Why don't black men like Asian women?

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#1 Dec 8, 2013
I am a Chinese girl who's studying for my bachelor's degree in the US. I am an open-minded person so I date all different kinds of guys. I really find some black men very attractive and I do have many African American friends. I have dated a black guy before but he was not doing good in his life at all and he didn't treat me right either. I think I should find a better man because most ppl around me think I am a good-looking girl who's very smart. Unfortunately, I have noticed that most black men around me show no interest in Asian girls. They may be friendly to me but they never view me in a romantic way. Every time I go to a party, usually just a bunch of Asian or white guys hitting on me, occasionally some Hispanic guys. I have never had a decent black guy hitting on me. My roommate is a black girl and she told me that most of the hot black guys go for white or Hispanic girls.
I've looked up online and found out that some black guys think Asians have no curve or Asians are boring, but the reality is that not all Asians are like that. I am a very talkative and open-minded person, and I do have curvy body. I am 5'8", light-skinned and I have pretty big eyes.
I hope someone can tell me why those black dudes don't like Asian girls even if I'm not stereotypical at all. Are they concerned about the cultural shock, or they just only find white/black/Hispanic attractive? Sometimes I just feel I really need to stop liking black guys and stick to Asian or white. I need to hear some honest opinion from you guys! Thank you!

Since: Nov 13

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#3 Dec 8, 2013
Blacks Are Worthless wrote:
You're a black troll because the average black male would screw a tree because it cant run, so tell your story walking Tokyo Rose because I aint buying it.
What I said was completely true and my topix profile pic is my own picture. First of all, I need to clarify that I am a very well-educated Chinese girl who's from a upper middle class family. Also, my look is definitely above average. There's no reason for me to get a black loser. I need a decent man who loves me for who I am and at least has a career. I am attracted to black guys so I still wish I could find a good one. It just seems that they're not into Asian girls at all, but I don't know why.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#4 Dec 8, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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What I said was completely true and my topix profile pic is my own picture. First of all, I need to clarify that I am a very well-educated Chinese girl who's from a upper middle class family. Also, my look is definitely above average. There's no reason for me to get a black loser. I need a decent man who loves me for who I am and at least has a career. I am attracted to black guys so I still wish I could find a good one. It just seems that they're not into Asian girls at all, but I don't know why.
There are a lot of decent guys out there who are black. You're probably not in the right places to meet the right people. There are a lot of smart black guys available that would date an Asian girl.

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#5 Dec 8, 2013
KIP wrote:
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There are a lot of decent guys out there who are black. You're probably not in the right places to meet the right people. There are a lot of smart black guys available that would date an Asian girl.
Maybe.. but there're plenty of black ppl in my university and I am studying in a prestigious university. I want to find a hot, decent black guy because I think I am good enough for that. It just seems that most of those good black guys go for white girls. They just never show that they're interested in me or never view me romantically. Most of them are only willing to be my friends...

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

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Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#6 Dec 8, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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Maybe.. but there're plenty of black ppl in my university and I am studying in a prestigious university. I want to find a hot, decent black guy because I think I am good enough for that. It just seems that most of those good black guys go for white girls. They just never show that they're interested in me or never view me romantically. Most of them are only willing to be my friends...
Men are always looking for women. I'd have to say that you're not hanging out in the right places to meet the right people. On the other hand, may you think you deserve too much. People get this way. At any rate I'm more than confident there are decent black guys out there for you to hang with. I see them all the time here with Asian girls.

Since: Nov 13

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#8 Dec 8, 2013
Kip wrote:
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Men are always looking for women. I'd have to say that you're not hanging out in the right places to meet the right people. On the other hand, may you think you deserve too much. People get this way. At any rate I'm more than confident there are decent black guys out there for you to hang with. I see them all the time here with Asian girls.
I don't think I deserve too much cuz I just need someone doing as good as myself. I never wanted someone who's better than me. Maybe ppl here in my university are close-minded. I always wish I could go to New York or Chicago to work in the future and maybe one day I would get lucky.
The Enemy Within

Laurel, MD

#9 Dec 8, 2013
Annie Mal eh...

Nice name.

