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#126 Jan 16, 2013
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BM have been WAGING a full on IR campaign for the LAST 30 yrs. From your music videos to your MOVIES, to your REAL life partners/spouses. Your post is nothing but a bunch of HYPOCRISY babble. If you were truly for the Black American family you would have said something about this a LONG time ago! But no, you WAITED until BW( who were fed-up with BM and their ACTIVE campaign of IR) started talking about IR in the same aggressive format that BM have been actively promoting for the last 30 yrs. I keep telling people Negro men do not understand CAUSE and EFFECT.
up till recently aam had the 2nd lowest ir marriage rate in the country, behind ww, at 5.5% throughout the 90s.

there have been very few irr themed films featuing bm and ww. and only one (by an aa director) that i can remember were the ir was central to the plot -'jungle fever'.

*EVERY* a-list aa actress has been pimped out to wm (often multiple times), in hollywood, for over 100 years.

http://www.jeffandcorey.com/ELIG.html

and this doesn't even include made for tv, productions, and series.

sorry but there's no comparing a few non-bm who might show up in a music video, with this and the ir industry aaw created for themselves.

imo, if the aaw's level of respect for bm is this low where she's gonna be openly and loudly and publically putting the historic and natural enemy of your people over her own men, in every media outlet possible. she needs to go.

with the gender war, character assassination campaign where nearly all negative stereotypes directed towards bm in the media is actually coming form aaw, a massive divorce rate, and dysfunctional kids. sorry but at some point you just need to face reality by asking this question:

*can a bw who's been the slave to wm for hundreds of years ever be the foundation of the bm's world?

now this isn't to say all aaw are beyond redemption. but i do think a massive purge and replacement is needed if you even intend to fix this persistent multi-generational problem.

and i'm pretty sure most bm will agree, cuz i don't know how anyone can take an honest look at todays aaw and not be totally disgusted.

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#127 Jan 16, 2013
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Don't know which town you live in, but it happens ALL the time! STATUS trumps beauty sometimes. Why else would some BM be walking around with 500 lb walruses, walking like they've won a prize?
boston. we don't see bm running around is fat rejected ww in boston. but i have seen it in the south. up here some of the most beautiful ww you'll ever see are on the arms of aam.

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#128 Jan 16, 2013
around *with* fat rejected ww

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#129 Jan 16, 2013
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true aa have been dating and marrying latinos on the EC since they started showing up. but you always saw more aam with ww, at least up til recently. but that's flipped within the last 10 years or so, from my observation, where latinas seem to have passed ww as the preferred 'option' for bm on the EC.
but not all the latinas are afro-latinas. many are your more olive skin southern european looking types. so i guess you can debate the whiteness of that kinda latina.
btw there are also a lot of aaw with afro-latinos around here, dating and marrying.
When AA men choose other they seem to choose white and the same goes for BW I guess once they get sick of AA they get sick of all blacks. And Caribbean women act just like AA women so what would be the point of choosing them.

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#130 Jan 16, 2013
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<quoted text>When AA men choose other they seem to choose white and the same goes for BW I guess once they get sick of AA they get sick of all blacks. And Caribbean women act just like AA women so what would be the point of choosing them.
the larger your potential mating pool the greater your chances of finding 'the one'.

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#131 Jan 16, 2013
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You indeed are a very lucky man but some of us are asthetically more picky than others... take out the equation of race and think about all the women who like men with wavy hair or grey eyes ... everyone has a weakness that they just melt like butter for... for me im a sucker for tall light eyed men with bangin abs.. regardless of race always been my weakness...
A lot of black men are turned on by light-brown or greenish-eyed light-skinned black women. I used to go with this girl in my senior year in high school who fit that description. She had cat eyes like Barbara Eden on "I Dream of Jeannie". I was not turned on or turned off by her eyes. As a matter of fact, I always liked women with medium or darker brown eyes, which I considered normal for black women. I still remember how we used to sneak off during class and kiss on the staircase. I know teachers saw us, but they left us alone back then. Today, you'd probably be expelled. But come to think of it, she did get expelled later on that year after we broke off for sneaking over some dudes house during lunch break. She had issues that I didn't know about until years later.

Anyway, I learned how to kiss through her. Plus when I would rap to her at those staircases, I could see the reflexion of my face in her pupils. So I felt like I was talking to myself, but I didn't know what the world I was saying, lol...she just liked me. But that's what I remember most about those brownish-green eyes. And the fellas thought I had a dime peice, but I didn't see that in her. Maybe it had something to do with her growing up on the same block with me, however her father kept her inside, which was part of her problem.

