irrational thinking and post crap about the HIPHOP industry, and industry that does not reflect reality. Again, you and bw on this forum are self absorbed and conceded. To think you are winning a debate despite not disproving my original assessment is proof of that.

And let me school you on how you should have responded to my original post. You should have thoroughly read it and understood that according to my post, that the vast majority of bm do not do these things that you all are accusing of of or else it would be well known and documented. Once you did that, you should have simply said that you do know of a few incidents, as I had already acknowledge do existence, and kept it moving. But instead you chose to undermine me and try to discredit what I originally said. BOTTOM LINE, MOST BM DO NOT CARE WHAT BW DO. Now unless you can prove that to be wrong, then there is no reason to keep posting, nor was there any reason to interject in the first place.
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#1019 Apr 7, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>I'm great..How about yourself this weekend?..You held it down in this thread...enjoyed being a spectator....just laughing my azz off at the ass whooping you unleashed LOL
I had a very productive weekend. I got some yard work done and I'm just gearing up to go back on the grind Monday morning.

I owe, I owe, so off to work I go !!!!

How was your weekend ??

Girl, these fools must have forgotten their meds !!!

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#1020 Apr 7, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
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You don't know what I look like so, again......STFU !!!
My self-esteem is fine and I have never felt better actually.
Stop trying to tell WM what they are getting !!! Accept it, they get the best of BW..........and BM get the trash of WW !!!
You said:
"..........obligated by my intelligence"
HA HA HA HA !!!!
I feel great about what I am doing. I am providing a defense against hateful, oppressive, jealous and angry BM such as yourself and the others on this forum.
I don't need help from you, but thank you for the offer.
Are you mad ??
Think about what you're saying here... BM get the trash of WW, and WM get the best of BW... You know who says the opposite? BM and WW that IR.

You know who's probably right??? BOTH in terms of "getting the trash".

99.9% of the top notch women date men of their own race.

It's a lot of garbage in IR, and you're proof of that. The ones that aren't generally garbage don't even have much of a realization that they are in an IR relationship.

You are completely engulfed in an ir mindset, so you fall in the garbage category.

BM/WM can tell women like you from just 1 or 2 sentences and we avoid you. WM avoid your WW ir equivalent, and us BM avoid women like you.

There's nothing about you for a black man to want. You hate being black, you're stupid etc. You're the garbage of our race, and guess what... you date ir.

Like I said, it's a lot of garbage in black/white combination ir. A black woman/man that dates other minority groups is better balanced. But most BM/BW that chase after whites are garbage, just like you.

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#1021 Apr 7, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>My comment was strictly about age..I have no idea why some of you guys want to make it about women's level of desirability..let's be honest here.. There are women like Nia Long, Halle Berry, Kenya Moore, Angela Bassett, Jada Pickett who shyt on the average 20 year old all day every day..sure it may not be the norm, but there are other qualities that blow out youth & beauty in day of the week..besides youth and beauty have never secured a man...It's simply not a fear women have anymore..
Men don't interpret things that way. The average woman regardless of age is pretty stupid, so throw in bitter, old, etc... and the woman is a wrap.

The women that have the most success with men are gentle, kind, and very feminine and submissive. These women would cry before even thinking about engaging in the bitter angry dialogue that irbw spew.

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#1022 Apr 7, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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The problem that I've always had with you is that you're a bit more intelligent than these women and you know that, but yet you abuse it by playing to your selfish emotional side.
These women are hurting, and you give them dumb advice, and encourage their stupidity.
A single woman in her forties that has no direction and full of self hate is a disaster, and you know that.
Be a good woman and try and help these women instead of trying to win a gender debate.
As a brother native to Dez United States and duly entitled to the use of urban colloquialism Imma have to say.....THAT'S REAL TALK! This female inclination to lie to each other by distorting or outright lying on reality to give comfort and aid only serves to exacerbated their problems. Their abetting in each other delusions only removes them further from reasonable negotiation with reality. They argue not to find solutions, but to be right or to feel good.

Men, on the other hand, are more truthful. I once had one of my boys who was a cross between Shabba Ranks and Flavor Flav who was talking about leaving his wife who was beautiful and good to him. Me and the fellows told his azz that he was uglier than CATHOLIC SIN and that he should thank that sister for grading his azz on human curb! He laughed, went home and still to this day, thanks us for giving him perspective. While the first out of these chicks mouth to each other would be "girl you don't need him, you can do better."

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