Again, the 9th amendment recognizes not all civil rights are spelled out in the bill of rights. That does not mean they are not still civil rights: "The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people." --The Ninth Amendment<quoted text>
There is no 'civil right' to marriage...marriage is no where in the constitution...
On 14 occasions, the Supreme Court has affirmed that marriage is one of those previously un enumerated fundamental civil rights protected by the constitution.
Your denial of reality does not change the fact marriage is firmly established as a civil right.