Taking a black girl out for a date

Taking a black girl out for a date

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terry

Birmingham, AL

#2 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
Tomorrow night I'm going to take a black girl out on a date. I'm a white guy and only met a few black people until I went to college. I'm planning on taking her to this nice Italian restaurant and to a movie afterwards. I think she will enjoy that but my friends say I'm crazy.
I honestly think deep down my friends are showing me a racist side to them I've never seen. They say black people don't like Italian food and she would prefer KFC instead. They also said forget about the movie because black women expect you to get them drunk and to have sex with them.
I don't believe any of this to be true. This girl is smart and pretty and I have no desire to exploit her for sex. I just want to show her a good time and treat her with respect. I'm picking her up at her parents house and I'm a bit nervous about that. Would it be a good idea to bring flowers for her mother or is that a bit to much meeting them for the first time.
I would like to hear from the lovely black ladies on here and if anyone chooses to be racist I'll simply not read your post
stick to your plans man. all that matters if how yall feel

Level 6

Since: May 07

Watsonville, CA

#3 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
Tomorrow night I'm going to take a black girl out on a date. I'm a white guy and only met a few black people until I went to college. I'm planning on taking her to this nice Italian restaurant and to a movie afterwards. I think she will enjoy that but my friends say I'm crazy.
I honestly think deep down my friends are showing me a racist side to them I've never seen. They say black people don't like Italian food and she would prefer KFC instead. They also said forget about the movie because black women expect you to get them drunk and to have sex with them.
I don't believe any of this to be true. This girl is smart and pretty and I have no desire to exploit her for sex. I just want to show her a good time and treat her with respect. I'm picking her up at her parents house and I'm a bit nervous about that. Would it be a good idea to bring flowers for her mother or is that a bit to much meeting them for the first time.
I would like to hear from the lovely black ladies on here and if anyone chooses to be racist I'll simply not read your post
Bring her flowers that would be a really nice treat. I'm not sure about your friends though. If they are racists then you know what they say. birds of a feather flock together. So if you plan on dating a black woman you might wanna get some new friends too. Or just stick with the white women
truth is

Washington, DC

#4 Jun 24, 2010
Dont make it so damn black and white. You should have asked her where she wants to go. We are human and like the samethings humans like. Be yourself and if you are having that much trouble with coming up with plans for a first date simply because she is aa, just take a white woman out. Since she is white you should know what she likes, being that the only confusion that you are having is racially based. Did your friends warn you about the high blood pressure and diabetes? I got it, base your choice on stereotypical aa health problems. You don't want her to die on the first date, or do you?

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#11 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
I'm sorry if I offended anyone. You all are exactly right and I shouldn't think of it as going out with a black girl instead I should see her just as a girl. Now I feel really stupid for my post. Both of us just finished our freshmen year of college and I met her in one of my classes. The first time I saw her I was like WOW. We talked and got along great but I was honestly scared to ask her out. This will sound racist but I thought why would this pretty black girl want to go out with a white guy?
I've had other girlfriends but this girl just seems different. She is smart and so sure of herself and she is the most kind person I've ever met. This week I finally had the courage to say, "would you like to go out to dinner and a movie"? She said "yes, I would love to, but what took you so long to ask"?
I know this all sounds corny and lame but I just want everything to be perfect tomorrow night. I guess I just need to be myself because being myself got a date with her.
Thank you all
Definitely keep being yourself!! And it's ok to be nervous....I actually think it is really cute. I love shy guys. Good luck with your date. I'm sure she will like it because of the effort you put into all of this.

Since: Aug 09

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#13 Jun 24, 2010
Aw...

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

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Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#14 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
Tomorrow night I'm going to take a black girl out on a date. I'm a white guy and only met a few black people until I went to college. I'm planning on taking her to this nice Italian restaurant and to a movie afterwards. I think she will enjoy that but my friends say I'm crazy.
I honestly think deep down my friends are showing me a racist side to them I've never seen. They say black people don't like Italian food and she would prefer KFC instead. They also said forget about the movie because black women expect you to get them drunk and to have sex with them.
I don't believe any of this to be true. This girl is smart and pretty and I have no desire to exploit her for sex. I just want to show her a good time and treat her with respect. I'm picking her up at her parents house and I'm a bit nervous about that. Would it be a good idea to bring flowers for her mother or is that a bit to much meeting them for the first time.
I would like to hear from the lovely black ladies on here and if anyone chooses to be racist I'll simply not read your post
You are obviously not short...

Ape Linkon

“Dont tell me my dress is black”

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Since: Nov 09

Pig, KY

#15 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
Tomorrow night I'm going to take a black girl out on a date. I'm a white guy and only met a few black people until I went to college. I'm planning on taking her to this nice Italian restaurant and to a movie afterwards. I think she will enjoy that but my friends say I'm crazy.
I honestly think deep down my friends are showing me a racist side to them I've never seen. They say black people don't like Italian food and she would prefer KFC instead. They also said forget about the movie because black women expect you to get them drunk and to have sex with them.
I don't believe any of this to be true. This girl is smart and pretty and I have no desire to exploit her for sex. I just want to show her a good time and treat her with respect. I'm picking her up at her parents house and I'm a bit nervous about that. Would it be a good idea to bring flowers for her mother or is that a bit to much meeting them for the first time.
I would like to hear from the lovely black ladies on here and if anyone chooses to be racist I'll simply not read your post
She would probably prefer KFC.

Hamdani Hassan

“Palestine 4 u I live!”

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Since: Apr 10

Kuwait City, Kuwait

#16 Jun 24, 2010
Ladies and gentlemen the OP is Sadbutrue, a Black woman. Look at the location and what normal guy would come and look for advice on the internet, especially the AA forum.

