100% proof. AAM didn't desert AAW. AAW deserted AAM

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#2 Jun 12, 2013
Can we just cease with the gender wars completely? It's not getting us anywhere, and causing more issues. Divide and conquer was the white mans game, look at the African American community.....silly....

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#6 Jun 12, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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Tell that to 70% of AA children that want to know where's their daddy? Mama is not saying "I am an independent woman and don't need a man". Mama is not saying, "I ran him out of the house because, I want my way"!
Naw, 70% of AA children hear they are bastards because, ya daddy ia no good and he deserted his responsibility to be my slave, my whipping post, my door mat and my emasculated fool"!
Tell that to the every thread on this forum that always wind up demonizing AAM.
Visit Facebook, Twitter or any web site where AA visit.
WHEN THE FACTS ARE BROUGHT TO THE SURFACE, AAW DON'T WANT TO ADDRESS IT AND TURN AROUND LIKE THE NARCISSISTIC HYPOCRITE THAT SHE IS, START YAPPING ABOUT AAM.
I understand.

Have you been hurt by a black woman, sir?

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#11 Jun 13, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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There's more going here than a simple "gender war"!
1. AA future
2. AA present
3. AA community
4. AA children
5. AA families
6. AA genocide
AA's can never grow up and deal with our condition because, we want answers without questions, we want solutions without problems, we want a cake without breaking any eggs.
Ducking the problem because, AAW are the problem and she want to back up to the table of resolution instead of walking up to the table and setting the facts down like a woman.
IF CINDERELLA DO NOT WAKE UP TO REALITY, WE'RE DOOMED.
I understand what you are saying. There are numerous problems in the African American community than just a simple males vs. females. Most simply just don't want to fix the problem, they want the problem fixed for them without any ounce of effort given. I see that BW women are the problems in the AA community, and I agree, but so are AAM. We BOTH need to share the blame for such destruction. That's what the African Americans fail to understand.

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#12 Jun 13, 2013
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Are you illiterate?
The entire AA community is being hurt by black women.
She's independent. She does not see herself as a member of a community.
70% of her children are bastards because, she is independent and don't need a man.
She's raising the next generation of felons because, most prisoners come from single parent homes and she's independent.
She's raising the next generation of unwanted pregnancies and she's independent.
She's the hand that rocks the cradle and the hand that shapes the community that she is INDEPENDENT of
NOW, YOU WANT TO TRY ANOTHER AD HOMINIEM?
GTFOH BEFORE YA LEARN SOMETHING
What's with the name calling? We are simply talking.

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#14 Jun 13, 2013
This is what's wrong with the African American community, and this is a perfect example "The entire AA community is being hurt by black women" you are blaming a whole entire race and gender for the problems AAM and AAW both contributed to. 

The  AAM leaves his children for the AAW to take care of seeing as how he just wanted the AAW to fulfill his sexual purposes; idiots having sexual relations with out contraception. The AAM ends up in jail for murder or the like. Additionally, he has sexual relations/rape other men and passes on the diseases to the women he has sexual relations with.

The AAW is mean, obnoxious, obese, and a gold-digger who continuously takes money from the AAM. When having sexual relations-like I said before-no contraceptives are used, as a result, unwanted pregnancy. The AAM is no where to be found and the AAW has to take care of it and doesn't raise it the way she should; in future terms becoming a gang banger or the like. She claims she doesn't need a man and titles herself as INDEPENDENT, because she taking care of a child/children she didn't want (so silly) your not independent, your stupid. 

Now, I'm not stating that this Is how all African Americans act, but theses are the grey areas in our race that some still blantantly act upon, and causing the separation between AAM and AAW. 

It looks to me like both the African American man and woman are BOTH guilty of causing contraversy in the community. Your aiming and dumping all problems on one group when the other had something to do with this problem emerging as well. Your thread isn't helping stating that BW cause all the problems. I will admit that AAW cause a lot of problems in regards to the community, but AAM are to blame as well.

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#15 Jun 13, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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idiot, WTF are you stupid or what? You must be illiterate because, this ain't an oral conversation and we ain't having a dialogue ya dumb azz.
I don't hear you talking jack azz.
Now fk off with your transactional analysis ya rookie MOFO.
Watch the profanity. No need for that.

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#16 Jun 13, 2013
Everyone played their part.
Kramer Hates Nixxers

San Antonio, TX

#17 Jun 13, 2013
You gorillas both STFU, the black race will soon cease to exist. Just shut your big monkey mouths and admit defeat IDIOTS!!! LMWAO!!!!

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#18 Jun 13, 2013
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Everyone played their part.
Yes, yes, and yes!!!!!
Arrogant

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#21 Jun 13, 2013
Where do good black women hang out at? Is it some kind of secret location that u gotta have a secret hand shake. Where do yah hang at, because it aint the club.

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#22 Jun 13, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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Naw, you don't understand schitt and the AAM ain't the problem, he is not the one that ran off with the ww's liberation movement.
He's not the one hooting and hollering about, I don't need a woman, women are not worthy, women are not qualified.
He's not the one that surrendered AA's authority back to the wm.
He's not the one that voted for the ERA.
Trying to resolve the AA problem by sharing the blame ain't gonna work. The AAW got us in this mess, let her come to the table correctly and ask to be forgiven. Naw, she can't do that because, she's full of egotistical pride.
One is never forgiven unless one specically ask for forgiveness.
No, it's you who doesn't understand. But by all means continue to put all the blame on BW, do what you want. Your no different from most posters on topix. Bye.

