Why Are BM So Bitter & Angry Toward IRBW

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#1815 Sep 20, 2013
T-BOS wrote:
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Yes, the "revenge theory" is what angry black males try to claim, though it's common knowledge it's simply an attempt to soothe their crushed egos. In reality, non-black women and other races of men are drawn together because they're attracted to each other, and the attraction is often physical.
Yep, I find black men will use any excuse as to why black women are now dating more nonblack men instead of only relying on black men for dates and marriage because knowing that many black women really find nonblack men attractive also, hurts black men's egos and black men also wants to keep some fake image of themselves as women magnets alive. Funny these same black men could care less if black women's egos were hurt or about black women's image when these black men praised and stood in line for other races of women and these black men also took extra zeal in thinking they were stumping on white men's ego by taking their women. Most of these black men were too dumb to realize that majority of white women that they could get was bottom of the barrel one that white men had no use for.
I-Twerks

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#1818 Sep 20, 2013
Perhaps uneducated BM are bitter I guess, I don't know. Since I'm a 'computer' type, black girls (and many blacks in general) have never liked me. So I'm happy with my non black mates. If any thing, BW (and recently for some reason, WM) make faces and hate on us. But to be honest, after so many years, I have intuitively learned to 'tune' this crap out. However, every now and then a BW (age, body type, hair type, etc does not matter) or WM will make such a complete ass of herself/himself, I can't help but notice. Usually the hate is directed to my mate.
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.

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#1819 Sep 21, 2013
I-Twerks wrote:
Perhaps uneducated BM are bitter I guess, I don't know. Since I'm a 'computer' type, black girls (and many blacks in general) have never liked me. So I'm happy with my non black mates. If any thing, BW (and recently for some reason, WM) make faces and hate on us. But to be honest, after so many years, I have intuitively learned to 'tune' this crap out. However, every now and then a BW (age, body type, hair type, etc does not matter) or WM will make such a complete ass of herself/himself, I can't help but notice. Usually the hate is directed to my mate.
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It's a fact that bw are the least feminine of all women and bm are the most masculine of men. this is why I find it strange that so many bm still want to be with bw. my own woman is asian. and after being with her for a few years, it's impossible for me to even consider going back to bw...if I told you some of the SH*T bw put bm through you would wonder yourself what it is we see in them...I look back now at my early 20's...there was mostly bw around me and that's who i was interested in. then when i got around more asian, latin, pacific islander women, it was like the sun rose on me...it was a whole different world. these women were so different... sweet, feminine, SUPPORTIVE, kind and humble. it was a different kind of experience. american bw are just hard for no reason...brothers who want to keep it black will find life a lot easier if they date more african, brazilian and haitian women. forget these rude, stupid, lowlife, obnoxious american bw.

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#1820 Sep 21, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>It's a fact that bw are the least feminine of all women and bm are the most masculine of men. this is why I find it strange that so many bm still want to be with bw. my own woman is asian. and after being with her for a few years, it's impossible for me to even consider going back to bw...if I told you some of the SH*T bw put bm through you would wonder yourself what it is we see in them...I look back now at my early 20's...there was mostly bw around me and that's who i was interested in. then when i got around more asian, latin, pacific islander women, it was like the sun rose on me...it was a whole different world. these women were so different... sweet, feminine, SUPPORTIVE, kind and humble. it was a different kind of experience. american bw are just hard for no reason...brothers who want to keep it black will find life a lot easier if they date more african, brazilian and haitian women. forget these rude, stupid, lowlife, obnoxious american bw.
I don't understand what kind of prize you seem to think the typical BM in America is...the way you describe your experiences with BW in America is akin and likely not as bad as my experiences with BM...and I never wanted them but remained civil and polite. I can't say the same for most of the ones who approach me. In other words, your disturbing experiences with BW is NOT gender specific. In fact, I think the BW are light years ahead of BM and many seem to agree with that outside of the black race....that is not an attempt to cause a gender division within the BC.