It wasn't until one day after she was finally allowed to ride her bike down my half of the street, when I saw this nice developing body go pass me on a bike. I think she knew she caught my eye. When she finally got to high school, she just clinged on to me. But when I looked in her eyes when I kissed her, I felt like I was looking at a set of eyes that didn't finish maturing into the color it was meant to be. It was like looking into a white girls eyes, and I never even been with a white girl. It probably wouldn't feel that way today, but that's what I felt then. However we all have our turn ons', and light eyes seem to be one of yours.

By the way, your avatar is making me want to take a trip back to Brazil, without coming back this time. lol

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#132 Jan 16, 2013
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Gross. Your WHOLE post was not being able to SLEEP with QUALITY whites! So the SOLE root of your problem is that racism/oppression is STOPPING you from sleeping with the white chicks you WANT? smh. If that's the case then I'm GLAD whites are practicing racism/oppression against you! Maybe they know this about you?
I see you bring a lot of negativity against your own kind, that's if you're black.

Anyway you didn't look at the whole picture like most people did. Instead you chose to narrow my post down to something personal, divisive, and destructive, falling right into the trap the racist white man wants.

No my whole post wasn't about sleeping with no quality white woman. My cousin is already doing that. More of us can do that then you think, but the majority of us choose not too for two main reasons. 1. Most of us still want a black woman.
2. It's not always worth the risk, which was one of my main points.

Until the pratice of white man engineered racism is totally eradicated in every form, and it's accepted for the average black man to walk around anywhere in this country, the south in particular, with a pretty white woman on his arms without the whites harrasing him, including the white cops, and in some cases killing him, and until a black man can be allowed to date a white woman without being scared of what his white boss might do to him, etc..., then I have no problem seeing a white man with a black woman. They just need to leave us alone. They make it h@ll enough for a black man in some parts of this country even if his white woman looks like Roseanne Barr.

Before the wide spread practice of racism became the norm, it wasn't no big deal who married who. That's why it must go.You may want to put a black mans face on it, but it's the white mans doing.

So it's nothing to do with any personal desire of mine to be with a quality white woman...thanks for putting words in mouth. I just believe in even steven for my fellow brothers when it comes to IR dating. And so far this system of white supremecy designed by the white man ain't trying to let that happen for the black man.

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#133 Jan 16, 2013
Date whomever you want. Just don't forget who or what your are. Don't forget where you came from.

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#134 Jan 16, 2013
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Date whomever you want.
That would be nice if that were really allowed the way it was meant.
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#135 Jan 16, 2013
I guess quality WW rejecting BM aren't responsible..it has to be the WM holding them back..and to think WW started a whole revolution against WM for their freedom.. Maybe just Maybe..quality WW as a collective group don't want BM..they love their own men like most race of women do..
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#136 Jan 16, 2013
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BINGO!!!!!! I JUST finished telling the previous poster this!!! I don't even think he realizes he revealed his TRUE feelings on wanting to remove recism/oppresion. He wants to be able to SLEEP with QUUALITY whites. smh and lol. WOW just wow. You better believe MANY bm are thinking just like him!
That same poster was in another thread talking about a young cute white girl calling him a racial slur when a young white male walked in..you would think his pride would have prevented him from using the complimentary adjective "cute" and replaced it with "racist"..but these guys actually do love WW (actions speak louder than any words they profess to BW)and as we know love is blind and it protects...that is why a white girl could never do wrong in their eyes..and why a BW could never do right in their heart.. hence why he claims to love BW..but doesn't mind "losing" them to WM if he could trade them in for a quality WW..

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#137 Jan 16, 2013
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That would be nice if that were really allowed the way it was meant.
What???????

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#138 Jan 16, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
I guess quality WW rejecting BM aren't responsible..it has to be the WM holding them back..and to think WW started a whole revolution against WM for their freedom.. Maybe just Maybe..quality WW as a collective group don't want BM..they love their own men like most race of women do..
It's not about quality WW rejecting black men. It's more about WM leaving our quality BW alone if they can't accept us with one of theirs. I had several quality white women who wanted me, and it could have been more if I reached out to them. At the same time I seen white men scare a lot of them off. I very seldom talk about these things because I never really chased white women, however I don't hate them.

