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Long Island Girl

Brooklyn, NY

#1 Jun 4, 2010
22% of black men are married to women who are not black as of 2008. The 2010 census states.(even though there divorce rates are the highest) Bw need to ge with the damn program and stop being retarted, these bm are not waiting for you so why are you waiting for them? Thankfully bw IR marriages is increasing quickl because it finally moved up from 2% to 9%. But 9% ladies? If you guys want to get married you better find yourself a White Asian or Latin man.
Because black men won't, so DONT waste your time at all with them.

Here's the article
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/04/us/04interr...
bw need to wake the fxck up.
Long Island Girl

Brooklyn, NY

#2 Jun 4, 2010
All you guys are going to end up as baby mommas if you don't stop messing with black men and dont start looking for White asian Indian Latin or whatever to put a damn ring on it.

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

Wichita, KS

#3 Jun 4, 2010
Girl it's only gonna get worse we are gonna end up like the U.K in a couple of years.

“YOU TOO?!?!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Houston, TX

#4 Jun 4, 2010
*SMH*@ ya'll trying to IR compete with us......No other race of women do this. I wonder why.

"OMG ladies we need to get our IR numbers up! Black men are beating us!!!!!!!...blah blah wah wah"

^^^^How much sense does that make?
Long Island Girl

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Jun 4, 2010
^^
candaymama who are you with? If you are with someone who is black you need to dump him quick before he wastes your time. He will not marry you,
here's another article on this topic
http://pewsocialtrends.org/pubs/755/trends-at...

“My heart....”

Since: Jun 10

...goes out to you!!!

#6 Jun 4, 2010
It's not just about putting a ring on it, it's about falling inlove with the right man. Are you going to let a few black men who have done you wrong affect your view of the next black man who you encounter, who may potentially be great for you.

That's why half of American marriages end in divorce. All some people want is the idea of marriage not the deeper meaning of it. Superficiality will not keep you married. It may get you married, possibly, but it is not a guarantee you will stay married.
Long Island Girl

Brooklyn, NY

#7 Jun 4, 2010
I'm not competing with anyone I am siting look how many black men are not holding out for black women. So why they hell are black women holding out and wasting their time on them.
Are black women that stupid?
Plus not too mention bw outnumber black men by so much.
I am only trying to help them get married here, bw must open up their options of they want a greater chance of getting married.
G W L

Panama City, FL

#8 Jun 4, 2010
The article sounds somewhat racially biased, by indicating "black women have fewer men to choose from." This sounds like it is saying that although black men are marrying white women or asian women, that black women still have to marry black men.

The door swings both ways. If black men marry white and asian women, then black women need to include asian or white men as potential partners.

We should view ourselves as one people. And we are mixed race, we should stop trying to force ourselves to be either "black" or "white" and declare that we are bi-racial or multi-racial.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING RACIALLY MIXED!!!

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

Wichita, KS

#9 Jun 4, 2010
Long Island Girl wrote:
^^
candaymama who are you with? If you are with someone who is black you need to dump him quick before he wastes your time. He will not marry you,
here's another article on this topic
http://pewsocialtrends.org/pubs/755/trends-at...
nooooo I love him,I don't care if he doesn't marry me I want to be with him.He doesn't want a nonblack woman.He's been married to 2 black women he has not change his mind.He treats me like his queen.I'm not gonna dump my good black man so somebody else can snatch him up cause after me there will be NOBODY else.

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

Wichita, KS

#10 Jun 4, 2010
G W L wrote:
The article sounds somewhat racially biased, by indicating "black women have fewer men to choose from." This sounds like it is saying that although black men are marrying white women or asian women, that black women still have to marry black men.
The door swings both ways. If black men marry white and asian women, then black women need to include asian or white men as potential partners.
We should view ourselves as one people. And we are mixed race, we should stop trying to force ourselves to be either "black" or "white" and declare that we are bi-racial or multi-racial.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING RACIALLY MIXED!!!
There is still plenty of black men in the world.The article is stupid if I want I can go to africa or jamaica to get me a man.There's black men everywhere.Men everywhere,the U.S isn't the only place.
Lost Sheep

Broken Arrow, OK

#11 Jun 4, 2010
Long Island Girl wrote:
22% of black men are married to women who are not black as of 2008. The 2010 census states.(even though there divorce rates are the highest) Bw need to ge with the damn program and stop being retarted, these bm are not waiting for you so why are you waiting for them? Thankfully bw IR marriages is increasing quickl because it finally moved up from 2% to 9%. But 9% ladies? If you guys want to get married you better find yourself a White Asian or Latin man.
Because black men won't, so DONT waste your time at all with them.
Here's the article
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/04/us/04interr...
bw need to wake the fxck up.
"Of all 3.8 million adults who married in 2008, 31 percent of Asians, 26 percent of Hispanic people, 16 percent of blacks and 9 percent of whites married a person whose race or ethnicity was different from their own. Those were all record highs."

