Why Are BM So Bitter & Angry Toward IRBW

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#1892 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>lol...now you're saying there's no difference between men and women. the more i post to you, i think you must be either stupid or mental.
Why the abuse?

For AA - a group who are both oppressed culturally, psychologically, financially, etc - you are not different in how others see you. Why do you think BM were and are considered 'boys'? Even if your argument is that men and women are so different that sex is a benefit for one and not the other, BM masculinity is disregarded by the majority and mostly highlighted in a patronizing way.

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#1893 Oct 11, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
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Thats my point exactly. Looks bad for us...looks especially bad for her and sends a bad message to other women who post and read in this forum. We are not promoting women bashing....nor man bashing either.
You have no right to decide what messages are sent or opinions are given, it is wrong for to try to dictate what others can or can't say especially if it goes against you propaganda! If things look bad for you than you need to take a good, hard look at man in the mirror! You say that you are not promoting women bashing when you have called me everything but a Child of God!

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#1894 Oct 11, 2013
Capree wrote:
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You are beyond silly, insane and hypocritical, you are nothing but a backward Neanderthal and I am probably insulting the Neanderthals in saying that. It is black men like yourself who have no common sense and overflows in ignorance (a chimpanzee has more intelligence than you)that makes me look down on and don't respect what most black men have to say. There is no reason or rhyme to your logic. You don't care about your black families, your black children, educating yourselves, your careers or bettering yourselves or the world around you. All black men like you can think of is ways to fk funky white pussie and that's it. The world could go to hell. You are of no value to anyone, least of all yourselves.
This is why I continue to pray black men as a whole never obtain any real power in this country and continue to be jokes next to our real movers and shakers the white men. Because America would be 3rd world in a matter of days if ignorant, lazy, white puzzie obsessed black buffoons like you took over.
Yeah...yeah...yeah...now we see your fangs....got something for that too...check this out...

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#1895 Oct 11, 2013
Capree wrote:
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You have no right to decide what messages are sent or opinions are given, it is wrong for to try to dictate what others can or can't say especially if it goes against you propaganda! If things look bad for you than you need to take a good, hard look at man in the mirror! You say that you are not promoting women bashing when you have called me everything but a Child of God!
Just go Capree..its too late for you to judge ANYBODY...don't go away mad...just go away...here's a better explanation for ya in color....

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#1896 Oct 11, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
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Just go Capree..its too late for you to judge ANYBODY...don't go away mad...just go away...here's a better explanation for ya in color....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =6TFv2YmowJgXX
Nope, sorry I will be here for a while,LOL!

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#1897 Oct 11, 2013
Capree wrote:
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You have no right to decide what messages are sent or opinions are given, it is wrong for to try to dictate what others can or can't say especially if it goes against you propaganda! If things look bad for you than you need to take a good, hard look at man in the mirror! You say that you are not promoting women bashing when you have called me everything but a Child of God!
Bich...you keep talking about rights...what about the rights of people in this thread that out number you that you have totally...totally disrespected with your bullsh*t you selfish bich...what about them?

You don't know anything about rights bich...you need to find a book on rights and watch some trials in the court systems, thats how I know you are not from here.

1)YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DISRESPECT ME. LEST YE GET BUST IN THE MOUTH.

2) YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DISCREDIT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN ABOUT HOW THEY HANDLE THEIR CHILDREN AND MEN...GO TO YOUR FORUM...YOU SURELY HAVE YOUR HANDS FULL OVER THERE.

3) THIS IS NOT A "RIGHT OF PASSAGE" COUNTRY, HOWEVER YOU DO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO RECEIVE WHAT YOU GIVE OUT. NO SENSE IN ARGUING YOUR POINT....THE POINT IS....

NOBODY HARDLY AT ALL WANTS TO DEAL WITH YOU ANYMORE. YOU THINK THEY ARE JUST GOING TO SIT AROUND WHILE YOU TALK ABOUT THEIR FAMILIES LIKE THEY ARE SH*T. YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE. THERE ARE A FEW MORE THAT ARE SOON TO BE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO COMMUNICATE WITH LIKE YOU. POISONING OUR YOUNG WOMEN...AND MAKING THE MEN ANGRY THAT IN TURN POSSIBLY MAKES THE WOMEN ANGRY. FU*K YOU BIT*H...NOW GET LOST ALREADY...I'M THROUGH WITH YA.