What's so ridulous about the whole thing was, the black women were more mad with me because these white women were going after me than they were with the white women. It just wasn't like that years ago when I was first coming along. That's the ugly face of white supremecy rearing it's ugly face. And that beast has grown bigger without a lot of people even acknowledging it.

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#139 Jan 16, 2013
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What???????
nevermind.

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#140 Jan 16, 2013
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<quoted text>That same poster was in another thread talking about a young cute white girl calling him a racial slur when a young white male walked in..you would think his pride would have prevented him from using the complimentary adjective "cute" and replaced it with "racist"..but these guys actually do love WW (actions speak louder than any words they profess to BW)and as we know love is blind and it protects...that is why a white girl could never do wrong in their eyes..and why a BW could never do right in their heart.. hence why he claims to love BW..but doesn't mind "losing" them to WM if he could trade them in for a quality WW..
I suggest you read my reply to that person who accussed me of that. It was a little hard on racist white women, but very real.

It's obivious you ignored the rest of that post, which was about supporting black businesses. But I'm starting feel that you don't really care about our real problems anyway.

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#141 Jan 16, 2013
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nevermind.
No problem.
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#142 Jan 16, 2013
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It's not about quality WW rejecting black men. It's more about WM leaving our quality BW alone if they can't accept us with one of theirs. I had several quality white women who wanted me, and it could have been more if I reached out to them. At the same time I seen white men scare a lot of them off. I very seldom talk about these things because I never really chased white women, however I don't hate them.
The thing is..you're not concern with "keeping" quality BW for BM..it's about being able to safely have quality WW without the racial backlash..that is odd..I would think a brotha who profess his love for BW would be more concern with keeping his own quality BW...
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What's so ridulous about the whole thing was, the black women were more mad with me because these white women were going after me than they were with the white women. It just wasn't like that years ago when I was first coming along. That's the ugly face of white supremecy rearing it's ugly face. And that beast has grown bigger without a lot of people even acknowledging it.
Well BW understand why WW/others will go after BM because BW worship (although it's dying fast) BM and can see why any and every other woman would too..the problem BW cannot understand for the life of most of us..is what's so great about a WW? Although many will claim nothing..the actions of men in general speaks differently..even knowingly..the WW to be least attractive of women of color..You guys..take issue with the white racial structure, but yet support it in means of submitting to desiring their definition of beauty...knowing fully that beauty and power go hand in hand...you will never be able to uplift yourself as a bM in the world while support the WM's beauty.. Men know beauty weakens other men..and men lusting after the WM's beauty has weaken you..made you do nothing for your own women, children, community..and do everything for his women and community..Do you think it's not strange that the WM's power is threaten by the AM at the same time WM lust heavily after the beauty of AW?
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#143 Jan 16, 2013
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I suggest you read my reply to that person who accussed me of that. It was a little hard on racist white women, but very real.
It's obivious you ignored the rest of that post, which was about supporting black businesses. But I'm starting feel that you don't really care about our real problems anyway.
Don't be like that..I'm sorry :)
I forgot what thread that was in....will read it..:)
hmmm

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Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>The thing is..you're not concern with "keeping" quality BW for BM..it's about being able to safely have quality WW without the racial backlash..that is odd..I would think a brotha who profess his love for BW would be more concern with keeping his own quality BW...
<quoted text>Well BW understand why WW/others will go after BM because BW worship (although it's dying fast) BM and can see why any and every other woman would too..the problem BW cannot understand for the life of most of us..is what's so great about a WW? Although many will claim nothing..the actions of men in general speaks differently..even knowingly..the WW to be least attractive of women of color..You guys..take issue with the white racial structure, but yet support it in means of submitting to desiring their definition of beauty...knowing fully that beauty and power go hand in hand...you will never be able to uplift yourself as a bM in the world while support the WM's beauty.. Men know beauty weakens other men..and men lusting after the WM's beauty has weaken you..made you do nothing for your own women, children, community..and do everything for his women and community..Do you think it's not strange that the WM's power is threaten by the AM at the same time WM lust heavily after the beauty of AW?
Aren't you african?

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#145 Jan 16, 2013
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<quoted text>Don't be like that..I'm sorry :)
I forgot what thread that was in....will read it..:)
Everything's cool. The name of that thread is, "What is your feeling on race relations today?" My reply was post#35. Well it's getting late and I better turn in. You have a goodnight.

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