A single man is a better off man

“No Substitute For The Truth”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#31 Apr 16, 2014
Satan wrote:
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Lol. You see, this is exactly why I'm glad I've never been in a relationship and, tbh, I don't ever plan on getting in one.
I refuse to do with all the drama, baggage, etc. that comes with being in a relationship.
Solitude is definitely where it's at, my friend...
You may dislike baggage, drama NOT being single.
Satan

Jacksonville, FL

#32 Apr 16, 2014
Redefined wrote:
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You may dislike baggage, drama NOT being single.
Not true, man.
I LOVE the single life.

“>3 =O”

Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#33 Apr 16, 2014
Redefined wrote:
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This is TRUE but do you think most men would be happier only having friends and no wife/girlfriend??
I am against marriage, but a girlfriend is cool every now and then (minus all the bs that comes with one) but don't get attached or else you end up married then all of a sudden you might face the possibility of alimony, child support, and homelessness from bring kicked out of a house that you paid for.

“>3 =O”

Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#34 Apr 16, 2014
Some might think that I am only focusing on the negative parts of marriage, but what does it matter when the biggest benefit to marriage is not saying I do?

“>3 =O”

Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#35 Apr 16, 2014
Cha wrote:
Some 'single' women I'm sure saids the SAME thing; so your point of this *post is??
A ' fish' could swim in more than one direction./in other words: THAT could go bOTH ways.
Moving along!
I would agree with them and encourage women to not want marriage, they would be doing men a favor, since our natural instinct is to protect women and since today that need to protect is being used against us, and instead of protecting it is instead financial/mental slavery.

“No Substitute For The Truth”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#36 Apr 16, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
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I am against marriage, but a girlfriend is cool every now and then (minus all the bs that comes with one) but don't get attached or else you end up married then all of a sudden you might face the possibility of alimony, child support, and homelessness from bring kicked out of a house that you paid for.
Well I understand how marital issues can drive some men too favor the single life for the moment but I'm NOT sure about being happier. I guess if one has very low expectations of Women and Relationships, maybe happier single is possible. However this doesn't change the fact these same men once desired marriage or mate. Those desires normally don't disappear until it's fulfilled.

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#37 Apr 17, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
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That would be pretty hard to do without a broad living under their roof...
you got that right! A sorry b!tch is just a drain on resources!

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#38 Apr 17, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
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You are doing yourself a huge favor in the long run, trust me. Just have to dust off the shaming tactics and ridicules that come your way, and most of them will be from women, especially if you are someone they have an eyeball for.
You'll be suprised how many women have told me that I'm bitter and selfish, and I just say I'm just trying to be happy!

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#39 Apr 17, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
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Exactly, I mean relationships aren't bad but I think for our sake as american men, relationships should only be temporary. Once she starts asking to move in, meet the parents, giving hints of marriage, it is time to dump her ass and get a replacement. As a man that doesn't value relationships I find this really easy to do.
Throw her into the scrap heap of life! Women really value marriage because it's a win-win for them especially if there are kids involved.

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#40 Apr 17, 2014
I only do friends with benefits! I'm not trying to spend a lot of time with lonely women!

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#43 Apr 17, 2014
Cha wrote:
Some 'single' women I'm sure saids the SAME thing; so your point of this *post is??
A ' fish' could swim in more than one direction./in other words: THAT could go bOTH ways.
Moving along!
Well said.

That blog is just another example of the misogyny that runs rampant in the Black community. The feminists reached many WM decades ago, and it is time that BM get with the times. Most of the values they have today came from the slave masters, and they are reenacting the abuses that were done to them and doing to others what they didn't want done to them so many years ago.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#45 Apr 17, 2014
nothing wrong with being single and having an active sex life.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#46 Apr 17, 2014
i dont want kids and aint fond of the idea of being married: relations are to mechanical and difficult today. Call me selfish but im CONTENT and FREE!

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#47 Apr 17, 2014
dragonpat wrote:
nothing wrong with being single and having an active sex life.
You're right! Taking things to another level is what I won't do!

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#51 Apr 17, 2014
BULL wrote:
I personally know "individuals" that will get married just to
to get the wedding presents.
I attended the civil ceremony of a friend and no sooner than it was over, the very first words from the bride to her groom was, "do you have life insurance"?
This brother caught hell from his wife.
How long did hell last ?
Guest

United States

#54 Apr 17, 2014
" A blazing fire cannot be satiated with sufficient supply of fuel; the ocean can never be filled to satiety by rivers flowing into it; the god of death is never satiated by the living being and a passionate(horny)woman is never satiated with man."-Garuda purana

.109.38. Rivers and women are of similar nature in their love of freedom to choose their own course. The rivers erode the banks and the women undermine their own families.

