Guys-Afraid of Rejection or tired of ...

Guys-Afraid of Rejection or tired of the Game?

Created by LA_Texas on Nov 12, 2008

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Afraid of Rejection

Tired of the Game

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I'm gay

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Player fo' life foo!

Video games are better!

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“If you dont like don't look!”

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Since: Sep 07

Canton, Texas

#1 Nov 12, 2008
Guys out there, why are you single? Is it because you are afraid of rejection? OR..is it because like me you are "Tired of the game" and have just decided to become busy with other things?
Tired of the game? What does that mean?

Well lets put it like this..remember back in middle school/high school (some earlier) when you first thought about dating and talking to women and how EXCITING, NEW AND FRESH that was? Remember when you went to your first House party and saw people making out and doing other crazy things at the house party?? Remember thinking "Wow this is what CLUBS MUST BE LIKE!" Remember your first college party?

Whats the connection???

All of this when you are young is NEW, FRESH, EXCITING...but..

Lets fast forward to now..how long of doing the same thing...readingh David DeAngelo books saying THE SAME THING..does it get old, stale?

How long before going to clubs gets boring and becomes the "same old same old?" How long before you lose your nervousness around women and it becomes Apathy???

Comments and thoughts?

You can't coach desire for anyone too..that's what I've learned..

“In the Space Love Demands”

Since: Oct 07

Black Love USA

#2 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
Guys out there, why are you single? Is it because you are afraid of rejection? OR..is it because like me you are "Tired of the game" and have just decided to become busy with other things?
Tired of the game? What does that mean?
Well lets put it like this..remember back in middle school/high school (some earlier) when you first thought about dating and talking to women and how EXCITING, NEW AND FRESH that was? Remember when you went to your first House party and saw people making out and doing other crazy things at the house party?? Remember thinking "Wow this is what CLUBS MUST BE LIKE!" Remember your first college party?
Whats the connection???
All of this when you are young is NEW, FRESH, EXCITING...but..
Lets fast forward to now..how long of doing the same thing...readingh David DeAngelo books saying THE SAME THING..does it get old, stale?
How long before going to clubs gets boring and becomes the "same old same old?" How long before you lose your nervousness around women and it becomes Apathy???
Comments and thoughts?
You can't coach desire for anyone too..that's what I've learned..
This is for guys...but thanks for reminding
hard-headed me that men don't always have
it easy being ON TOP.

I still feel that "the game" would be a
small price to pay for ruling the world,
but hey, that's just me.

Best of luck to you.

“My future husband!”

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#3 Nov 12, 2008
They're single cuz they're attention is on video games.

I hate that!!!!!!! I wanna break the controllers.

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Since: Sep 07

Canton, Texas

#4 Nov 12, 2008
soulflower wrote:
<quoted text>
This is for guys...but thanks for reminding
hard-headed me that men don't always have
it easy being ON TOP.
I still feel that "the game" would be a
small price to pay for ruling the world,
but hey, that's just me.
Best of luck to you.
Nope we don't have it easy being ontop..I know what its like to be ontop of other things as well..as suffice to say it's not all roses like people say it is...

The game is boring..a decade plus old...

“My future husband!”

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#5 Nov 12, 2008
they*****

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#6 Nov 12, 2008
BrownSuga wrote:
They're single cuz they're attention is on video games.
I hate that!!!!!!! I wanna break the controllers.
Well I can't change that...Video games raised me through rough times (Divorce of my mother and father)..not women... With the exception of my stepmom and mother..women have never been a major part of my life..Video games have though...

I tell women this much- "I can put up with you jabbering and rambling all day to me even at 4:00 AM in the morning when I'm TRYING TO SLEEP if you put up with the times I wanna play the PS3."

“MAKE UP YOUR OWN HEADLINE”

Since: Mar 08

Jacksonville, FL

#7 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
Guys out there, why are you single? Is it because you are afraid of rejection? OR..is it because like me you are "Tired of the game" and have just decided to become busy with other things?
Tired of the game? What does that mean?
Well lets put it like this..remember back in middle school/high school (some earlier) when you first thought about dating and talking to women and how EXCITING, NEW AND FRESH that was? Remember when you went to your first House party and saw people making out and doing other crazy things at the house party?? Remember thinking "Wow this is what CLUBS MUST BE LIKE!" Remember your first college party?
Whats the connection???
All of this when you are young is NEW, FRESH, EXCITING...but..
Lets fast forward to now..how long of doing the same thing...readingh David DeAngelo books saying THE SAME THING..does it get old, stale?
How long before going to clubs gets boring and becomes the "same old same old?" How long before you lose your nervousness around women and it becomes Apathy???
Comments and thoughts?
You can't coach desire for anyone too..that's what I've learned..
Neither, Before I met my fiance, It was just by choice for me. Alot of times, females were not worth wasting the time to even speak to.

