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SadButTrue

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#1794
Oct 8, 2011
 
Tim from Evanston-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>You are dumb, statistics are always wrong because they don't sample everyone. Also statistics can be slanted however the person doing the study wants them to be slanted. So if you want to keep being stupid go ahead. Just like the stat that 70% of BW are single.
You fall into many of those stats as well as the stereotypes as well as your friends do too!

FACTS are the FACTS MACEO!

What have you done for any Black women including family members?

Not damn thing!

You won't even visit your Sister in the mid-west because you were so busy elevating your Ex White wife's family running a "marathon for any White woman" doing for them that you didn't do a damn thing for your own Black women in your own family!

Trifling Trifling Trifing!

You run a Marathon to do for "White folks" so you can get approval for their White skin only!

Oh yes, you do fit the Stereotypes MACEO!
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Oct 8, 2011
 
AlphaFemme-MACEO wrote:
You know what ladies, I'm gonna be real honest with you all: it really does no good to continue to cast pearls before swine via conversation with these mentally challenged, emotionally crippled Neanderthals. It doesn't make you (us) look good, and it can't possibly make you feel good, either. Ignore these bottomfeeders and find something more meaningful and worthwhile to focus on.
You fall into many of those stats as well as the stereotypes as well as your friends do too!

FACTS are the FACTS MACEO!

What have you done for any Black women including family members?

Not damn thing!

You won't even visit your Sister in the mid-west because you were so busy elevating your Ex White wife's family running a "marathon for any White woman" doing for them that you didn't do a damn thing for your own Black women in your own family!

Trifling Trifling Trifing!

You run a Marathon to do for "White folks" so you can get approval for their White skin only!

Oh yes, you do fit the Stereotypes MACEO!

STFU YOU CRAZY ARSE MONKEY RECLUSE!
SadButTrue

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#1796
Oct 8, 2011
 
When Does Supporting Black Men Become Tiring?

Written by Tamika Mallory on September 30, 2011 1:01 pm Click for MoreNext Post

A few days ago, a couple of girlfriends and I got together for dinner to catch up, vent and let off some overheated steam. What started off as escapism from our every day battles quickly transformed into a precise focus on those very struggles.

‘Tamika, I want to talk about anything but politics, nothing serious please,’ is what they said.” But before you knew it, our discussion revolving around the men in our lives soon enough was fixated on the economy, jobs, housing, disproportionate incarceration rates – oh, and sex. As these external factors deteriorate, so too does family life, relationships and of course so too does the sex. It’s time to be frank and honest ladies and gentlemen.

It’s no secret that the economic downfall of ’08 and the continued ramifications have affected us the most. With staggering unemployment rates that are double and sometimes triple the rates of joblessness among whites in some areas, a crippling rate of foreclosures, inadequate schools, reduced after-school programs and diminished opportunities overall, communities of color are bearing the brunt of this financial disaster. And not surprisingly, more of our men are sometimes resorting to desperate means of providing for their families — and as a result — an astronomical number are finding themselves behind bars. The many that continually push to find legit work are losing faith as they are often the last ones hired in an environment where employers often look out for ‘their own’ first not us.

My friends and I, some who are married and some in serious relationships, all agreed on one thing: we’re just flat out tired of trying to encourage these men out here. Even though we fully comprehend the dynamics at play that make it so extraordinarily difficult for our brothers to find work, we are simply exhausted from giving all of our energy and unconditional support – while at the same time holding down our own work. Black men often complain that we nag too much. But what happens when the nagging stops? Does that mean that we no longer care? Or have we matured to a place of understanding what the other person may be going through? Perhaps the answer lies somewhere in between.

While we try to support our men both emotionally (and these days many times financially), we may be forgetting to take care of ourselves as well. And with more men in jail, turning Gay and entertaining "other women" and not helpiin use, we’re clearly not receiving the attention we deserve. Let’s be honest there are also more and more women pleasing other women as well as more of our women seeking other men as a result. When men are broke or struggling, and have never been there for us where can we turn?

http://newsone.com/newsone-original/tmallory/...

