I don't want to marry a BLACK WOMAN
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#260 Aug 16, 2014
EbonyLove wrote:
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I could've sworn you were on Ash's forum talking shit cuz u were mad that she was telling her negative experiences with bm. And you were so butthurt over it that you had to mimic the whole post to get revenge. No one wants a Bm's attention. It's actually not that hard since they would stick their dicks in any hole imaginable. But that's beside the point :)
First of all I dont even know who Ash is.
I dont stick my dick in just anything. I have standards.
And your only here because you are mad at Black men for some reason. Its very obvious.

Please continue to show these people how you are a "Black man hater". You claim you have barely seen Black men in your life time but you act as though they have done something to you. For some strange reason its almost as though you have it out for Black men.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#261 Aug 16, 2014
EbonyLove wrote:
<quoted text>
Damn that's the best accusation I have received yet! Did you come up with that one all by yourself? Or did it take the whole group of tar boys on this forum to come up with that?
Like I said man. There's nothing stopping you from leaving this forum. You continue on with the insults on this forum meant for advice. My post was not meant to offend anyone. I just wanted the much needed advice for my current situation. You on the other hand are embarassing yourself with the continual insulting people for no reason. Nobodies telling you, you have to like Black men. You just continue to nag, rant, insult, and continue on with madness.

Now if anyone is not a troll and has real advice then you are very much appreciated.

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#262 Aug 16, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
<quoted text>
So if you hate Black men so much why do you steadily come on topix everyday to talk about them? All day you are on topix talking about Black men. It seems like they stay on your mind quite a bit.
How about this you self hating B*TCH? Go crawl back into whatever rat infested cave you crawled out of and stop looking for attention.
Your mother should have swallowed and then maybe we wouldn't have to sit here and watch you go on your Black man hating rants.
Or she have took it in the azz!
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#263 Aug 16, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text>
Or she have took it in the azz!
Hahaha Lol, your right.
Anything but bring this "Black man hating Bitch" into the world.
Random Thoughts

Saint Paul, MN

#265 Aug 20, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)
So I know Not every black woman fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..
Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black women I've met are in my age group and they all either
1. Has a baby or has babies by other guys.
2. Talks too much and too loud (AKA Ghetto)
3. Doesn't have a decent education
4. Has slept with multiple men before me (Hoes)
5. Continues to sleep with men even though their with me (AKA Cheaters)
6. Obssessed with me and always accusing me of cheating and blowing up my phone
7. Always arguing for no reason and then it turns into on and off relationships.
8. Just plain stuck up.
9. Too mean, rude, verbally aggressive, and did I mention GHETTO
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet women like this !!
Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black women but the bad outweighs the good.
My brother is married to a Pretty Puerto Rican woman and he is happy. She has a graduated highschool and has a college education, and is currently a nurse but soon to be doctor and she is really sweet to him and a great mother to my nephew.
My mom is beuatiful Black woman (I LOVE HER) and she wants me to keep my options open to black women too. I try to explain to her that times have changed and black women like my mother don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black woman and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white woman.
I've been recently talking to a woman who is mexican/white and she is clean, gorgeous, smart,(she is in college to become a docter),and funny. I told my mom about her and she just kind of shuts me out.
But there's this black woman that is uneducated and ghetto who has been trying to get with me for 4 years because she really likes me a lot and my mom likes her. She always mentions her and goes out of her way to convince me to be with her and the only thing she has going for herself is a decent car, good looks, small apartment and she is very sexy and i'm not even going to lie about that.
Finding a decent black woman is like 1/1,000,000.
Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???
I need serious advice, guys please help!
Then don't marry one. Who cares about what your mom says. She doesn't control your life. Be with who you want to be with. Pick the Mexican chick.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#266 Aug 20, 2014
Random Thoughts wrote:
<quoted text>
Then don't marry one. Who cares about what your mom says. She doesn't control your life. Be with who you want to be with. Pick the Mexican chick.
Thanks for the much needed advice bro. Its been a really hard decision in my life at the moment. It stays on my mind almost all of the time. I just needed some advice to help me make the right decision. Its good to know I got some support.