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#1821 Sep 21, 2013
I-Twerks wrote:
Perhaps uneducated BM are bitter I guess, I don't know. Since I'm a 'computer' type, black girls (and many blacks in general) have never liked me. So I'm happy with my non black mates. If any thing, BW (and recently for some reason, WM) make faces and hate on us. But to be honest, after so many years, I have intuitively learned to 'tune' this crap out. However, every now and then a BW (age, body type, hair type, etc does not matter) or WM will make such a complete ass of herself/himself, I can't help but notice. Usually the hate is directed to my mate.
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You have a good theory about the BM who are uneducated who are likely the vocal minority...although I've run into many in college who are like this and/ or who have provided many disturbing experiences for BW and others in general.

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#1822 Sep 21, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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I don't understand what kind of prize you seem to think the typical BM in America is...the way you describe your experiences with BW in America is akin and likely not as bad as my experiences with BM...and I never wanted them but remained civil and polite. I can't say the same for most of the ones who approach me. In other words, your disturbing experiences with BW is NOT gender specific. In fact, I think the BW are light years ahead of BM and many seem to agree with that outside of the black race....that is not an attempt to cause a gender division within the BC.
of course many white men will tell you that bw are lightyears ahead of bm. bw are no threat to wm or to anybody else...the ones they fear and the ones they see as the enemy that threatens them the most is bm. no race will praise their enemy...that's basic commonsense.

as for the rest of your post, i'm sure that bm treat bw fked up too...bm are known for not being faithful. we are known for wanting to fk a lotta different women even when we are in a relationship. however, when a bm is HAPPY in a relationship, you won't find him fkin around as much. Take me for example. When I was with bw, I would fk their friends and cheat on them in a second. This is because i was always at odds with the bw i dated. I thought that was just the nature of male-female relationships. then I got with an asian girl who treated me like a king and took care of my every need and even would take the time to make sure that i always felt loved and taken care of...and you know what? I have no interest in cheating on her. I see other women who look good, but none that turn me on like my own...if you had asked me before I met her, I woulda told you "i'm not capable of being faithful"... but being with her has made me a better person. a woman really can make a tremendous difference in a man's life.

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#1823 Sep 21, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>of course many white men will tell you that bw are lightyears ahead of bm. bw are no threat to wm or to anybody else...the ones they fear and the ones they see as the enemy that threatens them the most is bm. no race will praise their enemy...that's basic commonsense.
as for the rest of your post, i'm sure that bm treat bw fked up too...bm are known for not being faithful. we are known for wanting to fk a lotta different women even when we are in a relationship. however, when a bm is HAPPY in a relationship, you won't find him fkin around as much. Take me for example. When I was with bw, I would fk their friends and cheat on them in a second. This is because i was always at odds with the bw i dated. I thought that was just the nature of male-female relationships. then I got with an asian girl who treated me like a king and took care of my every need and even would take the time to make sure that i always felt loved and taken care of...and you know what? I have no interest in cheating on her. I see other women who look good, but none that turn me on like my own...if you had asked me before I met her, I woulda told you "i'm not capable of being faithful"... but being with her has made me a better person. a woman really can make a tremendous difference in a man's life.
Interesting - thanks for your thoughts, but you didn't answer anything regarding mine. You simply assumed which groups I referenced and then spoke about BM, cheating and your experiences. I never mentioned cheating.

I'm referring to experiences with BM approaching at universities and grad school and doing many disturbing things to me, a woman who keeps to herself and always wishes to remain civil. I've had BM from grad school who was married me, corner me and grab himself saying I wished I had this...yet I was not attracted to him, never indicated otherwise and never wish to interact. BM who snap and assume false negative things yet grow angry when I politely decline their invitations to hang out, BM who have screamed in my face without provocation only because I politely rejected their crass sexual invitations, BM who admit to knowing what they're doing is rude, but continue forth, BM who told me randomly that I'd make a great baby mama despite knowing in a phd, remarking on the amount of men stated at me and telling me about the baby mama they hated, and so forth. All in grad schools.

