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Indian Men & Black Women dating and marrying

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John

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#2 Jul 5, 2007
Indian men usually have arranged marriages. Don't bother.

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Shani

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#3 Jul 5, 2007
In college I had an indian roommate. Yes, there marriages are arranged, and they pretty much are not allowed to date outside of their race. My roommate had a boyfriend secretly because her parents wouldn't allow her to date and she was 18! But there were a few on campus who did date interracially. Anyway, it could be that he finds you attractive; not all men are afraid to approach black women. Don't take it seriously until you know for sure; and only you will be able to tell if he only wants some "brown sugar".

Since: Jul 07

Mineola, NY

#4 Jul 5, 2007
Kendra wrote:
I live in New York and I have been approached by a few South Asian men. Do they date AA women seriously and marry, or are they looking for "brown sugar"?
I wonder if an Indian woman ask the same question you do? Do you really think Indian man will leave they tradition and heritage, they strong family bonds and tribal lines to marry a Black american woman. Sisters focus more on love and improving love among your brothers and yourself stop fishing for men who dont want you....every other man in the world want some brown sugar at least once in they life and they feel you sisters are easy to satisfy their urge. But after that, i dont think indian man, or chineese man or arab men have marriage in their minds....they culture is not like black culture where blacks will pretty much accept any other group. There are issue behind this but thats for another post. Here is another question for you, you think the arab daughters or indian daughters are asking themselves the queston, "i wonder if black men want to marry a arab or india girl"....its so sad how some of we blacks want to be love by others so badly, its to the point of almost groveling, pitifull.

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Mack the Great

Since: May 07

United States

#5 Jul 5, 2007
Are you guys talking about the Dravidian Indians, the black ones with the strait hair or the Hindu Indians, the light ones because the Hindus hate black people and want their sons and daughters to marry their own people. They have that racist caste system which cause them and Pakistanis to avoid all black people and treat them like shit. I doubt that the Hindu men would date a black women, whereas the Dravidians are more likely to marry a black person than a Hindu since we have the same skin color.

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Since: Jun 07

Toronto

#6 Jul 5, 2007
mr_concern wrote:
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I wonder if an Indian woman ask the same question you do? Do you really think Indian man will leave they tradition and heritage, they strong family bonds and tribal lines to marry a Black american woman. Sisters focus more on love and improving love among your brothers and yourself stop fishing for men who dont want you....every other man in the world want some brown sugar at least once in they life and they feel you sisters are easy to satisfy their urge. But after that, i dont think indian man, or chineese man or arab men have marriage in their minds....they culture is not like black culture where blacks will pretty much accept any other group. There are issue behind this but thats for another post. Here is another question for you, you think the arab daughters or indian daughters are asking themselves the queston, "i wonder if black men want to marry a arab or india girl"....its so sad how some of we blacks want to be love by others so badly, its to the point of almost groveling, pitifull.
http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T9I2450EU...

Yes they are asking the same question.

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Since: Jun 07

Toronto

#7 Jul 5, 2007
Mack the Great wrote:
Are you guys talking about the Dravidian Indians, the black ones with the strait hair or the Hindu Indians, the light ones because the Hindus hate black people and want their sons and daughters to marry their own people. They have that racist caste system which cause them and Pakistanis to avoid all black people and treat them like shit. I doubt that the Hindu men would date a black women, whereas the Dravidians are more likely to marry a black person than a Hindu since we have the same skin color.
The issue's is with both Indians, light or dark. Plus the darker ones are Hindu's also.
Shani