Since: Aug 14

La Vergne, TN

#267 Aug 20, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
<quoted text>
Exactly again. I'm not about to get into another relationship with some loud mouth ghetto Black girl because my mother want's me to date women of my race. I repeat they are also too LOUD and love to make scenes in the public and it pisses me off.
I want a good woman right now and im tired of waiting. This Mexican/White girl is very pretty and EDUCATED and CLASSY and passing her up would only be idiotic! And probably a mistake of a life time to pass her up for another Black woman who fits any of the descriptions in the list above.
I am a 25 year old black woman and I can't help but wonder a few things. I understand why you feel that way because that's all you're attracting. Your entire position on the black woman persona is based on women YOU attract in YOUR life. Something about you is bringing these women around. For example, I've never dated crackheads because that's not what I attract. You seem to be a frustrated black man just looking for a quality woman but I can almost guarantee the "bitches ain't shit" party you're throwing will surely only attract the bitches who...just guess... ain't shit (excuse my french) My advice would be to stop focusing on the negative strife that a black woman can bring and remind yourself of the positive. I mean call me biased but there is nothing in this world like a black woman. To each his own, however, being with a black woman can be transcendant and you know that.
Lets Be Real

Saint Paul, MN

#270 Aug 21, 2014
NikkoGirl wrote:
<quoted text>
I am a 25 year old black woman and I can't help but wonder a few things. I understand why you feel that way because that's all you're attracting. Your entire position on the black woman persona is based on women YOU attract in YOUR life. Something about you is bringing these women around. For example, I've never dated crackheads because that's not what I attract. You seem to be a frustrated black man just looking for a quality woman but I can almost guarantee the "bitches ain't shit" party you're throwing will surely only attract the bitches who...just guess... ain't shit (excuse my french) My advice would be to stop focusing on the negative strife that a black woman can bring and remind yourself of the positive. I mean call me biased but there is nothing in this world like a black woman. To each his own, however, being with a black woman can be transcendant and you know that.
I've always thought maybe it is because I am with the wrong Black women. After so many bad relationships it has always crossed my mind that maybe im just with the WRONG Black women and not the RIGHT ones. I always begin to think maybe I have the wrong opinion on Black women. Maybe there's good Black women out there but I just have not met them. This is the same reason my mother want's me to keep my options open to Black women. But you have to understand that I am a 23 year old Black man in college and I have not found any Black women on my level. Thanks for the advice though. I geuss...... I still have not made a solid decision yet, but I will think about what you just said.

Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#272 Aug 21, 2014
NikkoGirl wrote:
<quoted text>
I am a 25 year old black woman and I can't help but wonder a few things. I understand why you feel that way because that's all you're attracting. Your entire position on the black woman persona is based on women YOU attract in YOUR life. Something about you is bringing these women around. For example, I've never dated crackheads because that's not what I attract. You seem to be a frustrated black man just looking for a quality woman but I can almost guarantee the "bitches ain't shit" party you're throwing will surely only attract the bitches who...just guess... ain't shit (excuse my french) My advice would be to stop focusing on the negative strife that a black woman can bring and remind yourself of the positive. I mean call me biased but there is nothing in this world like a black woman. To each his own, however, being with a black woman can be transcendant and you know that.
You don't attract crackheads because because all they want is their next hit! He's not attracting bitches, after dating a bit they become bitches, trying to gain control! After a man checks that ass and let's her know he's not going for that BS, she'll respect him after that! Been there, done that, many a times!
noah

United States

#273 Aug 21, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
<quoted text>How can indigenous people be Latinos when the very name Latin(o) suggests something else?
You do occasionally make some good points.
Lets Be Real

Saint Paul, MN

#274 Aug 21, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't attract crackheads because because all they want is their next hit! He's not attracting bitches, after dating a bit they become bitches, trying to gain control! After a man checks that ass and let's her know he's not going for that BS, she'll respect him after that! Been there, done that, many a times!
I know, its like the relationship and everything starts out good. Then later on in the relationship she starts to show her real self. And that is nagging, nagging, and nagging.
Soul Hunter

