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What's the best way to get aggressive guys to leave you alone

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May 13, 2008
 
without a confrontation, bc these particular guys LOVE confrontation

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May 13, 2008
 
Sohair wrote:
without a confrontation, bc these particular guys LOVE confrontation
Act like a Nympho
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May 13, 2008
 
??

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May 16, 2008
 
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When you fake it, it's a turn-off.

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May 16, 2008
 
Just do something really disgusting, just downright nasty, that'll work.

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May 16, 2008
 
Why I gotta compromise mysef to put them off

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May 19, 2008
 
There you go, that'll work, Just be yourself and turn them off!!!!

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May 19, 2008
 
Unfortunately, that doesn't work.

Trust me, I wish they found me a turn off -- you aint hurlin an insult.

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May 19, 2008
 
Ok then act intelligent, that's always a turn off.
LOL, you know; the loud mouth I'm so smart type.

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May 19, 2008
 

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There you go, that'll work, Just be yourself and turn them off!!!!
HAHAHAHAH! So true! Aggressive men don't like a black woman when she isn't a hoochie or roller like they want them to be.

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May 19, 2008
 
Lie to them that you have a boyfriend already, if that helps.

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May 19, 2008
 
Mack the Great wrote:
Lie to them that you have a boyfriend already, if that helps.
That won't help either. Ignore them most of the time they are all talk. By no means get aggressive with them that just makes it worse. If all else fails call the police. Don't give mixed signals. If you don't want them don't talk to them or be around them. EVentually they will back off. I just got out of a relationship like that.

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May 19, 2008
 
I actually like Aggressive assertive guys (good personality trait)
but if you want to get rid of a guy just act like you don't speak english- that works 95% of the time

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May 19, 2008
 
Rekik wrote:
I actually like Aggressive assertive guys (good personality trait)
but if you want to get rid of a guy just act like you don't speak english- that works 95% of the time
lol
say min min

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May 19, 2008
 
So Serious wrote:
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That won't help either. Ignore them most of the time they are all talk. By no means get aggressive with them that just makes it worse. If all else fails call the police. Don't give mixed signals. If you don't want them don't talk to them or be around them. EVentually they will back off. I just got out of a relationship like that.
Really? I thought it would, but then again they are aggressive and persistant and feel convinced that they can still get you despite the fact you have a boyfriend using their charms, money, looks, and etc. What you're saying sounds like good and effective advice. How was your previous relationship like with an aggressive man? Just curious.
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May 19, 2008
 
Mack the Great wrote:
Lie to them that you have a boyfriend already, if that helps.
The "Boyfriend" excuse never works.

Find out what their ex's did that pissed them off and then do the same thing. That should get them running. lol

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May 19, 2008
 
Try farting in his presence.

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May 19, 2008
 
http://www.glock.com/english/glock30.htm

Works every time....

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May 19, 2008
 
OK, How about getting another man to confrot them for you by telling them to back off or else he'll beat him up? Is that effective enough?

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May 19, 2008
 
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The "Boyfriend" excuse never works.
Find out what their ex's did that pissed them off and then do the same thing. That should get them running. lol
Good luck with that.
HAHAHHAHA! That may just work! If it doesn't, you must be dealing with one smart tricky SOB that won t go down that easily!LOL!
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