Is it okay to be attracted to another...

Is it okay to be attracted to another race?

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Clara

Gary, IN

#1 Apr 30, 2013
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

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EVERYWHERE

#2 Apr 30, 2013
cool,deuces.
Dino Jr

United States

#4 Apr 30, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
Go for it. Hooking up with a white dude could be your ticket to having a kid with good hair.
ROMPER STOMPER

Laramie, WY

#5 Apr 30, 2013
Whatever floats your boat , miss.

I have to say , though , that I don't think Gary is an IR "hot spot" , or is it? I know Gary like the back of my hand' and I have observed Gary to be near entirely Black. If IR is where you're heading , you might want to expand your search area.

Head 20 minutes up into the city (Chicago). Humboldt Park area on the north side is home to a HUGE Latino/Puerto Rican community , so if Latinos are your thing.....

Or......

Keep going past the "Loop" up into the northern suburbs , home to rich White dudes , in towns like Wilmette , Winnetka , Deerfield , etc. There are a lot of bars/clubs up that way where they seem to congregate.

Start hanging out in areas such as these , so you can increase the odds of you meeting a non-Black guy. You're on the "hunt" , so go to where the "prey" is.

Good luck'

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

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Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#6 Apr 30, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
It is perfectly normal for you to be attracted to another human male of the same species. The attraction itself is impinted on yours and everyone else's genes to find sometihng different (but the same) suitable for potential mating. This way the genes remain varied and the chances for survivability of the species increase.

This is nuts and bolts anthropology. Being called a "sellout" or whatever is nothing more than an attemp to guilt you into being controlled by other people's agenda.

“Sexy & Independent”

Since: Dec 12

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#7 Apr 30, 2013
There is nothing wrong with it. Just don't do it out of self hate. Make sure the man treats you with respect. Don't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from him.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#8 May 1, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
There is nothing wrong with it. Just don't do it out of self hate. Make sure the man treats you with respect. Don't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from him.
Beautiful post, Halle Berry Sister! I agree 100%.

“Shine Bright Like...”

Level 5

Since: Jan 12

A Diamond

#9 May 1, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
There is nothing wrong with it. Just don't do it out of self hate. Make sure the man treats you with respect. Don't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from him.
Good advice.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#10 May 1, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
MACEO

Most Black women that I talk to rather date/marry out as they have "No Faith" in Black males!

Some don't want to date out but they don't want to settle for any Black men either and rather be alone!

Its up to that person to chose!

What I find interesting is that many Black women do't want Black men! They realize they won't get anything for their time or investment which doesn't bring any hope!

black men only care about themselves and who they can get over on!
Clara

Gary, IN

#12 May 1, 2013
Dino Jr wrote:
<quoted text> Go for it. Hooking up with a white dude could be your ticket to having a kid with good hair.
...I don't want children...
Clara

Gary, IN

#13 May 1, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
There is nothing wrong with it. Just don't do it out of self hate. Make sure the man treats you with respect. Don't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from him.
Trust me, I will never tolerate disrespectful males. It's a humongous turn off and my relative males in my life are disrespectful to the women in their lives. I don't want to fall into that category that the women have fallen into
The Great Iron Dictator

Podgorica, Montenegro

#14 May 1, 2013
Yes,there are.
Stick to your own Race,ot there will be problems.
Atari

Ashburn, VA

#15 May 1, 2013
Disgusting traitor

Level 3

Since: Apr 13

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#16 May 1, 2013
Clara wrote:
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...I don't want children...
what? why not? you need to be trying to have as many mixed babies as you can.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

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Since: Apr 11

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#17 May 1, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
It is perfectly normal for you to be attracted to another human male of the same species. The attraction itself is impinted on yours and everyone else's genes to find sometihng different (but the same) suitable for potential mating. This way the genes remain varied and the chances for survivability of the species increase.
This is nuts and bolts anthropology. Being called a "sellout" or whatever is nothing more than an attemp to guilt you into being controlled by other people's agenda.
who's/what agenda would that be??

“White Humanist”

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Since: Feb 13

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#18 May 1, 2013
Clara wrote:
I'm a black woman and I am attracted to men not of my race. Does this make me a sellout or anything like. I don't mind seeing a black man with a white woman or any race. I think that interracial relationships are beautiful and I'd like to get into one myself. I feel like I can click with men of other races rather than my own. What do you think about black women dating outside of their race?
Interracial is a wonderful thing!

I'm a white man and I love sharing sex with a sexy black girl, the color contrast is sexy as fck! Even holding hands with a black girl turns me on.

I wish you luck with your future endeavors.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#19 May 1, 2013
Clara wrote:
<quoted text>
Trust me, I will never tolerate disrespectful males. It's a humongous turn off and my relative males in my life are disrespectful to the women in their lives. I don't want to fall into that category that the women have fallen into
that makes sense now?,trollin azz girl.lol we told you years ago to go away,why are you still trolling and asking the same sht?youre crazy.

“White Humanist”

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Since: Feb 13

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#20 May 1, 2013
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
There is nothing wrong with it. Just don't do it out of self hate. Make sure the man treats you with respect. Don't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from him.
Surely a woman shouldn't tolerate any disrespectful behavior from a man of any race.

I don't get your point there. Although I do agree with the self hate thing. Although it seems that when a bw deals with a white man she's gonna be regarded as a self hating sell-out by some insecure bm anyway.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#21 May 1, 2013
if if youre not into wm avoid them as they are insecure and jealous of bm and will call you "racist" and a bm slave ect. to try to control you and will attack you if you refuse them.

Level 3

Since: Apr 13

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#22 May 1, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
if if youre not into wm avoid them as they are insecure and jealous of bm and will call you "racist" and a bm slave ect. to try to control you and will attack you if you refuse them.
only ugly black women don't date white men. but yes, black women who tell me i need to wear a condom are racists.

as far as what i would call you, or missnewnew (if you're really women) i would just call you tinas (as in tina turner) instead of "BM slaves". tina turner liked white dck too, i would just call you that because you seem to like abuse from bm like she did.

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