Listing Unwanted Sexual Advances by BM

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“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#1 Dec 8, 2013
This is a place to list unwanted sexual advances by BM. It is not a place for discussing the participants. Please assume everyone is the race they say they are, and honor their right to be taken at face value. Please avoid victim-blaming. Please stay as objective and impersonal as possible.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#2 Dec 8, 2013
Many of these accounts involve persons with the asexual orientation. People without sexual attractions tend to do service for their community. Their desires are diffused toward many people in a nonsexual manner, not directed toward a few in a sexual manner. Emily Dickinson was like this. She was both deeply romantic and asexual. Her relationship was with life and the world. She was known as "Crazy Emmy" and she would throw quatrains (4-line poems) out the window each morning, and a gathering crows would wonder what "Crazy Emmy" wrote for them that morning.

1. An asexual White woman was a volunteer museum docent. She was on her bicycle heading to the museum. This red car driven by an African-American man passed her. He waved at her. She thought nothing of it and just waved back, and then put her mind immediately back to her own thoughts. He was just waving to be nice and for no other reason right? Just being a good person, right? Anyway, she pulled into the museum parking lot, and guess who turned around, came back, and pulled in too? She only waved as a mere equal, and just to be nice back. That is how it works in White society. A White man waves at a White woman. She waves back because she has to, that is what her culture and traditions dictate. It isn't about getting anything, and it doesn't even mean she likes the person. She only waved because someone did it first, and that is what every person is supposed to do when someone waves at them. It is just a friendly gesture. Both parties are supposed to wave and then immediately go on their own merry way. She went inside, and he finally got the clue that her wave didn't mean to follow her. She felt angry and violated, and wasn't up to completing the assignment, which she just found out was canceled anyway. It was just a selfish or perverted man intruding into her world, and it ruined much of her evening. She was clearly on her bike in her own world, and she was giving no indication that it was not for an important reason. Something about men think that women on bikes have more time then women in cars, whey they really only have 1/3 as much time. So why not harass women in cars at stoplights instead of bicycles?
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#3 Dec 8, 2013
A white police woman stalked me a week! Then walked in the gym where my workouts take place. She sead if i hit it correct or makeout with her or be her man she would giveme all the gold and cash she take from street thugs. I told her fuŠK no. Then she sead nobody has ever turned her down. I ignored her like as if she wasn't there,she left after gawking at me for about two minutes. Some people just don't have a clue about sexual harassment!! Unwanted long obsessively driven posts about blackmen,is sexual harassment. Because i trully dont think any blackmen would want you. Because. It's only obvious that your ugly and black as tar on the inside. Your a waste of anybody's time.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#4 Dec 8, 2013
2. An asexual White woman needed groceries and a hard drive for her computer. As with many WP, she decided most of what she was going to do in advance, and she was determined to make things happen precisely as she decided. She had things managed to the second, and she preplanned nearly every interaction, and had no reason to expect more interactions than planned, nor have anyone interfere with her plans. Anyway, she rode to Walmart and bought an internal SATA computer hard drive, which was most likely by Seagate. She also successfully bought her groceries. So she was ready to go get something to eat, alone, as was part of her initial plan which deliberately didn't involve anyone else.

Anyway, traffic was thick and she veered off into an empty lot to turn to where she'd be perpendicularly with the street. That would give her better visibility - perfectly logical for crossing. Anyway, a pickup truck seemingly parked in that empty lot for no reason, and a BM driver started to get out. Well, the White lady found her opening and crossed the street. Guess who got back in his truck and drove across the street? The BM who apparently was arrogant enough to think every WW lives for him and owes him sex like he's a deity or something. But she only lives for herself in her own world, and he was violating it. Well, she already had her phone out and 3 numbers in queue. As soon as he finished crossing, she hit send and told the cops, "A Black man is following me, and it seems he wants sex." Most White women want men who are much like them, and others like the cyclist don't want men at all. The weird part was that the man was nothing like her. He was black and obviously knew nothing about acting White, and he was perhaps 20 years older than her. She was clearly a nerdy, technological girl, and he was clearly too old to appreciate what turned her on most. And he was too ugly and aggressive. The fact he followed her at all shows he is too aggressive for her. She would have been more attracted had he not approached her at all, but of course, she would never become attracted enough, and she would not know who he was.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#5 Dec 8, 2013
It is not harassment when you post content in a thread you start. Not a single in this thread by the topic originator is harassing, since it is not directed to any specific person, and because online is not the real world.

Harassment usually happens in the real world and is directed towards just one person at a time. Just posting things online and not speaking to anyone in particular is not harassment.

