Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#661 Apr 24, 2013
I'm going on a mini vacation at a luxurious hotel this Friday and Saturday. I'll be sure to take pictures to post when I get back. To remind you ladies what it means to by with a man with means. Oh yeah, I forgot, you prefer going to the movies every Friday night on a $20 budget.

Have fun at the dollar theatres. Remember to sneak in some candy.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#662 Apr 24, 2013
*be
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#663 Apr 24, 2013
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>Not every black men is in the position to lead. But a man of means is in a position to lead, because the peace of mind that comes along with dating/marrying a man like that.
I just left Arizona back in March and I met up with one of my "lady friends". I paid for the resort, I paid for the dining, I paid for the activities, I paid for the rent a car, and I paid for the gifts. End up spending over 2k for a week of vacationing. She was submissive, she feel in line, and she played her card. I wasn't rubbing it in her face that I was paying for everything. As a man, I can afford it and I felt like she was worth it. Right before I left to come back to DC, she said to me...
"I love how you handle your business. I don't have to worry about anything, you don't need my help with anything, you just have it under control".
It's one thing to be a chauvinist which is far from me despite how it's perceived. But think about it, a man who handles everything and relieves all of those day to day responsibilities off your shoulder would make your life easier, wouldn't it?
You're right,it aint trickin' if you got it.And that same women would give me the ass for free.There's more than one way to skin a cat.



"you cant control her body if you cant control her mind"--Pimp C(R.I.P)
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#664 Apr 24, 2013
"all you gotta do is everything i say
ill be ya daddy and ya man
ill never let you get away"--Too short(steal your mind)

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#665 Apr 24, 2013
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>Under what terms do black men need to grow up? Under black women's terms that dictates what he needs and doesn't need to do? Under black women's terms that tell him what makes a real man and what a real man should do. Under black women's terms that says, once you get yourself together, don't think you're going to lead but you will co lead. Under black women's terms that dictates what a man should and shouldn't find attractive. Under black women's terms who want a man to be old fashion when it comes to being chivalrous but not old fashion when it comes to a man being the head. Under black women's terms who say that black men need to get themselves together but in the same sentence say, "we'll, it's not all about the money. Money doesn't make a man". When it comes time to propose and his $13 an hour job only allowed him to afford a $500 ring.
Under what terms do black men need to grow up and more importantly, will black men holistically agree to those terms?
First of all, I am not talking about all black men just the many baby-boys of today who were raised, pampered, protected and never had any real man training. This results in selfish, entitled, lazy, irresponsible, spoiled black men looking for other women to take up where their mommies left off. Real men don't need women telling them how to be men because being women we are not qualified to do.
dats rite

Norwalk, CT

#666 Apr 24, 2013
boomquisha wrote:
How do you get rid of the funky smell between your legs?
its a sheboon skankfuckhole that stank is there for ever dats rite

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#667 Apr 24, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>cosign..
I don't understand what the problem is really..I think we all agree the Black community is backwards..yet the method to turn this thing around is still asking BW to do it and be responsible...that would make us the leaders <smh>
It seems like the only way out of this never ending cycle..is to let BM figure out solutions for themselves..
It's pretty boring to even listen to many of them nowadays..
Exactly!

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#668 Apr 24, 2013
Cap Black wrote:
<quoted text>You're right,it aint trickin' if you got it.And that same women would give me the ass for free.There's more than one way to skin a cat.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =riccq9VvKUIXX
"you cant control her body if you cant control her mind"--Pimp C(R.I.P)
Don't assume that I'm took her on a 2k vacation just to get those drawls. Come on dude, trust, I know all about getting it done on nickles. Taking a woman to the park to feed ducks while talking about existence $5. Bringing a woman over your home and telling her you'll cook for her and we'll mellow out to Netflix,$5. Trust me, I've been doing this since I was broke so I know all the stops. Take a woman to the park to feed ducks and talk about existence or dreams will go farther than taking a woman to an expensive restaurant to talk about dumb shit.

But like I said, I wanted to go on vacation so I asked her if she wanted to come. Not every woman that I fuhk I take on lavish vacations, only special ones. Certain women, you spend no money on and certain women, you have to roll out the red carpet a bit.
Friendly fire

Bristol, UK

#669 Apr 24, 2013
Swade wrote:
lol, all this hate I'm receiving is priceless.
Because your axx stays on this thread like you menstruate each month lol.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#670 Apr 24, 2013
Cap Black wrote:
"all you gotta do is everything i say
ill be ya daddy and ya man
ill never let you get away"--Too short(steal your mind)
You can only control a certain type of woman with your mind. Too many black men think his mouthpiece is more important than his wallet. WIth a thorough woman, you can only pull on her emotion strings only so long.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#671 Apr 24, 2013
Friendly fire wrote:
<quoted text> Because your axx stays on this thread like you menstruate each month lol.
Corny. Try again.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#672 Apr 24, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
First of all, I am not talking about all black men just the many baby-boys of today who were raised, pampered, protected and never had any real man training. This results in selfish, entitled, lazy, irresponsible, spoiled black men looking for other women to take up where their mommies left off. Real men don't need women telling them how to be men because being women we are not qualified to do.
Maybe I'm using too much common sense but WHY EVEN FOCUS ON THOSE TYPES OF BLACK MEN. There are going to be those type's of men and most races. That's the problem with the black community, we are so focused on the men who aren't doing right that the men who are, they go unnoticed.

