I HATE being a BLACK WOMAN, Help!

I HATE being a BLACK WOMAN, Help!

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Tanya

United States

#1 Jan 8, 2012
hi everyone my name is tanya and i am a 26 years old black female. i grew up with both parents in middle class and not in the ghetto. my mom and dad are both black and they were great parents and i grew up a pretty normal life. only thing is all my life i have hated being a black girl and wish i was a white or other color female.

my hair is nappy, my skin is dark and i have to deal with all the bad sterotypes of black women which is too much for me. the only men that ever hit on me are black, and i like bm but i would like for other men to think i am beautiful and not just black men. i don't get along with other black women because they are always loud and ignorant and really really ghetto, even the middle class ones. i wish i was white because i get along better with white girls, but i know i am ugly and they are prettier than me even though they always tell me i am beautiful for a black girl.

i know there are skin bleaching creams and if anyone has tried them how good do they work. does it make you look really white or biracial? i don't want to look biracial either becuase nobody seems to like them either and they are just as ignorant as black women. has any black women here tried skin bleach creams please let me know.

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Since: Jan 12

East Central

#2 Jan 8, 2012
We know you want to be black women because you wouldn't have post as a black person,lol. Your true self is showing, you better cover before someone see. LOL!
Kimmy

Bolton, UK

#3 Jan 8, 2012
Tanya wrote:
hi everyone my name is tanya and i am a 26 years old black female. i grew up with both parents in middle class and not in the ghetto. my mom and dad are both black and they were great parents and i grew up a pretty normal life. only thing is all my life i have hated being a black girl and wish i was a white or other color female.
my hair is nappy, my skin is dark and i have to deal with all the bad sterotypes of black women which is too much for me. the only men that ever hit on me are black, and i like bm but i would like for other men to think i am beautiful and not just black men. i don't get along with other black women because they are always loud and ignorant and really really ghetto, even the middle class ones. i wish i was white because i get along better with white girls, but i know i am ugly and they are prettier than me even though they always tell me i am beautiful for a black girl.
i know there are skin bleaching creams and if anyone has tried them how good do they work. does it make you look really white or biracial? i don't want to look biracial either becuase nobody seems to like them either and they are just as ignorant as black women. has any black women here tried skin bleach creams please let me know.
I havent tried bleaching creams as I am biracial but people dont use creams anymore they use skin lightening tablets.

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Since: Jan 12

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#4 Jan 8, 2012
It's not because you are black it is because you are an American. American black women are very stupid and so are white American women also, they dye their hair to look Russian like me, they have no self pride. Stupid Americans.
Tanya

United States

#5 Jan 8, 2012
Nevah Empire1 wrote:
We know you want to be black women because you wouldn't have post as a black person,lol. Your true self is showing, you better cover before someone see. LOL!
sorry hun but i am a black woman. do you have anything positive to add? or you just gonna act like ghetto?

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#6 Jan 8, 2012
Then go to your local home depot...buy some white...slap it on you...and call it a day. You're welcome in advance
Tanya wrote:
hi everyone my name is tanya and i am a 26 years old black female. i grew up with both parents in middle class and not in the ghetto. my mom and dad are both black and they were great parents and i grew up a pretty normal life. only thing is all my life i have hated being a black girl and wish i was a white or other color female.
my hair is nappy, my skin is dark and i have to deal with all the bad sterotypes of black women which is too much for me. the only men that ever hit on me are black, and i like bm but i would like for other men to think i am beautiful and not just black men. i don't get along with other black women because they are always loud and ignorant and really really ghetto, even the middle class ones. i wish i was white because i get along better with white girls, but i know i am ugly and they are prettier than me even though they always tell me i am beautiful for a black girl.
i know there are skin bleaching creams and if anyone has tried them how good do they work. does it make you look really white or biracial? i don't want to look biracial either becuase nobody seems to like them either and they are just as ignorant as black women. has any black women here tried skin bleach creams please let me know.

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Since: Jun 08

DC

#7 Jan 8, 2012
*white paint

“deep in hawd country”

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Since: Jan 12

Maroodi Jeex

#8 Jan 8, 2012
Self-hate is a terrible thing..

