Why don't black men like Asian women?

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Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#86 Dec 11, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I am in Illinois. I go to school in a small town but it's a very diverse place with a lot of college students. I've seen many interracial couples here but very very few Asian/black couples. I already gave up on looking for black guys, unless I could eventually go to work in Chicago or New York.
I'm not familiar with that area, so it's hard for me to assess that situation. I still think you'd do better on the urban west coast or the urban east coast.
I may not be the best person even on this issue. I'm a Black man who, while having dated a few times "outside" my "race," have nonetheless opted to be with a sister...a southern Black woman. I can tell you that even though I've not opted to be with Asian or other non-Black woman, I can say (as a man) that I've seen quite a good number of attractive Asian women whom SOME AA men would find very appealing--including a Vietnamese student in one of my philosophy classes. I recall a brother in East Baltimore, a grocer with his own business, who was married to a very attractive Asian girl. I know it happens sometimes. Maybe a better location is what you need.

Since: Dec 13

United States

#87 Dec 11, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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That's false.
In China there are more people so there is bound to be divergent personalities. That's just common any time you have a large group under strict rule. The most Asians that leave China do so because they already are open to foreign idea's. So the ones that stay either can't afford to leave or they have strong beliefs which tie them to their country.
Their first contact with Americans is Whites or military. In Either case these types of contacts are bad for most minorities.
The Whites they meet in business settings look well off and obviously seem more charming. These Whites seize the opportunity to plant into the minds of the Chinese what they want Chinese to believe about all blacks. That's why the newer crop of Americanized Asians act more like whitewashed blacks and mixed blacks than the earlier crops of Asians.
When I was 15 an Asian woman told me her American parents wouldn't be "too" upset about her "dating" a black person but her family back in her country would not allow her to date anyone that wasn't white or Asian.
You're brainwashed by the white man. AA and WM are put on the same level in Asia since we share the same nationality and are physically different from Asians. Being American puts us above other foreign groups socially especially other Asian groups when living im these countries. Live in these countries man- they're nothing like you think dude

Since: Dec 13

United States

#88 Dec 11, 2013
Savant wrote:
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I'm not familiar with that area, so it's hard for me to assess that situation. I still think you'd do better on the urban west coast or the urban east coast.
I may not be the best person even on this issue. I'm a Black man who, while having dated a few times "outside" my "race," have nonetheless opted to be with a sister...a southern Black woman. I can tell you that even though I've not opted to be with Asian or other non-Black woman, I can say (as a man) that I've seen quite a good number of attractive Asian women whom SOME AA men would find very appealing--including a Vietnamese student in one of my philosophy classes. I recall a brother in East Baltimore, a grocer with his own business, who was married to a very attractive Asian girl. I know it happens sometimes. Maybe a better location is what you need.
Travelled military and civilian expat American blacks would work well with her too. Good points
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#89 Dec 11, 2013
TransientDude wrote:
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You're brainwashed by the white man. AA and WM are put on the same level in Asia since we share the same nationality and are physically different from Asians. Being American puts us above other foreign groups socially especially other Asian groups when living im these countries. Live in these countries man- they're nothing like you think dude
Brainwashed? Try sitting down and allowing Asians to tell you what they think for a change.

I know what they think because I've had conversations with them. And what wm is going to brainwash a BM into believing he's up to no good?

Whites repeat the same things you claim. That the rest of the world is some sort of utopia outside the USA.

You just are not hip to the social signs and think everything is fine. They know you don't understand even when they insult you to your face so they find you a non-threat.

You will understand racism when you seek a position of relevance in a foreign society. Being insignificant doesn't draw out criticisms to those that are busy with their lives.

Asian approach things much more subtly than Westerners. Soft Power is how they choose to interact and influence us.
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#90 Dec 11, 2013
I'll tell this. Go over to the Asian American Forum and poke around if you want to know what the "really" think behind your back.
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#91 Dec 11, 2013
"I'll tell you* this"
Jax

Ridgewood, NY

#92 Dec 11, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I am good enough to get any type of men, but I'm kind of picky. I can get working permit if I try. I am going to get my master's degree to make sure I am competitive enough. There's no need for someone like me to trick a man for green card. I can't pretend to love somebody.
You don't need a Masters degree to work in a nail salon.
Old Friend of the Family

Ridgewood, NJ

#93 Dec 11, 2013
Black guys will get with anything-- even black women if food or money is involved. The question is, why would an Asian woman date a BM? To kill her parents?
Shame her Ancestors? Lower her IQ?
hugher

London, UK

#94 Dec 11, 2013
asian womenn are too tinly for me

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#95 Dec 11, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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Clearly you meant 5'9" because there are not any 6'9" Asian women on this planet let alone in the this country.
Yes, I meant 5'9". But there are many very tall Chinese and Indians. Japanese tend to be short. But the first Chinese girl I met was about 6'3". And I have known them taller than that.

