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Many Straight Women Strong Desire Intimacy With Another Woman

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#1 Nov 27, 2008
I think a large number of straight women have a strong desire for intimacy with another woman. I think many repress the desire because of the strong disapproval of our culture, fear of hurting their husband or b/f, hurting family members, religious beliefs, problems with employment and probably a few I have missed. I can hardly remember ever reading about a woman who did not find g/g intimacy extremely pleasurable. I know that some women have been terribly hurt in a g/g relationship, but usually that is due to the character and actions of their partner not because their partner is a woman.

I have only discussed this (without revealing I am bisexual) with a few friends, but even some who outwardly are really conservative have a yearning to experience it, but have never summomed the courage to act on their feelings.

Do you feel this is true or am I just having a fantasy?
Joyce Marie from the link
*Let us discuss, at lease something different from IR LOL

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#2 Nov 27, 2008
Can women who are only sexually attracted to men still crave the intimacy and closeness of another woman?

Don't be shy people-Speak on it ;o)
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#3 Nov 27, 2008
asian guy

Tacoma, WA

#4 Nov 27, 2008
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Can women who are only sexually attracted to men still crave the intimacy and closeness of another woman?
Don't be shy people-Speak on it ;o)
thats called bisexual women.

the same goes for men who like to have anal sex with women.
They claim that they like it because its a fetish.

Anal sex in any form is gay.

So when I hear about men who do it to women, I think they are bisexual but dont realize it or admit it.

Same goes for women who are "straight" and have desires for another.

Maybe you are confusing desire and admire.

Sure men often admire other men, typically the men they admire are musicians or athletes, like women admire their alpha female friends
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#5 Nov 27, 2008
asian guy wrote:
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thats called bisexual women.
the same goes for men who like to have anal sex with women.
They claim that they like it because its a fetish.
Anal sex in any form is gay.
So when I hear about men who do it to women, I think they are bisexual but dont realize it or admit it.
Same goes for women who are "straight" and have desires for another.
Maybe you are confusing desire and admire.
Sure men often admire other men, typically the men they admire are musicians or athletes, like women admire their alpha female friends
I think labels are tricky because they are always open for personal interpretation. I think Bisexual women are women who are attracted to other women. There is many heterosexual women who are not attracted to other women, but our BI-curious to what it would be like to be in a relationship with one. I personally believe sexuality is adaptable and not written in stone (from birth). I think we are all capable to romantically love anyone.
asian guy

Tacoma, WA

#6 Nov 27, 2008
no, sexuality is all chemical. Thats what I believe.

Most people are straight.

Gays have been found to have an anomoly in their brain neurons.

BTW, the gays you see who been raped, I think that rape just brings out the gay some men already have inthem.

Cause I know some dudes who been raped in prison, no speck of gayism in any of them.
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#7 Nov 27, 2008
asian guy wrote:
no, sexuality is all chemical. Thats what I believe.
Most people are straight.
Gays have been found to have an anomoly in their brain neurons.
BTW, the gays you see who been raped, I think that rape just brings out the gay some men already have inthem.
Cause I know some dudes who been raped in prison, no speck of gayism in any of them.
Chemical as in fluid? Yeah check out the posted youtube clip.I don't believe sexuality is as simple as chemical fluid because all people have had homo and hetero thoughts whether anyone admit it or not.
asian guy

Tacoma, WA

#9 Nov 27, 2008
what are you talking about?
I'm sure some people do

I didn't even know about homos til I got into high school.

yes call me sheltered, but I always found attraction for women.

I didnt know there were such things as gay until I saw 2 chicks kissing, I thought it was bizzare at first, so I looked it up.

BTW the anomoly is actually a chemical imbalance.

Its nothing deadly and doesn't harm anyone.

Well the butthole, but other than that, well I guess your nose
Attagirl

Waldorf, MD

#10 Nov 27, 2008
I never desired it. I've always wanted intimacy with a man. I just don't see the appeal with a woman.

I'm sure there are quite of bit of straight women who feel the same as I do.

Women just don't do it for me.

asian guy

Tacoma, WA

#11 Nov 27, 2008
that lick person is weird.

Most people aren't gay.

Only a few are bi/gay
Dr Endo

Tacoma, WA

#12 Nov 27, 2008

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#13 Nov 27, 2008
asian guy wrote:
that lick person is weird.
Most people aren't gay.
Only a few are bi/gay
I have seen a lot of women who I never would feel that they are lesbians. In a relationship with a woman possibly because they are lonely or curious.
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#14 Nov 27, 2008
asian guy wrote:
that lick person is weird.
Most people aren't gay.
Only a few are bi/gay
Shyt you in denail. I didn't say most people are gay. But most/all have be curious.
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#15 Nov 27, 2008
*denial

*been
Dr Endo

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#16 Nov 27, 2008
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#17 Nov 27, 2008
Attagirl wrote:
I never desired it. I've always wanted intimacy with a man. I just don't see the appeal with a woman.
I'm sure there are quite of bit of straight women who feel the same as I do.
Women just don't do it for me.
I agree with you, but I also know there are straight women who do. It also depends on other factors, being that most BW never seen the appeal in non-BM and since the availability of good BM is low, BW have open their options to IR; a relationship with another women will be no different in the near future :O)
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#18 Nov 27, 2008
Dr Endo wrote:
Tell that to all the niccas in ATL :oP
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#19 Nov 27, 2008
Captn wrote:
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I have seen a lot of women who I never would feel that they are lesbians. In a relationship with a woman possibly because they are lonely or curious.
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#20 Nov 27, 2008
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<quoted text>How do you make your mom proud?
being a good Christian. Helping old ladies cross the street.
Making sure that women come first in every way.
;)
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#21 Nov 27, 2008
Captn wrote:
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I have seen a lot of women who I never would feel that they are lesbians. In a relationship with a woman possibly because they are lonely or curious.
Loneliness and curiosity are two big factors on why heterosexual women may seek out intimacy with another woman. Loneliness, of course doesn't mean the woman is single and don't have a man; many women in committed relationships are emotionally bankrupt. Heterosexual women do not seek out a relationship with other women for sex, which is why sexual attraction is not important as it would be for a bisexual or lesbian.

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