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Why do black men make a big deal out of IR black women,but black men do it more

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Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#1 Nov 14, 2013
Ive always wondered this,and no this is not a bashing thread.I just simply wonder.Ive seen it mentioned so many times that us black women only dream of dating white men,and we date them,yet us black women are least prefered or not picked at all,and usuallydont date out,while black men on the other hand do it soooooo much more, with an emphasis on the more.In fact,black men by many studies prefer to date out,so what's the issue when you see about 5% of the black woman population dating out,when black men do it by the abundance? as mentioned earlier,this is not a thread to get hype about,just simply a question.
Person

Austin, TX

#2 Nov 14, 2013
Truly a stupid question. Why do you care? I couldn't careless what a black man thinks about about me dating a non-black man. I won't ever date a black man so his opinion is unimportant to me.
funny font

Toronto, Canada

#3 Nov 14, 2013
You'll never get a straight answer

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#4 Nov 14, 2013
Just a question,I don't care what they date,which something I repeatedly say,its that they make a big deal out of black women doing it when they quite naturally do it more.
T-BOS

Atlanta, GA

#5 Nov 14, 2013
Most black men renounce the common WM/BF couple because such couples undermine what the textbook black thought was his only sure hope as a U.S. citizen - his belief that most women (of any race) wanted them only, for dating or sex.

Now that there's been a steep rise in WM/BF couples in recent years, the black feels like he's losing everything he's ever had which is driving his fear and sometimes leads to dramatic reprisals like we've seen in Cleveland and Buffalo.

The palette of resulting emotions was the very start on how and why the textbook black man's infamous "double standard" on the interracial subject initially developed.

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#6 Nov 14, 2013
T-BOS wrote:
Most black men renounce the common WM/BF couple because such couples undermine what the textbook black thought was his only sure hope as a U.S. citizen - his belief that most women (of any race) wanted them only, for dating or sex.
Now that there's been a steep rise in WM/BF couples in recent years, the black feels like he's losing everything he's ever had which is driving his fear and sometimes leads to dramatic reprisals like we've seen in Cleveland and Buffalo.
The palette of resulting emotions was the very start on how and why the textbook black man's infamous "double standard" on the interracial subject initially developed.
Very nicely worded,thanks for a straight forward answer,and that textbook sounds quite intriguing.Thank you
Big Knob

United States

#7 Nov 14, 2013
Another tragic irbw post, let desperation fall like water. I dont see bm begging for women, who're on here making racist anti-bm comments do you?

I never hear none of you women with threads on:
How to successfully raise your children, but I guess to you thats not important to you huh?.....no one cares about your ir escapades........really.

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#8 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
Another tragic irbw post, let desperation fall like water. I dont see bm begging for women, who're on here making racist anti-bm comments do you?
I never hear none of you women with threads on:
How to successfully raise your children, but I guess to you thats not important to you huh?.....no one cares about your ir escapades........really.
Don't respond if you don't care,and by the way sir,I have made plenty of threads of positivity,the only problem is, no one comes to it, psychologically,people are more likely to come to threads that aren't positive in your sence,such as what you displayed now.lol

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#9 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
Another tragic irbw post, let desperation fall like water. I dont see bm begging for women, who're on here making racist anti-bm comments do you?
I never hear none of you women with threads on:
How to successfully raise your children, but I guess to you thats not important to you huh?.....no one cares about your ir escapades........really.
P.s,this is not a thread of worry,just a simple question,certainly it's not nothing to get anal about.
Harpo inc

Fremont, CA

#10 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
Another tragic irbw post, let desperation fall like water. I dont see bm begging for women, who're on here making racist anti-bm comments do you?
I never hear none of you women with threads on:
How to successfully raise your children, but I guess to you thats not important to you huh?.....no one cares about your ir escapades........really.
Black men have spend the last decade begging for white women and mens acceptance.Publicly bashing your own women,using racial slurs from the KKK playbook and comparing black womens appearance to photos of apes and various other mammals is begging my dear.Wealthy bm marrying white strippers and hookers with no prenup is also begging.
Cyrus V