But if you want to include online activities as harassment, then you can only harass if you invade a thread that is started by another, or you post to someone who previously told you never to post to them again.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#6 Dec 8, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
A white police woman stalked me a week! Then walked in the gym where my workouts take place. She sead if i hit it correct or makeout with her or be her man she would giveme all the gold and cash she take from street thugs. I told her fuŠK no. Then she sead nobody has ever turned her down. I ignored her like as if she wasn't there,she left after gawking at me for about two minutes. Some people just don't have a clue about sexual harassment!! Unwanted long obsessively driven posts about blackmen,is sexual harassment. Because i trully dont think any blackmen would want you. Because. It's only obvious that your ugly and black as tar on the inside. Your a waste of anybody's time.
That is off topic.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#7 Dec 8, 2013
3. A White asexual woman was walking down the street to a restaurant or store. She never walks or cycles for leisure, just strictly for business. She took a back street as part of her route because it would be quieter, and there would be less people to deal with. Then she could have the luxury and privilege and being ignored, just her against the world and the opportunity to commune directly with God and enjoy the air as she traveled to her errands. Anyway, here comes the grown son of a "white" race-traitor woman. The half-white arrogantly approached the fully White woman and guess what he asked? He quickly went to sex. In fact, it was the first thing out of his mouth.

Discussion: Had then been a fully White man, he would have seen her as a person and not just as a hole to stick a filthy dick in. He wold have likely struck up conversations and invited her to coffee or a movie or something. Then weeks would have elapsed, and then they might start dating (I said dating, not sex). Then they might get engaged. Then after maybe a year, then they might get married. If they marry, then they would have sex, starting their honeymoon, and would only have sex with each other, and maybe only 3-5 times a week. After all, that is Conservative White Christian traditions and culture.

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#10 Dec 8, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
This is a place to list unwanted sexual advances by BM. It is not a place for discussing the participants. Please assume everyone is the race they say they are, and honor their right to be taken at face value. Please avoid victim-blaming. Please stay as objective and impersonal as possible.
Back on topic. My experiences include and are not limited to:

1. Approaching with sexual comments and sexual stares.
2. Asking really personal questions to someone they do not know well.
3. Approaching a private conversation of others who is not known well and
4. Refusing to leave when asked politely.
5. Asking you out and when dismissed
6. Asking you out for a friend.
7. Taking the phone of someone you're in a conversation with only to ask you out.
8. Assuming all women should be treated as a sexual prop, despite accomplishments or carrying oneself in a way that exhibits respect or non sexual interaction.
9. Waiting until alone to say sexually crude remarks.
10. Pursuing a woman when it is known that one is in a committed relationship and/or married.
11. Telling the woman/target of your sexual desire to stay quiet while on the phone with girlfriend/fiancee/wife without thinking anything of it and
12. Only to continue with sexual remarks once off the phone again.
13. Screaming regularly at the target of sexual desire when she rejects the advances as if having morals is something to be condemned.
14. Grabbing an unfamiliar woman's chest while in passing at a small gathering and
15. Never apologizing yet telling others how angry she is.
16. Spitting after a woman you saw once ignores this remark of passing her again.
17. Screaming from a car, and getting out of aforementioned car to chase a woman to speak to her.
18. Screaming at a woman to come here until she is out of the vicinity.
19. Grabbing an unfamiliar woman's arm to show interest.
20. Staring at woman for prolonged time.
21. Making comments as a woman passes, such as "all right!" The last time being at a grocery store. Not every place is a man's own private cat walk/strip show.
22. Not feeling safe ever around many AAM, who seem to grow angry when I refuse to come out because of this fact. Ironically one saying
23. "I only see women as worth one thing," yet wonders why the recipient of that comment wouldn't go out, or date them or date their friend,(regardless of their obese size.)
24. Rendering unsolicited judgment of. "you're perfect except for your hair," as if she wants to know your thoughts when you, yourself are not that attractive, and she was not at a modeling or TV agency, finds herself perfect and so do many others.
I could go on.

Level 1

Since: Apr 09

Location hidden

#12 Dec 8, 2013
Unlike my redheaded friend above with all the spots (freckles), I am a sista. I was living in an apartment, and the next building was a halfway house for recovering alcoholics. I left because my disabled daughter and her daughter would be relocating and I would need a larger place.

I always kept the television by the window to block it, since the brothas in the halfway house are peeping toms. They'd keep hitting on me too, even when I told them I wanted to be just friends. I don't need anyone really. My mamma lives with me, and I am in regular contact with my childrens, grandchildrens, nieces, nephews, etc.