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#1898 Oct 11, 2013
*smh*

Capree thinks the rules don't apply to her. It's fine when her buddies come in to curse, threaten and create chaos with her but she whines like a little baby if someone else has backing or takes a stand against her. She and her buddies think nothing of lying, twisting and fabricating but one daren't do it to her or she spins out like a flaming downed missile. Her last comments to me showed how low class she actually is. For someone who claims to be so happy in her relationship, she certainly spends a lot of time on this site bashing those who cross the colour line like she did. HYPOCRITE sums her up to a T.....smh.....

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#1899 Oct 11, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
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Bich...you keep talking about rights...what about the rights of people in this thread that out number you that you have totally...totally disrespected with your bullsh*t you selfish bich...what about them?
You don't know anything about rights bich...you need to find a book on rights and watch some trials in the court systems, thats how I know you are not from here.
1)YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DISRESPECT ME. LEST YE GET BUST IN THE MOUTH.
2) YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DISCREDIT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN ABOUT HOW THEY HANDLE THEIR CHILDREN AND MEN...GO TO YOUR FORUM...YOU SURELY HAVE YOUR HANDS FULL OVER THERE.
3) THIS IS NOT A "RIGHT OF PASSAGE" COUNTRY, HOWEVER YOU DO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO RECEIVE WHAT YOU GIVE OUT. NO SENSE IN ARGUING YOUR POINT....THE POINT IS....
NOBODY HARDLY AT ALL WANTS TO DEAL WITH YOU ANYMORE. YOU THINK THEY ARE JUST GOING TO SIT AROUND WHILE YOU TALK ABOUT THEIR FAMILIES LIKE THEY ARE SH*T. YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE. THERE ARE A FEW MORE THAT ARE SOON TO BE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO COMMUNICATE WITH LIKE YOU. POISONING OUR YOUNG WOMEN...AND MAKING THE MEN ANGRY THAT IN TURN POSSIBLY MAKES THE WOMEN ANGRY. FU*K YOU BIT*H...NOW GET LOST ALREADY...I'M THROUGH WITH YA.
I have to weigh in here. This is typical to many AA that I deal with...why get so overly emotion about someone who you don't know providing their perspective or experiences? It appears as if you are guilty of being the way others describe when you get defensive and emotion. That's how most people see it. When you silence others, it's not necessarily because you won an argument, for most, it's due to not wanting to endure an unnecessary tantrum.

It's unrealistic and immature to try to control what information is disseminated. You don't live in a communist country and neither are you the dictator if you did. You are also not a three year old able to get away with a tantrum.

If you don't like the information someone posts your options are to ignore, refute the argument or report them if it's false or harassing. That's it. You have no power to ban another as you do not own the site, neither are you a moderator.

I hope this clarifies everything.

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#1900 Oct 11, 2013
NotSoDivineMsM wrote:
*smh*
Capree thinks the rules don't apply to her. It's fine when her buddies come in to curse, threaten and create chaos with her but she whines like a little baby if someone else has backing or takes a stand against her. She and her buddies think nothing of lying, twisting and fabricating but one daren't do it to her or she spins out like a flaming downed missile. Her last comments to me showed how low class she actually is. For someone who claims to be so happy in her relationship, she certainly spends a lot of time on this site bashing those who cross the colour line like she did. HYPOCRITE sums her up to a T.....smh.....
YOU NAILED IT...SHE'S NOT EVEN A WOMAN...THATS MUCH OF A LIE SHE REALLY IS.

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#1901 Oct 11, 2013
so, we all on the same page about ignoring capree?...the thing brothas gotta understand about capree and sbt and shalimar and some of the other crazy females on topix is that this is a free forum. that means any crazy b8tch can come on here and post comments all day long...they not tryna make sense or tryna have a "constructive debate." they're haunted by demons and this is their lil way to get stuff off their chest...of course they not gonna make sense. off course they fulla self-hate and all kinds of crazy ideas that make your skin crawl... that's part of their mental illness. brothers just gotta understand that these are females with emotional problems and deal with them people appropriately.

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#1902 Oct 11, 2013
Capree wrote:
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You have no right to decide what messages are sent or opinions are given, it is wrong for to try to dictate what others can or can't say especially if it goes against you propaganda! If things look bad for you than you need to take a good, hard look at man in the mirror! You say that you are not promoting women bashing when you have called me everything but a Child of God!
bringthtruth is a positive and conscious brother who is about uplifting the black race. you are a self-hating uncle tom who is about downgrading the black race. if anybody can't look in the mirror it's your rotten to the core, despicable a88.