Los Angeles, CA

#275 Aug 21, 2014
DJ Hamilton"]This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)
So I know Not every black woman fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..
Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black women I've met are in my age group and they all either
1. Has a baby or has babies by other guys.
2. Talks too much and too loud (AKA Ghetto)
3. Doesn't have a decent education
4. Has slept with multiple men before me (Hoes)
5. Continues to sleep with men even though their with me (AKA Cheaters)
6. Obssessed with me and always accusing me of cheating and blowing up my phone
7. Always arguing for no reason and then it turns into on and off relationships.
8. Just plain stuck up.
9. Too mean, rude, verbally aggressive, and did I mention GHETTO
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet women like this !!
Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black women but the bad outweighs the good.
My brother is married to a Pretty Puerto Rican woman and he is happy. She has a graduated highschool and has a college education, and is currently a nurse but soon to be doctor and she is really sweet to him and a great mother to my nephew.
My mom is beuatiful Black woman (I LOVE HER) and she wants me to keep my options open to black women too. I try to explain to her that times have changed and black women like my mother don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black woman and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white woman.
I've been recently talking to a woman who is mexican/white and she is clean, gorgeous, smart,(she is in college to become a docter),and funny. I told my mom about her and she just kind of shuts me out.
But there's this black woman that is uneducated and ghetto who has been trying to get with me for 4 years because she really likes me a lot and my mom likes her. She always mentions her and goes out of her way to convince me to be with her and the only thing she has going for herself is a decent car, good looks, small apartment and she is very sexy and i'm not even going to lie about that.
Finding a decent black woman is like 1/1,000,000.
Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???
I need serious advice, guys please help!

Bro most bm with anything going for themselves would be wise too steer clear of American bw your life will be better off.
noah

United States

#277 Aug 21, 2014
Black women go for shine in a single-minded way. By shine I mean gold, diamonds and flashy men.

All women have a deep appreciation for gold (money), sparkly diamonds, and men who can afford the finer things or con artists who give the impression they can. This is the respect for power of which they speak.

The difference with non-black women is they are better planners. They have a respect for potential, and are not always about immediate gratification. They are better judgers of character. I will clarify by giving two examples: A financially struggling CalTech PhD student (Black) found it impossible to get any Black female on or off campus to be interested in him. In the end, much to the displeasure of his parents, he hooked up with a young white woman who had a responsible job. This young woman saw his potential and planned for a bright future. Today, they are married with children. He is head of a department in an engineering firm, and they are living an upper-middle class life. The other example is a young medium dark Black man who has a MEE degree and is also an attorney. He insists on dating only Black women, but, so far, it's not working out for him. This guy is over 6', slim, in excellent physical condition, and 35 years old. His standards are high, but all he meets are BW who are on the rebound from white men, and who are filling in time before the next rebound experience in Greece or Italy.

These BW are reasonably successful in corporate America. They have more or less given up on white American men who have enjoyed their youthful marriageable years 20 - 30. The grass for them is now greener in Europe. There it is folks, the serious color complex of the miseducated AAW.

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#281 Aug 22, 2014
Soul Hunter wrote:
DJ Hamilton"]This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)
So I know Not every black woman fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..
Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black women I've met are in my age group and they all either
1. Has a baby or has babies by other guys.
2. Talks too much and too loud (AKA Ghetto)
3. Doesn't have a decent education
4. Has slept with multiple men before me (Hoes)
5. Continues to sleep with men even though their with me (AKA Cheaters)
6. Obssessed with me and always accusing me of cheating and blowing up my phone
7. Always arguing for no reason and then it turns into on and off relationships.
8. Just plain stuck up.
9. Too mean, rude, verbally aggressive, and did I mention GHETTO
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet women like this !!
Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black women but the bad outweighs the good.
My brother is married to a Pretty Puerto Rican woman and he is happy. She has a graduated highschool and has a college education, and is currently a nurse but soon to be doctor and she is really sweet to him and a great mother to my nephew.
My mom is beuatiful Black woman (I LOVE HER) and she wants me to keep my options open to black women too. I try to explain to her that times have changed and black women like my mother don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black woman and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white woman.
I've been recently talking to a woman who is mexican/white and she is clean, gorgeous, smart,(she is in college to become a docter),and funny. I told my mom about her and she just kind of shuts me out.
But there's this black woman that is uneducated and ghetto who has been trying to get with me for 4 years because she really likes me a lot and my mom likes her. She always mentions her and goes out of her way to convince me to be with her and the only thing she has going for herself is a decent car, good looks, small apartment and she is very sexy and i'm not even going to lie about that.
Finding a decent black woman is like 1/1,000,000.
Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???
I need serious advice, guys please help!
Bro most bm with anything going for themselves would be wise too steer clear of American bw your life will be better off.
Rather than making these judgments about Black women based on your limited experiences, maybe you should CHECK YOURSELF. Maybe there's something about YOU that draws such women to you, or make other women avoid you. It's interesting how when Black men start making negative judgments about Black women in general, they almost NEVER ask: What have I contributed to these negative experiences? Am I partly responsible for this myself? Can it really be ALL her fault and none of it mine?
(Of course, Black women who are always making negative judgments about Black men, are more or less equally one-sided---hardly imagining that they may also be at least partly responsible).
Have you ever considered how childish it all is, and how childish it makes you appear? And in the era of the global internet, have you ever thought what a poor reflection on Black America as a whole is made by your childish whinings?
Soul Hunter