It gets annoying trying to catch a bus to work and all sorts of mens keeps hittin on me and stuff. Come on! Can't a sista work without being bothered? Most men can catch a bus or cab to work without men coming up to them and demanding sex. Most I say. There is this gay dude who be hittin on every guy he could find, and he's been banned a couple times from where I work. He's White, but he don't care.

Level 1

Since: Apr 09

Location hidden

#13 Dec 8, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>You have a good day too my sistah!!
She's not your sista. She is White, has red hair, and has lots of freckles, hence her screen name. She used to live above me. She don't mess with nobody, and she is smart as hell. I used to call her about my computer all the time. She used to make pretty stuff and bring to me too. She just wants the right to be left alone as she lives her life and goes about her business.

“"Class, the #1 Motivator"”

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Location hidden

#14 Dec 8, 2013
Notice hardly anyone but trolls in this forum. Don't think women do not make unwanted advances because they do. Whatever you think women are tolerating from men, attractive African American men experience the same thing...and that's a fact!
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#15 Dec 8, 2013
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
Notice hardly anyone but trolls in this forum. Don't think women do not make unwanted advances because they do. Whatever you think women are tolerating from men, attractive African American men experience the same thing...and that's a fact!
They know they do some ridiculous stalking themselves. They dont want to admit it cause theyre too busy blaming blackmen for every single thing thats wrong with their psychotic lifestyles.
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#16 Dec 8, 2013
Keisha72 wrote:
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She's not your sista. She is White, has red hair, and has lots of freckles, hence her screen name. She used to live above me. She don't mess with nobody, and she is smart as hell. I used to call her about my computer all the time. She used to make pretty stuff and bring to me too. She just wants the right to be left alone as she lives her life and goes about her business.
Do you actually think i will believe anything you post to me. Your just as messed up as she is. Dont ever post to me again. Your a phony she's a phony no matter what you creeps say i will never believed anything you say. It's one woman who i do believe, and its "TIMEFORHONESTY"
Drilling for the nerve

Rochester, NY

#17 Dec 8, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>They know they do some ridiculous stalking themselves.

If a married black man followed a much younger, attractive white girl around the forum, posting in every thread she posts in, would that be considered stalking?

Not making accusations against anyone in particular here, just wondering.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#18 Dec 8, 2013
Drilling for the nerve wrote:
<quoted text>
If a married black man followed a much younger, attractive white girl around the forum, posting in every thread she posts in, would that be considered stalking?
Not making accusations against anyone in particular here, just wondering.
Everything black men do is an affront to the trolls here. Hell we can't even fart standing up without some douchebag whining about how some black guy is foaming at the mouth over some unknown, unseen, anonymous white woman. It's ridiculous, but who cares?

White guys do the craziest shyt all the time, but we can't talk about that.
Drilling for the nerve

Rochester, NY

#19 Dec 8, 2013
Kip wrote:
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Everything black men do is an affront to the trolls here. Hell we can't even fart standing up without some douchebag whining about how some black guy is foaming at the mouth over some unknown, unseen, anonymous white woman. It's ridiculous, but who cares?
White guys do the craziest shyt all the time, but we can't talk about that.

Pretty weak, Kip, probably due to that English Lit Degree from Online U.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#20 Dec 8, 2013
Drilling for the nerve wrote:
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Pretty weak, Kip, probably due to that English Lit Degree from Online U.
Whatever helps ya sleep at night. However, I know what I said was true.
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#21 Dec 8, 2013
Drilling for the nerve wrote:
<quoted text>
If a married black man followed a much younger, attractive white girl around the forum, posting in every thread she posts in, would that be considered stalking?
Not making accusations against anyone in particular here, just wondering.
Why your so mean to me? I never did anything to you!

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#22 Dec 8, 2013
Drilling for the nerve wrote:
<quoted text>
If a married black man followed a much younger, attractive white girl around the forum, posting in every thread she posts in, would that be considered stalking?
Not making accusations against anyone in particular here, just wondering.
Merely posting a comment on an anonymous board is STALKING to you?! Is it only stalking now, because the guy is married and black and the girl is attractive and white? No, DON'T make any accusations, because you have nothing. It sounds like pure bullshyt to me. Are that eager to pin something so silly on somebody?

You better keep wondering.
Spanish77

Philadelphia, PA

#24 Dec 8, 2013
Spotted Girl is a 14yr old whitegirl. Read her diction. She's young, white, confused & mad @ BM. Which reads to me, her momma hooked up w/ one of us& she ain't gettin the attention she wants. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnhh hhhh!!!!
Quit whining!!
How you can tell her stories are lies is, she gives too much unneeded info. To try & give the story more credibility.

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