As for those ego say BW conduct themselves generally better, I haven't heard that from WM. I've heard it from Asians, Africans and even some BM.
T-BOS

Atlanta, GA

#1824 Sep 21, 2013
The thread's headline and OP's message is simple - black men's jealousy and envy upon knowing they're continuously facing stiff, if not insurmountable competition. I know it, you know it, BM in general know it and the American people know it.

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#1825 Sep 21, 2013
T-BOS wrote:
The thread's headline and OP's message is simple - black men's jealousy and envy upon knowing they're continuously facing stiff, if not insurmountable competition. I know it, you know it, BM in general know it and the American people know it.
So how can others prevent the wrath of BM who are angered by BW not submitting to their will?
T-BOS

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#1826 Sep 21, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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So how can others prevent the wrath of BM who are angered by BW not submitting to their will?
Your question has alot of merit since in America in the past few years alone, there's been several documented incidents of large packs of angry black males jumping on such couples with most of the aggression towards the non-black. The tactics don't seem to be working however, and may only be contributing slightly to furthering non-black man/black women sex and relationships.

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#1828 Sep 22, 2013
I-Twerks wrote:
Perhaps uneducated BM are bitter I guess, I don't know. Since I'm a 'computer' type, black girls (and many blacks in general) have never liked me. So I'm happy with my non black mates. If any thing, BW (and recently for some reason, WM) make faces and hate on us. But to be honest, after so many years, I have intuitively learned to 'tune' this crap out. However, every now and then a BW (age, body type, hair type, etc does not matter) or WM will make such a complete ass of herself/himself, I can't help but notice. Usually the hate is directed to my mate.
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Basically black women and white men have had gotten us to it and are not surprise and anyway most of the white women who get with black men are bottom of the barrel .
I-Twerks

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#1829 Sep 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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most of the white women who get with black men are bottom of the barrel .
Errrrrrr...sorry, put the bath salts down. Your wish didn't come true. My GF is Mexican, a college grad born in the states to a Mexican mother and (absent) Spanish father. She could be a model if she were a little taller. She actually looks a lot like the new Miss America who has Indian parents. But my GF is shorter, with a light complexion. Bottom of the barrel you say? I think not. Yes, I think not much...

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#1830 Sep 22, 2013
I-Twerks wrote:
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Errrrrrr...sorry, put the bath salts down. Your wish didn't come true. My GF is Mexican, a college grad born in the states to a Mexican mother and (absent) Spanish father. She could be a model if she were a little taller. She actually looks a lot like the new Miss America who has Indian parents. But my GF is shorter, with a light complexion. Bottom of the barrel you say? I think not. Yes, I think not much...
So now Mexicans people in your view are superior to you and other black people and are to be prized? Man you self-haters make me laugh. I am happy for you because I certainly wouldn't you or for any of my female relatives or friend to date someone like you.
Style

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#1831 Sep 22, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Yep, I find black men will use any excuse as to why black women are now dating more nonblack men instead of only relying on black men for dates and marriage because knowing that many black women really find nonblack men attractive also, hurts black men's egos and black men also wants to keep some fake image of themselves as women magnets alive. Funny these same black men could care less if black women's egos were hurt or about black women's image when these black men praised and stood in line for other races of women and these black men also took extra zeal in thinking they were stumping on white men's ego by taking their women. Most of these black men were too dumb to realize that majority of white women that they could get was bottom of the barrel one that white men had no use for.
Actually most studies show that BM are second in the desirability league...after WM. And if we consider that BM are at the bottom of the economic, intellectual and social ladder, then the fact that we are second means that we have 'something' going on. That 'something' is that WM simply can't figure out.

OTOH these same studies show that BW are at the BOTTOM of the desirability league. Behind Whites, Asians, Latinas, Eskimos and women from Mars!

And like my man, Tommy, said. A BM can get a woman of any race without having to change their appearance or personality.

Contrast this with a IRBW and what do we see? Hair-hats, weave, contact lenses, Cooning, European philosophical thinking...including anti BM racism, and the 'White' mask. In short the IRBW has to transform herself into another person...the Euroblack or Negropean.

This should give the "intelligent" some insight why the IRBW is loathed and despised. Everything about them is TRAITOROUS AND FAKE!

