I don't want to marry a BLACK WOMAN

I don't want to marry a BLACK WOMAN

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DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#1 Aug 14, 2014
This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)
So I know Not every black woman fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..
Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black women I've met are in my age group and they all either
1. Has a baby or has babies by other guys.
2. Talks too much and too loud (AKA Ghetto)
3. Doesn't have a decent education
4. Has slept with multiple men before me (Hoes)
5. Continues to sleep with men even though their with me (AKA Cheaters)
6. Obssessed with me and always accusing me of cheating and blowing up my phone
7. Always arguing for no reason and then it turns into on and off relationships.
8. Just plain stuck up.
9. Too mean, rude, verbally aggressive, and did I mention GHETTO

I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet women like this !!

Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black women but the bad outweighs the good.
My brother is married to a Pretty Puerto Rican woman and he is happy. She has a graduated highschool and has a college education, and is currently a nurse but soon to be doctor and she is really sweet to him and a great mother to my nephew.

My mom is beuatiful Black woman (I LOVE HER) and she wants me to keep my options open to black women too. I try to explain to her that times have changed and black women like my mother don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black woman and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white woman.

I've been recently talking to a woman who is mexican/white and she is clean, gorgeous, smart,(she is in college to become a docter),and funny. I told my mom about her and she just kind of shuts me out.

But there's this black woman that is uneducated and ghetto who has been trying to get with me for 4 years because she really likes me a lot and my mom likes her. She always mentions her and goes out of her way to convince me to be with her and the only thing she has going for herself is a decent car, good looks, small apartment and she is very sexy and i'm not even going to lie about that.
Finding a decent black woman is like 1/1,000,000.

Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???

I need serious advice, guys please help!

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#2 Aug 14, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)
So I know Not every black woman fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..
Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black women I've met are in my age group and they all either
1. Has a baby or has babies by other guys.
2. Talks too much and too loud (AKA Ghetto)
3. Doesn't have a decent education
4. Has slept with multiple men before me (Hoes)
5. Continues to sleep with men even though their with me (AKA Cheaters)
6. Obssessed with me and always accusing me of cheating and blowing up my phone
7. Always arguing for no reason and then it turns into on and off relationships.
8. Just plain stuck up.
9. Too mean, rude, verbally aggressive, and did I mention GHETTO
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet women like this !!
Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black women but the bad outweighs the good.
My brother is married to a Pretty Puerto Rican woman and he is happy. She has a graduated highschool and has a college education, and is currently a nurse but soon to be doctor and she is really sweet to him and a great mother to my nephew.
My mom is beuatiful Black woman (I LOVE HER) and she wants me to keep my options open to black women too. I try to explain to her that times have changed and black women like my mother don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black woman and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white woman.
I've been recently talking to a woman who is mexican/white and she is clean, gorgeous, smart,(she is in college to become a docter),and funny. I told my mom about her and she just kind of shuts me out.
But there's this black woman that is uneducated and ghetto who has been trying to get with me for 4 years because she really likes me a lot and my mom likes her. She always mentions her and goes out of her way to convince me to be with her and the only thing she has going for herself is a decent car, good looks, small apartment and she is very sexy and i'm not even going to lie about that.
Finding a decent black woman is like 1/1,000,000.
Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???
I need serious advice, guys please help!
Then don't..........

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#3 Aug 14, 2014
You won't have too much to pick from brother, that's damn every black woman breathing!

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#4 Aug 14, 2014
I think you missed the other thread that said basically the same thing. Go to that one for more responses.

