Why don't men ever want to date me fi...

Why don't men ever want to date me first?

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“What do the stars say......”

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#1 Jul 3, 2013
I have a serious problem that I have been facing since high school. Most of the guys that were really into me wanted only one thing, a serious relationship or marriage. And I mean not a date or anything just to get to know me, they wanted something serious from the get-go. From the first time they met me they would say I want to marry you, or I want a committed relationship with you, without knowing who I actually was as a person. You know to test the waters a little bit, just to see if we were really that into each other. Am I not good enough to date? What's wrong with me. They were very persistent in being with me, but not really getting to know me. I don't know if its love at first sight or an underlying ulterior motive. It's rare for me to find a guy that wants to date, but easy for me to find a guy who wants something serious right away, and when I say right away I mean like a day or two after they have met me. What does this mean, what are they trying to achieve?

“What do the stars say......”

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#2 Jul 3, 2013
Has this ever happened to anyone?
David B

Baltimore, MD

#3 Jul 3, 2013
Women say that men are afraid of commitment. They are just not ready to commit to that particular woman. If a guy has a type and see her as wife material. Then he will pursue her as so.
Instead of complaining about it. You should write a book to teach these struggling women that are only good as sidehos how to act. But make sure they wear a condom.:)

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#4 Jul 3, 2013
David B wrote:
Women say that men are afraid of commitment. They are just not ready to commit to that particular woman. If a guy has a type and see her as wife material. Then he will pursue her as so.
Instead of complaining about it. You should write a book to teach these struggling women that are only good as sidehos how to act. But make sure they wear a condom.:)
I'm not complaining I just thought that maybe I wasn't good enough to date. They just want to rush into something serious with me. No thanks, I think I will pass on the book.
Roofis the Smartazz

Lakeland, FL

#5 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
I have a serious problem that I have been facing since high school. Most of the guys that were really into me wanted only one thing, a serious relationship or marriage. And I mean not a date or anything just to get to know me, they wanted something serious from the get-go. From the first time they met me they would say I want to marry you, or I want a committed relationship with you, without knowing who I actually was as a person. You know to test the waters a little bit, just to see if we were really that into each other. Am I not good enough to date? What's wrong with me. They were very persistent in being with me, but not really getting to know me. I don't know if its love at first sight or an underlying ulterior motive. It's rare for me to find a guy that wants to date, but easy for me to find a guy who wants something serious right away, and when I say right away I mean like a day or two after they have met me. What does this mean, what are they trying to achieve?
Why buy milk when a cow like you gives it away for free? Gnomesayin

“What do the stars say......”

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#6 Jul 3, 2013
Roofis the Smartazz wrote:
<quoted text> Why buy milk when a cow like you gives it away for free? Gnomesayin
He didn't want it for free because he was anticipating on marrying me.

I bet you like to milk it for free. Uh huh das raht, chil.

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#7 Jul 3, 2013
What ever happened to you being pregnant, you given up that lie now for a new lie.

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#8 Jul 3, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
What ever happened to you being pregnant, you given up that lie now for a new lie.
I don't care if you think that I am lying, you are not living my life. All you know is what I tell you and that's it. You only think I'm lying because your a** is lonely and tired trying to seek attention from white men that will never give it back to you, LOL, you're pathetic.

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#9 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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He didn't want it for free because he was anticipating on marrying me.
I bet you like to milk it for free. Uh huh das raht, chil.
Hahaha!!! Love it!
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#10 Jul 3, 2013
ouch!! that was a little personal

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#11 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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I don't care if you think that I am lying, you are not living my life. All you know is what I tell you and that's it. You only think I'm lying because your a** is lonely and tired trying to seek attention from white men that will never give it back to you, LOL, you're pathetic.
Oh Carmiana how many threads does your sorry butt make a day. It's not me claiming to be pregnant by some dude that's gone M.I.A on you. You should try to be more like Canday at least she is consistent.
unbiased opinion

Jerusalem, Israel

#12 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
I have a serious problem that I have been facing since high school. Most of the guys that were really into me wanted only one thing, a serious relationship or marriage. And I mean not a date or anything just to get to know me, they wanted something serious from the get-go. From the first time they met me they would say I want to marry you, or I want a committed relationship with you, without knowing who I actually was as a person. You know to test the waters a little bit, just to see if we were really that into each other. Am I not good enough to date? What's wrong with me. They were very persistent in being with me, but not really getting to know me. I don't know if its love at first sight or an underlying ulterior motive. It's rare for me to find a guy that wants to date, but easy for me to find a guy who wants something serious right away, and when I say right away I mean like a day or two after they have met me. What does this mean, what are they trying to achieve?
Could be you give off a snooty 'air' and they think that you want come across with the goods unless you're engaged or something...

That said, could also be you have a reputation, true or false, of playing the field, and some guy wants an exclusivity deal.

Anyway, I think you're talking bull...as usual...

“What do the stars say......”

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#13 Jul 3, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
<quoted text>Oh Carmiana how many threads does your sorry butt make a day. It's not me claiming to be pregnant by some dude that's gone M.I.A on you. You should try to be more like Canday at least she is consistent.
Oh leilajoy, I don't make threads that often. I come on here to share somethings and I'm a liar, or a easy h*e. What makes you think he went M.I.A give me evidence and back up your claim because you talking like you know me personally. Have we met before, I can bet your bottom dollar that we haven't, so why come to a thread making things up about someone you don't know and will never get to know. You acting like I have something to prove to you, as if you are just that important to me. I'd rather be more like me because there ain't nothing wrong with what I am doing. So you can keep on making up things about me in your feeble little mind. You're not so intelligent coming on here telling me that I am lying. Sounds like your jealous.

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#14 Jul 3, 2013
MDJ2011 wrote:
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Hahaha!!! Love it!
Hahahahaha!!!!!

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#15 Jul 3, 2013
unbiased opinion wrote:
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Could be you give off a snooty 'air' and they think that you want come across with the goods unless you're engaged or something...
That said, could also be you have a reputation, true or false, of playing the field, and some guy wants an exclusivity deal.
Anyway, I think you're talking bull...as usual...
If you think it's bull why did you choose to respond? The logic of you people.

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#16 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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You only think I'm lying because your a** is lonely and tired trying to seek attention from white men that will never give it back to you, LOL, you're pathetic.
Well, if that is her in the pic(you never know on topix) I have no doubt the girl can get plenty of attention from white men.

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#17 Jul 3, 2013
Raptors Revenge wrote:
<quoted text>Well, if that is her in the pic(you never know on topix) I have no doubt the girl can get plenty of attention from white men.
It has nothing to do with how she looks. LOL!!!!! Again, another retard coming at me with bullschit.

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#19 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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It has nothing to do with how she looks. LOL!!!!! Again, another retard coming at me with bullschit.
Like this bullsh!t thread where you feel the need to toot your own horn?:)

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#20 Jul 3, 2013
Raptors Revenge wrote:
<quoted text>Like this bullsh!t thread where you feel the need to toot your own horn?:)
Hahahaha, I'm not tooting my own horn. I was just wondering why this was happening to me and if anyone has experienced this. LOL!!!!!!! You are such a hater. Get the f*ck out of my thread. Jealous b*tch a** white boy.

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#21 Jul 3, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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You are such a hater.
Nope, I just call bullsh!t when i see it.

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