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#1797
Oct 8, 2011
 
Whoever the hell this "MACEO" is, clearly I am NOT him.*eyeroll*

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SadButTrue wrote:
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I agree with you if the BM is good. The problem is most women can't find a "Good Black Man" and in many cases becuase BM are so sorely behind other races of men; most don't measure up.
There very correct!
Its not a small point its only a "Drop of decent BM' not worth trying to find.
Manny of the articles are telling BW to seek out other races and there saying that other races do 100% better than 85% of BM in almost every area of social life.
Its its also not fair for BW to handle the entire burdens. Read this article there tons of articles on how poorly BM treat us and how they don't care!
When Does Supporting Black Men Become Tiring?
Written by Tamika Mallory on September 30, 2011 1:01 pm Click for MoreNext Post
A few days ago, a couple of girlfriends and I got together for dinner to catch up, vent and let off some overheated steam. What started off as escapism from our every day battles quickly transformed into a precise focus on those very struggles.
‘Tamika, I want to talk about anything but politics, nothing serious please,’ is what they said.” But before you knew it, our discussion revolving around the men in our lives soon enough was fixated on the economy, jobs, housing, disproportionate incarceration rates – oh, and sex. As these external factors deteriorate, so too does family life, relationships and of course so too does the sex. It’s time to be frank and honest ladies and gentlemen.
It’s no secret that the economic downfall of ’08 and the continued ramifications have affected us the most. With staggering unemployment rates that are double and sometimes triple the rates of joblessness among whites in some areas, a crippling rate of foreclosures, inadequate schools, reduced after-school programs and diminished opportunities overall, communities of color are bearing the brunt of this financial disaster. And not surprisingly, more of our men are sometimes resorting to desperate means of providing for their families — and as a result — an astronomical number are finding themselves behind bars. The many that continually push to find legit work are losing faith as they are often the last ones hired in an environment where employers often look out for ‘their own’ first not us.
My friends and I, some who are married and some in serious relationships, all agreed on one thing: we’re just flat out tired of trying to encourage these men out here. Even though we fully comprehend the dynamics at play that make it so extraordinarily difficult for our brothers to find work, we are simply exhausted from giving all of our energy and unconditional support – while at the same time holding down our own work. Black men often complain that we nag too much. But what happens when the nagging stops? Does that mean that we no longer care? Or have we matured to a place of understanding what the other person may be going through? Perhaps the answer lies somewhere in between.
While we try to support our men both emotionally (and these days many times financially), we may be forgetting to take care of ourselves as well. And with more men in jail, turning Gay and entertaining "other women" and not helpiin use, we’re clearly not receiving the attention we deserve. Let’s be honest there are also more and more women pleasing other women as well as more of our women seeking other men as a result. When men are broke or struggling, and have never been there for us where can we turn?
http://newsone.com/newsone-original/tmallory/...
so worried about what BM do and donnt do. just accept BM donnt want u and move on

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LovinLife1974 wrote:
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so worried about what BM do and donnt do. just accept BM donnt want u and move on
Agreed - the feeling is more than mutual, to be sure. To paraphrase the Louisiana Emperor: I have zero intentions on continuing to "provide comfort and aid to the enemy".:-)
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most black men renounce their own race of women with non-black men well more than non-black men do vice versa.

often, this opposition is manifested thru violence as there's a substantial amount of documented attacks from mobs of black males against such couples (WM/BF) in the outside world in the past few years, again more than vice versa, per capita.

if the black male's motives, whether verbal or physical, against the such couples who are not bothering them wasn't mainly jealousy-based, what else could it be and why would they care?

a crush to their ego, even the most liberal or subtle black man, if given the choice, would rather see the WM/BF vehicle dissipate while seeing the BM/WF vehicle increase.
the boundaries of space

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#1802
Aug 31, 2012
 
[8/31/12] 3 Jealous Black Men Attack White Man For Having Black G/F

coming from Georgia, it's the most recent case so far. is this reflective of true confidence in your theories?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/31/andr...

``A Georgia woman says her boyfriend, 23-year-old Andrew Quade, was brutally beaten last Friday because the couple is interracial.

