Why Are BM So Bitter & Angry Toward IRBW

Why Are BM So Bitter & Angry Toward IRBW

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“Always Find Time To Smile.”

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NYC, NY

#1 Jul 7, 2011
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.

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indian kebab shop owner

Perth, Australia

#3 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
I'm indian and my girlfriend is black. Many people (women and men) look at us but it's out of CURIOSITY. NOT Disgust or anything negative like that.

Perhaps some of these people were doing the same?

As for the black men who were putting down your friends, they don't have the right to do that. You should've asked them why.

Grey December
Level 6

Since: Jun 11

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#4 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
all men will do that to make themselves feel better. you should have asked them though. but some bm will say bw are golddiggers and only want money from wm but others will talk about how they will accept the brokest wm out there.

Grey December
Level 6

Since: Jun 11

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#5 Jul 7, 2011
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
Most men desire the women of his own race. The prevalence of IR is grossly overstated on Topix AFAM.
Still, maybe IR is more prevalent with black women; I see more black women dating out than any other group. A black man is going to feel threatened by that because he feels if a black woman is dating out, it is sending a message that a white man (usually or whatever race the woman is dating) is obviously providing her something he can't or won't -- dignity, respect, wealth, whatever.
This all boils down to the insecurities of the outside men -- in your story, the black men. If they feel threatened by another race of men dating their "own" women, it's a statement on their self-worth. I don't think their anger is the responsibility of the woman or who she's dating -- it's all internal.
lmao anti-chaos you are a perfect example. you say you are married to an asian and then want to get mad at bw who date out.
Poke chop

Tampa, FL

#6 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
Funny how you tried to overstate the bw. The were so attractive and there wm sere so well dressed erc. Fist of, I believe you are lying, cause you are. Second, who cares. You are just using yet another profile to start an ir thread. And look who shows up, again. LMAO. You people are sick......and lonely.
Paula

Nuneaton, UK

#7 Jul 7, 2011
Grey December wrote:
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lmao anti-chaos you are a perfect example. you say you are married to an asian and then want to get mad at bw who date out.
Yes it's not BM that are angry with BW it's I/R BM,the ones who date Asian women are weird ,probably very unsatisfied with their sex lives.
Poke chop

Tampa, FL

#8 Jul 7, 2011
Paula wrote:
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Yes it's not BM that are angry with BW it's I/R BM,the ones who date Asian women are weird ,probably very unsatisfied with their sex lives.
And BW are sexually exciting?
Kristina

United States

#9 Jul 7, 2011
This has happened to me on some occasions..but it was with a asian man!
Paula

Nuneaton, UK

#10 Jul 7, 2011
Poke chop wrote:
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And BW are sexually exciting?
Another IR BM/WW who wants to date outside their race but gets mad if anyone but themselves does it.Obviously these White/Asian women that you I/R BM are choosing are not exactly on fire otherwise why are so many of you here trying to get the attention of BW all the time?
Drogba

Newmarket, Canada

#11 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
bw really don't have a chance at expanding their horizon like we bm do.

The average bw who gets lucky enough to find a wm to date her usually ends up with the nerds/pimple faced white boys. And they look werid together.

It is the duty of all bm to let them know how weird they look together.

bm/ww look natural together.

blacksexyman82

“Msyree is my Online wife”

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#12 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
Black female spat in the face of my white female friend, when i and her just went out to get some luch. andthe black female told me i was a sell out and i needed a black woman. i set my case jugde.

“Day'n'Nite”

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#13 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
Bm these days are tired and don't give a fxck what would happen if the bw were dating them they probly would have gave them a very hard time. SO I say this not as a IR man Bm quit giving a fxck a long time ago. But a small few dumbaxxes do smdh. The women probly would have dissed them anyways so for them to be mad is just stupid. I wouldn't be talking shxt but I would be mad that black and whites can't be treated EQUAL,which is what Martin Luther King died for wait a minute he died just so we could do IR that's kinda lame smh....And why are a lot of bw trying to prove their not racist??Your ancestors got kicked in the axx they were slaves just so you could grovel at the feet of their masters descendants??If someone thinks I am racist then if they don't take out the time to get to know me then fxck em.I am not racist but I feel like why should I have to prove myself to anyone??Some non-black people who really like someone black but the person isn't feeling the screams racism and vice-versa.Why do bw act like its a tragedy when wm don't want them?If I said I didn't want them they would just walk off?
TRUTH

New York, NY

#14 Jul 7, 2011
The average black woman will have a hard time getting a non-black man to look her way unless she looks like Naomi Campbell, Rihanna, or Gabrielle Union.

This whole, "black men are jealous," statement is very far fetched. Only 9% of black women are married to white men. Also, I live in NY and it's VERY RARE to see a black woman with a white man.

