Why don't men ever want to date me fi...

“What do the stars say......”

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#23 Jul 3, 2013
Raptors Revenge wrote:
<quoted text>Nope, I just call bullsh!t when i see it.
LOL!!!!! Do you call out your own bullschit, I can bet that you don't, but you are mad quick to call false bullschit on someone else. Hahahahahaha!!!!

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#24 Jul 3, 2013
Tony wrote:
<quoted text> Carmiana, The reasons why those men ididn't wanto date you, because they were afraid of loosing you. If they marry you then they feel like they got you all to themselves.you must be a very attractive woman for a man to wanto keep you at first sight?
I never thought about it like that. I'm no model chick, so I am confused as why they would feel that way.
Tony touch

Revere, MA

#25 Jul 3, 2013
Raptors Revenge wrote:
<quoted text>Like this bullsh!t thread where you feel the need to toot your own horn?:)
That wasn't no horn, that was her letting one loose.

Tried to let it creep out...a sneak attack....so it sounded like a fuggen bugle

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#29 Jul 3, 2013
Tony wrote:
<quoted text>When a man find something in you that's wife material he's gotta have you without stalking. This is topix and its full of wite homos. But i can say this, somehow i do believe your a lovely woman. Now i know why these men want you for a wife.
Awwww, thanks you're a sweetheart.
Satan

Lewisville, TX

#30 Jul 3, 2013
Lamiesha Rhodes wrote:
<quoted text> Correction, Carmiana ias a white boy! A gay one at that.
Oh My.
Moses-1, Why are you "Playa Hating" Girl?

Of course, in your crazed Mulatto Mind you think All White Men
on this forum belong to you....too bad you just can't act right.
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#33 Jul 4, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
I have a serious problem that I have been facing since high school. Most of the guys that were really into me wanted only one thing, a serious relationship or marriage. And I mean not a date or anything just to get to know me, they wanted somethachieve?
MACEO

Blog:

Hypergamy on the Rise with Educated BW!

Well people who devalue Black women can go jump off a bridge because I won’t let them tell me I deserve less than non-Black women! I’m not going to “settle” for less if non-Black women don’t have to. I’m fully behind hypergamy or just marrying someone on your level. Personally for me, I’m not expecting someone to make more money than me, but I’m expecting someone better than what the mainstream or certain Black people expect for Black women. I expect a man who is attractive to me, has good character, has an education, a good career, no criminal record, no band of baby mamas, and a wedding ring for me before I have his children. I will not listen to outsiders who try to convince me and other Black women that we don’t deserve those things and we should settle for less.

On my blog I have written about ways that I have tried to improve myself because if you want to marry up then you have to be a high quality woman (I also wanted to improve myself because I just wanted to be the best I could be). To me that doesn’t mean a rich or upper class woman, it’s about being well-rounded, having useful skills, being attractive, having good manners, and having good character–being the ideal and highly desirable woman. I felt that I needed to improve in some areas so I did it. I think that many women can improve their qualities so that they can marry up too. Some men support hypergamy and some do not. Men who are of high quality and status often condone female hypergamy because they are able to attract the best women, so it benefits them. They seek out high paying careers, work out, dress well, and drive expensive cars because it makes them attractive to women and makes them look better than other men. Because these men are highly valued then they are able to date and marry highly valued women.
On the other hand, men who are of lower quality are opposed to female hypergamy.

They will try to convince women to put aside their desire for someone attractive, without a criminal record, with and education and career, without baby mamas, and the possibility of a marriage proposal. They want you to lower your standards and marry down. What’s interesting is that these men fully support male hypergamy–dating and marrying women who are way out of their league! These men have little to offer but they go after highly attractive and successful women and feel they deserve these women because they are supposedly “nice guys”. Many of these men are jaded because they have been passed over by high quality women due to their below average looks, character, communication skills, wealth, career, and other factors. Many of these men have joined groups to rant about how evil women are or groups focused on learning skills/tricks to get women to think they are of higher quality.

Black women focus on dating/marrying up and out! Don't let these Black males waste your time and convince you to date down or accept less; you see the results just look at Black women around you so accept low rung Black males who destroyed their lives.

Focus on education, focus on Improving your life, focus on
Sadbuttrue

Silver Spring, MD

#35 Jul 4, 2013
Carmiana--tony---MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Awwww, thanks you're a sweetheart.
MACEO

We can BANK ON BLACK MEN NOT TO PROVIDE THE BASICS!