The attack, which occurred just before midnight in a busy part of downtown Savannah, left Quade with severe facial injuries.

Olufisayo Bakre, Quade's girlfriend, said she and Quade were walking through Ellis Square when a trio of black men started making "racial comments" and "blowing kisses" at the couple.

According to Bakre, the men then attacked Quade. "He was basically left for dead," she said. The couple have felt discriminated against in the past, but nothing had ever risen to the level of a physical altercation.

"I just hope justice prevails at the end of the day. This should not happen in this day and age. I know we're in the South, but it is time for a change," Bakre said.``
SadButTrue

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#1803
Aug 31, 2012
 
LovinLife1974-Scott wrote:
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so worried about what BM do and donnt do. just accept BM donnt want u and move on
My man is white, I don't date Black men!
the boundaries of space

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cases such as the one depicted in the following link illustrate that in America, black males are not only insanely jealous of their non-black counterparts, but also that they don't believe their own racial theories. such cases are not anomalies - they are growing.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/31/andr
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#1805
Sep 8, 2012
 
lol the black man is god. One only has to look at boundaries of space and gaybutfalse. These two sad individuals have dedicated their lives in creating a negative image of black men.

Ask yourself, if black men are worthless and unimportant, why is it that they garner so much attention and take up so much time in people's lives?

The truth is that these people are insecure and fearsome of the black man. They feel like the black man has one upped them before in the past and now feel the need to dedicate their lives to posting and doing research on black men online.

hahahahahaha how pathetic.

boundaries of space is that "good" white guy they talk about. You know, the kind that spends his entire day online. Go get a job, loser.
the boundaries of space

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as is often reflected in their postings, the common black man of America today recognizes that his "world" is coming apart. as a result, he finds himself frantically plugging the expanding watercracks with bubblegum while bits and pieces of the dam gradually crumble down around him.

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#1807
Sep 11, 2012
 
SadButTrue wrote:
<quoted text>My man is white, I don't date Black men!
fix that tilted wig and be quiet
the boundaries of space

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Angry Black Theory is a vital part of the ongoing cycle of the textbook black man's (and their supporters) love-hate relationship with non-black men. non-blacks evoke inescapable feelings of envy and loathing from both black men and their few remaining supporters.
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#1809
Sep 15, 2013
 
Lets remember that although a lot of black women are open to dating / marrying white men; and a lot of them currently are, it's still not acceptable to bash & criticize any particular race or gender. Your ego may be getting a little but bigger but in reality you're only going downhill. Don't be a jerk; just don't do it to yourself. With that being said...

I LOVE WHITE GUYS !:)
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Sep 16, 2013
 
the boundaries of space is a women
T-BOS

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The majority of black fathers (those whom are around) with a black or biracial daughter are livid of the very idea alone of that said daughter bringing home a non-black man (especially when white).

Main reasons for such "disapproval"? Today's average black throughout America feels emasculated and humiliated by the growth of non-black men and black women pairings and especially their eventual offspring.

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T-BOS wrote:
The majority of black fathers (those whom are around) with a black or biracial daughter are livid of the very idea alone of that said daughter bringing home a non-black man (especially when white).
Main reasons for such "disapproval"? Today's average black throughout America feels emasculated and humiliated by the growth of non-black men and black women pairings and especially their eventual offspring.
Though black women are not dating/marrying nonblack men out of revenge, black men's strong pursuit of other races of women did show black women that there is nothing wrong or taboo about them as black women getting with other races of men also. Black men will have to learn how to deal with their insecurity and to life with it.
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Capree wrote:
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Though black women are not dating/marrying nonblack men out of revenge, black men's strong pursuit of other races of women did show black women that there is nothing wrong or taboo about them as black women getting with other races of men also. Black men will have to learn how to deal with their insecurity and to life with it.
Yes, the "revenge theory" is what angry black males try to claim, though it's common knowledge it's simply an attempt to soothe their crushed egos. In reality, non-black women and other races of men are drawn together because they're attracted to each other, and the attraction is often physical.

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Honestly, we tell the truth about black men.

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