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#1903 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
so, we all on the same page about ignoring capree?...the thing brothas gotta understand about capree and sbt and shalimar and some of the other crazy females on topix is that this is a free forum. that means any crazy b8tch can come on here and post comments all day long...they not tryna make sense or tryna have a "constructive debate." they're haunted by demons and this is their lil way to get stuff off their chest...of course they not gonna make sense. off course they fulla self-hate and all kinds of crazy ideas that make your skin crawl... that's part of their mental illness. brothers just gotta understand that these are females with emotional problems and deal with them people appropriately.
There also comes a time when enough is enough...and dealing with that person is not an option. Its time to stop....try it in your life. You'll feel a world better. They can learn to deal with things without input from someone that has been there for them to sh*t on. If a crack addict keeps coming to you for crack because you'll give it to him and you have run out of options...what is the next step. Divine Intervention...which means people are not there for you anymore. Time to look at yourself in the mirror. Nobody is trying to figure their sh*t out...we're trying to get away from it.

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#1904 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>bringthtruth is a positive and conscious brother who is about uplifting the black race. you are a self-hating uncle tom who is about downgrading the black race. if anybody can't look in the mirror it's your rotten to the core, despicable a88.
The truth shall set us all free. Thank you for discerning that for it/man.

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#1905 Oct 11, 2013
Real simple they think it's ok for them to date other races but bw are suppose to stay with bm. Meanwhile they sport around fat nasty looking white chicks that MOST white men would reject like trophy queens lmao

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#1906 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>bringthtruth is a positive and conscious brother who is about uplifting the black race. you are a self-hating uncle tom who is about downgrading the black race. if anybody can't look in the mirror it's your rotten to the core, despicable a88.
dude please you SURELY don't uplift or support the black race you are too hung up on non black chicks. Bringthytruth while I'm sure he means well he acts like a kid just because a person has a different opinion from his! Adults realize that everyone has an opinion and have the right to voice it! Serious control issues

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#1907 Oct 11, 2013
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> dude please you SURELY don't uplift or support the black race you are too hung up on non black chicks. Bringthytruth while I'm sure he means well he acts like a kid just because a person has a different opinion from his! Adults realize that everyone has an opinion and have the right to voice it! Serious control issues
i think he's got a good point about ignoring certain posters who don't bring anything positive or constructive to the table. in america we all have the right to speak, but not the right to be heard.

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#1908 Oct 11, 2013
Blaq honey wrote:
Real simple they think it's ok for them to date other races but bw are suppose to stay with bm. Meanwhile they sport around fat nasty looking white chicks that MOST white men would reject like trophy queens lmao
that's the thing about black people that i will never understand. i know a lotta wm who are interested in women that i wouldn't even look at. then there are women that i find attractive that they don't. since when the wm is the arbiter of good taste for bm?...most bm don't need to wm to tell us what we should/shouldn't like. so, if you see a bm with a big ww, it's because he found her attractive on some level regardless of how the wm feels about her. many bm love a big woman regardless...i'm talking big bw, ww, hw...samoan women...but you don't hear bw complaining about "wm would reject" all the big bw that bm date.

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#1909 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>i think he's got a good point about ignoring certain posters who don't bring anything positive or constructive to the table. in america we all have the right to speak, but not the right to be heard.
he has the right to speak his mind but no one really gives a f$&@ I already ignore certain posters. What exactly positive do you bring to this forum???
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#1910 Oct 11, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that's the thing about black people that i will never understand. i know a lotta wm who are interested in women that i wouldn't even look at. then there are women that i find attractive that they don't. since when the wm is the arbiter of good taste for bm?...most bm don't need to wm to tell us what we should/shouldn't like. so, if you see a bm with a big ww, it's because he found her attractive on some level regardless of how the wm feels about her. many bm love a big woman regardless...i'm talking big bw, ww, hw...samoan women...but you don't hear bw complaining about "wm would reject" all the big bw th bm date.
who's complaining? Just stating facts the point is bm date anything white just to have a white chick on their arms. It's not just the weight they are normally unattractive. I wouldn't have anything to say if bm were dating attractive white women

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#1911 Oct 11, 2013
Becky Robbins wrote:
<quoted text> who's complaining? Just stating facts the point is bm date anything white just to have a white chick on their arms. It's not just the weight they are normally unattractive. I wouldn't have anything to say if bm were dating attractive white women
that`s the whole point...those bm are dating ww that are attractive to THEM. none of them asked you what you think of their date. many bm question the taste of bw too...a lotta bm find some of the wm y`all bw rave over and date to be way below standards...but you don`t see us constantly complaining about how you`re getting the ww`s rejects.

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