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#5 Aug 14, 2014
lol
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#6 Aug 14, 2014
melissa__ wrote:
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Then don't..........
It's not that I hate Black women ,but there's just not many out there who meet my standards and it's sad. I would love to start a marriage with a Black woman who is on my level. You know in college or has a decent education and is a nice woman. There's just not many who meet the standards. But my mother wants me to marry a Black woman badly. I just dont want to marry a Black woman. I geuss im in a very tight position.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#7 Aug 14, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
You won't have too much to pick from brother, that's damn every black woman breathing!
It's almost as if thats the case. Is there any more good Black Women out there. My mother keeps on trying to convince me that there is but I just dont see it. I will hate to disappoint my mother but I am not going to date any more Black women who fits any of the descriptions from the list above. All the Black women that I have been with have given me a hard time. Its a shame but its true.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#8 Aug 14, 2014
Deva04 wrote:
lol
This ain't funny because I am truly in a hard position. I seriously don't want to dissapoint my mother but I refuse to date any more Black women who fits any of the descriptions from the list above. And it seems like all of them are lke this.

Mama ain't gonna be happy but i'm thinking of dating out on the sista's.

A, its my life though.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#9 Aug 14, 2014
Jubilant Sleep wrote:
I think you missed the other thread that said basically the same thing. Go to that one for more responses.
I just don't know what to do right now. Its really complicated for me right now and I just need advice to help me get through a tough decision.
TaQaun

Saint Paul, MN

#11 Aug 14, 2014
Never marry any of those heifers. They will make your life pure hell. Keep dating Hispanic and White women. That should answer your question.

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#12 Aug 14, 2014
Black women say it all the time that they are not going to settle for less, why should you!
There are plenty of sistas who aren't good enough for me, and I'll be damned if I'll date a hoodbooger just to have somebody! I'm not going to let ANY black woman affect my quality of life!

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#13 Aug 14, 2014
I'll never THAT lonely that I'll date a hoodrat!
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#14 Aug 14, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
Black women say it all the time that they are not going to settle for less, why should you!
There are plenty of sistas who aren't good enough for me, and I'll be damned if I'll date a hoodbooger just to have somebody! I'm not going to let ANY black woman affect my quality of life!
Exactly, thats what i'm saying. This is my life and I should be able to do what I want to do. If I marry a white woman thats my decision. Not my mothers or anyone else's decision.

My mother has to understand that there isn't many classy, educated, and gorgeous Black women out there such as herself.
frankeubanks

Columbus, OH

#15 Aug 14, 2014
I am a black man who does not want to marry outside of my race. One reason that I want a black woman for a wife is because I am a member of a black church. The family reunions I have been to consisted of black people. On both my mother's side and my father's side of my family I have great grandfathers who were very light-skinned because their fathers were white slave masters. I have a picture of one of my very light-skinned great-grandfathers. One of the white slave masters I found in the 1840 U.S. Census. He is also in the 1850 & 1860 U.S. Census. I learned that one of my back relatives tracked down one white descendent of one of my white great-great grandfathers about 10 years ago, so the door has been opened to find some of my distant white relatives. But churches are segregated. I want black lady who is a member of the African Methodist Episcopal Church so that we can go to church conferences together, but I would also prefer also to go to the same church that she is a member of. Also, I like the way some black women look. Some black women to me look better than the way 100% of white, Asian, and Hispanic women look. I went to black elementary, junior high and senior high schools and lived in primarily black neighborhoods all my life and I have spent lots of time gawking at luscious to me looking black girls and back women. To me, the best looking women in the world are very dark skinned black women with broad noses and big thick lips. That is what the most beautiful women to me are. Therefore, I lust after black women who look the most "delicious" in appearance to me. I want what to me is a very good looking lady for a wife, and the best looking ladies to me are all black. To me, there is no such thing as a good looking white lady. By the way, I have a broad nose and thick lips myself. So did my mother.