As for Japanese I have known them as tall as 5'6" or more.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#96 Dec 11, 2013
African-Asian relationships happen a lot on the West coast. One reason is simply because more Asians live on the West coast, it being closer to Asia. It happens to a lessor degree in nearly every town I have been in which is at least in about 45 states. I know there are narrow minded idiots out there who have never been anywhere outside their own little corner of the ghetto. But anybody who knows anything about the world, the real world knows that tripping off interracial relationship is way outdated. Everybody knows somebody who is in a mixed relationship. What I find interesting as a historian that it has always been this way because it is simply normal human interaction. When African first came here, there were no racial barriers at all. There were many Indians and Irish and Scots as indentured servants on the plantation. They all interacted freely. My own white ancestors go back to about Revolutionary War time because he actually fought in the Revolution. British law did not allow for racism as we know it. But as soon as the war was over, people like Thomas Jefferson the great grand pappy of the Dummycrats began preaching racism as a way to enslave the Africans. That bastard had a whole bunch of little kids by slave girls. But he was such an a-hole that he did not even have the decency to free them in his will after he died. It was POSs like him who invented the idea that the children of slaves had to be slaves like their mothers. This led logically to the idea that is a free white woman had children by a black slave, her children would be free. So they had to fix that loophole by passing a law making it illegal for white woman to love black men. As matter of fact, since Biblical time, whenever one of the parents of a child, mother or father, was free, the child would be born free. The usually way to enslave someone was to make them repay a debt. And if the debt could not be repaid in 7 years, it was wiped off the books automatically. Therefore, no one could be held in slavery for more than 7 years and no one could pass the condition of slavery to his or her children. It took American racism to invent all that crap. And many of the greatest founding fathers were those who actually wrote these laws and perverted thee Biblical Law to fit the need for slaves. Tommy Jefferson was just one of them. My own family was fortunate because our white man was opposed to slavery. And he married our mother which is why I still have his name.r children. It took American racism to invent all that crap. And many of the greatest founding fathers were those who actually wrote these laws and perverted thee Biblical Law to fit the need for slaves. Tommy Jefferson was just one of them. My own family was fortunate because our white man was opposed to slavery. And he married our mother which is why I still have his name. So understand that Africans are very complex and diverse community. There is no one size fits all.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#97 Dec 11, 2013
Jax

Ridgewood, NY

#98 Dec 11, 2013
Old Friend of the Family wrote:
Black guys will get with anything-- even black women if food or money is involved. The question is, why would an Asian woman date a BM? To kill her parents?
Shame her Ancestors? Lower her IQ?
Green card
lomy

London, UK

#99 Dec 11, 2013
asian women look like teen boys
Old Friend of the Family

Ridgewood, NJ

#100 Dec 11, 2013
Jax wrote:
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Green card
Nah, plenty of WM have an Asian fetish.
No need to "go black"....
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#102 Dec 11, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
I didn't go through all of those but unless the person I was talking to was a WW then where is this going?

Asian women, not so surprisingly compete for WM with WW. The fact that there is hostility between the two is expected. Actually it's a lot less obvious in public because WW and AW tend to hang out with each other.
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#103 Dec 11, 2013

Since: Nov 13

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#104 Dec 11, 2013
Old Friend of the Family wrote:
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Nah, plenty of WM have an Asian fetish.
No need to "go black"....
I've told you he's a frustrated Asian male. I've never ever heard of a Chinese girl marrying a black man for green card.

Since: Nov 13

Location hidden

#105 Dec 11, 2013
Old Friend of the Family wrote:
Black guys will get with anything-- even black women if food or money is involved. The question is, why would an Asian woman date a BM? To kill her parents?
Shame her Ancestors? Lower her IQ?
Your so f**king racist! My ancestors are not racist! How can u represent my parents or even my ancestors?

Since: Nov 13

Location hidden

#106 Dec 11, 2013
Jax wrote:
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You don't need a Masters degree to work in a nail salon.
A nail salon can't issue me a work visa, unless I work illegally. What's the purpose of coming to America to work in a nail salon? We all come here for a better life and a better career.

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