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#1 Oct 7, 2013
“America has always viewed unregulated Black reproduction as dangerous. For three centuries, Black mothers have been thought to pass down to their offspring the traits that marked them as inferior to any white person. Along with this biological impairment, it is believed that Black mothers transfer a deviant lifestyle to their children that dooms each succeeding generation to a life of poverty, delinquency, and despair. A persistent objective of American social policy has been to monitor and restrain this corrupting tendency of Black motherhood.”(Roberts 1997:8)

During the 1950s in the US South white women faced economic, legal, and medical obstacles to their access to reproductive services such as contraceptives and sterilization procedures. During this same time family planning initiatives targeted women of color (particularly black women) encouraging the use of contraceptives and sterilizations in the interest of reducing the growth of the black population. Family planning initiatives were politically espoused by conservatives such as Strom Thurmond, as a racialized form population control in the interest of limiting black voter strength in the US South. State funding for family planning clinics frequently recieved popular support when associated with women of color, though the same was not true when associated with white women. Or, in the words of Louisiana judge Leander Perez,“The best way to hate a n!xx3r is to hate him before he is born.”
ProudWhiteChick

Aiken, SC

#2 Oct 7, 2013
Strom Thurmond was a hypocrite. I don't have a problem with white men being with black women, but he cheated on his wife, then hid the fact he had a half black daughter. And bribed them for years not to tell anyone.

Black women however do need to practice safe sex. You have too many children out of wedlock. In Strom Thurmonds defense, the black woman probably tried to get pregnant on purpose, knowing because of his image he would never have anything to do with her. Have some self control.

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#3 Oct 8, 2013
ProudWhiteChick wrote:
Strom Thurmond was a hypocrite. I don't have a problem with white men being with black women, but he cheated on his wife, then hid the fact he had a half black daughter. And bribed them for years not to tell anyone.
Black women however do need to practice safe sex. You have too many children out of wedlock. In Strom Thurmonds defense, the black woman probably tried to get pregnant on purpose, knowing because of his image he would never have anything to do with her. Have some self control.
Get lost.

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#4 Oct 8, 2013
A BW's fertility is envied by most.

“Out of the US back in France”

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#5 Oct 8, 2013
ProudWhiteChick wrote:
Strom Thurmond was a hypocrite. I don't have a problem with white men being with black women, but he cheated on his wife, then hid the fact he had a half black daughter. And bribed them for years not to tell anyone.
Black women however do need to practice safe sex. You have too many children out of wedlock. In Strom Thurmonds defense, the black woman probably tried to get pregnant on purpose, knowing because of his image he would never have anything to do with her. Have some self control.
I agree with you.
The amount of black women with out of wedlock children is staggering and just embarrassing. Blaming everything on the white man is silly! Take responsibility for your actions and use protection, apart from getting pregnant aren't you scared of passing on and acquiring diseases? Aren't you too proud of your body to go around being a sex toy or sex object for any and every man? Where is your self respect? I reiterate your statement... " HAVE SOME SELF CONTROL!!"

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#6 Oct 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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I agree with you.
The amount of black women with out of wedlock children is staggering and just embarrassing. Blaming everything on the white man is silly! Take responsibility for your actions and use protection, apart from getting pregnant aren't you scared of passing on and acquiring diseases? Aren't you too proud of your body to go around being a sex toy or sex object for any and every man? Where is your self respect? I reiterate your statement... " HAVE SOME SELF CONTROL!!"
You are comparing AAW to women in America of other ethnicities. I would assume most women of all races equally want children. But AA men offer marriage opportunities to AAW, at far lower rates than men from other races offer marriage and commitment to their women. So if only 30% of AAW get married, do you really expect only 3 out of 10 of them to want motherhood? Do you think there is any race or group of women in America where only 3 out of 10 want to become mothers?
Non_BW want to become mothers so much, that they are actually giving 24% of AAM the opportunity to marry interracially.

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#7 Oct 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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I agree with you.
The amount of black women with out of wedlock children is staggering and just embarrassing. Blaming everything on the white man is silly! Take responsibility for your actions and use protection, apart from getting pregnant aren't you scared of passing on and acquiring diseases? Aren't you too proud of your body to go around being a sex toy or sex object for any and every man? Where is your self respect? I reiterate your statement... " HAVE SOME SELF CONTROL!!"
You may find this hard to accept, but in many cultures, including European white culture, men will feel compelled to marry a woman if she gets pregnant. It is less prevalent now than it was in the past, but still many of them make that commitment to their unborn child.
Slave descent men, don't and never have felt compelled to make such a commitment to their children, so their female counterparts will always have disproportionate amounts of OOW children.