If you don't want to stroke a man's ego, then fine, don't. But don't think a man of means is going to come home to a woman like yourself. Women like to feel loved. Men like to feel like they're Superman. If we don't cater to what each other desires, then you won't have much luck.
SamBee

Winter Garden, FL

#673 Apr 24, 2013
Swade wrote:
I'm going on a mini vacation at a luxurious hotel this Friday and Saturday. I'll be sure to take pictures to post when I get back. To remind you ladies what it means to by with a man with means. Oh yeah, I forgot, you prefer going to the movies every Friday night on a $20 budget.
Have fun at the dollar theatres. Remember to sneak in some candy.
Breaking the Sabbath to do your own pleasures,is not something a man of Yahuah practices.
London

Memphis, TN

#674 Apr 24, 2013
Finally, the OMEGA male..Ladies, if you are interested in this male, there aren't as many books on this one because he's flat out not complicated. He is just what the name says (the end- lol).

However, the below links are interesting from blogs explaining this type of man.

He is the only type of man who enjoys submission and thinks other men are stupid for not submitting.

http://nancyfriedman.typepad.com
/away_with_words/2010/07/word- of-the-week-omega-male.html

http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_300
/384_5-signs-you-are-an-omega- male.html
SamBee

Winter Garden, FL

#675 Apr 24, 2013
Swade wrote:
<quoted text>Don't assume that I'm took her on a 2k vacation just to get those drawls. Come on dude, trust, I know all about getting it done on nickles. Taking a woman to the park to feed ducks while talking about existence $5. Bringing a woman over your home and telling her you'll cook for her and we'll mellow out to Netflix,$5. Trust me, I've been doing this since I was broke so I know all the stops. Take a woman to the park to feed ducks and talk about existence or dreams will go farther than taking a woman to an expensive restaurant to talk about dumb shit.
But like I said, I wanted to go on vacation so I asked her if she wanted to come. Not every woman that I fuhk I take on lavish vacations, only special ones. Certain women, you spend no money on and certain women, you have to roll out the red carpet a bit.
You do know that all those women you have went into are your wives and that your to take care of them until death.If your not doing that your worst than an infidel.Men like you is what makes it hard for the real brothers trying to find a Set-Apart women you demons trick them into giving it up and you demons know you had no intentions of taking care of that women.
SamBee

Winter Garden, FL

#676 Apr 24, 2013
London wrote:
Finally, the OMEGA male..Ladies, if you are interested in this male, there aren't as many books on this one because he's flat out not complicated. He is just what the name says (the end- lol).
However, the below links are interesting from blogs explaining this type of man.
He is the only type of man who enjoys submission and thinks other men are stupid for not submitting.
http://nancyfriedman.typepad.com
/away_with_words/2010/07/word- of-the-week-omega-male.html
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_300
/384_5-signs-you-are-an-omega- male.html
Ephesians 5

21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of Yahuah.

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Master(Yahusha).

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Messiah is the head of the assembly: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the assembly is subject unto Messiah, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Messiah also loved the assembly, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a splendid assembly, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be set-apart and blameless.

28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife loves himself.

29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but feeds and cherishes it, even as the Master does the assembly:

30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Messiah and the assembly.

33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
London

Memphis, TN

#677 Apr 24, 2013
Examples of omega, beta (strong and weak), alpha male logic:

Omega: "Hey man, I get all the pucci."

Beta: "Oh yeah, what do you do."

Omega: "I'm a porn star man."

Alpha:**Walks past both males as if they are invinsible**..

......
Omega: "Hey man, why get married just to get some pucci."

Beta (weak): "Because that's the only way to ensure I get pucci."

Beta (strong, emulates alpha traits): "You guys are ridiculous. I got married because at some point we all need to grow up." I love women too much..plus I can get pucci anywhere."

Alpha:**Says hello and shakes hands with the strong beta and leaves room**

“Busting trolls is my hobby.”

Level 1

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#680 Apr 24, 2013
dats rite wrote:
<quoted text> its a sheboon skankfuckhole that stank is there for ever dats rite
Your grammar is horrible. I suppose it must be difficult to learn in a trailer park when your born to a mother whose addicted to meth and an alcoholic , wife beating father. Its not your fault , its the s*itty hand you were dealt.

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#681 Apr 24, 2013
TBMR wrote:
This thread has been completely ruined because you ladies for whatever reason refuse to quit engaging the haters smdh
You have noone to blame but yourselves
*cancels tracker*
I'ma make a new thread for the sistas that want to engage in real dialogue and not entertain a bunch of hateful losers
There is no such thing as a six figures loser. Try again.

Speaking of losers, what do you do for a living again?

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#682 Apr 24, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Is this a f*cking joke??
You RUINED this entire thread with your hate cuz you chose to focus on the bad examples of bw
take your own advice, idiot
cuz? You mean BECAUSE. Exercise the use of better grammar. You're only telling on yourself how much you lack diction and intelligence.

To answer your point, the reason why black women needed to be spotlighted is because there are more women choosing bad partners than there are men choosing bad partners. Women have more responsibility to choose a quality man, because otherwise, it affects the whole community. In order for the black community to change, women have to start procreating with black men of means and character. A select group of quality brotha's mean nothing if the majority of black women aren't choosing them.

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