Since: May 08

Stockholm

#8 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
Guys out there, why are you single? Is it because you are afraid of rejection? OR..is it because like me you are "Tired of the game" and have just decided to become busy with other things?
Tired of the game? What does that mean?
Same reason as you.

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Since: Sep 07

Canton, Texas

#9 Nov 12, 2008
GoodGrief78 wrote:
<quoted text>Neither, Before I met my fiance, It was just by choice for me. Alot of times, females were not worth wasting the time to even speak to.
Interesting...thanks for sharing.

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#10 Nov 12, 2008
Its sad that its a "game"now. I mean I can see with teenagers or ppl in their early 20s but for those over 25,it needs to be the real thing. Who has time to keep getting into deadend relationships. The men who keep getting rejected, how exactly is your approach. If you dont know how to approach a woman, it can be a dealbreaker

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Anger has no eyes!

#11 Nov 12, 2008
LOL! LOL! I wish they make that CONTROLLER programmed for men's mind. That will be the coolest TOY I'll wish for Christmas.
BrownSuga wrote:
They're single cuz they're attention is on video games.
I hate that!!!!!!! I wanna break the controllers.

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Since: Sep 07

Canton, Texas

#12 Nov 12, 2008
EriWK wrote:
<quoted text>
Same reason as you.
Good to know there are others out there besides me, MTG, and Robbie J that feel this way.

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Canton, Texas

#13 Nov 12, 2008
GirlPower wrote:
Its sad that its a "game"now. I mean I can see with teenagers or ppl in their early 20s but for those over 25,it needs to be the real thing. Who has time to keep getting into deadend relationships. The men who keep getting rejected, how exactly is your approach. If you dont know how to approach a woman, it can be a dealbreaker
I agree and disagree..

Its not totally about your approach with women..I am a good guy, and I dont approach a woman trying to spit game or anything like that..I approach her like she's my best friend...but I am confident when I approach her..when I get rejected its along the lines of "I'm with someone" or I get a wrong telephone number, or I get a wrong email or something like that...

I agree who now and days has time to pursue the game..though I will add this..I was once taught "If you want something bad enough you will make time for it" Maybe that also means those that are "getting tired of the game" don't want it bad enough..I can say the same for myself..

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Canton, Texas

#14 Nov 12, 2008
EkDesiLadki wrote:
LOL! LOL! I wish they make that CONTROLLER programmed for men's mind. That will be the coolest TOY I'll wish for Christmas.
<quoted text>
The irony is that there are videogames now being programmed to respond to the mind..lol.

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#15 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree and disagree..
Its not totally about your approach with women..I am a good guy, and I dont approach a woman trying to spit game or anything like that..I approach her like she's my best friend...but I am confident when I approach her..when I get rejected its along the lines of "I'm with someone" or I get a wrong telephone number, or I get a wrong email or something like that...
I agree who now and days has time to pursue the game..though I will add this..I was once taught "If you want something bad enough you will make time for it" Maybe that also means those that are "getting tired of the game" don't want it bad enough..I can say the same for myself..
I feel you on that. Im not the one for games. Id rather be alone than to play them

Since: May 08

Stockholm

#16 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
<quoted text>
Good to know there are others out there besides me, MTG, and Robbie J that feel this way.
Well it should be common practice to get your own shit (pardon my french) in order before pursuing someone.

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Canton, Texas

#17 Nov 12, 2008
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>I feel you on that. Im not the one for games. Id rather be alone than to play them
True, but it still doesn't stop rejection..rejection happens a lot..matter of fact I'd say for every one girl that actually gives me a real number, 15 give me a fake one...also for everyone five girls that give me a real number, 3 of them don't even make it to the first meeting.

“If you dont like don't look!”

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Since: Sep 07

Canton, Texas

#18 Nov 12, 2008
EriWK wrote:
<quoted text>
Well it should be common practice to get your own shit (pardon my french) in order before pursuing someone.
The truth.

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#19 Nov 12, 2008
LA_Texas wrote:
<quoted text> True, but it still doesn't stop rejection..rejection happens a lot..matter of fact I'd say for every one girl that actually gives me a real number, 15 give me a fake one...also for everyone five girls that give me a real number, 3 of them don't even make it to the first meeting.
Is this so for one particular type of woman or are they all different

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Canton, Texas

#20 Nov 12, 2008
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>Is this so for one particular type of woman or are they all different
Wherever I go..maybe I just have bad luck I dunno....Be it at the club. grocery store, university, gym, online dating services lol, in class, doesnt matter...same stuff..I've just come to expect it and thats for the best..I have no "expectations"..so rejection doesnt affect me..I EXPECT IT.

Like I say everyone, I get rejected more than you think..matter of fact I gotta think about the last time something actually WENT WELL..lol.

*SMH*

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