LOL...exactly sir denial..caused by deeply rooted insecurities!<quoted text>
Answer to your last question: insecurity.
*Again...I'm happily married to a bw and not even looking....but there are now non-bw all over the place...looking to try something new...hell I honestly just about can't walk out of my front door without meeting one who's open to..."Trying something new"....
Why...because white and non-bw see wm out and about with bw...and they've finally said "Okay...enough already...what's good for the Goose"...some bw are sooo damn silly and simple minded....they actually believe that all other women are living some happily ever after life with non-bm...they don't realize that it's all just white male media driven nonsense!
I and my wife know countless white women who are single,divorced and fed up with wm...some Hispanics and some Asian who are the same!...these women just want a man who will first of all pay attention to them,listen to them,treat them right...not talk down to them,act passive aggressive and controlling and stigmatize every one else on the planet!
But yet we bm are all delusional...huh?