Since: May 10

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#17 Jun 24, 2010
How cute!!! I know the feeling. First dates are crazy. I'm shy and I get really nervous. But, just take a deep breath and relax. Try to make her laugh. Girls like that. Bringing her flowers is a nice touch. Don't try to kiss her on the first date. Anyway....Good Luck

:)
PTBW Forever

Evansville, IN

#18 Jun 24, 2010
Dave wrote:
I'm sorry if I offended anyone. You all are exactly right and I shouldn't think of it as going out with a black girl instead I should see her just as a girl. Now I feel really stupid for my post. Both of us just finished our freshmen year of college and I met her in one of my classes. The first time I saw her I was like WOW. We talked and got along great but I was honestly scared to ask her out. This will sound racist but I thought why would this pretty black girl want to go out with a white guy?
I've had other girlfriends but this girl just seems different. She is smart and so sure of herself and she is the most kind person I've ever met. This week I finally had the courage to say, "would you like to go out to dinner and a movie"? She said "yes, I would love to, but what took you so long to ask"?
I know this all sounds corny and lame but I just want everything to be perfect tomorrow night. I guess I just need to be myself because being myself got a date with her.
Thank you all
before you go and feel all guilty about this thread, you should ask yourself how racist her family could be towards whites, or her friends.

Black people even admit that they talk about race A LOT more than white people do in private. Black people can't even adopt a white child without drastically changing their lifestyle or who they hang out with.

Now after you have thought about that, how racist are your friends compared to the average black people?

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#19 Jun 24, 2010
PTBW Forever wrote:
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before you go and feel all guilty about this thread, you should ask yourself how racist her family could be towards whites, or her friends.
Black people even admit that they talk about race A LOT more than white people do in private. Black people can't even adopt a white child without drastically changing their lifestyle or who they hang out with.
Now after you have thought about that, how racist are your friends compared to the average black people?
Is there a such thing as "more racist"? Racism is racism. It's dull and played out. I think you just hate "happiness"....
PTBW Forever

Evansville, IN

#20 Jun 24, 2010
lovey26 wrote:
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Is there a such thing as "more racist"? Racism is racism. It's dull and played out. I think you just hate "happiness"....
I didn't say more racist.

and no I don't hate happiness.

I am just tired of fucking white guilt and white people think we have something to prove to blacks when black neighborhoods are racist against white people in far greater numbers, with entire chapters of New Black Panthers being formed by one black neighborhood.

GorillaBlack

“I collect Dimes! ”

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Since: May 09

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#22 Jun 25, 2010
Just take her to McDonalds and you'll get laid that night.
2sweetforu

Metter, GA

#23 Jun 25, 2010
Hamdani Hassan wrote:
Ladies and gentlemen the OP is Sadbutrue, a Black woman. Look at the location and what normal guy would come and look for advice on the internet, especially the AA forum.
...maybe a guy who is thinking about going on a date with a blk girl. Where do you want him to go for advice, to the Kuwait forum? Oh wait, you people aren't important so theres probably no forum...which will explain why a "normal kuwait" is always in the AA forum obsessing over blk women. Why don't you go eat a hot plate of machboos and choke. Better yet, get off the computer and walk down the street so you can get blown up. Just kidding:) I know you're prob just some lame, geeked-up blk guy looking to stir up some trouble lol.
Kick

Detroit, MI

#24 Jun 25, 2010
50/50 chance she has Herpes
ole blue eyes

United States

#25 Jun 25, 2010
BlackGoddess wrote:
Then you woke up in the crack house you passed out in. <quoted text>
** F A I N T **** P A S S E D O U T **** D E A D ** CTFU while ROTFL in the midst of LMAO!!!!!!

Hamdani Hassan

“Palestine 4 u I live!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Kuwait City, Kuwait

#26 Jun 25, 2010
2sweetforu wrote:
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...maybe a guy who is thinking about going on a date with a blk girl. Where do you want him to go for advice, to the Kuwait forum? Oh wait, you people aren't important so theres probably no forum...which will explain why a "normal kuwait" is always in the AA forum obsessing over blk women. Why don't you go eat a hot plate of machboos and choke. Better yet, get off the computer and walk down the street so you can get blown up. Just kidding:) I know you're prob just some lame, geeked-up blk guy looking to stir up some trouble lol.
I am a black guy who is racist towards black males and females? That makes no sense at all. But keep on blaming it on the black man, it's pathetic that you to think I am black male because I disagree with the black woman impersonating a white man, loooool. I have nothing to prove to you, i you want to think I am a "geeked" up black guy, then by all means go ahead.

Level 6

Since: May 07

Watsonville, CA

#29 Jun 25, 2010
GorillaBlack wrote:
Just take her to McDonalds and you'll get laid that night.
Is that what you do to all your white girls? Nice stradegy...
Scab

Kinross, UK

#31 Jun 25, 2010
Take the sow out to a fried chicken shop, or nandos if you fancy pushing the boat out. Be prepared for a few looks from people, not just because she's black but when she chimps out it will draw attention. Talking of draw don't forget at least an eighth to keep it placid, and some vodka may help to get some cock in, just watch out for crabs.

Level 6

Since: May 07

Watsonville, CA

#32 Jun 25, 2010
Hamdani Hassan wrote:
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I am a black guy who is racist towards black males and females? That makes no sense at all. But keep on blaming it on the black man, it's pathetic that you to think I am black male because I disagree with the black woman impersonating a white man, loooool. I have nothing to prove to you, i you want to think I am a "geeked" up black guy, then by all means go ahead.
Actually being racists towards your own is a possibility. I see it all the time.

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