AOL

#8 Jul 5, 2007
Mack the Great wrote:
Are you guys talking about the Dravidian Indians, the black ones with the strait hair or the Hindu Indians, the light ones because the Hindus hate black people and want their sons and daughters to marry their own people. They have that racist caste system which cause them and Pakistanis to avoid all black people and treat them like shit. I doubt that the Hindu men would date a black women, whereas the Dravidians are more likely to marry a black person than a Hindu since we have the same skin color.
I believe its the Hindus. Now that you brought it up, my indian roommate would also tell me how the lighter indians would pick at the darker indians. Yeah they do hate black people. They used to walk around campus with this air of superiority. I noticed that behavior mostly from the men, not women. I guess because I am a woman. Maybe the women had that same attitude towards the men. I don't know. My friend who was a biology major had many classes with them, and she complained to me about their behavior towards her; she is black. For some strange reason, they can be dark as night, and they would swear up and down that they are white because they have straight hair. My ex used to play cricket against them; and he has had many confrontations with them. From what he told me they hide behind one another and don't stand up alone.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

United States

#9 Jul 5, 2007
Francis Emmerich wrote:
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The issue's is with both Indians, light or dark. Plus the darker ones are Hindu's also.
By religion yes, but a vast majority of the dark ones in India are either mostly Bhuddists, muslims, or christians.

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Since: Jun 07

Toronto

#10 Jul 5, 2007
Mack the Great wrote:
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By religion yes, but a vast majority of the dark ones in India are either mostly Bhuddists, muslims, or christians.
True, but even among them, many if not most are like that towards anyone out of their ethnic group. The Christian ones on the other hand tend to be like that, based on my experience.

Level 1

Since: May 07

Arkansas City, KS

#11 Jul 5, 2007
There was this really handsome indian...I don't know what kind of indian but he didnt believe in proper hygiene such as soap and water...so indians usually turn me off...well the ones that have that kind of tradition of not using deordant....nothing worst than a stinky man.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

United States

#12 Jul 5, 2007
Shani wrote:
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I believe its the Hindus. Now that you brought it up, my indian roommate would also tell me how the lighter indians would pick at the darker indians. Yeah they do hate black people. They used to walk around campus with this air of superiority. I noticed that behavior mostly from the men, not women. I guess because I am a woman. Maybe the women had that same attitude towards the men. I don't know. My friend who was a biology major had many classes with them, and she complained to me about their behavior towards her; she is black. For some strange reason, they can be dark as night, and they would swear up and down that they are white because they have straight hair. My ex used to play cricket against them; and he has had many confrontations with them. From what he told me they hide behind one another and don't stand up alone.
Please whatever. Those light Indians actaully have a huge inferiority complex and desperately aspire to be like Europeans. They even hate their own culture and language sanskrit which is rip-off of the Tamil language and culture as well that the Dravidian Tamils taught them when they civilized the Hindu indians. That explains why they show their Bollywood movies in French and English and never in their Sanskrit language. The problem with Dravidians is that they've been brainwashed into believing that they are Caucasians because of their features when this invention of the concept of race by whites was designed soley to keep us blacks divided and fighting amongst each other and take credit for their civilization by attributing their work as being done by "Caucasians". That's why I would like to tell these Dravidians that they are negroes like us and not caucasians or australoid, veddoids, and suddroids like whites have conditioned us to believe in. It's pretty sad that they think this way of us blacks and they don't even know that we are there brothers and sisters.

http://www.cwo.com/~lucumi/india4.html

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Since: May 07

Arkansas City, KS

#13 Jul 5, 2007
same with some africans....ewwww use some soap...please...especially if your going to be in america.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

United States

#15 Jul 5, 2007
Francis Emmerich wrote:
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True, but even among them, many if not most are like that towards anyone out of their ethnic group. The Christian ones on the other hand tend to be like that, based on my experience.
Oh I see. I never encountered many Dravidians before in my life so I don't know what it's like to be around them.
Kendra

United States

#16 Jul 5, 2007
Living in New York, I get approached by a variety of men. Unfortunately, I haven't had a good long-term relationship with a African American man. So I've gone on a few dates with a few Indian men, and so far they seem OK. But I don't know much about their culture in regards to marriage and dating. My sister has a black co-worker who married a Trinidadian Indian and they seem pretty happy.
I'm not surprised to hear that some Indians hate black people; it seems as if the more assimilated someone is, the more likely they are to date/marry outside of their race/ethnicity.