Los Angeles, CA

#282 Aug 22, 2014
Savant"]<quoted text> Rather than making these judgments about Black women based on your limited experiences, maybe you should CHECK YOURSELF. Maybe there's something about YOU that draws such women to you, or make other women avoid you. It's interesting how when Black men start making negative judgments about Black women in general, they almost NEVER ask: What have I contributed to these negative experiences? Am I partly responsible for this myself? Can it really be ALL her fault and none of it mine?
(Of course, Black women who are always making negative judgments about Black men, are more or less equally one-sided---hardly imagining that they may also be at least partly responsible).
Have you ever considered how childish it all is, and how childish it makes you appear? And in the era of the global internet, have you ever thought what a poor reflection on Black America as a whole is made by your childish whinings?

Like I said bm are better off without American bw if you disagree that fine don't like what I post that's fine too.

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#283 Aug 22, 2014
Soul Hunter wrote:
Savant"]<quoted text> Rather than making these judgments about Black women based on your limited experiences, maybe you should CHECK YOURSELF. Maybe there's something about YOU that draws such women to you, or make other women avoid you. It's interesting how when Black men start making negative judgments about Black women in general, they almost NEVER ask: What have I contributed to these negative experiences? Am I partly responsible for this myself? Can it really be ALL her fault and none of it mine?
(Of course, Black women who are always making negative judgments about Black men, are more or less equally one-sided---hardly imagining that they may also be at least partly responsible).
Have you ever considered how childish it all is, and how childish it makes you appear? And in the era of the global internet, have you ever thought what a poor reflection on Black America as a whole is made by your childish whinings?
Like I said bm are better off without American bw if you disagree that fine don't like what I post that's fine too.
But even that knee jerk reply is childish. Which makes me suspect even more than your problems with Black women are largely of your own making. If you're incapable of self-examination, they you've got some growing up to do.
Intelligent Mind State

Saint Paul, MN

#284 Aug 23, 2014
Savant wrote:
<quoted text> Rather than making these judgments about Black women based on your limited experiences, maybe you should CHECK YOURSELF. Maybe there's something about YOU that draws such women to you, or make other women avoid you. It's interesting how when Black men start making negative judgments about Black women in general, they almost NEVER ask: What have I contributed to these negative experiences? Am I partly responsible for this myself? Can it really be ALL her fault and none of it mine?
(Of course, Black women who are always making negative judgments about Black men, are more or less equally one-sided---hardly imagining that they may also be at least partly responsible).
Have you ever considered how childish it all is, and how childish it makes you appear? And in the era of the global internet, have you ever thought what a poor reflection on Black America as a whole is made by your childish whinings?
I have dated multiple Black women and all of the relationships all ended up failing. It wasn't my fault either. Black women need to get their act together. Their the ones always trying to blame the Black men for the problems in the relationship and are never able to point out their own. From my past experiences with a high number of Black women all I recall is arguing, arguing, arguing, arguing, and arguing. We always had arguments with eachother. Black women nag way too much.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#285 Aug 23, 2014
Intelligent Mind State wrote:
<quoted text>I have dated multiple Black women and all of the relationships all ended up failing. It wasn't my fault either. Black women need to get their act together. Their the ones always trying to blame the Black men for the problems in the relationship and are never able to point out their own. From my past experiences with a high number of Black women all I recall is arguing, arguing, arguing, arguing, and arguing. We always had arguments with eachother. Black women nag way too much.
Why are you who claims to be a man arguing with a woman in the first place?

You fell victim to what you deem as a nuisance.

Men lead & women follow
KingsloveQueens

San Francisco, CA

#291 Aug 23, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
<quoted text>
Thats right!
Black women are 100% responsible for their own behavior and actions.
It is the womans job to teach the daughter about how to act woman like. Black women are responsible for themselves with no Black man to blame.
This would be a miracle, all bw taking accountability for they're own lives without playing the blame game race card lol (=
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#292 Aug 24, 2014
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>This would be a miracle, all bw taking accountability for they're own lives without playing the blame game race card lol (=
You can say that again.

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