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Since: Jan 12

East Central

#9 Jan 8, 2012
Tanya wrote:
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sorry hun but i am a black woman. do you have anything positive to add? or you just gonna act like ghetto?
One number hun, your not black. Because your saying something a Black women like myself, wouldn't say a million years, sweetie. Number two, you just have to act like your black. Maybe you want to be a black person, it's okay,white people hate theirselve and their race,lol. You must have so so mess up because "Ghetto" isn't me. I tell you the truth you don't want to see me go that way. Now Do You! Stop acting like white trash and pick your face off the floor.
Tanya

United States

#10 Jan 8, 2012
Kimmy wrote:
<quoted text>I havent tried bleaching creams as I am biracial but people dont use creams anymore they use skin lightening tablets.
i read that with tablets your nuckles and hands dont change and stay dark. real horror stories. do you know black women in the uk that bleach?

a--x--e

“Putrifying Trayvon...”

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Since: Dec 11

Grateful Nation

#11 Jan 8, 2012
Hi Moses!

Isn't manipulation of the ego efficient, especially when the target of said manipulation is SO WEAK?

You aimless fools can't govern your women because you're so preoccupied with YOURSELVES, so we'll do it for you.

Black men could change this situation, but they're too busy crying and whining like girls themselves to be bothered with being fathers or leaders.

So you're left with playing a black woman on Topix in order to vent your frustration with yourselves.
Tanya

United States

#12 Jan 8, 2012
ValeriyaKlum wrote:
It's not because you are black it is because you are an American. American black women are very stupid and so are white American women also, they dye their hair to look Russian like me, they have no self pride. Stupid Americans.
i'm stupid because i hate being black? i have you know i have a degree in communications. everybody wants to be pretty, that doens't make me stupid, just makes me human.
Kimmy

London, UK

#13 Jan 8, 2012
Tanya wrote:
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i read that with tablets your nuckles and hands dont change and stay dark. real horror stories. do you know black women in the uk that bleach?
Yes some of them do but their hands and necks are a different shades and they have black marks on thier faces because the cream wasnt distributed evenly,thats why celebrities are using the skin lightening pills instead.The hands must have extra melanin or something if the creams and pills dont change the colour.Michael Jackson used laser treatment and acid peels to change his skin colour.
Tanya

United States

#14 Jan 8, 2012
Geeljire wrote:
Self-hate is a terrible thing..
what ever. you try being black female in america with pretty light women to compete with and with black women sterotypes.
Tanya

United States

#15 Jan 8, 2012
Nevah Empire1 wrote:
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One number hun, your not black. Because your saying something a Black women like myself, wouldn't say a million years, sweetie. Number two, you just have to act like your black. Maybe you want to be a black person, it's okay,white people hate theirselve and their race,lol. You must have so so mess up because "Ghetto" isn't me. I tell you the truth you don't want to see me go that way. Now Do You! Stop acting like white trash and pick your face off the floor.
we're done hun okay?
Tanya

United States

#16 Jan 8, 2012
a--x--e wrote:
Hi Moses!
Isn't manipulation of the ego efficient, especially when the target of said manipulation is SO WEAK?
You aimless fools can't govern your women because you're so preoccupied with YOURSELVES, so we'll do it for you.
Black men could change this situation, but they're too busy crying and whining like girls themselves to be bothered with being fathers or leaders.
So you're left with playing a black woman on Topix in order to vent your frustration with yourselves.
huh? what do you want? i don't undersatnd your comment.

Level 2

Since: Jan 12

East Central

#17 Jan 8, 2012
Tanya wrote:
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we're done hun okay?
Whatever sheman bye! This a white person personality trait, how sickening and deranged,lol.
Tanya

United States

#18 Jan 8, 2012
Kimmy wrote:
<quoted text>Yes some of them do but their hands and necks are a different shades and they have black marks on thier faces because the cream wasnt distributed evenly,thats why celebrities are using the skin lightening pills instead.The hands must have extra melanin or something if the creams and pills dont change the colour.Michael Jackson used laser treatment and acid peels to change his skin colour.
i think i may try the pills. i want a gradual change. i like how pretty my white friends are. i love their long beautiful striaght hair. i have always wanted to sit and brush my hair like white girls do but for my hair it is a fight. even with perm.

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#19 Jan 8, 2012
The modern day black woman stupidity on full display. These women hate themselves and black men for absolutely no reason at all other than their own obsession with white women.

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Since: Apr 11

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#20 Jan 8, 2012
ValeriyaKlum wrote:
It's not because you are black it is because you are an American. American black women are very stupid and so are white American women also, they dye their hair to look Russian like me, they have no self pride. Stupid Americans.
Interesting... Let me tell you something about many Russians. They believe in extravagance, even if it means living beyond their means. It's nothing to see Russian girls with a lot of makeup, dyed hair and wearing shoes that may not even fit them just to say they are wearing designer labels. For many, wearing couture is more important than eating. Is it true that Russians attempted to push out Armenians and those who they considered to be of undesirable heritage?

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