Manassas, VA

#11 Nov 14, 2013
The OP is a whiteboy.
Big Knob

United States

#12 Nov 14, 2013
AmberEbony wrote:
<quoted text>Don't respond if you don't care,and by the way sir,I have made plenty of threads of positivity,the only problem is, no one comes to it, psychologically,people are more likely to come to threads that aren't positive in your sence,such as what you displayed now.lol
you spelled sense wrong (sence) I thought all of you sisters been to college? Heres a thread: why are bw the only race of women in the world, who raise sons who grow up, and admire women who dont look like them? I bet you wont do that one,......thats a negative one..........
It is what it is

Austin, TX

#13 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>you spelled sense wrong (sence) I thought all of you sisters been to college? Heres a thread: why are bw the only race of women in the world, who raise sons who grow up, and admire women who dont look like them? I bet you wont do that one,......thats a negative one..........
A mother can not control the thinking of her child but it doesn't help that society/media also influences their thinking in a negative way. My thought is that if BM had father's in their life perhaps they would have a greater sense of self pride and accomplishment. Also my mother had zero influence in my racial preference in fact both of my parents are strongly against my choice.

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#14 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>you spelled sense wrong (sence) I thought all of you sisters been to college? Heres a thread: why are bw the only race of women in the world, who raise sons who grow up, and admire women who dont look like them? I bet you wont do that one,......thats a negative one..........
Well.if I may answer, mainly because their fathers aren't in their lives,so they lean more towards their mothers,the very mothers who might despise men for the absence of them leaving their child behind.Its a two plus to factor,you must look more into it than just on the surface. as well some of us black women do have insecurities.Sence we have been taught that the white woman is quite naturally the standard of beauty,some of us do tend to try to look like them,or at least come close.Millions of threads and post expressing how ugly we are by men of other races and black men,that quite naturally can develope insecurity. In life,people have three rules they try to follow,the need to feel good about ourselves, the need to be accurate,and the need to be accepted,this are human traits which blck women and the rest of the world try to inherit.
Big Knob

United States

#15 Nov 14, 2013
Harpo inc wrote:
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Black men have spend the last decade begging for white women and mens acceptance.Publicly bashing your own women,using racial slurs from the KKK playbook and comparing black womens appearance to photos of apes and various other mammals is begging my dear.Wealthy bm marrying white strippers and hookers with no prenup is also begging.
Thats what dirk nowinski did marry a bw credit card theif, he left her in jail infected with albinism..........just like the ladies on topix, another b/girl lost, tragic.........

Level 4

Since: May 13

San Antonio, TX

#16 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>you spelled sense wrong (sence) I thought all of you sisters been to college? Heres a thread: why are bw the only race of women in the world, who raise sons who grow up, and admire women who dont look like them? I bet you wont do that one,......thats a negative one..........
I do however notice black women are now starting to go natural and accepting their unique beauty.
T-BOS

Atlanta, GA

#17 Nov 14, 2013
Angry black males often try to claim such IR non-black w/black women sex, dating or relationships don't bother them.....but they're ready and willing to write an entire book, blog or website on why they don't care, or why it doesn't bother them!
Big Knob

United States

#18 Nov 14, 2013
It is what it is wrote:
<quoted text>
A mother can not control the thinking of her child but it doesn't help that society/media also influences their thinking in a negative way. My thought is that if BM had father's in their life perhaps they would have a greater sense of self pride and accomplishment. Also my mother had zero influence in my racial preference in fact both of my parents are strongly against my choice.
my mother played a very positive role in my &my brothers lives, and played a major role In what type of woman to choose, see, she was mothering instead of twerking, and thats the difference..........
Big Knob

United States

#19 Nov 14, 2013
AmberEbony wrote:
<quoted text>I do however notice black women are now starting to go natural and accepting their unique beauty.
you mean to tell you have to ask for permission, to be yourself, as a bm we set our own style, and now the whole world copies, thats why we're the ENVY of topix.........but the majestics rolls on.
It is what it is

Austin, TX

#20 Nov 14, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>my mother played a very positive role in my &my brothers lives, and played a major role In what type of woman to choose, see, she was mothering instead of twerking, and thats the difference..........
I don't know of many mother's who twerk. My mother never twerked and as I said I have chosen to go against her wish in terms of racial preference. At the end of the day it will ALWAYS be the child's choice of who they marry and how they live. Either way having both parents in your life can make a world of difference and for a boy (irregardless of race) it's especially important to have a good male role model.

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