Well animal, if I may call you that, you have very good English. Usually when an Asian has been in America long enough to learn to write and speak English so well she is conditioned at that point to fit in. So it's odd to see someone not fit that mold out of the blue. The only exception to the rule are Asians who are in elite schools and have nothing to gain or lose from dating based on race. With such a command for the English language you must 1 or the other. Either very intelligent and not conditioned yet or you have been here quite a long time and are conditioned.

Since you put a value on dating based on race I can tell you aren't in the more intellectual group. So... that means you have to be well conditioned or not Asian at all...Ani Mal.
Chas Chickenwing

Palau

#10 Dec 8, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I don't think I deserve too much cuz I just need someone doing as good as myself. I never wanted someone who's better than me. Maybe ppl here in my university are close-minded. I always wish I could go to New York or Chicago to work in the future and maybe one day I would get lucky.
As soon as them nikkaz smell your breath they run away like they just jacked up a likka store and being chased by da poo-lise. Most Chinese have stinky breath.

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#11 Dec 8, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
Annie Mal eh...
Nice name.
Well animal, if I may call you that, you have very good English. Usually when an Asian has been in America long enough to learn to write and speak English so well she is conditioned at that point to fit in. So it's odd to see someone not fit that mold out of the blue. The only exception to the rule are Asians who are in elite schools and have nothing to gain or lose from dating based on race. With such a command for the English language you must 1 or the other. Either very intelligent and not conditioned yet or you have been here quite a long time and are conditioned.
Since you put a value on dating based on race I can tell you aren't in the more intellectual group. So... that means you have to be well conditioned or not Asian at all...Ani Mal.
I have only been in the US for 3 and a half years. Can't say I'm well conditioned. I won't gain or lose anything from dating based on race. I never said I only wanna date one race and I've dated guys of different races before. I simply have a preference. What's wrong with having a preference and simply find black men in general more attractive? I am 100% Chinese and I grew up in China. I never try to be American so there's no need for me to date someone to assimilate faster.
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#12 Dec 8, 2013
Chas Chickenwing wrote:
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As soon as them nikkaz smell your breath they run away like they just jacked up a likka store and being chased by da poo-lise. Most Chinese have stinky breath.
your so f**king racist. How many Chinese have you seen? and how many of them have stinky breath? it's just ridiculous to draw a conclusion base on several ppl you met. many black or white ppl can have stinky breath too!
The Enemy Within

Laurel, MD

#13 Dec 8, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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And... what the f___k is this^

you've been here for 3 years and you already hip to using proxy servers huh? Well you aren't going to do me any harm... enjoy. And every person in the world knows BM and AW have very little trouble attracting each other. whether they act on those attractions is another story. So that also is a red flag that you are not who you say. But hey like I said. Have fun... it's the net. You can be Bill Clinton for all I care "Ani Mal"

By the way "Animal"? That's very feminine...
Chas Chickenwing

Palau

#14 Dec 8, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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your so f**king racist. How many Chinese have you seen? and how many of them have stinky breath? it's just ridiculous to draw a conclusion base on several ppl you met. many black or white ppl can have stinky breath too!
Chinese breath is so stinky it can knock a sparrow out of a tree a mile away. And Chinese farts are even worse! Whew...

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#15 Dec 8, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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And... what the f___k is this^
you've been here for 3 years and you already hip to using proxy servers huh? Well you aren't going to do me any harm... enjoy. And every person in the world knows BM and AW have very little trouble attracting each other. whether they act on those attractions is another story. So that also is a red flag that you are not who you say. But hey like I said. Have fun... it's the net. You can be Bill Clinton for all I care "Ani Mal"
By the way "Animal"? That's very feminine...
If you don't believe, it'd just be useless for me to try to explain anything. I tried to type something but it just couldn't display.
How can u say that everyone knows BM and AW have very little trouble attracting each other? I've never seen a BM/AW couple in my university. You can't deny that BM/AW couples are still pretty rare in America. I've dated one black guy before but he wasn't good at all. I really do have problem finding a good black guy.
The Enemy Within

Laurel, MD

#16 Dec 8, 2013
You are not on the East coast with that kind of experience. I can raddle off at least 4 guys on this forum married to AW and where I live there are plenty of AW BM couples. As a matter of fact it's less prevalent then when I was 15 years old but it still seems like the two types are drawn to each other. I just don't buy it.

The only type of Asian Woman I can think of that doesn't attract BM is the type that is too Americanized, too loud and emulates WW in everything they do and sound like. But the quiet, intelligent etra feminine ones are always getting guys from any race they want...except Mexicans.