“Searching for answers”

Since: Jun 07

Toronto

#17 Jul 5, 2007
I dont want to slag Indian people, but there are some really repugnant things going on in the community. I used to work with a very Liberal man from India and we always talked on the subway comming from work. He told me that the racism here is nothing compared to what goes on in India. I've noticed its not even skin color it even goes to regional hate. I mentioned this in the sex board, I got involved with an Indian girl but her parents were arranging the marraige for her and they had to find somoene with the same last name as the family. It was just bizarre to me.

I actually meant above that even the darker indians are like that too, the only ones that I have met that haven't been hardcore are the Christian ones, dark and light.
Kendra

United States

#18 Jul 5, 2007
Francis Emmerich wrote:
I dont want to slag Indian people, but there are some really repugnant things going on in the community. I used to work with a very Liberal man from India and we always talked on the subway comming from work. He told me that the racism here is nothing compared to what goes on in India. I've noticed its not even skin color it even goes to regional hate. I mentioned this in the sex board, I got involved with an Indian girl but her parents were arranging the marraige for her and they had to find somoene with the same last name as the family. It was just bizarre to me.
I actually meant above that even the darker indians are like that too, the only ones that I have met that haven't been hardcore are the Christian ones, dark and light.
Yeah, my sister's co-worker Husband is a Christian. But since he is from the Caribbean, I would guess that he is used to Black people.
Shani

AOL

#19 Jul 5, 2007
Mack the Great wrote:
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Please whatever. Those light Indians actaully have a huge inferiority complex and desperately aspire to be like Europeans. They even hate their own culture and language sanskrit which is rip-off of the Tamil language and culture as well that the Dravidian Tamils taught them when they civilized the Hindu indians. That explains why they show their Bollywood movies in French and English and never in their Sanskrit language. The problem with Dravidians is that they've been brainwashed into believing that they are Caucasians because of their features when this invention of the concept of race by whites was designed soley to keep us blacks divided and fighting amongst each other and take credit for their civilization by attributing their work as being done by "Caucasians". That's why I would like to tell these Dravidians that they are negroes like us and not caucasians or australoid, veddoids, and suddroids like whites have conditioned us to believe in. It's pretty sad that they think this way of us blacks and they don't even know that we are there brothers and sisters.
http://www.cwo.com/~lucumi/india4.html
What do you mean please whatever? I wrote what I witnessed in college. When I said the indians walk around with an air of superiority, I meant when they are around whites; because they never hung around blacks. I guess I should have made that clear. Being friends with the white students made them feel a false sense of superiority.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

United States

#20 Jul 5, 2007
Shani wrote:
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What do you mean please whatever? I wrote what I witnessed in college. When I said the indians walk around with an air of superiority, I meant when they are around whites; because they never hung around blacks. I guess I should have made that clear. Being friends with the white students made them feel a false sense of superiority.
I was talking about the Hindu Indians thinking that they were superior that's all. I wasnt denying your experience, so sorry if my post came off like that. Yeah those Hindu Indians really do aspire to be whites and be socially accepted by them hence them behaving all snobby and self centered just because they have white friends. I'm sure you've seen some Asians that behave that way too.
Kendra

United States

#21 Jul 8, 2007
I'm asking everyone if they have black female friends, family, etc. who have been involved with an Indian man, whether from Asia or Europe or the Caribbean...I'd like to know their experiences, good and bad

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#22 Jul 9, 2007
Why ya'll hate on black men! Whoever made this thread hates themselves! Why would you hate the very nutsack that carried you and didn't shoot you into a napkin, but instead planted you in your mother's womb! Shame on the creator of this thread, you reap what you sow! Yadda Yadda Yadda!:)

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