1.109.39. The river undermines the banks and the womancauses the fall of the family. The course of rivers and women is wayward and cannot be checked."-Garunda Purana

“Sleep is My Sanctuary”

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#55 Apr 17, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
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That would be pretty hard to do without a broad living under their roof...
Ahh, yes because men never cause their own problems.

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#57 Apr 17, 2014
BULL wrote:
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only a few months.
He had a protection order against her. She was caught almost 30 times in violation by the police, arrested and the court would let her go everytime. The state wouldn't allow him to file for a divorce and he had to sale his house to move out of "Mary-land".
There was another brother that had a P.O. on his girl friend. He was at a house party and she showed up. Nobody wanted to call the cops. She went to the kitchen several times and came back with a knife. They stopped her several times. She finally stabbed him to death and the court found her innocent of murder. Mary-land.
The chief of police in Baltimore was arrested over a domestic dispute. Days later she held a news conference stating "my husband, I mean my boyfriend and I had a misunderstanding". She didn't pursue the issue and all charges were dropped but, you know he lost his job.
After the news hit the streets, the next day you could see bw saying they could have a man arrested just on their word. That's all it takes, her word. A man can live in Florida and a woman can live in Ohio. All she have to say is "he hit me" and he will be detained for weeks. By the time he's clear of all charges, he'll lose his job.
This is why many bm refuse to marry bw.
Remember Crystal Mangum falsely accusing the duke lacrosse team. Later on, she burned her bf's property and murdered her next bf.
Remember the bw in WV falsely accused 6 wm of rape, had them arrested and sent to prison.
Remember Twanna Brawley falsely accused NYC police officers of rape.
Remember the bw that disobeyed a police order and got busted in her mouth.
Remember the bw that vandalized her own car, set herself on fire and accused the KKK.
A bm or any man is taking a risk when he hook up with a bw and when people say "you picked the wrong woman", that is a bunch of BS. The first encounter is all it takes.
When I see this junk about not all bw, I keep asking "it don't take all bw to ruin a man". Playing Russian roulette with a bw is not on my schedule.
I know wm that have the same problem with ww.
I have a security job and carry a weapon, I cannot afford to have crazy azz women in my life so I choose not to! I choose this great money I'm making over them!

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#58 Apr 17, 2014
BULL wrote:
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only a few months.
He had a protection order against her. She was caught almost 30 times in violation by the police, arrested and the court would let her go everytime. The state wouldn't allow him to file for a divorce and he had to sale his house to move out of "Mary-land".
There was another brother that had a P.O. on his girl friend. He was at a house party and she showed up. Nobody wanted to call the cops. She went to the kitchen several times and came back with a knife. They stopped her several times. She finally stabbed him to death and the court found her innocent of murder. Mary-land.
The chief of police in Baltimore was arrested over a domestic dispute. Days later she held a news conference stating "my husband, I mean my boyfriend and I had a misunderstanding". She didn't pursue the issue and all charges were dropped but, you know he lost his job.
After the news hit the streets, the next day you could see bw saying they could have a man arrested just on their word. That's all it takes, her word. A man can live in Florida and a woman can live in Ohio. All she have to say is "he hit me" and he will be detained for weeks. By the time he's clear of all charges, he'll lose his job.
This is why many bm refuse to marry bw.
Remember Crystal Mangum falsely accusing the duke lacrosse team. Later on, she burned her bf's property and murdered her next bf.
Remember the bw in WV falsely accused 6 wm of rape, had them arrested and sent to prison.
Remember Twanna Brawley falsely accused NYC police officers of rape.
Remember the bw that disobeyed a police order and got busted in her mouth.
Remember the bw that vandalized her own car, set herself on fire and accused the KKK.
A bm or any man is taking a risk when he hook up with a bw and when people say "you picked the wrong woman", that is a bunch of BS. The first encounter is all it takes.
When I see this junk about not all bw, I keep asking "it don't take all bw to ruin a man". Playing Russian roulette with a bw is not on my schedule.
I know wm that have the same problem with ww.
I have a security job and carry a weapon I can't afford to have a crazy azz woman in my life! I could lose my job! I make good money doing almost nothing, and I choose money over a relationship. God knows a woman ain't gonna take care of me!
Underdog

United States

#59 Apr 17, 2014
Im a loner I'm before my time. In the 1st grade I was reading 100 page books and doing long division. Finding my female equivalent whose also humble isn't possible idgaf about relationships anymore.

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