You don't Love, Provide, Protect, Lead, Take care of your families, and you abandon your children!

LEAD IN BANKING ON CHANGING YOUR LIVES!

We bank on the Fact that you:

Don't get married
Abandon your children
Commit 55% of the crimes
Hang o the Streets like Thugs
Worship other races
Don't work on your lives to improve yourself
Hate Black women
Have lots of Self hatred
Wont' do anything for hte black community
Marginal
Live off women
Have the highest HIV/AIDS and STDS stats
2m incarcerated!

BANK ON IMPROVING YOURSELVES WE LOST FAITH IN YOU!

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#38 Jul 4, 2013
dab399 wrote:
<quoted text>
Carmiana,I dont see anything wrong with you at all. I think most guys find you attractive & they like you very much. I think you're such a beautiful woman & you're such a sweetheart too.
Awww, thanks. I just really didn't understand why they want to rush things with me. Maybe I'm not ready for such a commitment. Thanks anyway.

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#40 Jul 4, 2013
Because men are tired of spending money on women and not getting nothing in return. Not even a damn phone call for a second date sometimes. The way to a man's heart is through a woman's vagina.

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#42 Jul 4, 2013
Logic_c wrote:
Because men are tired of spending money on women and not getting nothing in return. Not even a damn phone call for a second date sometimes. The way to a man's heart is through a woman's vagina.
You are a chauvinist.

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#43 Jul 4, 2013
dab399 wrote:
Carmiana,dont let any man rush you to be in a relationship with him. If you're not ready for a committed relationship you're just not ready for a committed relationship that's all. You got to tell him that you're not ready to settle down that's all & you have that right & dont let anyone tell you otherwise. I have the same problem with women that I just met & been with them several times & some want to have a committed relationship with me & also want to marry me & have children with them & I also not looking for a committed relationship nor do I want to get married & have children. I feel the same way like you Carmiana. They're rushing things too quick.
Yeah, I won't. I think that I let the last man coerce me into a relationship with him is because I am a little docile. But I have learned that being that way can lead to regret. I have to stand my ground with these men without feeling bad about it. I want everyone to be happy, but I can't put other people before my own feelings.

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#44 Jul 4, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
<quoted text>
You are a chauvinist.
So telling it like it is makes me chauvinistic? No, the problem is you can't handle the truth. That's what's wrong with the majority of American women. Keep living in your fantasy world where you expect men to spend money on you and you not give them anything in return. You know what women like that are called? Gold diggers.

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#45 Jul 4, 2013
Logic_c wrote:
<quoted text>
So telling it like it is makes me chauvinistic? No, the problem is you can't handle the truth. That's what's wrong with the majority of American women. Keep living in your fantasy world where you expect men to spend money on you and you not give them anything in return. You know what women like that are called? Gold diggers.
You look like you don't get any pusci.

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#46 Jul 4, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
<quoted text>
You look like you don't get any pusci.
And that's your "logical" response to me? Pathetic.

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#50 Jul 4, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
Has this ever happened to anyone?
Yes it has happened to me. It always turns out wrong. I find men like that, are usually crazy and controlling. It is best to take your time.

“Stop being moronic. ”

Since: Oct 09

Chesapeake, VA

#51 Jul 4, 2013
So let me get this straight. Here I am, a male, telling you how men think, and you're too "chauvinistic" to understand where I am coming from. How typical of black women. Then they wonder why they have so many problems with black men.

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#52 Jul 4, 2013
dab399 wrote:
<quoted text>
Exactly! Put your feelings first & if they cant deal with it then that's their problem. You come first in your life remember that.
I will always remember that.

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#53 Jul 4, 2013
Logic_c wrote:
<quoted text>
And that's your "logical" response to me? Pathetic.
Piss off you chauvinistic pig.

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#54 Jul 4, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text> I really don't know what's your deal! My advice to you baby, you don't need anyone special for sex! Being by yourself is tge greatest feeling ever!!! People are out to use and abuse you. When i meet a white or black or latina who im physically attracted to, sex is awesome, then these women are on their way aeay from me. I lije it that way. If you drop your guards people will use and hurt the fuck outta you.
I don't think its good for anyone to be alone.

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#55 Jul 4, 2013
angelwingz wrote:
<quoted text>Yes it has happened to me. It always turns out wrong. I find men like that, are usually crazy and controlling. It is best to take your time.
That is kind of true. They just want control.

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