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Since: Apr 07

Yucaipa, CA

#16 Jul 7, 2011
SmartTalk wrote:
I attended a huge suprise party this pass weekend that my friend rented a hall and threw for her husband. This couple have friends of all races so there was a wide variety of people there. As usually many of the single black men where trying to holla the single white women and Latinas there while other black men brought white women as dates. All was fine and well until two black sisters walked in happily on the arms of their well dressed white boyfriends. Many people turned to look at them,some of the nonblack women gave them dirty look but worse were a group black men sitted at a table near me, who were staring at these wm/bw couples and verbally trying to pick them apart by saying how ugly the bw were which was a lie because both sisters are very attractive, talking about their weaves, saying one was too skinny for them and the other sister was too fat and that they white boys were probably paying these black women to give them head etc.. These black men went on for a long while laughing among themselves will trying their best to tear down these wm/bw couples for now reason. I felt like asking them why? When some of them had been trying to get with some of the white women at the party.
Typical hypocrisy. They're cool with black men getting with white women but hate seeing a black woman with a white man because they're egos think only a black man can love and satisfy a black woman.
Drogba 3

Hamilton, Canada

#17 Jul 7, 2011
Drogba wrote:
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bw really don't have a chance at expanding their horizon like we bm do.
The average bw who gets lucky enough to find a wm to date her usually ends up with the nerds/pimple faced white boys. And they look werid together.
It is the duty of all bm to let them know how weird they look together.
bm/ww look natural together.
Daddy bear stop lying on BW and pay attention to me,why are you neglecting me of late.Did those passionate nights in Paris mean nothing to you,did you tear my axxhole apart for nothing?
Drogba 3

Hamilton, Canada

#18 Jul 7, 2011
TRUTH wrote:
The average black woman will have a hard time getting a non-black man to look her way unless she looks like Naomi Campbell, Rihanna, or Gabrielle Union.
This whole, "black men are jealous," statement is very far fetched. Only 9% of black women are married to white men. Also, I live in NY and it's VERY RARE to see a black woman with a white man.
Jealous lesbian WW and Gay BM should stop lying about BW and get with their hearts desires,be honest with yourselves guys and go for what you want!!!!!!!!!!

“Day'n'Nite”

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Since: May 11

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#19 Jul 7, 2011
DarknLovely wrote:
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Typical hypocrisy. They're cool with black men getting with white women but hate seeing a black woman with a white man because they're egos think only a black man can love and satisfy a black woman.
This isn't true most of us couldn't care less and I'm not an IR dater I am just laid-back.What would happen if I dated the girl who is with he wm she would give me a hard time because that's how it be that's why I am single now smdh...I saw this light-skinned bw who was with this wm and she was staring at me why??I don't give a fxck what they do.And bm with ww be annoying when they are obviously wanted somebody to say something to him smh attention seekers are annoying.See how I pointed out both man and woman something that women never do.I one of my best friends is dating IR and my cousin and I'm cool as long as person respects them I cool.

blacksexyman82

“Msyree is my Online wife”

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#20 Jul 7, 2011
DarknLovely wrote:
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Typical hypocrisy. They're cool with black men getting with white women but hate seeing a black woman with a white man because they're egos think only a black man can love and satisfy a black woman.
But Black women do it too, i have been on to lunch or movies with a white female friend and i have looks that could kill from black women,. people dont like to see male or female from their own race with other races. white women do it, white men do it haha alot . so its wrong for you black women to try and make black men look like some evil,devil dog mad men. i dont see Black men killing or hanging ,or putting white men in jail or killing black women ,black child, yet white men did that stuff and still do, but black men are the bad guys and white men prince charming right black women SMH. The Truth shall set you free.
Kristina

United States

#21 Jul 7, 2011
TRUTH wrote:
The average black woman will have a hard time getting a non-black man to look her way unless she looks like Naomi Campbell, Rihanna, or Gabrielle Union.
This whole, "black men are jealous," statement is very far fetched. Only 9% of black women are married to white men. Also, I live in NY and it's VERY RARE to see a black woman with a white man.
well i live in georgia and i see black women with white men all the time.everywhere i go i at least see at least two to three of them.and what ive noticed is its usally a dark skinned bw and they are usually average to good looking couples.Ive never seen a ugly bw/wm couple but on the flip side i usually see a poor dark skinned black man with a big white women.And i mean big.The woman is usually insecure ass hell.This is the honest truth.I even seen this 20 something black duded with this wite chick that looked about 40ish.These brothers must not really hate themselves and it makes me cringe.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#22 Jul 7, 2011
Kristina wrote:
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well i live in georgia and i see black women with white men all the time.everywhere i go i at least see at least two to three of them.and what ive noticed is its usally a dark skinned bw and they are usually average to good looking couples.Ive never seen a ugly bw/wm couple but on the flip side i usually see a poor dark skinned black man with a big white women.And i mean big.The woman is usually insecure ass hell.This is the honest truth.I even seen this 20 something black duded with this wite chick that looked about 40ish.These brothers must not really hate themselves and it makes me cringe.
The majority of the time. The Black person is dating down. When he/she dates out. Usually it is a Black guy with an average white woman. Or a Black woman with an older unattractive man.

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