Interestingly enough, what is there to wake up about?

These results aren't (neither could they be) conclusive for the mere fact that an individual can (today) make the claim that they are of a particular "race", when they are knowledgeable of being mixed...

There are also other multiple factors that could play a role, i.e. the available population of men to women...which in essence could possibly equate the playing field in numbers in the near future - TRANSLATION - Black women are catching up fast...
Lost Sheep

Broken Arrow, OK

#12 Jun 4, 2010
If a BM married a mixed female who made the claim that she was "other than", then these statistics are incorporated to be representative of the poll...

“My heart....”

Since: Jun 10

...goes out to you!!!

#13 Jun 4, 2010
G W L wrote:
The article sounds somewhat racially biased, by indicating "black women have fewer men to choose from." This sounds like it is saying that although black men are marrying white women or asian women, that black women still have to marry black men.
The door swings both ways. If black men marry white and asian women, then black women need to include asian or white men as potential partners.
We should view ourselves as one people. And we are mixed race, we should stop trying to force ourselves to be either "black" or "white" and declare that we are bi-racial or multi-racial.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING RACIALLY MIXED!!!
There is nothing wrong with being racially mixed, but why should someone claim something that they are not. If all of my family members are black,from my great-grandparents to the youngest ones on both sides of my family, then what would I be doing claiming myself as mixed or multi-racial. The mixing in my family line happened too long ago for us to even claim something like that. I think people should just be what they are and embrace it.
Rock stAr chick

Toronto, Canada

#14 Jun 4, 2010
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
Girl it's only gonna get worse we are gonna end up like the U.K in a couple of years.
No offence but whats wrong with that, America has more problems

Level 1

Since: Dec 08

Washington, DC

#15 Jun 4, 2010
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
<quoted text>
nooooo I love him,I don't care if he doesn't marry me I want to be with him.He doesn't want a nonblack woman.He's been married to 2 black women he has not change his mind.He treats me like his queen.I'm not gonna dump my good black man so somebody else can snatch him up cause after me there will be NOBODY else.
I hope he does deside to marry you in the future. He probably is in no rush since his first 2 didn't work out.

However, you will feel slighted and it will begin to bother you at some point if he doesn't every ask you to be his wife.

I think all women dream of getting married one day,, if the relationship doesn't progress at some point what is the point of it.

He is just has the cow and theres no need to buy it because you produce free milk. Don't you think your worth marrying do you cook, clean provide sex show love and attention.

Don't you think your a good woman and that he should want to devote himself to you!

I don't agree that black men don't marry black women or men of other races marry us faster. I'm just saying that not caring whether he marrys you at all may not be a good thing.
tragik

Monterey, CA

#16 Jun 4, 2010
Long Island Girl

Brooklyn, NY

#17 Jun 4, 2010
If bw don't want to end up playing house or being a baby mama than they need to date out, because only 35% of black men want to get married and 1 in 5 of them are not married to black women. So black ladies need to wake up, and find someone who will put a ring on it or end up as a the 70% out of wedlock statistic, a baba mama a welfare queen, a STEREOTYPE. That is my worst nightmare!!!

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

Wichita, KS

#18 Jun 4, 2010
Rock stAr chick wrote:
<quoted text>
No offence but whats wrong with that, America has more problems
We do have problems it doesn't stop people from sneaking in here either.
Rock stAr chick

Toronto, Canada

#19 Jun 4, 2010
TheRealMR_youtoo wrote:
*SMH*@ ya'll trying to IR compete with us......No other race of women do this. I wonder why.
"OMG ladies we need to get our IR numbers up! Black men are beating us!!!!!!!...blah blah wah wah"
^^^^How much sense doe
s that make?
i know eh, why it makes bw sound stupid and desperate, thank God that we dont all feel that we need to compete, i date who i want to, and it should'nt matter if he was a bm, if only 22 percent in AA are like this what about the 88. Is this about love or competition im confused

africa man

Boston, MA

#20 Jun 4, 2010
Long Island Girl wrote:
22% of black men are married to women who are not black as of 2008. The 2010 census states.(even though there divorce rates are the highest) Bw need to ge with the damn program and stop being retarted, these bm are not waiting for you so why are you waiting for them? Thankfully bw IR marriages is increasing quickl because it finally moved up from 2% to 9%. But 9% ladies? If you guys want to get married you better find yourself a White Asian or Latin man.
Because black men won't, so DONT waste your time at all with them.
Here's the article
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/04/us/04interr...
bw need to wake the fxck up.
the ture is who married aa women??????????they are nasty,getto,fat..etc......no body want them that is the truth.........i have africa,white,inda friend .we talk about women so i know no one like them

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