What should my brother do about this ...

What should my brother do about this girl?

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#1 Sep 26, 2013
My brother is 24. He's dating a white girl. They've been official since March of this year.

For years they've been friends since college about 6 yrs.

When she moved away to Delaware he flew out there to see her graduate. Her parents said they'd help get my brother a job in Texas where the girl and her parents live.
We'll needless to say they didn't get him the job reason being conflict of interest seeing he's dating the bosses daughter. The girlfriend got a job as a nurse recently. The last few weeks she's stopped calling my brother, stopped texting him back an if she does its 8 hrs later. While talking on the phone with her my brother said the girls mom hollered in the back ground your priorities are changing you don't have time for him. Another occasion my brother was on the phone with her telling her he didn't get a job in Texas he's applied for and the mother yelled in the background thats because you have no character. Then today the girlfriend told my brother to call her around 2pm he did and she yelled look I don't have time to talk and hung up on him. Me as his big sister just wants to choke this bitches little neck. What should I tell him? I told him to not make himself available to her. Don't call her let her call you. When she does tell her you don't have time.
Thanks for your advice it really hurts to know someone is using my brother. He even bought her pearl earrings.
Tony

Baltimore, MD

#3 Sep 27, 2013
6 years is a long time. It's time to move on. Some relationship are for a short period of time. Others are a lifetime. She sounds like she isn't interested in him anymore and probably is dating somebody new. He should get the picture, get a job and live his life.
Dr Kildare

Delaware, OH

#5 Sep 27, 2013
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
If a white girl is dating your brother, presumably black as coal and just as smart, then she's useless, classless trash that was long ago rejected by human men.
Obviously, he's trying to move up in life since he's turned his sights away from the hideous boonsow. He should be happy with what he's got.
Tell him to hang on to her like grim death. He'll never do any better. No decent human woman commits bestiality. He should be content with the lowest of the low. At least his girlfriend isn't a fellow nog.
Why can you beasts never look at the bright side of things?
seek a good psychiatrist even is you have to go to a government funded clinic

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#7 Sep 27, 2013
this just breaks my heart it really does

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#8 Sep 27, 2013
what does her race matter and why put it in the title?there isnt a snowball's chance in hell this wouldnt happen with a bw?
Allen

Melrose, FL

#10 Sep 27, 2013
PrinceShyShy wrote:
what does her race matter and why put it in the title?there isnt a snowball's chance in hell this wouldnt happen with a bw?
Her race isn't in the title at all. Why are all of you blacks illiterate as f1ck?

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#11 Sep 27, 2013
its not the fact that shes white but she's a flake

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#12 Sep 27, 2013
Allen wrote:
<quoted text>Her race isn't in the title at all. Why are all of you blacks illiterate as f1ck?
typo,you stupid sheep dog humping prick.

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#13 Sep 27, 2013
Allen wrote:
<quoted text>Her race isn't in the title at all. Why are all of you blacks illiterate as f1ck?
you're illiterate
a man who cusses doesn't know how to express himself effectively ...Malcolm x

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#14 Sep 27, 2013
pearlofagirl wrote:
My brother is 24. He's dating a white girl. They've been official since March of this year.
For years they've been friends since college about 6 yrs.
When she moved away to Delaware he flew out there to see her graduate. Her parents said they'd help get my brother a job in Texas where the girl and her parents live.
We'll needless to say they didn't get him the job reason being conflict of interest seeing he's dating the bosses daughter. The girlfriend got a job as a nurse recently. The last few weeks she's stopped calling my brother, stopped texting him back an if she does its 8 hrs later. While talking on the phone with her my brother said the girls mom hollered in the back ground your priorities are changing you don't have time for him. Another occasion my brother was on the phone with her telling her he didn't get a job in Texas he's applied for and the mother yelled in the background thats because you have no character. Then today the girlfriend told my brother to call her around 2pm he did and she yelled look I don't have time to talk and hung up on him. Me as his big sister just wants to choke this bitches little neck. What should I tell him? I told him to not make himself available to her. Don't call her let her call you. When she does tell her you don't have time.
Thanks for your advice it really hurts to know someone is using my brother. He even bought her pearl earrings.
Your brother needs to talk to this girl and discuss where their relationship is heading. Six years is a long time; therefore in my opinion, if the girl wants to truly separate, she should give him an adequate reason.

In fact, he should call her--if for this one last time. It's been six years. It doesn't need to be dragged out any longer. Your brother needs to know where he stands.

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