“A queen never bow downs”

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#1832 Sep 22, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>of course many white men will tell you that bw are lightyears ahead of bm. bw are no threat to wm or to anybody else...the ones they fear and the ones they see as the enemy that threatens them the most is bm. no race will praise their enemy...that's basic commonsense.
as for the rest of your post, i'm sure that bm treat bw fked up too...bm are known for not being faithful. we are known for wanting to fk a lotta different women even when we are in a relationship. however, when a bm is HAPPY in a relationship, you won't find him fkin around as much. Take me for example. When I was with bw, I would fk their friends and cheat on them in a second. This is because i was always at odds with the bw i dated. I thought that was just the nature of male-female relationships. then I got with an asian girl who treated me like a king and took care of my every need and even would take the time to make sure that i always felt loved and taken care of...and you know what? I have no interest in cheating on her. I see other women who look good, but none that turn me on like my own...if you had asked me before I met her, I woulda told you "i'm not capable of being faithful"... but being with her has made me a better person. a woman really can make a tremendous difference in a man's life.
Do you control her? I heard they are very submissive. Bm love submissive women.

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#1833 Sep 22, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>It's a fact that bw are the least feminine of all women and bm are the most masculine of men. this is why I find it strange that so many bm still want to be with bw. my own woman is asian. and after being with her for a few years, it's impossible for me to even consider going back to bw...if I told you some of the SH*T bw put bm through you would wonder yourself what it is we see in them...I look back now at my early 20's...there was mostly bw around me and that's who i was interested in. then when i got around more asian, latin, pacific islander women, it was like the sun rose on me...it was a whole different world. these women were so different... sweet, feminine, SUPPORTIVE, kind and humble. it was a different kind of experience. american bw are just hard for no reason...brothers who want to keep it black will find life a lot easier if they date more african, brazilian and haitian women. forget these rude, stupid, lowlife, obnoxious american bw.
bw are the least feminine of all women < Which is true because other race of women had their fathers/husbands while black women have to play the protector/provider/mother.

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#1834 Sep 22, 2013
Style wrote:
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Actually most studies show that BM are second in the desirability league...after WM. And if we consider that BM are at the bottom of the economic, intellectual and social ladder, then the fact that we are second means that we have 'something' going on. That 'something' is that WM simply can't figure out.
OTOH these same studies show that BW are at the BOTTOM of the desirability league. Behind Whites, Asians, Latinas, Eskimos and women from Mars!
Funny how black men "SAY" (this please post those 2 stupid quacks) without posting a thread of proof. White men are on average are the most universally accepted men while black men are at the other end of the spectrum. Only think black men got going for them when it comes to women is persistence.
Style wrote:
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And like my man, Tommy, said. A BM can get a woman of any race without having to change their appearance or personality.
Contrast this with a IRBW and what do we see? Hair-hats, weave, contact lenses, Cooning, European philosophical thinking...including anti BM racism, and the 'White' mask. In short the IRBW has to transform herself into another person...the Euroblack or Negropean.
This should give the "intelligent" some insight why the IRBW is loathed and despised. Everything about them is TRAITOROUS AND FAKE!
The majority of black women don't even want black men.

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#1835 Sep 22, 2013
Black men disgust me.

But I just hope BW who date other races go for like, Hispanic guys.
I-Twerks

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#1836 Sep 22, 2013
Like I/we care. My first WW was my 8th grade teacher back in the 80's. Haven't stopped since...
PinkPearl wrote:
Black men disgust me.
But I just hope BW who date other races go for like, Hispanic guys.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#1837 Sep 22, 2013
I-Twerks wrote:
Like I/we care. My first WW was my 8th grade teacher back in the 80's. Haven't stopped since...
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If you didn't care, then why would you feel the need to mention dating other races? Pft, lol. That's why I don't like Black guys, you people are like dumb little kids. The sad part is, dumb little Black guy, is that I used to only want to date Black guys and I wanted Black kids and a good, Black family, but you guys are pathetic - and I'm sure you KNOW it too.

Date whoever, I wouldn't care if you decided to go live in Antarctica. You're nothing to me.

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