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#23 Jun 13, 2013
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Where do good black women hang out at? Is it some kind of secret location that u gotta have a secret hand shake. Where do yah hang at, because it aint the club.
College, schools, restaurants etc. No secret place.

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#26 Jun 13, 2013
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You can not cite one event to objectively prove AAM was the cause or part of the cause. All you have is subjective opinions.
I gave concrete and objective evidence from the suffrage movement, to Rockerfeller to feminism.
There is not one shred of objective data to prove bm collectively had a movement to destroy AA.
Yeah. They didn't necessarily have to give into the program.

I know the 60s - 70s. There weren't jobs for Black men and welfare came along. Which basically said they would only support broken families. But instead of taking the gov't handout. Some could have said no and found another way to make it.

What that did was make a ever repeating cycle of kids raised in broken homes. Who eventually had kids of their own. That repeated the same cycle. Collectively, Black men should have been more vocal about not having their families accept welfare.

Basically Adam ate the apple again. Eve this time was the US Gov't.

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#30 Jun 13, 2013
MOSES-11 wrote:
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You have not provided one bit of concrete evidence other than subjective opinion, rumors and hearsay.
The same old song and dance.
Nothing? That's why you have to run.
No, I just know there's no convincing someone who won't admit that we all play a part. You don't need evidence, it's quite simple to understand that AFRICAN AMERICANS AS A WHOLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THEY ARE BOTH TO BLAME.
KingsloveQueens

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#36 Jun 13, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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I understand what you are saying. There are numerous problems in the African American community than just a simple males vs. females. Most simply just don't want to fix the problem, they want the problem fixed for them without any ounce of effort given. I see that BW women are the problems in the AA community, and I agree, but so are AAM. We BOTH need to share the blame for such destruction. That's what the African Americans fail to understand.
I do see some bm working against other bm ..thug og's and kiss a#$ blks act as if foul mouth racist beyotches can do no wrong and will back they're triffling a#$ no matter how foul and wrong the evil sisters are...

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#37 Jun 13, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>I do see some bm working against other bm ..thug og's and kiss a#$ blks act as if foul mouth racist beyotches can do no wrong and will back they're triffling a#$ no matter how foul and wrong the evil sisters are...
Exactly! Now there are some black men that have their heads on right. Not the self hate, uncouth, downgrading ones. Your a perfect example. You seem pretty cordial and don't downgrade your race; my boyfriend is another example that fits the good black men mentality. But seriously, Moses is a perfect example of African Americans who turn in their own and blame an entire group for the races pitfalls. Why is it so hard for African Americans to change and stop complaining like whiny babies. I've been hurt by black men before, but I don't mistreat nor discriminate against them in the dating seen, my boyfriend is African American.. I learned that every individual is differentiated. You do have to play Russian roulette if you want seek someone who is perfect for you no matter what race or gender. African Americans need to realize that going to other races isn't the answer, neither is complaining 24/7.
KingsloveQueens

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#38 Jun 13, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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Exactly! Now there are some black men that have their heads on right. Not the self hate, uncouth, downgrading ones. Your a perfect example. You seem pretty cordial and don't downgrade your race; my boyfriend is another example that fits the good black men mentality. But seriously, Moses is a perfect example of African Americans who turn in their own and blame an entire group for the races pitfalls. Why is it so hard for African Americans to change and stop complaining like whiny babies. I've been hurt by black men before, but I don't mistreat nor discriminate against them in the dating seen, my boyfriend is African American.. I learned that every individual is differentiated. You do have to play Russian roulette if you want seek someone who is perfect for you no matter what race or gender. African Americans need to realize that going to other races isn't the answer, neither is complaining 24/7.
C/S I'm married to a Fillipina women but still love bw ..and will fight and argue for the continue growth and strength of black relationships and love (; what you said was beautiful ..

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#39 Jun 13, 2013
I remember reading how white feminists rejected in helping organize protests for angela davis. they pretty much alienated bw unless they needed to use them for their own agenda.

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#40 Jun 13, 2013
MumRa wrote:
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Yeah. They didn't necessarily have to give into the program.
I know the 60s - 70s. There weren't jobs for Black men and welfare came along. Which basically said they would only support broken families. But instead of taking the gov't handout. Some could have said no and found another way to make it.
What that did was make a ever repeating cycle of kids raised in broken homes. Who eventually had kids of their own. That repeated the same cycle. Collectively, Black men should have been more vocal about not having their families accept welfare.
Basically Adam ate the apple again. Eve this time was the US Gov't.
More like Eve bit the apple again, and this time Satan was the US Gov't.

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#41 Jun 13, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>C/S I'm married to a Fillipina women but still love bw ..and will fight and argue for the continue growth and strength of black relationships and love (; what you said was beautiful ..
Ha, thank you. And at least you don't bash black women. Not all of us are screwed up.=)

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