Again... happy hunting. Try a dating site to find that guy you want.

Wait...Has anyone ever seen a Mexican guy will an Asian woman? smh...lol

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#17 Dec 8, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
You are not on the East coast with that kind of experience. I can raddle off at least 4 guys on this forum married to AW and where I live there are plenty of AW BM couples. As a matter of fact it's less prevalent then when I was 15 years old but it still seems like the two types are drawn to each other. I just don't buy it.
The only type of Asian Woman I can think of that doesn't attract BM is the type that is too Americanized, too loud and emulates WW in everything they do and sound like. But the quiet, intelligent etra feminine ones are always getting guys from any race they want...except Mexicans.
Again... happy hunting. Try a dating site to find that guy you want.
Wait...Has anyone ever seen a Mexican guy will an Asian woman? smh...lol
Really? Black guys like quiet Asian women? I didn't know that. I thought most of them like white women so they would want me if I act more white and dress like a white girl.
I have one Mexican guy interested in me. I don't mind dating Mexican guys but I don't usually see Mexican/Asian couples either.

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#18 Dec 8, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
You are not on the East coast with that kind of experience. I can raddle off at least 4 guys on this forum married to AW and where I live there are plenty of AW BM couples. As a matter of fact it's less prevalent then when I was 15 years old but it still seems like the two types are drawn to each other. I just don't buy it.
The only type of Asian Woman I can think of that doesn't attract BM is the type that is too Americanized, too loud and emulates WW in everything they do and sound like. But the quiet, intelligent etra feminine ones are always getting guys from any race they want...except Mexicans.
Again... happy hunting. Try a dating site to find that guy you want.
Wait...Has anyone ever seen a Mexican guy will an Asian woman? smh...lol
I'm in Champaign, Illinois. It's a pretty diverse university but I've just never seen a BM/AW couple here, especially those that involve a foreign Asian woman.
The Enemy Within

Laurel, MD

#19 Dec 9, 2013
Rule #1
Don't ever tell anyone specifics about where you actually are.

Rule #2
Pick wisely in any race of men as you will get whatever you put into your search.

Rule #3
Forget about the last guy and treat every guy as an individual with his own set of rules.

Happy hunting and if I were you I'd look into BM at your job that you've known for more than 3 months or maybe just ask a BM you are interested in about what he is studying at the University. Usually that gets the ball rolling and the Black realizes "race" is not an issue with you.

Some bm just don't waste their time because they think your race is into whites only. So you may have to show you are interested.

Also If you were smart you might want to date in a slow pace environment where you can tell BM your expectations. Some BM is not going to be your type and may look attractive to you which is why I suggested you pick a local guy off of one of these dating sites so you can sift through the different personalities with less bad experiences.

I don't want anyone else walking around talking about BM in a bad way so be responsible in how you pick.

Happy hunting.

Since: Nov 13

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#20 Dec 9, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
Rule #1
Don't ever tell anyone specifics about where you actually are.
Rule #2
Pick wisely in any race of men as you will get whatever you put into your search.
Rule #3
Forget about the last guy and treat every guy as an individual with his own set of rules.
Happy hunting and if I were you I'd look into BM at your job that you've known for more than 3 months or maybe just ask a BM you are interested in about what he is studying at the University. Usually that gets the ball rolling and the Black realizes "race" is not an issue with you.
Some bm just don't waste their time because they think your race is into whites only. So you may have to show you are interested.
Also If you were smart you might want to date in a slow pace environment where you can tell BM your expectations. Some BM is not going to be your type and may look attractive to you which is why I suggested you pick a local guy off of one of these dating sites so you can sift through the different personalities with less bad experiences.
I don't want anyone else walking around talking about BM in a bad way so be responsible in how you pick.
Happy hunting.
Thank you so much for your kind suggestions. Maybe going to a big city is a good option for me but I gotta try really hard to get a job in a big city, I don't know why some ppl think I am lying here, which really annoys me. Are you a black dude or Mexican dude! I am just curious,

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

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#21 Dec 9, 2013
They probably prefer the jezebels of the asian race, philipinas.
Bruh Man

Atlanta, GA

#22 Dec 9, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
They probably prefer the jezebels of the asian race, philipinas.
You mean like Leanni Lei?

She's a hottie!!!!!

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