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#16 Aug 14, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
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Exactly, thats what i'm saying. This is my life and I should be able to do what I want to do. If I marry a white woman thats my decision. Not my mothers or anyone else's decision.
My mother has to understand that there isn't many classy, educated, and gorgeous Black women out there such as herself.
If your mother wants you to marry a black woman thats up to your standards (class,education,looks) she's gonna have to find that woman herself, otherwise do what you have to do! Leave the boogers and rats for the thugs! Any sista that values her hair over anything else is not wife material! Any woman that takes a picture showing half her face and all her azz is not wife material! Remember that!
frankeubanks

Columbus, OH

#17 Aug 14, 2014
I made a typing error. The word "back" in my above post should be "black".
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#18 Aug 14, 2014
frankeubanks wrote:
I am a black man who does not want to marry outside of my race. One reason that I want a black woman for a wife is because I am a member of a black church. The family reunions I have been to consisted of black people. On both my mother's side and my father's side of my family I have great grandfathers who were very light-skinned because their fathers were white slave masters. I have a picture of one of my very light-skinned great-grandfathers. One of the white slave masters I found in the 1840 U.S. Census. He is also in the 1850 & 1860 U.S. Census. I learned that one of my back relatives tracked down one white descendent of one of my white great-great grandfathers about 10 years ago, so the door has been opened to find some of my distant white relatives. But churches are segregated. I want black lady who is a member of the African Methodist Episcopal Church so that we can go to church conferences together, but I would also prefer also to go to the same church that she is a member of. Also, I like the way some black women look. Some black women to me look better than the way 100% of white, Asian, and Hispanic women look. I went to black elementary, junior high and senior high schools and lived in primarily black neighborhoods all my life and I have spent lots of time gawking at luscious to me looking black girls and back women. To me, the best looking women in the world are very dark skinned black women with broad noses and big thick lips. That is what the most beautiful women to me are. Therefore, I lust after black women who look the most "delicious" in appearance to me. I want what to me is a very good looking lady for a wife, and the best looking ladies to me are all black. To me, there is no such thing as a good looking white lady. By the way, I have a broad nose and thick lips myself. So did my mother.
Thats excellent that you think Black women are beuatiful and you should search for that beuatiful church going Black woman your looking for. I also beleive Black women are beuatiful but I have just experienced to many difficult relationships with good looking Black women. They are just not my type of women. They make complications such as arguing too much and are too loud. I've gotten embarassed in public by one of my Black girl friends because we got into a little argument (I cant even remember what it was about) and she just got really loud to the point almost everyone around could hear her. It was in the cafeteria at the mall. Everybody was looking at us and she just didn't care but continued to embarass both of us. I didn't like the sh*t either. We made up about it later but ended up braking up for a similar incident. I don't want any more women like that.
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#19 Aug 14, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
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If your mother wants you to marry a black woman thats up to your standards (class,education,looks) she's gonna have to find that woman herself, otherwise do what you have to do! Leave the boogers and rats for the thugs! Any sista that values her hair over anything else is not wife material! Any woman that takes a picture showing half her face and all her azz is not wife material! Remember that!
Exactly again. I'm not about to get into another relationship with some loud mouth ghetto Black girl because my mother want's me to date women of my race. I repeat they are also too LOUD and love to make scenes in the public and it pisses me off.

I want a good woman right now and im tired of waiting. This Mexican/White girl is very pretty and EDUCATED and CLASSY and passing her up would only be idiotic! And probably a mistake of a life time to pass her up for another Black woman who fits any of the descriptions in the list above.

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#20 Aug 14, 2014
DJ Hamilton wrote:
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Exactly again. I'm not about to get into another relationship with some loud mouth ghetto Black girl because my mother want's me to date women of my race. I repeat they are also too LOUD and love to make scenes in the public and it pisses me off.
I want a good woman right now and im tired of waiting. This Mexican/White girl is very pretty and EDUCATED and CLASSY and passing her up would only be idiotic! And probably a mistake of a life time to pass her up for another Black woman who fits any of the descriptions in the list above.
Don't pass it up brother!
DJ Hamilton

Saint Paul, MN

#21 Aug 14, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text> Don't pass it up brother!
Thank you for the advice.
You are very much appreciated.

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