Is it okay to be attracted to another...

“Sexy & Independent”

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#44 May 4, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>lol.. So true.. Was judging her post.. Sounded more.. Like.. She puts another race on a pedstal.. Than.. Fallen in love outside ur race.. I guess.. take care and.. Say hi to halle.. Lol..
Halle said hello back. She is not signing any autographs. LOL.. Take care.

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#45 May 4, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
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I concur.
Thank you...

“Trump-- American Tragedy”

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Columbus Ohio

#46 May 4, 2013
some white males find black females extremely attractive. I have no idea about the psychological reasons but I do know it can be a very strong attraction.
Masud_S_Hoghughi __

Toronto, Canada

#47 May 4, 2013
... I like blak mens..... sexy....

“Sexy & Independent”

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#48 May 4, 2013
iamcuriousnow wrote:
some white males find black females extremely attractive. I have no idea about the psychological reasons but I do know it can be a very strong attraction.
What do you mean by psychological reasons??? If you are attracted to somebody then you just are. It's called being human.

“Trump-- American Tragedy”

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Since: Mar 11

Columbus Ohio

#50 May 4, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
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What do you mean by psychological reasons??? If you are attracted to somebody then you just are. It's called being human.
I notice on topix some try to put a psychological twist to IR relationships. I don't agree with that I believe we all belong to the same race-the human race.Love is color blind.

“Sexy & Independent”

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#51 May 4, 2013
iamcuriousnow wrote:
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I notice on topix some try to put a psychological twist to IR relationships. I don't agree with that I believe we all belong to the same race-the human race.Love is color blind.
Okay sweetie I was just making sure. We have discussed this subject before. I agree we are all human and love is color blind.

“No Substitute For The Truth”

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Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#52 May 4, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
The issue with this is a community suffers when too many PPL date outside their race. When immigrants come to America, they tend to keep their wealth within' their own community in order to become more self sufficient. Black People are NOT self sufficient because we have no thriving community & thus we set ourselves up to become dependent on other races.

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#53 May 5, 2013
Love can come from anywhere what matters it what both of you feels about each other buh before anything else take time to learn that person very well....good like....

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

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Since: Oct 09

New Zealand

#54 May 5, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
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Halle said hello back. She is not signing any autographs. LOL.. Take care.
who said autographs.. Lol.. What about a night out..
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#55 May 5, 2013
nell1 wrote:
Love can come from anywhere what matters it what both of you feels about each other buh before anything else take time to learn that person very well....good like....
Great post!

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#56 May 5, 2013
Clara wrote:
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Trust me, I will never tolerate disrespectful males. It's a humongous turn off and my relative males in my life are disrespectful to the women in their lives. I don't want to fall into that category that the women have fallen into
Your relative males???

Maybe that's why you can't relate to the men of your own race.

But I always felt that a hispanic, white, or asian lady MUST feel attraction and pride in her own menfolk of her family, community, and "race." if I'll ever be interested in a non-BLK woman.

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#57 May 5, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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The issue with this is a community suffers when too many PPL date outside their race. When immigrants come to America, they tend to keep their wealth within' their own community in order to become more self sufficient. Black People are NOT self sufficient because we have no thriving community & thus we set ourselves up to become dependent on other races.
This is the main reason why I prefer no stay out of the interracial arena altogether.. I don't see a gain for BLK men, maybe for BLK women. But it's not growing the BLK community when BLK men do it...

Black - Elite

Since: Apr 13

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#58 May 5, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
You are free to try peckers.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#59 May 5, 2013
If hate can come from anywhere or anyone, love DEFINITELY can. Love is pure in form. It transcends race, culture, and all of this superficial brouhaha that some people cannot get over. They don't understand the actual concept of love outside of what they know for themselves within a group.

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#60 May 5, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>who said autographs.. Lol.. What about a night out..
She already has a man. Let me know when you want me to come to Samoa and we'll have a night out. LOL.......

“Sexy & Independent”

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#61 May 5, 2013
KIP wrote:
If hate can come from anywhere or anyone, love DEFINITELY can. Love is pure in form. It transcends race, culture, and all of this superficial brouhaha that some people cannot get over. They don't understand the actual concept of love outside of what they know for themselves within a group.
Nice......
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#62 May 6, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
<quoted text>Thank you...
You're welcome.

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#63 May 6, 2013
I Guess white men are more open to there ladies when it comes to a relationship...than black...men...TRUE or False.....give a reason......and no insult pls....

“Trump-- American Tragedy”

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Since: Mar 11

Columbus Ohio

#64 May 6, 2013
nell1 wrote:
I Guess white men are more open to there ladies when it comes to a relationship...than black...men...TRUE or False.....give a reason......and no insult pls....
white men and women have been victims of a society where they have been led to believe that white is better.We have seen a change in that thinking,at least somewhat.Now men and women of all races are starting to realize it's not the color of a person's skin but it's whats inside that counts and love is not confined to or restricted by skin color.

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