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#8 Oct 8, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You are comparing AAW to women in America of other ethnicities. I would assume most women of all races equally want children. But AA men offer marriage opportunities to AAW, at far lower rates than men from other races offer marriage and commitment to their women. So if only 30% of AAW get married, do you really expect only 3 out of 10 of them to want motherhood? Do you think there is any race or group of women in America where only 3 out of 10 want to become mothers?
Non_BW want to become mothers so much, that they are actually giving 24% of AAM the opportunity to marry interracially.
I hear you. But AAM are not the only men who can offer AAW children. Why resort to bringing a child into the world without a stable partner, father or support system when you can wait for the right man to come along and be a good partner and father?
Even if you do not like white men, there are Asian men, Latina men or non American black men who will marry you if you are the right woman. And the right woman is usually a woman who values her body so much that she refrains from having unprotected sex with multiple partners.

“Out of the US back in France”

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#9 Oct 8, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You may find this hard to accept, but in many cultures, including European white culture, men will feel compelled to marry a woman if she gets pregnant. It is less prevalent now than it was in the past, but still many of them make that commitment to their unborn child.
Slave descent men, don't and never have felt compelled to make such a commitment to their children, so their female counterparts will always have disproportionate amounts of OOW children.
I get you. And yes it is not so hard to fathom that african american black men will not feel the need to be responsible for their offspring. But see, we ALL know this. So why do you continue to sleep with someone who you know will not act responsibly?
Can't you learn from your mothers and sisters mistakes?

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#10 Oct 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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I get you. And yes it is not so hard to fathom that african american black men will not feel the need to be responsible for their offspring. But see, we ALL know this. So why do you continue to sleep with someone who you know will not act responsibly?
Can't you learn from your mothers and sisters mistakes?
Very simple... women naturally gravitate and are sexually and romatically loyal to men from their father's race and CULTURE. That's why AAW are not casually going to the caribbean and tempting BM there with visas. They specifically want o be with AAM. Slave descent men are damaged and eagerly aim to replace their female counterparts with white women. But AAW are clearly not interested in replacing AAM in any way, in significant numbers. To AAW in general, AAM are irreplaceable, that's probably why they give IRWW the side eye in Walmart etc.

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#11 Oct 8, 2013
*o = to

“Out of the US back in France”

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#12 Oct 8, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Very simple... women naturally gravitate and are sexually and romatically loyal to men from their father's race and CULTURE. That's why AAW are not casually going to the caribbean and tempting BM there with visas. They specifically want o be with AAM. Slave descent men are damaged and eagerly aim to replace their female counterparts with white women. But AAW are clearly not interested in replacing AAM in any way, in significant numbers. To AAW in general, AAM are irreplaceable, that's probably why they give IRWW the side eye in Walmart etc.
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That is just sad. Choosing colour and culture over your own happiness.
Boon

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#13 Oct 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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That is just sad. Choosing colour and culture over your own happiness.
Women are the keepers of race. I suspect about half of black women would not mind having mixed race children but choose not to, to keep their race going. Imagine if half of AA women chose their own happiness over preserving the race and had mixed race children. Blacks in America would die out in a few decades. Whites made laws like the one drop rule to preserve their race. Of all races blacks seem not to have that intinct. Isn't shalimar married to a white man?^_^

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#14 Oct 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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That is just sad. Choosing colour and culture over your own happiness.
It's instinctive self/group preservation. Everybody does it, except for Slave descent men and for a time east Asian females. The stereotypically weakest men and the weakest women.

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#15 Oct 8, 2013
Boon wrote:
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Women are the keepers of race. I suspect about half of black women would not mind having mixed race children but choose not to, to keep their race going. Imagine if half of AA women chose their own happiness over preserving the race and had mixed race children. Blacks in America would die out in a few decades. Whites made laws like the one drop rule to preserve their race. Of all races blacks seem not to have that intinct. Isn't shalimar married to a white man?^_^
No one is putting the continuance of a whole race on my shoulders. Call me selfish I will ALWAYS choose myself over preserving the black population. My first instinct is "Look out for number 1" - number 1 being me.
What is ironic is black women sacrificing their own happiness for people who will later scorn them the way they do on this forum. smh.

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#16 Oct 8, 2013
Boon wrote:
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Women are the keepers of race. I suspect about half of black women would not mind having mixed race children but choose not to, to keep their race going. Imagine if half of AA women chose their own happiness over preserving the race and had mixed race children. Blacks in America would die out in a few decades. Whites made laws like the one drop rule to preserve their race. Of all races blacks seem not to have that intinct. Isn't shalimar married to a white man?^_^
nope she claims her baby daddy is white but she's not married
Boon

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#17 Oct 8, 2013
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> nope she claims her baby daddy is white but she's not married
So, she be baby mamma?

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#18 Oct 8, 2013
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So, she be baby mamma?
thats right a baby mama not a wife

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